FabSwingers.com forum: Is it the end ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No 3 club in Chorley have just started a new policy.. it's dress down on entry ! I for one like going to a club dressed up and I like to see people with their clothes on first so do you think this new policy will put a lot of people off going? Plus bring your own towel now or pay £1 deposit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No 3 club in Chorley have just started a new policy.. it's dress down on entry ! I for one like going to a club dressed up and I like to see people with their clothes on first so do you think this new policy will put a lot of people off going? Plus bring your own towel now or pay £1 deposit. "

It would put us off. I don't like to dress down until I feel ready.

No issue with bringing my own towel though. Club towels are rarely big enough for me anyway .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes that's true not everyone is confident enough to whip their kits off as soon as they get in there .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would be fine with it and would find it a relaxing experience after all we are all human.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It works well in other clubs like Cupid's.... actually we prefer it to be dress down

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

I like being naked (K) so it wouldnt bother me hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quest in leeds do this too. X

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over a year ago

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"It works well in other clubs like Cupid's.... actually we prefer it to be dress down"
this for me. I tend to prefer to be dressed down x

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Dont know that particular club but we only go to dress down clubs...much prefer them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a big club goer but I've been to dress down clubs and non dress down.

Whike I definitely feel more confident in my clothes, the dress down thing does kinda put evryone on a level playing field so to speak.

I'm not remotely body confident so it is a scary prospect but I also found it quite liberating once I actually did it.

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By *andS33Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Quest in leeds do this too. X"

Quest in Leeds isn't dress down on entry, only in the play areas

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We also don't go to clubs much but this has put us off this particular club . Club sx has themed evening ie schools out or toga which seems more fun than just walk in then get undressed . I like to see what people look like in their clothes before they get naked .

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We don’t go to dress down clubs either, we’ll dress down when we’re ready. We like to socialise and dance clothed. When we got our Christmas presents they were wrapped. It was exciting unwrapping them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the OP - we co/host at the club on a regular basis - and the owners have taken the decision on the new policy of Dressdown on entry which began Saturday (4/1/20) as unfortunately we did have a small number of customers who were still fully dressed well after our Dressdown time sometime up to an hour thereafter. Which it made it awkward for those who were already Dressdown -so it is equally all over. when it comes to themed night those in fancy dress can stay in the outfits ( which has always been there policy)

As for the towel hire a majority of clubs charge .

Hope this helps. And sorry to hear you will not be attending in future due to the policy

Happy swinging

Sian & Ged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don’t go to dress down clubs either, we’ll dress down when we’re ready. We like to socialise and dance clothed. When we got our Christmas presents they were wrapped. It was exciting unwrapping them

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Does that mean we get to unwrap you?

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By *ove and DuckCouple
over a year ago

Between Sheffield & Chesterfield

"Quest in leeds do this too. X"

Quest in leeds dont make u dress down until u want to go n play.

If u wanna stay dressed u can but u cant go down to the play rooms until u change

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By *eatherJerryCouple
over a year ago

local

We don’t get the title - “ Is it the end” ??

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

How very odd. Part of the fun is getting naked with new people. If you go there and everyone is naked it kind of ales that away. I like the sophistication of people who dress well people wandering round in robes and pants all the time is really naff.

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By *ulgehunterMan
over a year ago

yorkshire

Waiting in a queue in just my thing you mean ?

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By *asteregg01Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Quest in leeds do this too. X"

No they dont... you only have to dress down if you're going to the playrooms

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

We love dressdown but not into towel wearers, sexy lingerie for females and boxers for men. Clubs where you have to strip off in playrooms we don't enjoy the same

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

Surely “dress down” means getting into clothing that is designed for the occasion? No one is suggesting you have to strip naked or god forbid wrap yourself in a towel. Sexy underwear is great anytime and all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get silky lacey dressing gown wear heels so you bit coverd but feel sexy

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

"To the OP - we co/host at the club on a regular basis - and the owners have taken the decision on the new policy of Dressdown on entry which began Saturday (4/1/20) as unfortunately we did have a small number of customers who were still fully dressed well after our Dressdown time sometime up to an hour thereafter. Which it made it awkward for those who were already Dressdown -so it is equally all over. when it comes to themed night those in fancy dress can stay in the outfits ( which has always been there policy)

As for the towel hire a majority of clubs charge .

