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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi ????

I have never been to any of the clubs before and I am so keen to go. Hubby is happy for me to go but it’s not really his scene. Was looking for someone to take my by the hand and show me what what!

Based in Birmingham!

I don’t know any of the etiquette so need to be taught well!

Any offers?’

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By *hom01Man
over a year ago

Rugby


"Hi ????

I have never been to any of the clubs before and I am so keen to go. Hubby is happy for me to go but it’s not really his scene. Was looking for someone to take my by the hand and show me what what!

Based in Birmingham!

I don’t know any of the etiquette so need to be taught well!

Any offers?’"

I'm sure you're about to receive thousands!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi ????

I have never been to any of the clubs before and I am so keen to go. Hubby is happy for me to go but it’s not really his scene. Was looking for someone to take my by the hand and show me what what!

Based in Birmingham!

I don’t know any of the etiquette so need to be taught well!

Any offers?’"

Your about to get a lot of offers lol. I'm in the same boat as you, I've been told it's better to go alone as it could get awkward once one of you finds someone to play with as the other does not. I'm planning to go to BBW night at chams in December, will be my first experience. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you find someone who's genuine to your need x

Good luck hunny x

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By *hom01Man
over a year ago

Rugby

I've never been & new to this scene. Thinking it's a good way to meet people & get some verifications.

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester


"Hi ????

I have never been to any of the clubs before and I am so keen to go. Hubby is happy for me to go but it’s not really his scene. Was looking for someone to take my by the hand and show me what what!

Based in Birmingham!

I don’t know any of the etiquette so need to be taught well!

Any offers?’"

Which club. I've been to chameleons

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi ????

I have never been to any of the clubs before and I am so keen to go. Hubby is happy for me to go but it’s not really his scene. Was looking for someone to take my by the hand and show me what what!

Based in Birmingham!

I don’t know any of the etiquette so need to be taught well!

Any offers?’

Which club. I've been to chameleons "

I was thinking chams or Xtasia

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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago

Birstall, Leicester


"Hi ????

I have never been to any of the clubs before and I am so keen to go. Hubby is happy for me to go but it’s not really his scene. Was looking for someone to take my by the hand and show me what what!

Based in Birmingham!

I don’t know any of the etiquette so need to be taught well!

Any offers?’

Which club. I've been to chameleons

I was thinking chams or Xtasia "

Maybe we can arrange something ? Xx

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By *eordiesCouple
over a year ago

newcastle


"Hi ????

I have never been to any of the clubs before and I am so keen to go. Hubby is happy for me to go but it’s not really his scene. Was looking for someone to take my by the hand and show me what what!

Based in Birmingham!

I don’t know any of the etiquette so need to be taught well!

Any offers?’

Which club. I've been to chameleons

I was thinking chams or Xtasia "

We have met several single ladies at Xtasia, the staff there look after the guests very well and the single ladies we have met there say how safe they feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi ????

I have never been to any of the clubs before and I am so keen to go. Hubby is happy for me to go but it’s not really his scene. Was looking for someone to take my by the hand and show me what what!

Based in Birmingham!

I don’t know any of the etiquette so need to be taught well!

Any offers?’"

Hi Rose. As other posters have said, you'll now be inundated with offers. In reality you could go as a single female and meet up with people there - chat to people first and arrange to meet up. If you go with someone then you are tied to them in terms of a locker etc, so unless you are 100% sure about them it is a risk.

I'm Birmingham based and go to clubs with my FB. We've only been going a few months but have done Chams and Xtasia. Xtasia we've gone on a Wednesday when it is couples and single ladies only - and it's free. We met up with another couple who chatted to us first and have gone back since and met more of their friends. It was quiet each night but not necessarily a bad thing as you can go where you want and there are no queues, plus less pressure.

Chams BBW event was our first club night ever, and there is one coming up on 27/10 for Halloween (check out the forum post on this for guest list entry if you are interested). Chams was packed which meant plenty of people to talk to. There is also a BBW chat group so through that I now know more people to say hi to on the day itself.

As regards etiquette, the clubs are chilled and there is no need to do anything you don't want to. You can just go along for the social side if you want to. No touching without permission is strictly enforced though, as is no means no. You'll get a tour and explanation of the rules when you go to the club though.

Hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys! I just feel quite anxious and uneasy about going on my own. The bbw night sounds fun though! But will it be super crowded?!

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By *he RingmasterMan
over a year ago

Canford Cliffs


"Thanks guys! I just feel quite anxious and uneasy about going on my own. The bbw night sounds fun though! But will it be super crowded?! "

Pretty much everyone felt anxious. If we added up all the time people sat in their cars building up courage to go into a club we would be able to turn the clocks back to 1995.

You'll be well looked after and at the end of the evening you'll wonder what you were so worried about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suggest you maybe find another new lady to go with so you watch each others backs. Plus if a guy offers what would his intentions be? Just a friend or might he expect something more?

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By *firsttimeCouple
over a year ago

halifax

My hubby isnt in to it either but if you wanted to travel up to ours you could stay at mine for the night and I will take you to cupids x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks guys! I just feel quite anxious and uneasy about going on my own. The bbw night sounds fun though! But will it be super crowded?! "

I can understand that. I felt the same my first time but there are plenty of people to talk to there and it isn't anywhere near as bad as you might think. The BBW night is likely to be busy, yes, but some times more than others it's on a Sunday and starts at 14:00 so earlier on there are fewer people and a fair few will leave in the evening, so you could always do that. I do know some ladies going on their own (and indeed gents too), or you can talk to others going beforehand and arrange to meet outside so it isn't so bad; I'm meeting a number of people from the BBW chat group for food before we go in so it will make it more relaxing all round. If you are interested and wanted to join us then by all means drop a message - nothing intended by it except to assist if I can

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By *hampagne_Supernova_91Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Going to my first proper club meet tomorrow! Can't wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Going to my first proper club meet tomorrow! Can't wait "

You are going to love it pal.

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By *urious and openmindedCouple
over a year ago

under the sea

Chams bbw night would be the 1 to aim for

Maybe give the round room a miss to start of with

Chill in the bar and relax in a hot tub till u are ready to explore

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Unless you know the person you’re going with, go alone. The staff will look after you and it’s no more daunting than going to a pub alone.

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By *ot Your Average GirlWoman
over a year ago

Cannock

Wingman / club buddy needed

I need to get back in the saddle and get back into the club scene. But I need a club buddy and partner in crime. Is any single guys based in or around Midlands, who enjoys the club scene/events, interested in this? Looking for offers xx

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Thanks guys! I just feel quite anxious and uneasy about going on my own. The bbw night sounds fun though! But will it be super crowded?! "
ill be there from opening on Sunday and happy to meet you before if you fancy going.

Or on another day if im free

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By *weet Delight2016Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere nice

Hi

Unable to pm you as you have blocked single women but I can recommend a decent guy who lives in Birmingham.

If you are interested, let me know.

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

OP, I have similar feelings about visiting a club as you - nervous but excited

It's a shame I'm too old for you else I'd have volunteered to be your chaperone (without wanting anything in return, either)

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