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BMFC Xtasia or Dark Desires Libs?

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By *ideandvibe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Apologies if this has been discussed at length before, our first thread so please be gentle

We’re thinking that a club night, most likely now in January due to family and Christmas run-up commitments, is the next step in our little Fab journey. Hannah is developing quite an interest in dark gentlemen and so a BBC themed event would suit us perfectly.

Xtasia and Libs both seem fairly easy for us to travel to, Libs slightly more so.

Excuse our slight ignorance (!) but BMFC parties seem very overtly to advertise what we’re after, but Dark Desires and particularly Libs as a venue does appeal as we’ve heard it’s a very nice place - DD mentions R&B music etc but is it mainly a BBC-orientated event in the same way as BMFC, it have we got the wrong end of the stick as it were?!

Any newbie help would be most appreciated!

Chris and Hannah x

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

The Dark Desires and BMFC parties both attract black men and those who would like to play with them.

I’m not sure either is ‘BBC themed’ (I think that’s what you said) as both parties seem to promote an appreciation of the whole man, not just his cock

But in short, if you’re looking for a black man then you will find many at either of these events. Libs is a nicer venue though.

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By *ideandvibe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Ahh thank you

Sorry, incorrect turn of phrase re “BBC” It’s naturally the whole package H appreciates

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There


"Ahh thank you

Sorry, incorrect turn of phrase re “BBC” It’s naturally the whole package H appreciates "

Of course, don’t we all

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By *ideandvibe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Hehe Miss H certainly does it seems

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By *atureMischiefCouple
over a year ago

Lutterworth

Both parties offer the same theme/vibe so either will give you a similar experience.

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By *ideandvibe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Both parties offer the same theme/vibe so either will give you a similar experience. "

Many thanks

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By *sm81Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire

Think if you are trying a club for the first time libs is the best to go to as its smaller, preference wise it's our favourite place

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By *ideandvibe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BMFC is usually the one which I find more popular to go to.

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By *ideandvibe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Very many thanks. To be honest it fits better with our January plans so we’re seriously looking into it

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By *upboardloveCouple
over a year ago

rugby

I think Dark Desires is a friendlier atmosphere and if it’s your first time then that would definitely be my recommendation

Hopefully see you there xx

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By *ideandvibe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I think Dark Desires is a friendlier atmosphere and if it’s your first time then that would definitely be my recommendation

Hopefully see you there xx"

Thank you We’re certainly considering it! X

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By *arkDesiresPartiesCouple
over a year ago

London

Our aim is to hold parties in great venues with sexy music to Bump n Grind to, and a sexy fun crowd that like to mingle. The parties are interracial in nature, but this means all types of people are welcome. We just love a great party!

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By *ideandvibe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Thank you all for your help!

We think our debut is going to be BMFC at Xtasia, due to Mother Nature and another commitment - Libs certainly appeals massively so I’m sure Dark Desires will happen as soon as we’re able to schedule!

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By *ideandvibe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Application submitted for BMFC Xtasia for 10th Jan eek! Both very excited

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By *assage_noirMan
over a year ago

1The Angel

Have fun at bmfc

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By *iLexieWoman
over a year ago

Wales

I was thinking that it might be fun to go a club by myself but a bit nervous about it. Is it safe ? Lexie xxx

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By *il_MissBMFCWoman
over a year ago

Various Venues Across The UK


"Application submitted for BMFC Xtasia for 10th Jan eek! Both very excited "

We look forward to meeting you both for your first club event!

We would always suggest trying different parties too though

See you at Xtasia next month x

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By *il_MissBMFCWoman
over a year ago

Various Venues Across The UK


"I was thinking that it might be fun to go a club by myself but a bit nervous about it. Is it safe ? Lexie xxx"

My opinion, it’s safer to go to a club alone, than it is to have strangers in your home (or to visit a strangers home!)

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"I was thinking that it might be fun to go a club by myself but a bit nervous about it. Is it safe ? Lexie xxx"

I normally went to clubs by myself. It forces you to talk to people. Never felt unsafe.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Application submitted for BMFC Xtasia for 10th Jan eek! Both very excited "

Have fun. I have attended this before. It was great fun.

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By *ideandvibe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Application submitted for BMFC Xtasia for 10th Jan eek! Both very excited

We look forward to meeting you both for your first club event!

We would always suggest trying different parties too though

See you at Xtasia next month x"

Thank you so much, we’re very much looking forward to it (especially Hannah as she will hopefully get to indulge!)

Thanks to everyone else for your help and comments too

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By *arkDesiresPartiesCouple
over a year ago

London

Do them all!

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By *ideandvibe OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Do them all! "

Oh we WILL! Can’t wait to try Libs, and DD would be the only party to do so

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By *iLexieWoman
over a year ago

Wales

yes thankyou. think I might give it a try...

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By *iLexieWoman
over a year ago

Wales

thankyou, that's reassuring

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