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By *exySez84 OP Woman
over a year ago

Abingdon

So I’m looking at joining some friends for my very first club experience soon.

Quite nervous to be honest!!!!

Hopefully will be fun and people will be gentle lol

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By *ouble CCouple
over a year ago

Gran Canaria

We are going to Chams on the 24th of Jan. Meeting some people there as well. It's one of our favourite places

very friendly and clean. The facilities are amazing. Hope to see you there! Miss C Xx

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By *exySez84 OP Woman
over a year ago

Abingdon

"We are going to Chams on the 24th of Jan. Meeting some people there as well. It's one of our favourite places

very friendly and clean. The facilities are amazing. Hope to see you there! Miss C Xx "

Ah cool! Yeah my friends have said its fun and relaxed. Just new to this whole thing

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By *ouble CCouple
over a year ago

Gran Canaria

"We are going to Chams on the 24th of Jan. Meeting some people there as well. It's one of our favourite places

very friendly and clean. The facilities are amazing. Hope to see you there! Miss C Xx

Ah cool! Yeah my friends have said its fun and relaxed. Just new to this whole thing"

Very relaxed. And also as naughty as you want it to be. It's a really friendly and diverse place, which makes us happy.

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By *exySez84 OP Woman
over a year ago

Abingdon

Cool

Thanks for the feedback!

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Hi OP

I often go as,a single female and its excellent.

The staff will look out for you.

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By *exySez84 OP Woman
over a year ago

Abingdon

Loving this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your have a great time, Mark is brilliant and very funny, as are all the staff.

The club is clean, great facilities and people tend to be very nice and friendly. Just don’t be afraid to talk and remember no ones forcing anyone to do anything! No means no and just because you talk, doesn’t give them consent!

Single guys tend to be okay, but there are a few idiots, otherwise known as towel zombies or the wanking dead! Just like anywhere...

Have fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been to Chams, I remember my first time there. It can be daunting because it’s quite a big club, and it’s especially exciting on a themed night eg BBW night. I found the people there generally really nice and approachable, I’m sure you’ll have no trouble coming out of your shell when you are there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll be absolutely fine. In our experience, single women are especially looked after so just go and relax and have fun.

Bear in mind that on Mondays, they cater for the bi community.

Enjoy

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By *exySez84 OP Woman
over a year ago

Abingdon

Thanks all

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"We are going to Chams on the 24th of Jan. Meeting some people there as well. It's one of our favourite places

very friendly and clean. The facilities are amazing. Hope to see you there! Miss C Xx "

Wasn't quite so clean last time we were there lol

Was the Saturday Christmas Party evening and packed

In the couples room at one point, and I lent put my hand at the back of the cushion on the large bed/play area and someone had stuffed a couple of used condoms

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"So I’m looking at joining some friends for my very first club experience soon.

Quite nervous to be honest!!!!

Hopefully will be fun and people will be gentle lol

I'd recommend Chameleons in terms of a 'first time experience'. I've been to several clubs and this was the least intimidating to visit. Have pm'd you!

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"We are going to Chams on the 24th of Jan. Meeting some people there as well. It's one of our favourite places

very friendly and clean. The facilities are amazing. Hope to see you there! Miss C Xx

Wasn't quite so clean last time we were there lol

Was the Saturday Christmas Party evening and packed

In the couples room at one point, and I lent put my hand at the back of the cushion on the large bed/play area and someone had stuffed a couple of used condoms

That's not really something that the staff can control though.

They aren't going to pop in and out of the couples room, might be a little disconcerting

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By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

You'll love Chams. In our opinion the best club anywhere

Enjoy! X

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By *eviantdeeliteCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"We are going to Chams on the 24th of Jan. Meeting some people there as well. It's one of our favourite places

very friendly and clean. The facilities are amazing. Hope to see you there! Miss C Xx

Wasn't quite so clean last time we were there lol

Was the Saturday Christmas Party evening and packed

In the couples room at one point, and I lent put my hand at the back of the cushion on the large bed/play area and someone had stuffed a couple of used condoms

That's not really something that the staff can control though.

They aren't going to pop in and out of the couples room, might be a little disconcerting

No, I know that hence it was not really a complaint...just saying that when it is busier then there can be more people that are less than polite with their used "products"

It was standing room only and a queue to get in there..

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"We are going to Chams on the 24th of Jan. Meeting some people there as well. It's one of our favourite places

very friendly and clean. The facilities are amazing. Hope to see you there! Miss C Xx

Wasn't quite so clean last time we were there lol

Was the Saturday Christmas Party evening and packed

In the couples room at one point, and I lent put my hand at the back of the cushion on the large bed/play area and someone had stuffed a couple of used condoms

That's not really something that the staff can control though.

