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By *ustfun001 OP   Man
over a year ago

East Sussex

So there is a real interest here and Id love to go see what its all about...

My question is, is it creepy for a single guy to go alone? Would i just be a 3rd wheel (LOL)?

I would Obviously be respectful and not pushy or anything..

What do you lovely people suggest?

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Maybe go with a friend? Just so you feel a bit more comfortable? Go with no expectations because sometimes fun isnt had, that's just how it is. It all depends on how busy it is and who goes xx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's only creepy if you're creepy. Honestly.

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By *oAngelsCouple
over a year ago

Sutton

Get yourself along to the next HKoP (Sutton). Limited single guys, so it's much better. It's mainly about the social aspect. You'll have a blast x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We used to regularly meet a guy at a club, on his own. Charming, respectful and he always fiund a few couples, us included, to socialise with, and join for fun.

It was his own philosophy, that going with others, often put couples/women from chatting, because the few times he did go with friends, they acted like jerks, and ruined his chances.

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By *ustfun001 OP   Man
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Maybe go with a friend? Just so you feel a bit more comfortable? Go with no expectations because sometimes fun isnt had, that's just how it is. It all depends on how busy it is and who goes xx"

To be honest I have no expectations of having fun at all, its more a curiosity and a bit of voyeurism i suppose. thanks for the reply

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By *ustfun001 OP   Man
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Get yourself along to the next HKoP (Sutton). Limited single guys, so it's much better. It's mainly about the social aspect. You'll have a blast x"

I have heard its good but a little to close to home for me lol

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By *ustfun001 OP   Man
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We used to regularly meet a guy at a club, on his own. Charming, respectful and he always fiund a few couples, us included, to socialise with, and join for fun.

It was his own philosophy, that going with others, often put couples/women from chatting, because the few times he did go with friends, they acted like jerks, and ruined his chances."

Oh ok, so its an acceptable thing then? sorry im a complete newbie....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So there is a real interest here and Id love to go see what its all about...

My question is, is it creepy for a single guy to go alone? Would i just be a 3rd wheel (LOL)?

I would Obviously be respectful and not pushy or anything..

What do you lovely people suggest?

"
the clubs need you to bump up the takings after that if you're a chatty social type and can converse naked comfortably you'll be fine

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Many couples are happy to meet single guys (as are single women), so don’t hold back! Go along, assume you won’tget ‘any action’, but smile, make eye contact, chat to people. Don’t monopolise conversations, sometimes you are better to chat for 5 mins and then go for a wander.

If we play and see a guy we’ve chatted with then we are more likely to invite him to join us than someone we haven’t talked to. But then again we are a bit weird

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Do look at the price structure of clubs. It's not for everyone.

But if that's OK, on nights where guys are allowed, go. Just be friendly. Seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes pay your money but don't expect anything that's a good point to remember

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By *ustfun001 OP   Man
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Many couples are happy to meet single guys (as are single women), so don’t hold back! Go along, assume you won’tget ‘any action’, but smile, make eye contact, chat to people. Don’t monopolise conversations, sometimes you are better to chat for 5 mins and then go for a wander.

If we play and see a guy we’ve chatted with then we are more likely to invite him to join us than someone we haven’t talked to. But then again we are a bit weird "

Perfect!! thanks ill give it a go just need to decide when and where ...

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By *ustfun001 OP   Man
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Do look at the price structure of clubs. It's not for everyone.

But if that's OK, on nights where guys are allowed, go. Just be friendly. Seriously. "

Thanks ill be friendly .. im seriously going to give it a go

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