FabSwingers.com forum: I really want a mmf

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi. I'm not new to clubs but can get a bit shy about coming forward. What's the best way to get a mmf? Has any single ladies done this? How did you go about it?

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Hi. I'm not new to clubs but can get a bit shy about coming forward. What's the best way to get a mmf? Has any single ladies done this? How did you go about it?

Yep I’ve done it. I went to a club with my playmate and told him it was on the agenda, he said I would need to find another guy in the club. I was nervous but then spotted a guy I liked, sat on the empty chair next to him and chatted and then we all eventually went to a playroom and had fun....it was great.

All you need is confidence.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs are definitely the best place!

You get to chat to people who you might not come across normally, and also get a good idea of what they are actually like..

Soon out the strange lurkers and time wasters!

Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you recommend doing it with a regular playmate then? So wish I had your confidence. Once I get going I'm fine it's the initial bit I'm rubbish at

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you. Just looking at what clubs do what nights. I agree though you get a better feeling for people in person. Excuse the pun

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Do you recommend doing it with a regular playmate then? So wish I had your confidence. Once I get going I'm fine it's the initial bit I'm rubbish at"

My opinion is yes. I’ve always done it with my regular playmate as he protects me and is happy to be involved and it reassures me I’m not going to have to deal with a tricky situation should it arise...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's a good point. Been off here for ages but determined to have the fun I want safely. Thank you for this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a regular playmate, as long as she’s safe I’m happy!

If your nervous I’d go to somewhere like no3 in Chorley, it’s smaller, but more relaxed! And the hosts will look after you..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for this. I've not tried there before so will be good to try somewhere new x

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Go to a club and get it on. No faffing and trying to co-ordinate diaries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And that’s how it’s done!

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Maybe look at a greedy girls night at a club.. you should find plenty of willing single guys there.

I always have a chat near the bar and then once chosen my gents, I can head off to a private room.

I feel safe, as if there is a problem, if you raise your voice, there are others nearby to help you out. ( I have never had to do this, but feel reassured that I could get help if needed )

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Go to a club and get it on. No faffing and trying to co-ordinate diaries"

I think this is the way forward. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Definitely think I need to go to a specific night at a club. Thank you.

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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.

Don't over think it because if you do, it'll never happen. Dress up, hit the club, enjoy yourself and after you'll be thinking why didn't ido this sooner

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By *lana Honey-LingusTV/TS
over a year ago

bolton

Best way is go to a club and enjoy the social environment, chat to people and see if you click. Most of the time there is plenty of single males.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know you are right I just need to get on with it. It's been a fantasy for so long I cant get it out of my head. Looking for clubs now. Thank you for your advice x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've been to a few clubs now but only played with partners I've been with. Just need to go for it and find that confidence I've got somewhere. Thank you

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By *ap d agde coupleCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

MMMFF is our favourite combination so hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often wonder why women feel so tense about certain things. Are us men really that bad? Perhaps I've been living in a bubble but I can't imagine the majority of men wanting to be an asshole.

From my perspective, I would want the woman to be pleasured at least equally if not more than myself. That's what actually turns me on most. Knowing the girls is having a good time and enjoying herself. If that means two or more guys... So be it, I find that idea incredible hot. As long as you're happy I'm happy.

I think it's good advice, seek out people in a club who you like the look of and then have a chat and get a feeling for if they're respectable and go for it. Don't get hung up on negative thoughts as that won't get you anywhere.

Be brave, and I wish you well... x

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Milf Monday @ Townhouse is a greedy girl event - and I host it

It’s every month, daytime event & there is plenty of group play going on, so MMF is not difficult to set up!

It’s this Monday coming if you fancy joining us? 10.30-3.30

Otherwise there are a few evening events that would be good for you - Clusterfuck was last week, it’s on again in November - that’s all about group play & gangbangs, there is even a female gloryhole, which is fully chaperoned!

There is also Sexploits, which is a singles party, so plenty of single guys to choose from

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Hi. I'm not new to clubs but can get a bit shy about coming forward. What's the best way to get a mmf? Has any single ladies done this? How did you go about it?

Go up to two men you like and say "Will you both take me up stairs and fuck me like it your last"

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