FabSwingers.com forum: New couples First Club visit

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So i know it's 2 months out, but we we have managed to arrange sitters and we are going to our first club on the 7th March (Liberty Elite)

We are both very nerves about it, but we will hopefully booking a room there to so we can have a few drinks too.

Please has any couples got advice on what to expert and what to wear.

Thank in advance

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By *aughty Lovers 69Man
over a year ago

Wallasey

Never been to that club, but treat it as any other night out, except you can wear as little or as much as you want, and you can be dirty or as social as you want xx

Go and have fun with no expectations and I'm sure you will have a great time xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ok thank you

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

(Lou) we went to a club for the first time about 3 months ago. I was quite nervous as had never been to one before, Ray had told me bits and bobs about his experience from a few years ago so had a bit of an idea.

I went in doing out clothes and took some lingerie in a bag in case I was brave enough to change into, which I did.

I loved it, there was no pressure to play and the people were friendly. We are going for our 3rd time on the 28th and cant wait x

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"Never been to that club, but treat it as any other night out, except you can wear as little or as much as you want, and you can be dirty or as social as you want xx

Go and have fun with no expectations and I'm sure you will have a great time xx

This!!

My suggestion for clothes is something you feel comfortable but sexy in. I lean towards a babydoll, they’re comfy & flattering.

Boxers are fine for guys - not white, they’re unforgiving if you spill a drink etc

. Smart black ones are fine.

And treat it like any social event - be yourselves, chat, socialise, dance, have a drink or two ... and most of all enjoy it!!

Good luck guys! Will watch out for an update how you get on!

M xx

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By *onglegs888Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Libs is s great club, best in the kids in our opinion.

- dress as if going to a smart city centre bar. Sexy dress for F, smart shirt/jacket for M

- don’t drink too much. Being too d*unk only ends in tears lol.

The rest feel free to message

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you all for the comments, i know its a few months away but will update after, or even if we get the opportunity to go sooner.

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

Where is this club?

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By *wesomeLolaCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Buckinghamshire

We like Libs a lot. We were there last Saturday with another couple and we also stayed over. The rooms there are lovely.

It was quite a good night, reasonably busy in the bar early on and in the hot tub later. It was the sexy red party and people had made an effort.

It's a very friendly place and no pressure to play if you don't want to. If you dress down later you can wear lingerie/underwear, just a towel, or nothing at all, anywhere in the club, even on the dance floor if that's what you fancy.

Enjoy it when you go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading your profile, you have a good approach, know your boundaries and above all, communicate with each other constantly. It’s very hard to not have expectations, but aim just to have a sexy time together and enjoy the scenery and anything else is a bonus!

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We attend Libs regularly. We absolutely love the place. You have nothing to be nervous about it's such a lovely club. Very friendly staff and we have made some good friends there.

Happy to say hello if we see you there x

Mrs N x

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By *rank speakerMan
over a year ago

Worcester

"So i know it's 2 months out, but we we have managed to arrange sitters and we are going to our first club on the 7th March (Liberty Elite)

We are both very nerves about it, but we will hopefully booking a room there to so we can have a few drinks too.

Please has any couples got advice on what to expert and what to wear.

Thank in advance"

I recently took complete novice lady friend to a club, I can't speak for your particular selected club but I'm sure if you find time to call them beforehand they'll be more than happy to advise on dress code! Generally speaking you'll find the staff really helpful at these venues and hopefully your fellow patrons on your selected night. Maybe we were lucky, but we met some lovely people who patiently chatted to my new friend and made her feel so comfortable she can't wait to get back... This from someone who'd never been to anything before and was terrified by the whole prospect beforehand! If you're still feeling nervous maybe find someone whose been before and meet them in your normal comfort zone and ask them to accompany you as a guide?

Good luck and enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you all for all the comments, we are both looking forward to going.

Does anyone know how quick the place gets booked up and how early you have to book a room.

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