Hope this helps. And sorry to hear you will not be attending in future due to the policy

Happy swinging

Sian & Ged "

Myself personally I like clubs that allow you to decide for yourself if you want to dress down shouldn't be forced or have a time limit in your clothes ... sometimes I go to clubs to meet new friends or socialize and if I fancy someone or feel really in the mood to play I will dress down this is the best way I think to show people in the club I'm up for fun and not constantly harassed or followed by single males x

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't attempt to go to no3 again, so not a problem for us.

And we like dressing down in sexy lingerie / boxers too.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Whist we are not shy, we prefer to dress down at our leisure. We obviously wouldn't wander about the play rooms unless dressed down.

So here's the scenario, your dressed to kill, over the knee boots and stockings etc, chatting at the bar, you are getting plenty of attention. Then go off to get changed and wow

Or you walk straight into the changing room to dress down and are confronted with someone dressed in trackies, t shirt and a baseball cap, then your all dress down and they they try there luck with you at the bar. You've already been put off.

And yes it's happened to us! Hence why we prefer getting dressed down at our leisure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't be for me personally. The idea of walking around in the buff or skimpy underwear would make me recoil. Also what happens if you're meeting someone for a social, with no intention to play? I would feel under pressure that play should happen because I'm already naked

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We don't like the idea of an enforced dress down policy, partly because we find the sight of lots of hairy men with towels around their waists very off-putting, also because we make an effort when we go out, so look for people who do likewise.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Not had the chance to visit this club yet but we prefer clubs where you can go dressed in sexy dresses etc. then dress down later, it’s nice to see people looking smart/sexy at the start of the evening, think it adds to meeting people, we understand it’s about sex when you go to a club but seeing people in towels at the start of the evening isn’t really for us but we’re sure there will be lots of people happy for it to be that way.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"It works well in other clubs like Cupid's.... actually we prefer it to be dress down"

It’s one of the main reasons we don’t like cupids

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By *he No3 ClubCouple
over a year ago

Chorley, Lancashire

Absolutely right xx

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By *he No3 ClubCouple
over a year ago

Chorley, Lancashire

We wouldn't attempt to go to no3 again, so not a problem for us.

And we like dressing down in sexy lingerie / boxers too.

The No3 is not asking anyone just to put a towel on its just dress down on arrival

Like most clubs boxers and sexy Lingerie is just fantastic...

this is the problem with the forum...

Happy swinging No3 xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't attempt to go to no3 again, so not a problem for us.

And we like dressing down in sexy lingerie / boxers too.

The No3 is not asking anyone just to put a towel on its just dress down on arrival

Like most clubs boxers and sexy Lingerie is just fantastic...

this is the problem with the forum...

Happy swinging No3 xx "

I don't see what the problem is with the forum, though i see where you are coming from asking for all to dress down.

Just to clarify, my comment (I'm only posting this as you quoted my comment), is that we don't mind dressing down, but wouldn't attempt to visit your club. And it has nothing to do with your dress down policy or lack of it!

I hope I've made myself clear this time.

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

We wouldn't attempt to go to no3 again, so not a problem for us.

And we like dressing down in sexy lingerie / boxers too.

The No3 is not asking anyone just to put a towel on its just dress down on arrival

Like most clubs boxers and sexy Lingerie is just fantastic...

this is the problem with the forum...

Happy swinging No3 xx "

I don't think any club should force people to dress down we should all be given our own choice but that's just my opinion x

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I think compulsory dress down would be quite an intimidating thought for anyone new to a club.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Judging by the comments on this thread, dress down on arrival doesn't seem very popular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to dress down if and when I choose to. Not when I'm told to do so.

I prefer Townhouse over any other club I've been to partly for this reason.

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

We go to dress down club

Feel that if we go to a club (and we have ) that doesn't dress down then we in a pub or if loud music playing then a club not a swingers club . So it always dress down club for us .k

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By *eatherJerryCouple
over a year ago

local

We like dress down on arrival or a timed version But there is still clubs out there who don’t have any policy on dressdown or even changing areas or lockers. Like adventures in lust did many years ago( if I remember )

Your quote about not visiting think it’s personal apologies if read wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As for the towel hire a majority of clubs charge .

