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VA MILF CLUB 1ST VISIT AND CLOTHING

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good Afternoon, probably been asked a million times.

Building up the courage to attend a club for the very first time.

VA Milf Club seems a sensible place to start, I may be alone, and as a Curvy/BBW woman, I'm more concerned about what to wear than anything else.

If any ladies would be so kind as to PM me some examples of what they may wear I'd be very grateful.

Any additional advice gratefully received.

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By *andD300Couple
over a year ago

london

Why do you want personal messages? It’s not much of a benefit for other members.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do you want personal messages? It’s not much of a benefit for other members. "

sorry can't work out how to post images in the forum, please can you assist?

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

Hey you - finally braved the forums

You can’t post pics to forum posts, so I understand the PM ask......

Maybe the question should have been:-

Ladies what do you wear when attending MILF club, will be my first club visit so completely unsure, If you have any examples on your profile could you point me towards them, thanks x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey you - finally braved the forums

You can’t post pics to forum posts, so I understand the PM ask......

Maybe the question should have been:-

Ladies what do you wear when attending MILF club, will be my first club visit so completely unsure, If you have any examples on your profile could you point me towards them, thanks x"

Thanks you beaut x

What Innocent said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good Afternoon, probably been asked a million times.

Building up the courage to attend a club for the very first time.

VA Milf Club seems a sensible place to start, I may be alone, and as a Curvy/BBW woman, I'm more concerned about what to wear than anything else.

If any ladies would be so kind as to PM me some examples of what they may wear I'd be very grateful.

Any additional advice gratefully received.

"
same here never been xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you mean before dressing down or after dressing down?

When we dress up to go out K wears a plain long sleeved knee length casual dress over the top of a body stocking, and a pair of tights over the body stocking just so it looks a little less naughty and a bit more demure.

For dressing down K wears a full length crotch less body stocking in black under the dress, there are a couple of similar ones shown on our profile (but, I just noticed no pictures of the ones she actually wears to milf club which we will have to rectify at some point). She will also be wearing a pair of french knickers over the top of the body stocking that she can easily remove when she wants to play.

Saying all that K is building more confidence to dress down to naked and/or some other underwear choices in the future (things in our profile pictures), as for everyone else some of the ladies at milf club go naked and just wear a towel (these are provided in the lockers) and there is a wide variety of underwear that gets worn depending on what each lady prefers.

To be honest there's such a wide variety of what people wear that wearing something you're comfortable in and feel sexy when wearing it would be best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you mean before dressing down or after dressing down?

When we dress up to go out K wears a plain long sleeved knee length casual dress over the top of a body stocking, and a pair of tights over the body stocking just so it looks a little less naughty and a bit more demure.

For dressing down K wears a full length crotch less body stocking in black under the dress, there are a couple of similar ones shown on our profile (but, I just noticed no pictures of the ones she actually wears to milf club which we will have to rectify at some point). She will also be wearing a pair of french knickers over the top of the body stocking that she can easily remove when she wants to play.

Saying all that K is building more confidence to dress down to naked and/or some other underwear choices in the future (things in our profile pictures), as for everyone else some of the ladies at milf club go naked and just wear a towel (these are provided in the lockers) and there is a wide variety of underwear that gets worn depending on what each lady prefers.

To be honest there's such a wide variety of what people wear that wearing something you're comfortable in and feel sexy when wearing it would be best.

"
hi does that go for guys too ??

Never been before n don’t really wanna get it wrong

What do guys wear ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you mean before dressing down or after dressing down?

When we dress up to go out K wears a plain long sleeved knee length casual dress over the top of a body stocking, and a pair of tights over the body stocking just so it looks a little less naughty and a bit more demure.

For dressing down K wears a full length crotch less body stocking in black under the dress, there are a couple of similar ones shown on our profile (but, I just noticed no pictures of the ones she actually wears to milf club which we will have to rectify at some point). She will also be wearing a pair of french knickers over the top of the body stocking that she can easily remove when she wants to play.

Saying all that K is building more confidence to dress down to naked and/or some other underwear choices in the future (things in our profile pictures), as for everyone else some of the ladies at milf club go naked and just wear a towel (these are provided in the lockers) and there is a wide variety of underwear that gets worn depending on what each lady prefers.

To be honest there's such a wide variety of what people wear that wearing something you're comfortable in and feel sexy when wearing it would be best.

"

I guess both but more so initially, thanks so much for the reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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What do guys wear ??? "

I wear a smart casual shirt, trousers, shoes. Dress down, I'll go naked and wrap myself in a towel, this is what most guys do.

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

We are regulars at MILF Im a larger lady and wear a baby type thing and crouchless tights.

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Good Afternoon, probably been asked a million times.

Building up the courage to attend a club for the very first time.

VA Milf Club seems a sensible place to start, I may be alone, and as a Curvy/BBW woman, I'm more concerned about what to wear than anything else.

If any ladies would be so kind as to PM me some examples of what they may wear I'd be very grateful.

Any additional advice gratefully received.

"

Ive tried to PM but couples are blocked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good Afternoon, probably been asked a million times.

Building up the courage to attend a club for the very first time.

VA Milf Club seems a sensible place to start, I may be alone, and as a Curvy/BBW woman, I'm more concerned about what to wear than anything else.

If any ladies would be so kind as to PM me some examples of what they may wear I'd be very grateful.

Any additional advice gratefully received.

Ive tried to PM but couples are blocked."

So sorry thank you, have changed my settings now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been many times.

As a large lady I wear sometimes that covers my belly and keeps my boobs in the right place until I get naked and hit the hot tub

Wear what your comfortable in. The ladies are all shapes and sizes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you mean before dressing down or after dressing down?

