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By *racknellboy1971 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

So I’ve decided to man up and head to kestrels in the near future. Initially it’ll be during the week in a ‘test the waters’ kind of approach.

I’m in training for the London marathon, so a soak in a jacuzzi would have more benefits than trying to get lucky lol.

Any suggestions on what day would be best for a first timer and all that? I’m not expecting 100’s or responses to say that a certain day would be full etc. I think it’s just a case of turning up and going from there.

Obviously, if anyone wants to hold my hand I’ll appreciate the gesture

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By *inky PinguWoman
over a year ago

My Igloo!

Go .. chill.. chat.. enjoy , don't overthink it all

I'm sure your find someone willing to hold more than Ur hand

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By *ittlemissroseWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

I’d agree with _inky pingu, just go for it, sometimes best to go on a day when it’s open into the evening to, so Monday and Wednesday. It won’t be rammed busy like on a Friday or Saturday night but if you’re friendly and chat to people with no agenda and keep your hand away from your cock while you chat you’ll be fine!

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By *racknellboy1971 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

I try not to hold my cock. I was told that I’d go blind as a child so have kept that parental advice into my adulthood. Not sure why I have to wear glasses while working though haha.

Looks like a Monday or Wednesday it is then

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By *ittlemissroseWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I try not to hold my cock. I was told that I’d go blind as a child so have kept that parental advice into my adulthood. Not sure why I have to wear glasses while working though haha.

Looks like a Monday or Wednesday it is then "

You’ve clearly got a sense of humour so you’ll be fine

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By *racknellboy1971 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

You obviously don’t know me haha!! Yes my humour is the thing that keeps me sane lol x

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By *n With LifeCouple
over a year ago

Hadley Wood


"I try not to hold my cock. I was told that I’d go blind as a child so have kept that parental advice into my adulthood. Not sure why I have to wear glasses while working though haha.

Looks like a Monday or Wednesday it is then

You’ve clearly got a sense of humour so you’ll be fine "

It helps a lot! We are there Monday night.

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By *racknellboy1971 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

I’ll have to book a day off work, so maybe the next week or 2 is feasible

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By *inky PinguWoman
over a year ago

My Igloo!

I've always enjoyed Monday day times into the evening, busy but not to much, just have a chat and a giggle in the pool / hot tubs .. personality is the sexyest thing you can have

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By *racknellboy1971 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

That’s encouraging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi guys looking to go kestrels day club tomorrow - first time! Anyone going? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"Hi guys looking to go kestrels day club tomorrow - first time! Anyone going? X"

I'm going today for a nice soak

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By *n With LifeCouple
over a year ago

Hadley Wood

Going this afternoon, pool and hot tubs beckon!

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By *andm2006Man
over a year ago

Warwick

Hoping to get there on Wednesday afternoon

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By *reesteveCouple
over a year ago

west London and Costa del sol

We are also hoping to go this afternoon

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By *t12guy49Man
over a year ago

Walton-on-Thames

All being well, I’ll be there on Monday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've always enjoyed Monday day times into the evening, busy but not to much, just have a chat and a giggle in the pool / hot tubs .. personality is the sexyest thing you can have "

Is the monday still a bi evening? Not been since the venue changed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've always enjoyed Monday day times into the evening, busy but not to much, just have a chat and a giggle in the pool / hot tubs .. personality is the sexyest thing you can have

Is the monday still a bi evening? Not been since the venue changed "

Yes

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By *absfunguyMan
over a year ago

Home Counties &

Just pop along, chill and go with the flow and enjoy!


"So I’ve decided to man up and head to kestrels in the near future. Initially it’ll be during the week in a ‘test the waters’ kind of approach.

I’m in training for the London marathon, so a soak in a jacuzzi would have more benefits than trying to get lucky lol.

Any suggestions on what day would be best for a first timer and all that? I’m not expecting 100’s or responses to say that a certain day would be full etc. I think it’s just a case of turning up and going from there.

Obviously, if anyone wants to hold my hand I’ll appreciate the gesture "

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By *apioGuyMan
over a year ago

Gerrards Cross

Arrive with no expectations and you can’t be disappointed, anything nice that happens is therefore a bonus. In my experience Sunday’s are a good day to go, enjoy!

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By *attyBWoman
over a year ago

Dunstable/Luton

Possibly heading down tomorrow for a chill and to check out the hot tubs now I am able to!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snap

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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

I'll head down when I get a six pack. Still saving for lipo

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By *n With LifeCouple
over a year ago

Hadley Wood


"I'll head down when I get a six pack. Still saving for lipo "

Six pack optional, far better to have some social skills and be an interesting personality!

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester

I'll be popping in tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be surprised if you get blanked by everyone in the place.

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By *opilotMan
over a year ago

Heathrow

Anybody going Saturday?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't be surprised if you get blanked by everyone in the place."

Well I think that depends on attitude when you are there.

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By *n With LifeCouple
over a year ago

Hadley Wood


"Don't be surprised if you get blanked by everyone in the place.

Well I think that depends on attitude when you are there."

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By *ustywithBustyCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Near St Albans

Attended twice Thursdayy was busier than the Monday, few couples and the usual single guys non pushy and everyone was friendly. The pool is lovely and clean with twinkley lights and a few Hot tubs in another separate room.

We liked the format of the place lots of different rooms aswell as more upstairs where you can find the bar lounge area extra rooms etc. Owners lovely and a nice relaxing clean veune where theres no clickyness like some clubs. Our next trip will be A Sunday, remember to take a pair of flipflops and you can take your own lunch whilst cafe areas being finished, other than that its pretty much finished and well recommended

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By *racknellboy1971 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

Flip flops in the car lol

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