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By *uv2penetrate OP   Man
over a year ago

sutton coldfield

I’ve registered for xstasia and I’m thinking of going this Friday I’m a single male 41

I’ve never done anything like this before and wondering what the dos and don’ts are

Kind of. Nervous person any advice please would be appreciated

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By *uv2penetrate OP   Man
over a year ago

sutton coldfield

No one got any advice for me lol

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By *edhead72Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham and Ashby

Ahhh you’ll be fine. Just go with a good heart and have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll get shown around by a member of staff, I wouldn't worry. Rules are spelt out on your tour.

Try to talk to people if they'll allow you to.

Don't expect anything and don't big it up in your head much. It's just a club, much like any other night club.

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By *uv2penetrate OP   Man
over a year ago

sutton coldfield


"You'll get shown around by a member of staff, I wouldn't worry. Rules are spelt out on your tour.

Try to talk to people if they'll allow you to.

Don't expect anything and don't big it up in your head much. It's just a club, much like any other night club.

Is there naked people walking about or it Everyone dressed and then go off to do what they want

Will people be having sex right in front of me or not ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'll get shown around by a member of staff, I wouldn't worry. Rules are spelt out on your tour.

Try to talk to people if they'll allow you to.

Don't expect anything and don't big it up in your head much. It's just a club, much like any other night club.

Is there naked people walking about or it Everyone dressed and then go off to do what they want

Will people be having sex right in front of me or not ?

"

I doubt it. You're advised (and it's good advice) to avoid the areas people go to have sex in, unless you're invited to do so. By all means have the odd look round once or twice, but I'd leave it at that, stick to more social areas of the club is probably best advice your guide will give you.

You may see a bdsm display if you're lucky, it scared me a bit if I'm honest, but I got to talk to the couple in smoking area afterwards.

It's a bit if an exhibitionist's club, there arent really many places you can have sex in complete privacy. So there is a possibility you'll see it going on.

I saw glimpses, but I was trying to stay on the right side of being social. That was my reason for going in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a great club really friendly staff you will love it we do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Xtasia is a great club, focused around socials before play, you expect to play your letting yourself down. Never walk into any club and expect play, expect laughs drinks.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

Go to the smoking area even if you dont smoke thats where all the magic happens.

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