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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all, i was thinking of going to a club in the next few weeks in Leeds west yorkshire (as this is the nearest one to me, i looked at Quest/ Pandora website and they seem really freindly).

I haven't been to a club before, so am really nervous/ unsure about how things work. I know that there are no guarantees, so i am thinking of just going for a drink/ chat with people who won't judge me. Then that way if nothing else happens i won't be disappointed, but if it dose its a bonus.

Can anyone help me please by recommending either club? Or even just explaining how things work

As well as any general advice would be very welcome

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"Hi all, i was thinking of going to a club in the next few weeks in Leeds west yorkshire (as this is the nearest one to me, i looked at Quest/ Pandora website and they seem really freindly).

I haven't been to a club before, so am really nervous/ unsure about how things work. I know that there are no guarantees, so i am thinking of just going for a drink/ chat with people who won't judge me. Then that way if nothing else happens i won't be disappointed, but if it dose its a bonus.

Can anyone help me please by recommending either club? Or even just explaining how things work

As well as any general advice would be very welcome"

I haven't been to either of the club's you mention, but regarding general advise I would suggest:

Check the website about dress code and make an effort.

Smile and sit near the bar or Jacuzzi and chat . Just introduce yourself and ask if it's ok to talk for a few minutes as you are there on your own.

Talk to everyone, whether male, female or both people in a couple being polite and friendly.

Don't follow people about or touch anyone.

Don't drink too much and avoid anyone that appears d*unk.

Flirting and flattery should be light hearted and fun.

Enjoy the social side of the club and just see how it goes.

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

I've been to quest and it's lovely and clean too just let the staff know it's ur first time they'll look after you you'll be fine xxx

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By *andS33Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Have a look at what events are on at each club, some nights have guest lists where membership isn't required.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same but down south.

Never been to a club but after speaking to others on here it seems they're very enjoyable.

2020 is my year, so watch out! Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm the same but down south.

Never been to a club but after speaking to others on here it seems they're very enjoyable.

2020 is my year, so watch out! Hahaha"

I would love to try a club one night but being single I'd be a bit nervous. That and knowing what clubs are worth a visit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both have their own individual aspects Pandora's is a much bigger club than quest but can seem a cold atmosphere if there are not many people in but if there is an event on it can certainly be buzzing. Quest much smaller and more intimate but with a healthy amount of different rooms and options. If you go with no expectations to either club and approach people in a respectful way then you will be fine. Enjoy Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm the same but down south.

Never been to a club but after speaking to others on here it seems they're very enjoyable.

2020 is my year, so watch out! Hahaha

I would love to try a club one night but being single I'd be a bit nervous. That and knowing what clubs are worth a visit "

Let's go then. We can both get up some Dutch courage beforehand and go in and fuck shit up! Like Goodfellas. Hahahaha

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Pandoras is huge. Quest is much smaller, and on a regular night that's probably better. (I've been to each once)

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I'm the same but down south.

Never been to a club but after speaking to others on here it seems they're very enjoyable.

2020 is my year, so watch out! Hahaha

I would love to try a club one night but being single I'd be a bit nervous. That and knowing what clubs are worth a visit "

One of my lady friends visited a club by herself for the first time a couple of weeks ago, and had an amazing time! She had sex with two guys, and was spunked on by 6 others (something she loves lol). In that one visit, she played with more people than I have out of a total of 17 club visits, including 3 visits when I went as a couple Clubs are great for single women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm the same but down south.

Never been to a club but after speaking to others on here it seems they're very enjoyable.

2020 is my year, so watch out! Hahaha

I would love to try a club one night but being single I'd be a bit nervous. That and knowing what clubs are worth a visit

One of my lady friends visited a club by herself for the first time a couple of weeks ago, and had an amazing time! She had sex with two guys, and was spunked on by 6 others (something she loves lol). In that one visit, she played with more people than I have out of a total of 17 club visits, including 3 visits when I went as a couple Clubs are great for single women "

Lucky girl!

I needs me a visit!

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Hi all, i was thinking of going to a club in the next few weeks in Leeds west yorkshire (as this is the nearest one to me, i looked at Quest/ Pandora website and they seem really freindly).

I haven't been to a club before, so am really nervous/ unsure about how things work. I know that there are no guarantees, so i am thinking of just going for a drink/ chat with people who won't judge me. Then that way if nothing else happens i won't be disappointed, but if it dose its a bonus.

Can anyone help me please by recommending either club? Or even just explaining how things work

As well as any general advice would be very welcome"

There's nothing to be nervous about to be honest its no different from going anywhere else for the first time . They are both decent clubs, although if you visit Pandora's you might want to go on an event night. You'll have to take your own alcohol (which you can leave behind the bar) as they only sell soft drinks. In the social area you can stay dress'ed but in the play area's you'll have do dress down.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I'm the same but down south.

Never been to a club but after speaking to others on here it seems they're very enjoyable.

2020 is my year, so watch out! Hahaha

I would love to try a club one night but being single I'd be a bit nervous. That and knowing what clubs are worth a visit

One of my lady friends visited a club by herself for the first time a couple of weeks ago, and had an amazing time! She had sex with two guys, and was spunked on by 6 others (something she loves lol). In that one visit, she played with more people than I have out of a total of 17 club visits, including 3 visits when I went as a couple Clubs are great for single women

Lucky girl!

I needs me a visit!"

Go for it! Just don’t forget your tits and pussy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the advice its really useful and given me lots to think about.

On a slightly different note, can anyone recomend any cheap hotels in leeds within a reasonable distance of quest or pandora?

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