They aren't going to pop in and out of the couples room, might be a little disconcerting

No, I know that hence it was not really a complaint...just saying that when it is busier then there can be more people that are less than polite with their used "products"

It was standing room only and a queue to get in there..

It was the same on the Friday night too.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"We are going to Chams on the 24th of Jan. Meeting some people there as well. It's one of our favourite places

very friendly and clean. The facilities are amazing. Hope to see you there! Miss C Xx

Wasn't quite so clean last time we were there lol

Was the Saturday Christmas Party evening and packed

In the couples room at one point, and I lent put my hand at the back of the cushion on the large bed/play area and someone had stuffed a couple of used condoms

That's not really something that the staff can control though.

They aren't going to pop in and out of the couples room, might be a little disconcerting

No, I know that hence it was not really a complaint...just saying that when it is busier then there can be more people that are less than polite with their used "products"

It was standing room only and a queue to get in there..

It was the same on the Friday night too."

Packed that is,

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By *eachyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Chams. NYE. x

You’ll love it.

It was our first Club experience. And 10 years later we are still making the effort to get there a few times a year. Jan 31st for us. Can’t wait.

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By *etamourMan
over a year ago

York

"You'll love Chams. In our opinion the best club anywhere

Enjoy! X"

I totally agree. Used to go there a lot with my wife. However never been as a single guy.....I can only imagine it's not as much fun as a couple. As a single fem you will be very well looked after OP. Have a great time x

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By *orkshirefucktruck2Couple
over a year ago

barnsley

We are heavy clubbers and go allover but this is our favourite,we love it and wouldn't change it one bit xx

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By *exySez84 OP Woman
over a year ago

Abingdon

Cheers all x

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By *wing66Couple
over a year ago

Burton-upon-trent

You will be fine, Chams is a really friendly place. No pressure to play and the bar staff are really good.

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By *exySez84 OP Woman
over a year ago

Abingdon

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The staff are great there and those Ive met have been friendly and fun.Couples and singles will chat with you, not leaving you on your own and they tend to be easy going. You wont be short of admirers from both couples and singles.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"So I’m looking at joining some friends for my very first club experience soon.

Quite nervous to be honest!!!!

Hopefully will be fun and people will be gentle lol

I found the bar area one of the most relaxing parts of all the clubs I’ve been to, it was so liberating to just chill out dressed down, and chat with other people. The ‘bus stop’ on the stairs landing was also a great place to hang out. The dance floor zone wasn’t for me or my lady friend, but it depends what you’re looking for/what mood you’re in I guess. The most memorable part of our evening there was my friend’s first fem-fem play while we were in the couples room

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By *exySez84 OP Woman
over a year ago

Abingdon

Brilliant.

Not done any ff stuff so not sure what I’ll think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

31st of jan and 1st of Feb we will be there..

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By *exySez84 OP Woman
over a year ago

Abingdon

Its also a trek for me as well which is my other concern!!!

Maybe I’ll drive up the first time and come home that night too

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By *ouble CCouple
over a year ago

Gran Canaria

"Its also a trek for me as well which is my other concern!!!

Maybe I’ll drive up the first time and come home that night too"

We usually stay over. There are room at Chams which are cheap but quite good to rest your head. We usually stay at a local hotel. Miss C Xx

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By *exySez84 OP Woman
over a year ago

Abingdon

I have dogs at home. Wonder how I can ask unknowing friends to keep an eye on them

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

London

It's a great club, and I'm delighted to confirm that single guys there are usually well behaved - some of them are a bit 'odd' (LOL) but that's it! The hot tubs are great and there are a wide variety of play rooms/ areas - although (almost just as) importantly the bar and socialising areas are great too, and the staff are lovely. Have a great time!

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By *ouble CCouple
over a year ago

Gran Canaria

"I have dogs at home. Wonder how I can ask unknowing friends to keep an eye on them

Lol. Just say you're away overnight and could they pop in. Nothing more.

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By *exySez84 OP Woman
over a year ago

Abingdon

Anyone know what the entry is for a lady as well?

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By *ouble CCouple
over a year ago

Gran Canaria

"Anyone know what the entry is for a lady as well?"

Lifetime membership for a lady is £10.00. Not sure about the entry price though. Only been as a couple.

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By *exySez84 OP Woman
over a year ago

Abingdon

Perfect, you lot are all tempting me

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Perfect, you lot are all tempting me

You'll never go wrong with Chams as a first visit to a club. Staff are probably the friendliest and there are areas where just about everyone can feel relaxed and confident. You won't be on your own for long looking that good. Have a great time!

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By *exySez84 OP Woman
over a year ago

Abingdon

Ha ha thanks!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Entry is £8 for a single female, I'm on my way there now

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By *exySez84 OP Woman
over a year ago

Abingdon

Ooooo enjoy!!!

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By *peasinapod1Couple
over a year ago

dublin

We’re hoping to go Saturday week the 11th . It will be our first time also .. is it a dress down straight away club ??

