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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys,

Hope you are all good. We are a couple looking for a girl to join us, as yet to no avail. We have been told that a club is probably the best way to go.

Being newbies, we are not au fait with the types of clubs that are about and what would best suit us.

Location wise we are in Southend, Essex. Are we going to have to venture into the big smoke??

Many thanks

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Have a look on the clubs section for clubs in your area.

We're in Cornwall and all clubs for us require travel.

I will just wish you the best of luck. What you're looking for is what the majority of couples are also looking for. And single bi ladies can have their pick from lots of couples you have to stand out.

We've yet to find one ourselves. However we're happy to play with other couples so we tend to play with those with bi females.

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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

I would suggest if you want to go to a club, check out the club reviews page on this site.

For us, our first trip was to the VA (it’s in the A1 near St Neots), everyone there was friendly and welcoming...

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Also I'd say with clubs check what event or night it is. We went to a club 200 miles from home whilst we were away, waste of a night and memberships!!

It turned out to be more of a social style event. Which is probably great if you live near by but considering we don't we were looking to play!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys, will do some research x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would suggest if you want to go to a club, check out the club reviews page on this site.

For us, our first trip was to the VA (it’s in the A1 near St Neots), everyone there was friendly and welcoming..."

Thanks I’ll check that out online for more details. I think ideally we want one where we can meet girls to chat too not necessarily do anything there and then. But if that was an option not sure would want to do anything in front of everyone so not sure if there are clubs where you can go off to discreet rooms, without being on show

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By *nkedMilfWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

I'm Braintree so kinda down the road from you guys and generally stick to VA, although I'm venturing to jaydees this weekend.

If it's girls you're after stick to couples nights, you generally get more single girls on those nights!

Good luck x

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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade


"I would suggest if you want to go to a club, check out the club reviews page on this site.

For us, our first trip was to the VA (it’s in the A1 near St Neots), everyone there was friendly and welcoming...

Thanks I’ll check that out online for more details. I think ideally we want one where we can meet girls to chat too not necessarily do anything there and then. But if that was an option not sure would want to do anything in front of everyone so not sure if there are clubs where you can go off to discreet rooms, without being on show "

Jaydees has private rooms...the VA is more open. I would say that in our experience finding single girls at a club can be difficult, you would be best chatting on here and arranging a meet at a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi we are also in your position, the problem on here is fake profiles and there are a few , we was talking to what was stated as a bi lady looking for females/ couples and then after weeks of talking asked did we fancy her boyfreind joining in, needless to say that was the end of that!

Anyway like you we are on the hunt for the illusive unicorn, There are lots of ladies that are bi particularly at the clubs but are quite often part of a couple and that usually means they also want to be involved. If I wanted that so many couple's that would be happy to play and another man isnt what we are after. Although we attended our first bi day at our local club and we atleast got a few firsts in a private room whilst the hubby looked on and he was happy to do that, so ive atleast had a bite of the cherry. Good luck and have fun Xx

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