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By *orkmanandher OP   Couple
over a year ago

March

We were just wondering. Do all clubs insist on safe sex? Are there any that allow bareback?

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By *horty4Man
over a year ago

london

None insist but most recommend. How would you police it in any case? I have seen guys try and slip in bareback without asking the woman, that’s an awful thing to do, not far off sexual assault in my view. It’s dangerous and should never be done unless both parties are happy to proceed.

(Kids, it is risky behaviour. Even if you use PrEp, that doesn’t protect you from Hepatitis etc. Your body, your choice though)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its up to you how you play

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

They all allow it between consenting adults and it happens way more than the forums would have you believe.

But they all encourage safe sex... and condoms are widely available.

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By *orkmanandher OP   Couple
over a year ago

March


"They all allow it between consenting adults and it happens way more than the forums would have you believe.

But they all encourage safe sex... and condoms are widely available.

"

...so anyone "could" decide to go bareback in a club? any club?

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"They all allow it between consenting adults and it happens way more than the forums would have you believe.

But they all encourage safe sex... and condoms are widely available.

...so anyone "could" decide to go bareback in a club? any club?"

yes...Ive never been in a club that is checking. Although people tend to self police it. I always check to make sure condoms are not only user but swapped between women

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It isn't policed. How could it be?

Consent is, however. And if anyone tries any funny business any half decent club deals with them harshly.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

The club can't possibly please something like that no more than the chemist that sells you condoms make sure you wear them. You are responsible for your own sexual health, nobody else is.

If you get together with someone in a club don't assume that they are going to play safe, make sure you discuss it and explain what you are looking for and make sure it's compatible in that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting.

All clubs promote 'safe sex', and yes, have condoms available.

I would imagine, however unlikely to happen or be successful, that clubs wish to avoid any legal issues, should they advocate 'bareback' then someone contracted something.

Yes, I know it is individual choice...but...just look at how stupid things have got in other countries, with litigation. Some smart ass solicitor could easily try and make a name for themselves.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"It isn't policed. How could it be?

Consent is, however. And if anyone tries any funny business any half decent club deals with them harshly. "

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I find that the presumption is that condoms are used (except between pre existing couples), and although there are some who'll take the piss and try without, most are watching for it.

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