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What do you wish people had told you before?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you wish people had told you or wish you had known, before visiting a club for the first time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a Hair brush

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I should have gone the week before, because the place was filled with single women........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you wish people had told you or wish you had known, before visiting a club for the first time?"

Only do what you two are both comfortable with on the night. If you drink alcohol then either of you may become less inhibited on the night and that is okay as long as you can both laugh it off and enjoy the next morning when sober.

An example is when we started, we were visiting Vanilla Alternative in Bedford and Mrs Z said she didn’t want to play with others that night and only between ourselves. We had a few drinks and a bit less weary. Whilst playing with each other, Mrs Z pounced on this male playing in the open room and just let herself go. I didn’t mind, and loved seeing her free and she didn’t mind breaking our ‘playing with each other only’ rule and found it a turn on.

Rules are there because of nerves and not just justified boundaries. Be honest where you can though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That it’s not full of super model, sex crazed freaks but just normal people

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

I wish another club owner would have told us before we took on Townhouse in 2012 that it would take 90-100 hours out of your week and would completely kill your swinging mojo in the end lol

People think that when the club closes, we all take our staff badges off and run wild naked around the club and fuck in every room. In reality, after picking up used condoms, changing dripping sheets, serving 130 people drinks and made sure everyone is happy, the last thing you want to do is play! I just need a hot shower and my bed! Lol

I love Townhouse and everyone in it but it's aged me!!! Hahaha

As for advice I would have liked before my first club visit in 2004...don't play with people who have been drinking heavily. I can't tell you hoe many times couples we've played with have had an argument after play or pushed their boundaries and fallen out. So, nowadays we don't play with people who like to have a good bevvie before playing.

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool


"I wish another club owner would have told us before we took on Townhouse in 2012 that it would take 90-100 hours out of your week and would completely kill your swinging mojo in the end lol

People think that when the club closes, we all take our staff badges off and run wild naked around the club and fuck in every room. In reality, after picking up used condoms, changing dripping sheets, serving 130 people drinks and made sure everyone is happy, the last thing you want to do is play! I just need a hot shower and my bed! Lol

I love Townhouse and everyone in it but it's aged me!!! Hahaha

As for advice I would have liked before my first club visit in 2004...don't play with people who have been drinking heavily. I can't tell you hoe many times couples we've played with have had an argument after play or pushed their boundaries and fallen out. So, nowadays we don't play with people who like to have a good bevvie before playing. "

*how*

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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago

walsall

Wear something easy to get in and out of if planning on going in the jacuzzi

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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago

West Kent (near Tonbridge)


"I should have gone the week before, because the place was filled with single women........ "

Haha, I hear that kind of thing often too

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Bit difficult as not all clubs are the same.

But in general I'd wished people had told me how much of a good time I would have and interesting people I'd meet. Why did it take till the age 33 to discover the club scene?

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By *wing66Couple
over a year ago

Burton-upon-trent

I wasn't told its acceptable to walk around with cock in hand, having a good tug behind couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bit difficult as not all clubs are the same.

But in general I'd wished people had told me how much of a good time I would have and interesting people I'd meet. Why did it take till the age 33 to discover the club scene?"

Same here, I was 40

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

Go commando, you know it makes sense in retrospect!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol thanks for the advice.

I was wondering about the commando thing, after all won't I just lose my pants anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you wish people had told you or wish you had known, before visiting a club for the first time?"
how much it really coats to get in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was telling my partner he's just with me for the discount.

And the boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish another club owner would have told us before we took on Townhouse in 2012 that it would take 90-100 hours out of your week and would completely kill your swinging mojo in the end lol

People think that when the club closes, we all take our staff badges off and run wild naked around the club and fuck in every room. In reality, after picking up used condoms, changing dripping sheets, serving 130 people drinks and made sure everyone is happy, the last thing you want to do is play! I just need a hot shower and my bed! Lol

I love Townhouse and everyone in it but it's aged me!!! Hahaha

As for advice I would have liked before my first club visit in 2004...don't play with people who have been drinking heavily. I can't tell you hoe many times couples we've played with have had an argument after play or pushed their boundaries and fallen out. So, nowadays we don't play with people who like to have a good bevvie before playing.

*how* "

We hardly drink and now don’t go near couples where they drink a lot, too much hassle and is neither a turn in or conducive to a good play, problem is the scene is getting more and more skewed towards party nights where people drink and maybe dance most of the night and then have a d*unken late night fumble, it’s not swinging

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton


"Lol thanks for the advice.

I was wondering about the commando thing, after all won't I just lose my pants anyway "

Hopefully But when it is time to part, trying to find pants and or socks in a room with low lighting, and lots of different action still going on is time consuming, and somehow impolite in ways. Plus other horror stories!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they wore Bridget Jones pants omg

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