When we dress up to go out K wears a plain long sleeved knee length casual dress over the top of a body stocking, and a pair of tights over the body stocking just so it looks a little less naughty and a bit more demure.

For dressing down K wears a full length crotch less body stocking in black under the dress, there are a couple of similar ones shown on our profile (but, I just noticed no pictures of the ones she actually wears to milf club which we will have to rectify at some point). She will also be wearing a pair of french knickers over the top of the body stocking that she can easily remove when she wants to play.

Saying all that K is building more confidence to dress down to naked and/or some other underwear choices in the future (things in our profile pictures), as for everyone else some of the ladies at milf club go naked and just wear a towel (these are provided in the lockers) and there is a wide variety of underwear that gets worn depending on what each lady prefers.

To be honest there's such a wide variety of what people wear that wearing something you're comfortable in and feel sexy when wearing it would be best.

hi does that go for guys too ??

Never been before n don’t really wanna get it wrong

What do guys wear ??? "

I wear chinos and a shirt for socialising then just a towel for playtime.. Some guys wear underwear for play...

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By *ngie1962Couple
over a year ago

Bedford

No street clothes allowed in the play areas, dress how you feel most comfortable some just wear a towel some underwear some sexy lingerie be yourself and enjoy it ... these normally around an hour of socialising 11-12 so please come and say hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sure you’ll look great no matter what you wear, it’s such a chilled and relaxed atmosphere at MILF club. Hopefully see you in the hot tub at some point this week then??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m sure you’ll look great no matter what you wear, it’s such a chilled and relaxed atmosphere at MILF club. Hopefully see you in the hot tub at some point this week then??"

Possible some point this year

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for the messages, I feel a lot more confident about attending

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds a great place never been need to get myself on that guestlist

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By *aughtyminx300Woman
over a year ago

london

Hi hun

I’m think of going this Wednesday for first time too x

PM if you want to chat x

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By *rad110Man
over a year ago

rayliegh

How busy does it get on wednesdays

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Thinking of plucking up the courage to go this Wednesday...

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By *ezzaandJane1973Couple
over a year ago

Olney

Hi, we are thinking of going this Wednesday as well. (First club visit)

Cpl of cheeky questions.

1. Is it a suitable event for a cpl that is not into single guys?

2. Is it a bit of a cock fest (more guys than girls)?

3. As we are very new to this, we are hoping for a no pressure environment?

4. Is it any good?

Sorry for the questions but want the first time to be right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It might be a bit lacking for you if you're not into single guys, there is a couples only room that you can play in but you might find it a bit empty compared to the other rooms depending on who turns up on the day.

The main play rooms will be a bit of a cock fest (there is a lot more guys than girls), but it is very no pressure, if anyone is too close to you just ask them to move away, there is no contact without permission if you have any problems with anyone just speak to the staff.

You could just treat it as a social only event and see how you feel and watch from the hallways which is what we did the first time we visited and use it to meet some new people.

We've been about 7 or 8 times now and absolutely love it, never had people be anything less than respectful, a couple of slightly odd people staring at times rather than making conversation but you just ignore them or go to the couples room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m thinking of heading down on Wednesday. Would be nice to meet some of you sexy people there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m thinking of heading down on Wednesday. Would be nice to meet some of you sexy people there x "

In case you're not aware single guys need to call the club and book in advance or they won't get in.

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By *ezzaandJane1973Couple
over a year ago

Olney


"It might be a bit lacking for you if you're not into single guys, there is a couples only room that you can play in but you might find it a bit empty compared to the other rooms depending on who turns up on the day.

The main play rooms will be a bit of a cock fest (there is a lot more guys than girls), but it is very no pressure, if anyone is too close to you just ask them to move away, there is no contact without permission if you have any problems with anyone just speak to the staff.

You could just treat it as a social only event and see how you feel and watch from the hallways which is what we did the first time we visited and use it to meet some new people.

We've been about 7 or 8 times now and absolutely love it, never had people be anything less than respectful, a couple of slightly odd people staring at times rather than making conversation but you just ignore them or go to the couples room. "

Thank you for your advice.

Definitely more of a social to start with but you never know if the right lady / cpl take our fancy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Definitely more of a social to start with but you never know if the right lady / cpl take our fancy lol"

Certainly if you're not sure of exactly what your boundaries are then going for social only is sensible, it certainly made it easier for us to have no expectations of each other or what might happen and just used it as a learning experience. We've had some nice times now as a result!

Come and say hi to us if you see us there, we won't be there this week but maybe on the 5th, if you message us via our profile we'll share face pics so you can recognise us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m thinking of heading down on Wednesday. Would be nice to meet some of you sexy people there x

In case you're not aware single guys need to call the club and book in advance or they won't get in. "

Thanks. Yeah I will call them tomorrow. I’ve been on the website and seen the number to call. What do men tend to wear smart casual?

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By *ocothumpaMan
over a year ago

quite close to you


"Hi, we are thinking of going this Wednesday as well. (First club visit)

Cpl of cheeky questions.

1. Is it a suitable event for a cpl that is not into single guys?

2. Is it a bit of a cock fest (more guys than girls)?

3. As we are very new to this, we are hoping for a no pressure environment?

4. Is it any good?

Sorry for the questions but want the first time to be right."

1. Depends on how much privacy you want, though 95% of the guys are respectful

2. Can be but the couples only area is fairly balanced

3. It is very no pressure some single women/couples have turned up and just socialised

4. Yes and no this depends again on what u want from it

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By *ocothumpaMan
over a year ago

quite close to you


"Thinking of plucking up the courage to go this Wednesday... "

Hope you do as you look AMAZING

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