Hope this helps. And sorry to hear you will not be attending in future due to the policy

Happy swinging

Sian & Ged "

Could you not just go round asking the people that haven't dressed down by the allotted time to either do it or please leave ?

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

So it seems some prefer dress down, some not. If one of our favourite clubs brought in the same policy, we also wouldn't attend anymore. So we hope they don't bring in such a rule.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We go to dress down club

Feel that if we go to a club (and we have ) that doesn't dress down then we in a pub or if loud music playing then a club not a swingers club . So it always dress down club for us .k"

We don't mind dressing down but not keen on having to do it as soon as we walk in .

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

"Judging by the comments on this thread, dress down on arrival doesn't seem very popular. "

Almost every Club in the country operate a dress down (aka dress to impress in sexy clothing) on entry.

It is bemusing why such an issue is being made of this regarding No3.

I imagine that such tender flowers are perhaps not best suited to visiting Clubs - full stop.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Almost every Club in the country operate a dress down (aka dress to impress in sexy clothing) on entry.

Dressing in sexy clothing is totally different to dressing down on entry. I have been to lots of clubs both here and abroad and only one enforced dress down on entry which is Cupids. It certainly isn't a policy for "almost every club".

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

Almost every Club in the country operate a dress down (aka dress to impress in sexy clothing) on entry.

What do you understand by dressing down then? Really there can be nothing better than a Club full of sexily dressed people.

Men or women who want to remain in trackies /jeans/hoodies for the night are probably not suited to going to any kind of Club really.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

What do you understand by dressing down then? "

To me dressing down means a towel or underwear.

Sexy clothes is what I would wear in a club before dressing down and I would expect a man to wear a shirt and smart trousers.

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

"Quest in leeds do this too. X"

Not at any time I have been

Ms Icebreaker

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Men or women who want to remain in trackies /jeans/hoodies for the night are probably not suited to going to any kind of Club really."

I don't even own any trackies, jeans or hoodies and even if I did I would not dream of wearing them to a club.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Only people I have ever seen in a club in trackies or hoodies have been the creepy male lurkers. Majority are dressed well & in sexy attire which is removed as people relax. Being made to strip down to underwear on arrival would definitely put me off. Can understand dress down being compulsory for play areas but not as soon as you get in the door of the club

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Only people I have ever seen in a club in trackies or hoodies have been the creepy male lurkers. Majority are dressed well & in sexy attire which is removed as people relax. Being made to strip down to underwear on arrival would definitely put me off. Can understand dress down being compulsory for play areas but not as soon as you get in the door of the club"

Exactly this , we like to see how the person is dressed before dress down ,we always dress smartly and would expect anyone we play with to do the same , we don't like the forced policy of immediate dress down that's all we are saying.

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

Dress down straight away for us and wed encourage more nude nights too

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Totally agree. I prefer to arrive dressed in something smart and sexy and then dress down when I choose.

If this new policy,,which some people will like and others wont, was introduced because a few people stayed dressed after a certain time. Why did the club not address the small number of people who broke the rules, rather than altering it for everyone ?

OP if it's not your thing, find another club. There are plenty that don't enforce dress down on entry .

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

We regularly see both sides of this.

In Germany almost every club is dress down on entry and most strictly enforce it

In Spain very few clubs have any dress code at all and the few that do very rarely enforce it.

We prefer the German clubs.

We don't mind normal street wear in the bar area (although much better to see the ladies in their nice outfits

) but in the play areas for us it's very much a no go.

Nothing worse than some guy popping his cock through his jeans expecting a shag, as quite often happens in Spain.

As I remember, Cupids (in Mary and Glens days) was always dress down on entry. Not been for many years so don't know if it still is.

