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By *amfab OP   Man
over a year ago

Luton

I'm interested in visiting a club in my area but everyone I see attending these places , on here anyways from reading reviews are all bi curious or at least a very high majority seem to be .. can a straight bloke attend without feeling out of place , or is it very much a couple's and bi curious .. would love to get into it , but I'm totally straight won't go near guys , purely preference .. not my cup of tea.

Could I attend without seeming out of place if asked to join and I declined stating I'm straight , if I was offered by a male or couple but the male half is bi sexual

Curious but don't want to go and feel instantly unaccepted or warey

Thanks for the advice in advance

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By *inky kissersCouple
over a year ago

South East

You're worried about too much. No one is going to jump you unless you want them to.

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By *amfab OP   Man
over a year ago

Luton


"You're worried about too much. No one is going to jump you unless you want them to. "

Maybe , it's the thought of the unknowns of the club experience that's both frightening and exciting I must say .. little anxiety blips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check out the right night to go. Don’t be like my VERY straight friend and accidentally go on bi night. He couldn’t work out why he was getting so much attention..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The clubs I go to partly function as saunas and health spas. Mostly straight men attend and we all pleasantly chat while we wait for any women to come in. Sometimes on a quiet night there are bi curious men who slip into the conversation that they like to suck cocks and they will politely ask if you are interest. There is no pressure and no problems if you say no thanks, but appreciate the offer. I have been invited into the play rooms with married couples and while the husband allows me to fuck his wife he will on several occasions suck my cock and then allow me to continue to pound his wife. On those occasions I did not stop him, because I was lucky to have been chosen. The clubs attract mostly men, so there is always a gamble to see who the women will choose out but it depends on her personal preference. It's always handy to strike up a conversation with them in the jacuzzi or lounge before they head upstairs to the play rooms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like the sound of these clubs. I wonder if there are any similar in the West Midlands.....

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By *amfab OP   Man
over a year ago

Luton

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By *amfab OP   Man
over a year ago

Luton


"Check out the right night to go. Don’t be like my VERY straight friend and accidentally go on bi night. He couldn’t work out why he was getting so much attention.."

That would be my luck .. still intrigued about clubs so I will attend one but thanks for the advice ill check first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't do it, it's not worth the stress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single and straight and loved my first visit. Just stay in the bar/lounge area at first and get chatting. You will find it easier than chatting in a pub or nightclub as everyone is there for the same reasons. When you feel comfortable dress down head to the Jacuzzi as it's a good way to relax amongst other naked People and go from there.

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