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By *rindAndSlam OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bury

I've visited about a half dozen clubs so far and have discovered that I have a strong preference for clubs that mandate dressing down in at least the play areas. The clubs I've been to that allow people to remain fully dressed ( CJ's, Atlantis and the Attic) have felt stilted and awkward. There's something very off-putting about trying to fuck whilst being watched by fully-clothed men.

I also think it's a bit awkward to go into a room and do the one-legged hop removing shoes and belt. Clothes seem to be a physical barrier. The class indicators of clothes are another barrier to the fun. I don't want to know your sartorial tastes - I just want to see a sexy torso and a friendly face.

It seems as if dressing down is common for clubs in the North, and less so further South.

I'd be grateful for any information you can give me to help compile a list of all the clubs that suit my preference!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Cupid's in Manchester (well, Swinton) and No3 in Chorley are dress down clubs.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I would definitely recommend Cupids. Great club and friendly atmosphere.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Cupids definitely.

The only not entirely dress down clubs I've been to more than once, Partners and Club SX, the play areas are absolutely must be dressed down. Sort of a middle ground? I sort of feel like, if I play in the bar area at SX, I sign up to being watched by people who are dressed. If I do in the play areas, someone's getting management to get them back downstairs.

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By *rindAndSlam OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bury

I know about Cupid's and Chameleons and No3 being fully dressed down. I know Quest is like SX - bar is OK but play areas are dress down (I actually like this hybrid as its fun to get dolled up for socialising then dress down for play)

I'm not aware of anything like that in the South, other than perhaps Kestrels?

And is there anything in the East Midlands?

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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Infusion as it has a large swimming pool folks tend to dress down, agree this give a much more relaxed vibe.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We were amazed to find that Chams, as a full dress down clubs is absolutely our favourite we've been to. We were prepared to be awkward and repulsed but we love it there.

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By *rindAndSlam OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bury

I'm visiting Chams tomorrow for the first time. Very excited

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By *rindAndSlam OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bury


"Infusion as it has a large swimming pool folks tend to dress down, agree this give a much more relaxed vibe. "

But it's not required?

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By *inksAPlentyCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

VA is dress down in the play areas. Clothed or dress down in the bar.

Ms x

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"I would definitely recommend Cupids. Great club and friendly atmosphere. "

And Pandora’s.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I'm visiting Chams tomorrow for the first time. Very excited "

You'll love it! Any questions, just ask.

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By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

It's the best club! Enjoy xx

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By *lipperywhenwet07Couple
over a year ago

llanelli

Kestrels daytime is near Heathrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree it doesn't feel right that other people can stand about watching fully clothed in the play areas. Nothing worse than fully clothes guys with their hand down there pants fumbling in the doorway whilst your trying to fuck enjoy a 3sum or more sum. Thing is were they naked and clearly aroused then there is way more chance of them been invited in to join the play!

KJ x

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By *rindAndSlam OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bury


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Totally agree it doesn't feel right that other people can stand about watching fully clothed in the play areas. Nothing worse than fully clothes guys with their hand down there pants fumbling in the doorway whilst your trying to fuck enjoy a 3sum or more sum. Thing is were they naked and clearly aroused then there is way more chance of them been invited in to join the play!

KJ x "

Exactly!!

I quite like there being an extra cock or two near to hand.

At Atlantis, they were stood there, right at the edge of the bed, staring down impassively. It was creepy.

And at one point when I was bent over sucking, I felt someone touching my bottom behind me, right up my pussy. I turned and there was some bloke in jeans and a flannel shirt sat on the end of the bed. Not only had he not been invited to touch me, I was offended that he hadn't even undressed. The audacity of him. I told him off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Totally agree it doesn't feel right that other people can stand about watching fully clothed in the play areas. Nothing worse than fully clothes guys with their hand down there pants fumbling in the doorway whilst your trying to fuck enjoy a 3sum or more sum. Thing is were they naked and clearly aroused then there is way more chance of them been invited in to join the play!

KJ x

Exactly!!

I quite like there being an extra cock or two near to hand.

At Atlantis, they were stood there, right at the edge of the bed, staring down impassively. It was creepy.

And at one point when I was bent over sucking, I felt someone touching my bottom behind me, right up my pussy. I turned and there was some bloke in jeans and a flannel shirt sat on the end of the bed. Not only had he not been invited to touch me, I was offended that he hadn't even undressed. The audacity of him. I told him off. "

OMG

That's assualt when no consent in anyway has been given!

What did he say when challenged? Did the club throw him out?

We have noticed when a single male steps over the line in a club very often the respectful single males either playing or watching as well soon tell them off.