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"We’re hoping to go Saturday week the 11th . It will be our first time also .. is it a dress down straight away club ?? "

Yes it is folks. It's either sexy underwear or a towel for the ladies (they have different sizes depending how much you want to cover up) and a towel or shorts for the fellas.

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By *ethefabtwoCouple
over a year ago

coventry

Anyone been on the nude night? I think it's on Tuesdays?

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

"We’re hoping to go Saturday week the 11th . It will be our first time also .. is it a dress down straight away club ?? "

We'll be there, it's 90s theme so optional dress but it's a dressdown straight away club. Daytime I wear bikini or costume, nighttime lingerie, hubby swimshorts or boxers

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By *raig07Man
over a year ago

East of Birmingham

Yes been on nude night, starts at 6pm. It’s fun and relaxing, last time I went it wasn’t too busy quite a few couples and a few single men.

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By *exySez84 OP Woman
over a year ago

Abingdon

I’m still debating lol

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By *appy69coupleCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

we love chams but it does get busy so we tend to go on whiter nights like Sunday, Monday (bi night) and Tuesday (naked night)

we'll be there tomorrow (sunday) night.

if any couples/single ladies match us, and want to tag along anytime, we will happily show you the ropes x

single guys - we only play with bi guys sorry x we do play straight with straight guys in couples. x

Gary and Penny x

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By *ude boy 2017Man
over a year ago

Bolton

I would love to try nude night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does any body know what chams is like on a Saturday day time?

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Does any body know what chams is like on a Saturday day time?"

We've been and it was fairly quiet tbh.

Friday nights are the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we prefer chams even more so on a monday when we are both off work otherwise we cannot do a monday together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does any body know what chams is like on a Saturday day time?

We've been and it was fairly quiet tbh.

Friday nights are the best."

I do normally go on a Friday tbf but I might meet a couple there today so I just wanted to know what it is like!!

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By *exySez84 OP Woman
over a year ago

Abingdon

I think I’m planning this eve. Try it without loads of single males first off. This place has scared me already lol

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I think I’m planning this eve. Try it without loads of single males first off. This place has scared me already lol"

Chams is probably the least scary place I've seen. Be aware of the potential for one or two people not behaving as they should, but go straight to the staff if so. Most people who go are decent folk.

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By *exySez84 OP Woman
over a year ago

Abingdon

Yeah will be with friends so they will guide me lol

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By *arry On ShaggingCouple
over a year ago

Betley

"Does any body know what chams is like on a Saturday day time?

We've been and it was fairly quiet tbh.

Friday nights are the best.

I do normally go on a Friday tbf but I might meet a couple there today so I just wanted to know what it is like!!"

Are you already a member?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does any body know what chams is like on a Saturday day time?

We've been and it was fairly quiet tbh.

Friday nights are the best.

I do normally go on a Friday tbf but I might meet a couple there today so I just wanted to know what it is like!!

Are you already a member?"

Yes I am a member it's not easy for single males to get into the club if you ain't a member!!

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By *arry On ShaggingCouple
over a year ago

Betley

"Does any body know what chams is like on a Saturday day time?

We've been and it was fairly quiet tbh.

Friday nights are the best.

I do normally go on a Friday tbf but I might meet a couple there today so I just wanted to know what it is like!!

Are you already a member?

Yes I am a member it's not easy for single males to get into the club if you ain't a member!!"

That's exactly why we asked

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By *exySez84 OP Woman
over a year ago

Abingdon

I’m nervous lol

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

"I’m nervous lol"

You will love chams! I often go on my own, you won’t look back!

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By *exySez84 OP Woman
over a year ago

Abingdon

I get proper anxiety at the best of times. Just me being silly and have never been to a club lol

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Yeah will be with friends so they will guide me lol"

That's cool. Have a brilliant time!

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By *ouble CCouple
over a year ago

Gran Canaria

"I get proper anxiety at the best of times. Just me being silly and have never been to a club lol"

Honestly I still get nervous going to clubs and parties and I've been swinging for 5 years, one year as a single.

Best advice is breathe.

Stick to your gut feelings.

Don't feel pressure.

Have fun. As much or as little as you want. That first trip is always scary, once you get it done, you'll love it.

Miss C Xx

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By *rGandBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Rugby

We are regulars there. Friday can be a bit full On with the single guys there but it's still great. Saturdays are a great day to start as it's ladies and couples only. We are there tonight and a few more planned. The first time we went we watched and chatted. There's no pressure to do anything, but the opportunity to do anything, x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're going tonight.

Spur of the moment decision or as near to it with the time taken to get ready!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m planning g on a trip Thursday... day/eve session for some chill time.

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By *exySez84 OP Woman
over a year ago

Abingdon

Definitely an experience and one I thoroughly enjoyed!!

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