FabSwingers.com forum: Is Liberty elites a good club for nervous newbies?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi everyone.

Looking at the events coming up this weekend would either be suitable for a first club visit? Wife is especially nervous.

Thanks in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you’ll be nervous wherever you go. Just try to relax and chat to people.

Good luck

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By *weet_stephanieTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Libs is a good call for a first try. It's clean, has its own parking, staff are friendly, and it's usually busy on a saturday night without being overwhelmingly so. There's plenty of clean private rooms, and the main play area is spacious enough that you can enjoy playing in a space with other people without feeling like you're all on top of each other. People can be a little standoffish on couples nights (there will be lots of other nervous people there!) but we've found that to be true of all clubs - if you want to be approached, it might be better to do a night when single guys are there, but if you just want to take it very gradually and give yourself the option of observing without pressure couples nights are a better call. Hope you both have a lovely time x

(Disclaimer - appreciate that read like an advert! No affiliation with Libs, go there occasionally).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were in the same boat! My other half has been to a club befor but im really new and nervous to weve planned a vist to libs on friday night im excited and nervous all at the same time

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By *atureMischiefCouple
over a year ago

Lutterworth

Hi guys

We host Mature Mischief at Liberty Elite and for those 40+ it is a top night for newbies either to clubs or the scene.

The night is very social with sexy play for those who want to take part. There is no pressure and everyone who attends is happy to chat and make people welcome.

A lot of couples who attend Mature Mischief visited Liberty Elite/a club for the first time and they keep coming back.

Take a look at our profile and see what people say about the night, but if you fancy coming along our next party is Wednesday 2nd October, just message us so we know to expect you.

Everyone who attends is greeted by ourselves, Paul & Vin, and then a tour is given and then over to you guys to chat to the friendly over 40 peeps.

Take a look and see what you think x

Vin & Paul

xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone for your responses, much appreciated

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Liberty was the first club we ever visited. On our first visit we were made to feel so welcome by the lovely staff there. We had a lovely time meeting other couples. The club itself is spotlessly clean and has such a relaxing vibe. It's our favourite place EVER. We love visiting Libs and would be happy to meet any newbies there even just for a social x

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By *s Lola Wand - SocketWoman
over a year ago

leicester

I’d totally second that libs is a great first choice .

It’s always going to be horses for courses and whether you enjoy a club or not is utterly a personal experience , but I’d say you’ll find no pressure to play at libs , and the social only bar / lounge area is like any well appointed bar you might go into in a non swingers environment so it feels totally ‘ normal ‘ and non threatening

Having visited as a single woman I’ve never had reason to feel pursued or bothered by other guests in a way which might make me uncomfortable. Give it a whirl !

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By *andJCouple
over a year ago

fun town

It’s our favourite club and was perfect for our 1st time but spoilt us as nothing compares lol!!

We like The bar area for socialising and then going to a private room......

Definitely worth checking out and don’t worry you get a tour on 1st visit which puts you at ease xxx

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By *im and her HertsCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

It was our first club. First group swing experience really.

Had the warmest and most ‘put us at ease’ welcome from everyone there.

The guys and gals there were super friendly from the staff to the visitors. There are many regulars there that were once in the same boat too, and they reach out to help as others did them.

The comfy seating and casual chatting is a bonus. No one is left out and nearly everyone smiles and says hi.

A fab place to go for your first, last or any visit.

Can’t wait to return.

Enjoy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely - first club we ever went to and it was the relaxed atmosphere and lack of pressure that’s kept us coming back. Tried a couple of others but they don’t compare and the fact that dress down is optional and there’s a separate bar and play areas mean it’s great for people - like us too! - who are sometimes nervous, want to relax and just see where things go xx

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By *vesham cplCouple
over a year ago

Evesham

We have been to a lot of clubs across the UK and so far haven't found any that are as good as Libs.

We have been going for around 2+years and go on either a Friday or Saturday, we prefer Saturday as its couples / ladies only and this cuts out any attention from the single blokes. It also means that in the big playroom it's couples playing and not the 'wanking dead' trying to get involved.

The upstairs private playrooms are nice and are also lockable if you fancy a more private session with another couple.

It is the cleanest club we have been to and so long as you smile at people and try to chat you will find it very friendly as well.

As with anything 'you get out what you put in ' so go along (the white party on the 21st is when we are next there) and have a fantastic time.

Love

Rich and Sarah xx

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By *rMrsRandyCouple
over a year ago

Mids

"We have been to a lot of clubs across the UK and so far haven't found any that are as good as Libs.

The upstairs private playrooms are nice and are also lockable if you fancy a more private session with another couple.

It is the cleanest club we have been to and so long as you smile at people and try to chat you will find it very friendly as well.

As with anything 'you get out what you put in ' so go along (the white party on the 21st is when we are next there) and have a fantastic time.

Love

Rich and Sarah xx "

Including Chams darlaaton ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was my first club and was awesome experience. Everyone I encountered was friendly and it has a great setup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very relaxed in there and the events are just marvelous..

My favourite club to date !

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By *reddieTeresaCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Great choice for a first club visit. We have plenty of clubs much closer to where we live but always choose Libs when we want to visit a club.

We prefer Fridays when single guys are allowed in but thats just our preference!!

Enjoy

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By *s Lola Wand - SocketWoman
over a year ago

leicester

"Very relaxed in there and the events are just marvelous..

My favourite club to date !"

I love to see you say this as a single woman !

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By * little bit naughtyCouple
over a year ago

Bedford

We are going to Libs tonight and although we have been to lots of clubs it’s my first time to libs! I think it’s definitely natural to be nervous on your first time at a club but it certainly helped me that my other half wasn’t a newbie, I think it’s good remember you can get involved as much or as little as you want. We have always found swingers to be really accepting and friendly. Maybe chat later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is our go to club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi

You will love the club it really is the best one....enjoy xx we look forward to hearing your thoughts on it x

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By *leo and LeoCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

We’ve been only once so far to the hotwife club event. We were made to feel welcome by the hosts and a few people came and chatted with us. We are both slight introverts so struggle to fire up a conversation so it’s easier when others start it for us by approaching us!

everyone who approached us were very friendly, we even went upstairs for a bit of fun towards the nights end

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

We are going for our first visit tonight will be with friends

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By *arkDesiresPartiesCouple
over a year ago

London

I'm biased but I think it's the best club I've been too! And the vibe is always classy friendly and relaxed. I would definitely recommend it for people new to the club scene! I travel up from London to hold parties there!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We haven't managed to make it this weekend, surprise visit from the in laws. Hoping to get to next month's party lovers Friday though as a pre birthday treat!

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