KJ x

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We prefer dress down and Chameleons is our favourite.

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By *rindAndSlam OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bury


"

Totally agree it doesn't feel right that other people can stand about watching fully clothed in the play areas. Nothing worse than fully clothes guys with their hand down there pants fumbling in the doorway whilst your trying to fuck enjoy a 3sum or more sum. Thing is were they naked and clearly aroused then there is way more chance of them been invited in to join the play!

KJ x

Exactly!!

I quite like there being an extra cock or two near to hand.

At Atlantis, they were stood there, right at the edge of the bed, staring down impassively. It was creepy.

And at one point when I was bent over sucking, I felt someone touching my bottom behind me, right up my pussy. I turned and there was some bloke in jeans and a flannel shirt sat on the end of the bed. Not only had he not been invited to touch me, I was offended that he hadn't even undressed. The audacity of him. I told him off.

OMG

That's assualt when no consent in anyway has been given!

What did he say when challenged? Did the club throw him out?

We have noticed when a single male steps over the line in a club very often the respectful single males either playing or watching as well soon tell them off.

KJ x "

He just walked away. I didn't stop playing to go downstairs and complain

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By *mmixtapeCouple
over a year ago

middle earth

Chams is great!!! And you're required to wear it a towel for cjs gangbangs

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By *ipplebarnyMan
over a year ago

milton keynes

Totally agree dress down sets the right mood for a club love being naked anyway

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By *rindAndSlam OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bury


" And you're required to wear it a towel for cjs gangbangs "

I don't quite understand this?

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By *ibertyeliteCouple
over a year ago

LUTTERWORTH

Liberty elite have dress down in play areas x

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

Townhouse has the best of both worlds.

You can remain in your finery in the groundfloor social areas all night if you wish, but you can also dress down/get nakie if that makes you feel more comfortable and sexy. However, in the play areas upstairs after 11pm, everyone is asked to dress down so there is a level playing field.

Before 11pm, again you can choose if you want to dress down upstairs, although most people do. We don't enforce it before 11pm as we have tons of newbies who are being shown around and they wouldn't want to get dressed down straight away just to have their tour. After 11pm, the main doors are closed, nobody else is allowed in and therefore no tours will take place. Also after 11pm, most people are sloping upstairs for sexy times, so dress down at this time feels like the natural thing to do.

I personally prefer this choice. I tend to dress down in clubs but I still want the choice whether I do so or not. I wouldn't dream of walking around play areas as a customer fully clothed!! So seedy!

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By *rindAndSlam OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bury


"Liberty elite have dress down in play areas x "

That's really good to know!

That makes 2 I know of in the East of England.

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By *rindAndSlam OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bury


"Townhouse has the best of both worlds.

You can remain in your finery in the groundfloor social areas all night if you wish, but you can also dress down/get nakie if that makes you feel more comfortable and sexy. However, in the play areas upstairs after 11pm, everyone is asked to dress down so there is a level playing field.

Before 11pm, again you can choose if you want to dress down upstairs, although most people do. We don't enforce it before 11pm as we have tons of newbies who are being shown around and they wouldn't want to get dressed down straight away just to have their tour. After 11pm, the main doors are closed, nobody else is allowed in and therefore no tours will take place. Also after 11pm, most people are sloping upstairs for sexy times, so dress down at this time feels like the natural thing to do.

I personally prefer this choice. I tend to dress down in clubs but I still want the choice whether I do so or not. I wouldn't dream of walking around play areas as a customer fully clothed!! So seedy! "

Yes that sounds ideal.

At Quest people start dressing down voluntarily around 10pm.

I don't actually mind fully clothed for tours at all. They're just being shown around and not standing there, gawking.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Liberty elite have dress down in play areas x

That's really good to know!

That makes 2 I know of in the East of England. "

It's still west to me!

Libs dress code works fairly well to me, we went last Friday and found that being back in clothes felt uncomfortable when it came to meeting people... people just looked more aloof and the likes! Get those tummies out and everyone is instantly more approachable.

