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Townhouse Friday 14th feb

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By *heekyFlirtyCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stockport

We're off to townhouse on Friday 14th Feb

A great club and we like the buzz there

But for some reason , we never seems to so that well

We turn up , looking and smelling good , we chat and we don't push it

So this time we thought we would say we are going and see if any one fancies bumping into us ?

We don't hunt people down in club's and are much happier having a chat and seeing where things lead

So do take a look and say hi , because if we get on , you never know ........

X

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

hey I will be going there on the 14th

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

House party will be a great night!!

Best bet is to get chatting to people in the bar, but beat in mind it can be quite tricky for a couple. As a single, you don’t know what their dynamic is, whether you are looking to swap separately, swap as a couple, play as separates or together in a threesome. So you might need to be a bit more forthcoming with people you’re interested in & ask / explain when you’re looking for?

Communication is the key, and no one is going to take offence if you ask, or if they ask & you say no.

I also think it’s harder for couples to hook up with couples than singles. All 4 of you have to be into the play, because you don’t want someone ‘taking one for the team’

Stick with it ... when I went from single to being in a couple, it was a couple of months before we hooked up with another couple! It’ll happen, but in the mean time you will have a great night out either way!

M x

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By *iss ScherzzoWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I struggle with initial contact in a club too. I attend with my husband but we play separately. He seems to have no problems but I’m quite shy in reality and tend to play with people I’ve chatted with on here or kik etc. And as mentioned couple dynamics can vary..The event listings are great for seeing who is gonna be around etc. Maybe jump on that and get chatting? But I’ll be following this for tips as We are attending Townhouse on the 15th.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Definitely agree - chatting on the thread is a great start. But don’t overthink it. Just be yourselves. Maybe when you’re chatting to couples, ask how they go about it, or what their dynamic is, see where they takes you.

Unfortunately I’m not there on the 14th but will be there with my partner on 15th.

Hope you have a great night though - the list looks amazing x

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By *iss ScherzzoWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Definitely agree - chatting on the thread is a great start. But don’t overthink it. Just be yourselves. Maybe when you’re chatting to couples, ask how they go about it, or what their dynamic is, see where they takes you.

Unfortunately I’m not there on the 14th but will be there with my partner on 15th.

Hope you have a great night though - the list looks amazing x"

See you on the 15th x

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By *ioletVixenMrBlueBiCouple
over a year ago

northwich

Hope you have a great night, had our first visit to Townhouse recently. Vixen got a fair bit of fun but like some of the others on here I’m always too shy to ask whether I can join in with anyone

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By *aughty Lovers 69Man
over a year ago

Wallasey

We are hoping to go to for this event, not a definite yet but fingers crossed xx

We spend most of our time chatting and dancing the night away, having lots fun and we meet people who want more then great if not we are happy getting to know others and having a great time on that dancefloor xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This sounds like fun would love to go but haven't got the transport

Lou xx

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"This sounds like fun would love to go but haven't got the transport

Lou xx "

Damn it would be good to see you at that event it has been a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This sounds like fun would love to go but haven't got the transport

Lou xx

Damn it would be good to see you at that event it has been a while. "

I know I'll be in Bury that weekend

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By *adisonrileyCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

A lot of people are in a similar boat. Most people don’t ask to play it kind of happens.

Or people will ask on fab whilst hiding behind the keyboard but then in a club they don’t.

X

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By *uietlyBohemianCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

We'll be there on the 14th, and perhaps the 15th too

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

We might try Townhouse that weekend too but more likely the 15th.....

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By *eard and boobCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

We struggle with the same thing. We are happy to play but are very quiet when we are in the club unfortunately we won't be there on the 14th but will be on the 15th so anyone that can break the ice here first fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This sounds like fun would love to go but haven't got the transport

Lou xx

Damn it would be good to see you at that event it has been a while.

I know I'll be in Bury that weekend"

Someone guy offered me a lift to the party

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool


"This sounds like fun would love to go but haven't got the transport

Lou xx

Damn it would be good to see you at that event it has been a while.

I know I'll be in Bury that weekend

Someone guy offered me a lift to the party"

You best contact the host then and see if she has a place for you

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By *iss ScherzzoWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Guys who are going on the 15th feel free to message me. I’ll be attending with my husband. Our fab account is scherzzoandhollander but you’re more likely to get a response from me on this one x

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Need to persuade hubby that we should get a babysitter that evening

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool


"Need to persuade hubby that we should get a babysitter that evening "

We always have the padded cell if you want somewhere safe and soft to put them while you play? lol Netflix and a packet of crisps...job done hahaha

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By *iss ScherzzoWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Need to persuade hubby that we should get a babysitter that evening

We always have the padded cell if you want somewhere safe and soft to put them while you play? lol Netflix and a packet of crisps...job done hahaha "

Haha. I might try this option for the actual hubby x

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Need to persuade hubby that we should get a babysitter that evening

We always have the padded cell if you want somewhere safe and soft to put them while you play? lol Netflix and a packet of crisps...job done hahaha "

I'm sure that's a totally appropriate place for a 3yo! Seriously, we'd love to come though.

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By *he Sex PistolsCouple
over a year ago

wirral


"Need to persuade hubby that we should get a babysitter that evening

We always have the padded cell if you want somewhere safe and soft to put them while you play? lol Netflix and a packet of crisps...job done hahaha "

Now this is an option we could consider

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Need to persuade hubby that we should get a babysitter that evening

We always have the padded cell if you want somewhere safe and soft to put them while you play? lol Netflix and a packet of crisps...job done hahaha

Now this is an option we could consider "

This is the hardest bit about swinging for us - childcare!

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By *rMrsNawtyCouple
over a year ago

north west

We are there the 14th and 15th. First time to the house party night though, we usually just go on a Saturday

Mrsnawty xx

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By *heekyFlirtyCouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Stockport

We’re gutted as we can’t go now and had to take our names off the list...... blooming vanilla life so gets in the way of fun ....

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