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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi All,

We are a couple looking for a single girl which unfortunately seems rather difficult to find definitely not as easy as I thought would be. Venturing into idea of attending clubs to hopefully meet someone. But have no idea best ones that are more likely to attract more single girls than couples. We are in Essex

Thanks

Bella x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone got any club advice?

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

Have a look see what events are on there's normally a couples and single ladies night's cupids is a travel for you I see check out the club reviews too see what other people make of it hope this helps xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have a look see what events are on there's normally a couples and single ladies night's cupids is a travel for you I see check out the club reviews too see what other people make of it hope this helps xx"

Thanks for replying I’ll check out reviews and that club thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It a a bit of a catch 22. As a couple it's difficult. if you attend on a singles night there's usually more single males to contend with . If you attend on a couples only night most of the single ladies I know don't attend these nights as they feel like a play thing for couples.. This is why they get the name unicorn. As unicorns are very difficult to find

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It a a bit of a catch 22. As a couple it's difficult. if you attend on a singles night there's usually more single males to contend with . If you attend on a couples only night most of the single ladies I know don't attend these nights as they feel like a play thing for couples.. This is why they get the name unicorn. As unicorns are very difficult to find "

I know when we first started looking hadn’t heard of them referred to as unicorns. We thought it would be very easy to find a girl to join us but that’s not been the case it seems impossible ??.... but we will keep looking that’s why we won’t to try and target the clubs that might have a few more girls attend so we give ourselves a bit more a chance in finding what we are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went to an event at Le boudoir and there was a fair few single girls that we played with, but really if you want a single girl then it’s a couple. You don’t have to full swing and you can even stipulate its just for the girls and no cross playing. Personally for us, full swap is THE best!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We went to an event at Le boudoir and there was a fair few single girls that we played with, but really if you want a single girl then it’s a couple. You don’t have to full swing and you can even stipulate its just for the girls and no cross playing. Personally for us, full swap is THE best! "

Just not our thing. I'm hugely happy with my guy.....just an eye for the ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We went to an event at Le boudoir and there was a fair few single girls that we played with, but really if you want a single girl then it’s a couple. You don’t have to full swing and you can even stipulate its just for the girls and no cross playing. Personally for us, full swap is THE best!

Just not our thing. I'm hugely happy with my guy.....just an eye for the ladies "

I thought that a year ago too. But In all honesty it’s made us hugely closer x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"We went to an event at Le boudoir and there was a fair few single girls that we played with, but really if you want a single girl then it’s a couple. You don’t have to full swing and you can even stipulate its just for the girls and no cross playing. Personally for us, full swap is THE best!

Just not our thing. I'm hugely happy with my guy.....just an eye for the ladies "

You’re looking for a very narrow section of the swinging community, but a club is likely to be your best bet.

Couples & single female nights are a great starting point & most clubs will run these events.

Don’t rule things out though ... when you get in a club environment & you meet people you click with, you never know what experiences you may get the chance to try ... but make sure you’re both comfortable with things

Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Each of us are different, but couples isn’t our thing. Not saying it’s wrong, just not for us

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By *rufinWoman
over a year ago

notts

Don't rule out other websites ..even tinder. And normal non-swinging clubs. A lot of women are up for a one-off if they feel safe and like you both

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't rule out other websites ..even tinder. And normal non-swinging clubs. A lot of women are up for a one-off if they feel safe and like you both "

We are on Tinder and Bumble. Only problem is, they are choc full of guys masquerading as girls hoping to get pics! We were a bit unaware of it at first but have our wats now of telling if they are genuine!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ways*

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Purple Mamba has a good reputation for being a great place for single women to attend and thus plenty do. So could be worth a try maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, we are also a couple from Essex looking for them dam unicorns lol, we never thought it would be this hard to find them either, we are going to try LB this week

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi, we are also a couple from Essex looking for them dam unicorns lol, we never thought it would be this hard to find them either, we are going to try LB this week "

They are rare indeed. I totally get it, must be daunting, a girl joining an established couple! We all look rather lovely though!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear your having difficulty finding a lady.

In all honesty which ever club you go to theres no guarentees of who or how many of any sex will actually turn up on the night.

As a single lady on here veris are important to us as safety first always as im sure you can understand personally i prefer to meet couples that will both be playing with me ... it does limit your chances a little when its play with one half only! But thats just my preference x

Lots of ladies prefer and only meet in clubs for the safety reason. I host at SX in blackpool. You are always welcome to one of my uvp (ultra violet parties) or any other night at the club xx

Good luck in your quest to find your unicorn.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Anyone got any club advice? "

Far easier to use Fab for private meets with Unicorns, as others have said, the club scene isn't as attractive for single females, when they have an inbox bursting at the seams......

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

If ever up in the Manchester area come.give cupids a try x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If ever up in the Manchester area come.give cupids a try x"

Cupid's is on our list! We may see you there!x

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By *hatHappensNextCouple
over a year ago

Essex, near basildon

Lots of us want the elusive unicorn but they do exist, just need to keep looking and others have said, vrificaations will help.

As for clubs, it’s hit and miss but what you may find is that some couples are happy to let the girls play or if like us, my hubby is happy for mr to play with a couple at a club.