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By *ude boy 2017Man
over a year ago

Bolton

Wonder if they still have there nude night

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Clubs that allow people to walk around playrooms dressed is not for us, feels seedy, wrong vibe. In Spain dressed bar and dancefloor optional undress but play areas are other side of changing room (like at health clubs you dress down to go into leisure/pool side) This is perfect compromise for clubs with dancefloor/bar area

chameleons is dressdown on arrival, our favourite club and its been thriving for years

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By *u4rFunMan
over a year ago

wigan

Not been to the club ( will soon ) . No way the club going to loose people , and if so they will attract new people . It’s personal choice understandably, but I have personally no problem has think ladies look so sexy in lingerie x Totally understand people who don’t want to dress down also x

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

We wouldn't attempt to go to no3 again, so not a problem for us.

And we like dressing down in sexy lingerie / boxers too.

The No3 is not asking anyone just to put a towel on its just dress down on arrival

Like most clubs boxers and sexy Lingerie is just fantastic...

this is the problem with the forum...

Happy swinging No3 xx "

No problem here. You have a dress down policy and most people are not keen. We know where we stand.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

We love being naked, spend most our time naked in Spain and we don’t go on holidays where you can’t get naked but feel on a night out it’s nice to go dressed up to start the evening and then dress down later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

she got so frustrated with this she left, see that was her depth of feeling

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

If it's a good club, I doubt that a dress down on entry policy will have a major impact.

I enjoy all types of clubs and dress down certainly doesn't put me off.

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By *onty1971Man
over a year ago

London St Helier Trier

"If it's a good club, I doubt that a dress down on entry policy will have a major impact.

I enjoy all types of clubs and dress down certainly doesn't put me off."

Over here in Germany it is normal to dress down and enter the Social mixing area in your ready to play outfits....

What that is you decide.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I prefer dressing down straight away, as it’s part of the ‘freedom’ of being in a swingers club? It’s always a great ‘leveller’ across the board, for everyone from all walks of life. I wasn’t a fan of No.3’s ‘dress down’ time policy to be fair, there was always that rush of people to get in and out of the changing rooms. Although, it made it easy to start conversations with people when someone bent over and stuck their bum in your face lol

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

I was planning on attending on the 24th for BMFC for the first time, but I don’t want to come now due to the dress down policy.

I’ve never been to the club before, would be coming alone and will be driving, so completely sober. The last thing I want is to have to strip off as soon as I get there, that just wouldn’t be fun for me, it’s not how I like to do things.

It’s a shame though, I was looking forward to it.

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

"I was planning on attending on the 24th for BMFC for the first time, but I don’t want to come now due to the dress down policy.

It’s a shame though, I was looking forward to it. "

You don’t have to “strip off” as soon as you arrive. Dress down just means not street clothing - the vast majority of Clubs in this country are dress down on arrival - some people choose to read that as just a towel whereas most women dress down to sexy underwear, sexy club gear.

We are going to No3 on Friday and Mrs H always dresses down on arrival (wherever we go) and on Friday she will be dressing down to a diamanté mini skirt and top.

Really no one expects you to literally strip off. I would say the rule change is probably long overdue and is now in line with almost every other Club in the U.K.

Don’t worry - you will be fine

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

"I was planning on attending on the 24th for BMFC for the first time, but I don’t want to come now due to the dress down policy.

It’s a shame though, I was looking forward to it.

We are going to No3 on Friday and Mrs H always dresses down on arrival (wherever we go) and on Friday she will be dressing down to a diamanté mini skirt and top.

Really no one expects you to literally strip off. I would say the rule change is probably long overdue and is now in line with almost every other Club in the U.K.

Don’t worry - you will be fine

I’ve been to loads of clubs all over the country and the only one I’ve been to before that enforces immediate dress down is Cupid’s, and I didn’t like it, so haven’t been back.

When I dress down it’s into lingerie, but I don’t want to do that as soon as I get there. Each to their own, but I like to decide if/when I take my clothes off

It’s a very different scenario going as part of a couple to a club you’re familiar with, to going as a single girl to a place you’ve never been.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes....... its the end...... certainly for the Op

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

"I was planning on attending on the 24th for BMFC for the first time, but I don’t want to come now due to the dress down policy.

It’s a shame though, I was looking forward to it.

We are going to No3 on Friday and Mrs H always dresses down on arrival (wherever we go) and on Friday she will be dressing down to a diamanté mini skirt and top.