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By *xXgemmaXxXCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I totally understand the reasons why clubs have this policy however mandatory dress down in play areas doesn’t work for us. The reason being hubby doesn’t play he just enjoys watching so would be reluctant to get his kit off we attended liberty elite last week for the Dark Desires event and while we really liked the venue and the hosts were lovely and welcoming we are unlikely to return as the dress down play areas just don’t suit our style of play.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"I totally understand the reasons why clubs have this policy however mandatory dress down in play areas doesn’t work for us. The reason being hubby doesn’t play he just enjoys watching so would be reluctant to get his kit off we attended liberty elite last week for the Dark Desires event and while we really liked the venue and the hosts were lovely and welcoming we are unlikely to return as the dress down play areas just don’t suit our style of play. "
Each to their own, everyone has preferences. Xtasia and The Attic don’t have a dress down rule anywhere

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By *xXgemmaXxXCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I totally understand the reasons why clubs have this policy however mandatory dress down in play areas doesn’t work for us. The reason being hubby doesn’t play he just enjoys watching so would be reluctant to get his kit off we attended liberty elite last week for the Dark Desires event and while we really liked the venue and the hosts were lovely and welcoming we are unlikely to return as the dress down play areas just don’t suit our style of play. Each to their own, everyone has preferences. Xtasia and The Attic don’t have a dress down rule anywhere "

Yeah we attend Xtasia quite regularly as it suits our preferences also Arousals in Luton

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By *edo CplCouple
over a year ago

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Dress down clubs for us, we totally agree that those that don't do feel awkward for the reasons the OP listed

But each to their own it is good to have a choice

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

I prefere to dress down also gives you chance to go underwear shopping ha ha like us girls need an excuse

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By *rindAndSlam OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bury


"I prefere to dress down also gives you chance to go underwear shopping ha ha like us girls need an excuse "

I love that about Quest... I get to dress up for the social part and then I get to wear lingerie for the play! Lots of shopping excuses!

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By *jEuphoriaCouple
over a year ago

north kent


"I've visited about a half dozen clubs so far and have discovered that I have a strong preference for clubs that mandate dressing down in at least the play areas. The clubs I've been to that allow people to remain fully dressed ( CJ's, Atlantis and the Attic) have felt stilted and awkward. There's something very off-putting about trying to fuck whilst being watched by fully-clothed men.

I also think it's a bit awkward to go into a room and do the one-legged hop removing shoes and belt. Clothes seem to be a physical barrier. The class indicators of clothes are another barrier to the fun. I don't want to know your sartorial tastes - I just want to see a sexy torso and a friendly face.

It seems as if dressing down is common for clubs in the North, and less so further South.

I'd be grateful for any information you can give me to help compile a list of all the clubs that suit my preference! "

We are from the South, and I personally always dress down, my partner will go very smart, then change down later. Years ago most people would wear a lot less, but I think people in today’s society, are more insecure, or shy, and would rather stay dressed.

I agree with you though, most women would rather see a bare chest on a man.

At the end of the day, wear what you want, or nothing, and hopefully others will catch on.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I prefer the hybrid versions. I like to get dressed up and enjoy the bar area in Quest. Having said that, I like Cupids which is dress down.

I’m going to Chams tomorrow Saturday with a friend. I hope it’s as good as everyone says.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I prefer the hybrid versions. I like to get dressed up and enjoy the bar area in Quest. Having said that, I like Cupids which is dress down.

I’m going to Chams tomorrow Saturday with a friend. I hope it’s as good as everyone says. "

Hope you love it. Remember one crappy men wear towels there. You'll be judged if you're not in boxers! Well... By me... From afar... If you tell me...

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester


"Townhouse has the best of both worlds.

You can remain in your finery in the groundfloor social areas all night if you wish, but you can also dress down/get nakie if that makes you feel more comfortable and sexy. However, in the play areas upstairs after 11pm, everyone is asked to dress down so there is a level playing field.

Before 11pm, again you can choose if you want to dress down upstairs, although most people do. We don't enforce it before 11pm as we have tons of newbies who are being shown around and they wouldn't want to get dressed down straight away just to have their tour. After 11pm, the main doors are closed, nobody else is allowed in and therefore no tours will take place. Also after 11pm, most people are sloping upstairs for sexy times, so dress down at this time feels like the natural thing to do.

I personally prefer this choice. I tend to dress down in clubs but I still want the choice whether I do so or not. I wouldn't dream of walking around play areas as a customer fully clothed!! So seedy! "

I agree... I've been to Townhouse and I think their policy is good. I find it awkward to strip off straight away, but I like the policy later on.

To be honest, at townhouse, you'd feel like a bit of a goon being fully clothed upstairs anyway as you'd be the only one!

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"I prefer the hybrid versions. I like to get dressed up and enjoy the bar area in Quest. Having said that, I like Cupids which is dress down.

I’m going to Chams tomorrow Saturday with a friend. I hope it’s as good as everyone says.

Hope you love it. Remember one crappy men wear towels there. You'll be judged if you're not in boxers! Well... By me... From afar... If you tell me... "

Definitely no towel. Never. Bright coloured boxers at the ready lol.

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