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Want to go to a club but not sure of the etiquette.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What’s the etiquette at a club?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Pretty much the same as it would be in a pub or normal club OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So what do you wear? Can you just watch? How do you get involved in group activities?

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By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

What you wear depends on the club. Best to check websites.

If people are playing in a public area then watching is fine. Don't attempt to join in without an invitation or asking first.

In terms of joining in group fun, again make sure it's ok to take part.

Remember no means no.

Strike up conversations with people in the bar or smoking areas

Hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What you wear depends on the club. Best to check websites.

If people are playing in a public area then watching is fine. Don't attempt to join in without an invitation or asking first.

In terms of joining in group fun, again make sure it's ok to take part.

Thanks

Remember no means no.

Strike up conversations with people in the bar or smoking areas

Hope this helps"

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Dress code will be laid out on the website.

You can just watch in a public or voyeur area. Best way to join in is by asking if you can.

Talk to people, don't be creepy. Don't assume you're going to play.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dress code will be laid out on the website.

You can just watch in a public or voyeur area. Best way to join in is by asking if you can.

Talk to people, don't be creepy. Don't assume you're going to play. "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do people play in public areas or it it mainly for chatting then you take playing into another room?

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

Most good clubs have a rules and etiquette page on their website and some enforce them more than others, so you are best getting guidance from the club you want to visit xx

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

In the clubs I've been to, there's a bar area where play is not allowed (maybe it is at other clubs - you should get a tour and a run-through of the rules on your first visit). That (and the hot tub) is where you get to know people, and they get to know you.

There are also public play rooms, where people are free to watch and, if invited, join in. Then there are lockable rooms with windows, so people can watch but won't (or shouldn't) interrupt with requests to join. And finally completely private rooms.

There might also be a dungeon.

Some clubs provide condoms, some don't. If you call the club before you go, that's something to ask.

The clubs that I've been to are strong on the social side. The etiquette there is very much to approach people in the non-play areas and chat. People are much more likely to say yes to people that they've already spoken to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In the clubs I've been to, there's a bar area where play is not allowed (maybe it is at other clubs - you should get a tour and a run-through of the rules on your first visit). That (and the hot tub) is where you get to know people, and they get to know you.

There are also public play rooms, where people are free to watch and, if invited, join in. Then there are lockable rooms with windows, so people can watch but won't (or shouldn't) interrupt with requests to join. And finally completely private rooms.

There might also be a dungeon.

Some clubs provide condoms, some don't. If you call the club before you go, that's something to ask.

The clubs that I've been to are strong on the social side. The etiquette there is very much to approach people in the non-play areas and chat. People are much more likely to say yes to people that they've already spoken to."

Thanks

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By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

We play in public areas. Never use private rooms. Everyone enjoys different things

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"Do people play in public areas or it it mainly for chatting then you take playing into another room? "

You will see how it is in the particular club. Usually there are areas for socialising and areas for playing. Note if they allow playing in the hot tub or jacuzzi, if they do probably steer clear.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Do people play in public areas or it it mainly for chatting then you take playing into another room? "

There are usually bar areas where people usually don't play. And public play areas.

Don't play in the hot tub, ever.

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