Really no one expects you to literally strip off. I would say the rule change is probably long overdue and is now in line with almost every other Club in the U.K.

Don’t worry - you will be fine

I’ve been to loads of clubs all over the country and the only one I’ve been to before that enforces immediate dress down is Cupid’s, and I didn’t like it, so haven’t been back.

When I dress down it’s into lingerie, but I don’t want to do that as soon as I get there. Each to their own, but I like to decide if/when I take my clothes off

It’s a very different scenario going as part of a couple to a club you’re familiar with, to going as a single girl to a place you’ve never been. "

OK - but I would say that you are missing out on trying out one of the best clubs in the north of England.

I think the rule was maybe more directed at guys who stayed in street clothing for too long and this intimidated the women who had dressed down into clubgear/lingerie.

Xtasia in the Midlands does not have a dress down policy - that may suit your needs. That too is great club with some epic nights and the owners are good people.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"I was planning on attending on the 24th for BMFC for the first time, but I don’t want to come now due to the dress down policy.

It’s a shame though, I was looking forward to it.

We are going to No3 on Friday and Mrs H always dresses down on arrival (wherever we go) and on Friday she will be dressing down to a diamanté mini skirt and top.

Really no one expects you to literally strip off. I would say the rule change is probably long overdue and is now in line with almost every other Club in the U.K.

Don’t worry - you will be fine

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Not in line with Atlantis, Club SX, Xtasia and The Attic though. There must be many many more that don’t have a dress down rule.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"I was planning on attending on the 24th for BMFC for the first time, but I don’t want to come now due to the dress down policy.

It’s a shame though, I was looking forward to it. "
Xtasia sounds ideal for you then

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"I was planning on attending on the 24th for BMFC for the first time, but I don’t want to come now due to the dress down policy.

It’s a shame though, I was looking forward to it. Xtasia sounds ideal for you then

Agree, one of our favourite clubs, dressdown optional

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

"I was planning on attending on the 24th for BMFC for the first time, but I don’t want to come now due to the dress down policy.

It’s a shame though, I was looking forward to it.

We are going to No3 on Friday and Mrs H always dresses down on arrival (wherever we go) and on Friday she will be dressing down to a diamanté mini skirt and top.

Really no one expects you to literally strip off. I would say the rule change is probably long overdue and is now in line with almost every other Club in the U.K.

Don’t worry - you will be fine

I’ve been to loads of clubs all over the country and the only one I’ve been to before that enforces immediate dress down is Cupid’s, and I didn’t like it, so haven’t been back.

When I dress down it’s into lingerie, but I don’t want to do that as soon as I get there. Each to their own, but I like to decide if/when I take my clothes off

It’s a very different scenario going as part of a couple to a club you’re familiar with, to going as a single girl to a place you’ve never been.

OK - but I would say that you are missing out on trying out one of the best clubs in the north of England.

I think the rule was maybe more directed at guys who stayed in street clothing for too long and this intimidated the women who had dressed down into clubgear/lingerie.

Xtasia in the Midlands does not have a dress down policy - that may suit your needs. That too is great club with some epic nights and the owners are good people."

I would say that the club is missing out on me

Seriously though, It is a shame, I was looking forward to it, but it’s just not for me when this rule is applied. Another girl I know isn’t going for the same reason. I prefer some initial modesty. Plus I like to see how a man presents himself when not just in his pants. Chatting to a well dressed man, flirting at the bar is a big turn on for me.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

"I was planning on attending on the 24th for BMFC for the first time, but I don’t want to come now due to the dress down policy.

It’s a shame though, I was looking forward to it. Xtasia sounds ideal for you then

Yes, the more relaxed vibe at Xtasia is much better for me

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

"Judging by the comments on this thread, dress down on arrival doesn't seem very popular.

Almost every Club in the country operate a dress down (aka dress to impress in sexy clothing) on entry.

It is bemusing why such an issue is being made of this regarding No3.

I imagine that such tender flowers are perhaps not best suited to visiting Clubs - full stop."

Totally agree here, dress down for women is lingerie, men it's a towel or pants. Then you can see if you're prospective playmates are fully what you'd expect!