Come to the VA tonight and take a chance lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Purple Mamba has a good reputation for being a great place for single women to attend and thus plenty do. So could be worth a try maybe?"

Where is this?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi, we are also a couple from Essex looking for them dam unicorns lol, we never thought it would be this hard to find them either, we are going to try LB this week "

How was LB many there?

Where is that?

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By *rent Bridge SwingersCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Purple Mamba is in Nottingham, feel free to have a look at our website and ask any questions via DM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you looking for just girl fun or three way fun? Sorry a bit confused lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We went to an event at Le boudoir and there was a fair few single girls that we played with, but really if you want a single girl then it’s a couple. You don’t have to full swing and you can even stipulate its just for the girls and no cross playing. Personally for us, full swap is THE best!

Just not our thing. I'm hugely happy with my guy.....just an eye for the ladies "

Don’t you secretly fancy being spit roasted then?

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me


"If ever up in the Manchester area come.give cupids a try x

Cupid's is on our list! We may see you there!x"

I'm always there be hard to miss me lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Purple Mamba is in Nottingham, feel free to have a look at our website and ask any questions via DM"

Great thanks, I’ll check out their site

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you looking for just girl fun or three way fun? Sorry a bit confused lol "

We are a couple looking for a single girl to join us. Or if a girl is in a couple but allowed to come and play separately then would be cool hearing from them as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We went to an event at Le boudoir and there was a fair few single girls that we played with, but really if you want a single girl then it’s a couple. You don’t have to full swing and you can even stipulate its just for the girls and no cross playing. Personally for us, full swap is THE best!

Just not our thing. I'm hugely happy with my guy.....just an eye for the ladies

Don’t you secretly fancy being spit roasted then? "

Nope personally I have no interest at all in any other man. But each person is different that’s how I feel just want my man. But I like ladies so want one to join us for some fun.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"Hi All,

We are a couple looking for a single girl which unfortunately seems rather difficult to find definitely not as easy as I thought would be. Venturing into idea of attending clubs to hopefully meet someone. But have no idea best ones that are more likely to attract more single girls than couples. We are in Essex

Thanks

Bella x"
. If you can travel to North London then OP4F on a Saturday 10.00 pm to 5.00 am is couples and single girls with 5 select guys allowed in at midnight.I appreciate you are not looking for guys but I have attended on a Saturday and I chatted with a couple where the lady was looking for a girl to play with and was able to find her there.Also on various Thursdays they have themed events like glam nites which are just for couples and single ladies.Have a look at their reviews here on Fabs and their website.Best of luck with your search.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We went to an event at Le boudoir and there was a fair few single girls that we played with, but really if you want a single girl then it’s a couple. You don’t have to full swing and you can even stipulate its just for the girls and no cross playing. Personally for us, full swap is THE best!

Just not our thing. I'm hugely happy with my guy.....just an eye for the ladies

Don’t you secretly fancy being spit roasted then?

Nope personally I have no interest at all in any other man. But each person is different that’s how I feel just want my man. But I like ladies so want one to join us for some fun."

How about just playing 1-2-1 with a lady on your own? Alternatively just hire an escort

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi All,

We are a couple looking for a single girl which unfortunately seems rather difficult to find definitely not as easy as I thought would be. Venturing into idea of attending clubs to hopefully meet someone. But have no idea best ones that are more likely to attract more single girls than couples. We are in Essex

Thanks

Bella x. If you can travel to North London then OP4F on a Saturday 10.00 pm to 5.00 am is couples and single girls with 5 select guys allowed in at midnight.I appreciate you are not looking for guys but I have attended on a Saturday and I chatted with a couple where the lady was looking for a girl to play with and was able to find her there.Also on various Thursdays they have themed events like glam nites which are just for couples and single ladies.Have a look at their reviews here on Fabs and their website.Best of luck with your search."

Will do thanks for the info

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We went to an event at Le boudoir and there was a fair few single girls that we played with, but really if you want a single girl then it’s a couple. You don’t have to full swing and you can even stipulate its just for the girls and no cross playing. Personally for us, full swap is THE best!

Just not our thing. I'm hugely happy with my guy.....just an eye for the ladies

Don’t you secretly fancy being spit roasted then?

Nope personally I have no interest at all in any other man. But each person is different that’s how I feel just want my man. But I like ladies so want one to join us for some fun.

How about just playing 1-2-1 with a lady on your own? Alternatively just hire an escort"

I was thinking about just the two ladies meeting! I have a friend who would love to meet with you but she wouldn't be interested in your other half in the slightest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We went to an event at Le boudoir and there was a fair few single girls that we played with, but really if you want a single girl then it’s a couple. You don’t have to full swing and you can even stipulate its just for the girls and no cross playing. Personally for us, full swap is THE best!

Just not our thing. I'm hugely happy with my guy.....just an eye for the ladies

Don’t you secretly fancy being spit roasted then?

Nope personally I have no interest at all in any other man. But each person is different that’s how I feel just want my man. But I like ladies so want one to join us for some fun.

How about just playing 1-2-1 with a lady on your own? Alternatively just hire an escort"

Don’t want just to be with a women on my own want my man there as well. I’ll ignore your Escort comment think that bit nasty!! I’m not looking to pay for sex! We want to meet a girl who wants to join us not who is being paid to have to be with us!!

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