FabSwingers.com forum: lack of Guy on Guy action

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We see plenty of action between couples and girl on girl.

Can't help but notice we haven't seen any guy on guy action at the clubs we've been to. Is there a reason ?

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By *ewBurtonMan
over a year ago

Derby

I guess it’s where you go and on what night ?

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By *igzag1Man
over a year ago

hartlepool

I find a lot of men won't admit they like cock

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There are clubs who host guys only events but on a typical Saturday night in a club. When you take into account how many guys there are some must like cock play but you never see anything yet you do see girls playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've heard that people frown upon it, when it isn't a designated bi night. Women can do it whenever they want apparently.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sounds like double standards. There shouldn't need to be a designated bi night. We should be able to play with whoever takes our fancy after all girl on girl is ok.

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

Bi women are applauded. Bi men are lauded

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By *ulgehunterMan
over a year ago

yorkshire

"I find a lot of men won't admit they like cock"
I like cock lol

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

It's not very well received on nights other than those designed for it. While it's not something I'd enjoy. I would just take myself off to watch something else.

But then my local club is quite inclusive at all times and I've learned to just look the other way x

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By *anni and RicCouple
over a year ago

York

Its pretty much always bi night when we go to a club. I just pop on some backless pants...it usually does the trick! Also really love how many people actually get off on watching guys play x

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By *ams12345Man
over a year ago

london

Blizzard events has a lot of guy on guy action

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By *i Naughty CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"I find a lot of men won't admit they like cockI like cock lol"

I like men who like cock! Ha ha I want to see it more too

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Make sure you are going to the club online male on male play is acceptable, most clubs and bi and trans friendly nights

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By *ucksguy2000Man
over a year ago

aylesbury

I like cock and pussy, Arousals Bi night is good for guy on guy, give it a try

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

from my experience, girl on girl is accepted more readily and the girls like to put on a bit of a show.

guy on guy even at a bi night have been shouted at by guys, and I guess if it is done, its away from eyes

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By *werty38Man
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"I've heard that people frown upon it, when it isn't a designated bi night. Women can do it whenever they want apparently.

This is how I was lead to believe it worked too. I have always plaid along with the in written rule as not to offend anyone.

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"I find a lot of men won't admit they like cockI like cock lol

I like men who like cock! Ha ha I want to see it more too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the clubs i have attended all had fun in the dark rooms full on fucking but none on view.

tv's get played with alot,

at the bi fun club one guy was getting hard fucked on a bed with others watching ohh just remembered that was me, i enjoy being watched so open ass play is ok with me

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By *ung_londonMan
over a year ago

London

"We see plenty of action between couples and girl on girl.

Can't help but notice we haven't seen any guy on guy action at the clubs we've been to. Is there a reason ? "

It definitely depends on the club and the night - in part that’s about the chemistry of who is there, even on a designated Bi-Night. The best nights I’ve been to have worked hard on getting the right combination of party goers (and I have to flag up Spicyminx’s parties as great examples of how to make that work). As other threads on here have explored, there does seem to be more of a taboo around bi-male activity than bi-female. So in my experience bi guys can be cautious about showing interest in a club setting - being bi-shy, you might say. (And if both parties are being super cautious, no-one even knows the interest is there!)

Plus I think for some bi-curious guys the ideal (at least at first) is to explore discreetly and as if it ‘just happened in the heat off the moment’, which can be tricky in the environment of a club where you may feel observed and where there are (rightly) expectations that explicit consent is sought. The step to openly acknowledge that it’s an interest is still quite a big one to take for some people.

I’ve said before on here that it’s not unusual to get a message after a night from a guy who said he was intrigued at an event but didn’t feel he could show that. Interestingly it’s often the wife or girlfriend who encourages a guy to make a move - assuming they have talked about it and are comfortable with the whole idea before coming along to the club.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I've always got the impression (as ironic as it sounds) guy on guy action if still a bit taboo on normal club nights in the open. Hense why the need for specific bi nights (from what I can see actually mean bi guy nights as every night is bi girl night). Very rare you see guy on guy action in open/viewable spaces in a club. Although I have seen more of going on recently. I suppose it's kind of reflection on attitudes in the wider world. Its definitely not due to a shortage of bi/bi-playful guys on a normal night. Me and my partner tend to talk to many guys as part of a couple and single guys who are bi. Alas it has totally no appeal to me. But seeing guy on guy action to me is like water of a ducks back to me. It doesn't bother me and its lovely just to see people being free and having fun. But I just get the feeling it's still something taboo and frowned upon in the open. And because of peoples attitude (or perception of) guy on guy action tends to happen behind closed doors.

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By *hades of FunMan
over a year ago

Hitchin

Interesting topic. I'm most definitely BI and a regular attendee at the VA Milf Club which is held every other Weds which I would thoroughly recommend btw. The other week I met a bi guy and we had some nice orally bi fun in open view of everyone. Although I was enjoying myself I actually feIt a little uncomfortable as the the event was not promoted as a male bi event. The reaction was also interesting .. the ladies were really intrigued and found it erotic to watch and even encouraged us whereas some of the guys looked at us with some disapproval .. although I'm sure there were others who would of liked to have joined in.

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