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By *iamond coupleCouple
over a year ago

leeds

"Quest in leeds do this too. X"
. No they don’t. You only have to dress down when entering the play room areas

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I like stripping off but I also like to go out dressed up. I’ve been to No3 and I like it there. I know ladies like to put their favourite outfit on before stripping to lingerie. Might be more of an issue for them.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"We love being naked, spend most our time naked in Spain and we don’t go on holidays where you can’t get naked but feel on a night out it’s nice to go dressed up to start the evening and then dress down later."

Sums it up for me.

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By *reeThoughtMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire

I'm new to all this, only had one club visit and it wasn't dress down nor a separation of play area from bar. End result was lots of single men fully clothed all evening watching.

Definitely put us off playing much when you've got a group of fully dressed men standing six inches away. The naked room was a saving grace.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"only had one club visit and it wasn't dress down nor a separation of play area from bar. End result was lots of single men fully clothed all evening watching.

Which club was this ?

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By *etamourMan
over a year ago

York

When I was with my wife she liked to get dressed for the occasion. Short skirt, stockings, heels etc. Also as a Dom, I enjoy being dressed I wear my kilt and a particular jacket. It's not street wear, do I don't think it's seedy when I'm playing in the dungeon. I also like to play with women who have dressed for sex. Nakedness is a good leveller for those that can't be bothered to make an effort. Sexy clothes yes- street clothes No!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am new to the club scene and have been to number 3 for the last 2 sundays, I was quite happy for it to be dress down on entry, the guys in boxers and ladies in sexy lingerie looking fantastic.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"I'm new to all this, only had one club visit and it wasn't dress down nor a separation of play area from bar. End result was lots of single men fully clothed all evening watching.

Definitely put us off playing much when you've got a group of fully dressed men standing six inches away. The naked room was a saving grace."

This is what we dislike. Love seeing people on streetclothes, get a vibe from how they dress. Perfect setup is bar/dancefloor area with changing room separating play area with compulsory dressdown to move on in there. Of course they allow dressdown back bar etc, just no streetclothes beyond. Mystique in Tenerife is fine example.

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

Surely the point is that this is one Club choosing its own policy which they have every right to do.

We have visited Chameleons and Xtasia regularly and both have massively different policies and each suit the venue perfectly and each are appropriate for the mood.

Life would be pretty boring if every venue had the same policy.

We are going to No3 tomorrow for the first time in quite a while. I do recall that previously it felt a bit silly to have to march into the changing room when the bell sounded and so if the rule for this Club is to now dress down (dress up lol) on arrival then we have absolutely no problem with that arrangement at all. We will make the most (and the best) of it as we always do lol

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"I would feel under pressure that play should happen because I'm already naked

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Exactly this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm really confused by the comments that state "most clubs have a similar policy"

Iv been to a few clubs and other than in the spa areas none of them have dress down policy.

I get it that some like it but lots don't so I'm not supprised some now won't visit the club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive been to a few clubs to and they weren't dress down although i did but it wasn't compulsory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ive been to a few clubs to and they weren't dress down although i did but it wasn't compulsory

Same here.

Sometimes I have and sometimes I havn't but I like the choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ive been to a few clubs to and they weren't dress down although i did but it wasn't compulsory

Same here.

Sometimes I have and sometimes I havn't but I like the choice. "
exactly it wouldn't really be in most clubs best interests to insist on dress down would it?

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By *ittyscottCouple
over a year ago

LANCASHIRE

Been to clubs with no dress down policy and hated it. So am happy that no3 club is now dress down on entry xxx

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"I'm new to all this, only had one club visit and it wasn't dress down nor a separation of play area from bar. End result was lots of single men fully clothed all evening watching.

Definitely put us off playing much when you've got a group of fully dressed men standing six inches away. The naked room was a saving grace."

Don’t like the sound of that. Sex tourists?

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By *reeThoughtMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"only had one club visit and it wasn't dress down nor a separation of play area from bar. End result was lots of single men fully clothed all evening watching.

Which club was this ?"

The Attic in Derby.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

I attended on Friday and, as expected, didn’t like the dress down on entry policy. Unlikely I’ll go again. I went as part of a couple, so didn’t feel vulnerable as I would as a single, but I didn’t find it sexy.

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