FabSwingers.com forum: Abfabs thread three

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Both the other threads reached the limit!

I think the main problem with this clubs at the moment, is the requirement of more private rooms.

Also, the club temperature and pool temperature need to be worked on ?

Still a great club and venue !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for the note re hot tubs. I do see however that there is a pool so we’re still good for tonight

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks for the note re hot tubs. I do see however that there is a pool so we’re still good for tonight

Yes the pool is awesome !

Just needs to have its temperature controlled properly. On some occasions it’s been too cold, on other occasions the temperature has been perfect!

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By *urseitCouple
over a year ago

westerham

Hopefully going friday and looking for a naughty dom to use my naughty wife.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hopefully going friday and looking for a naughty dom to use my naughty wife."

Well I’ll be there on Friday

I can teach her a lesson or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi,

We are thinking of travelling upto Abfabs for the first time soon. However, we normally take our campervan when staying overnight at a new venue. Can anyone therefore please confirm if we can park overnight outside of the club or not??

Many thanks

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

"Thanks for the note re hot tubs. I do see however that there is a pool so we’re still good for tonight

Yes the pool is awesome !

Just needs to have its temperature controlled properly. On some occasions it’s been too cold, on other occasions the temperature has been perfect!"

Temperature was perfect on Friday night

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi,

Many thanks

Oh erm not too sure about that. I know you can pay to park at the premier inn next door !

What day are you hoping to attend ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are looking to do both Fridays & Saturdays.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We are looking to do both Fridays & Saturdays.

Sounds amazing !

I’ll be there both days too (Saturday with a hot blonde

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I’ll definitely say hi if I see you

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By *awty_twosomeCouple
over a year ago

Kent

Whose nicked part three of my thread lol.... no blow hob from me for the Op ha ha x

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By *ussexboxMan
over a year ago

Ferring

Where is abfabs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where is abfabs? "

Heathrow

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By *ussexboxMan
over a year ago

Ferring

How come there is no listing in the club pages? Is there a website?

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

"How come there is no listing in the club pages? Is there a website?"

Google is your friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How come there is no listing in the club pages? Is there a website?"

For historic reasons Fabs won’t list it. Yes it has a website. Look for Abfabs Heathrow

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Whose nicked part three of my thread lol.... no blow hob from me for the Op ha ha x "

Darling, I thought I was doing you a favour lol

I’ll let you have part four, if you send me a friend request lol deal or no deal ?

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By *ack with a bangCouple
over a year ago

Hastings

It's on our list to attend

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By *ayden69Man
over a year ago

London

Looks like Friday/Saturday night will be a good one x

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By *otwife and LawyerCouple
over a year ago

Heathrow/Windsor

This club has no atmosphere. Many friends have also been and would not return.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This club has no atmosphere. Many friends have also been and would not return."

When did you visit ?

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By *wickermanMan
over a year ago

Staines

Regular at a local competitor club so I wouldn't give such comments any credence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Regular at a local competitor club so I wouldn't give such comments any credence."

Why does frequenting another club make there opinions any less valid than yours or those of anyone else?

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By *awty_twosomeCouple
over a year ago

Kent

"This club has no atmosphere. Many friends have also been and would not return."

If you want to go to a club to play it has lots of atmosphere, if you want to go party and dance, then probably not for you.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This club has no atmosphere. Many friends have also been and would not return.

If you want to go to a club to play it has lots of atmosphere, if you want to go party and dance, then probably not for you..... "

Totally agree.

If you want to go to a club and have fun in terms of play and new experience then abfabs is the one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We will be there on Monday night and we will enjoy the pool and whatever else takes our fancy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We will be there on Monday night and we will enjoy the pool and whatever else takes our fancy! "

Will be at abfabs tonight

Whose going ?

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By *oreFunForAllCouple
over a year ago

Dumstable

Wife & hubby there tonight.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wife & hubby there tonight."

Saw you, wife and sub play last time.

Was to busy to get involved

Maybe tonight is the night

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By *urseitCouple
over a year ago

westerham

Ahhh due to personal reasons we are unable to come now tonight sorry

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By *otwife and LawyerCouple
over a year ago

Heathrow/Windsor

[Removed by poster at 16/08/19 20:55:15]

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By *otwife and LawyerCouple
over a year ago

Heathrow/Windsor

"Regular at a local competitor club so I wouldn't give such comments any credence."

This chap told us he was a silent partner at adfabs so not surprised by his comments

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By *oreFunForAllCouple
over a year ago

Dumstable

"Wife & hubby there tonight.

Saw you, wife and sub play last time.

Was to busy to get involved

Maybe tonight is the night

Don't think we met you there last night?

We left the doors open for people to join us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all booked in for tonight, cant wait

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By *unnymooncoupleCouple
over a year ago

Camberwell

Going too, say hi

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By *rof_cplCouple
over a year ago

Gerrards Cross

We're booked in too. Say hi if you see us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What an excellent night ... really impressed with the place

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By *wickermanMan
over a year ago

Staines

"Regular at a local competitor club so I wouldn't give such comments any credence.

This chap told us he was a silent partner at adfabs so not surprised by his comments "

if you are referring to me I can categorically state I have absolutely no connection with this venue other than having once visited it as a paying customer. I have also never knowingly met this couple so my opinion as to the validity of their options remains low.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking forward to visiting again Friday day time ! Say Hi if you are going too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Will be at abfabs this Friday 23 of August

Say hi if your going

After party at my hotel

(premier inn next door)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I attend Kestrels during the daytime on mondays (sometimes weds)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This was our first ever swingers club visit, and broke our swinging virginity. We went on the 17th had a naked swim with some friends before moving to the private room (one without windows) we enjoyed it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We need a naked swim so going tonight!

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge

"We need a naked swim so going tonight! "

We all need a naked swim sometimes, enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Purpose:

1) get to know people going to the club on the same day as you, makes it less daunting for those going for the first time.

2)general chat about the club and other clubs.

3) maybe arrange fun/play at the club with like minded people before you get there

4)group social at the venue before the naughtiness begins

Ratio will be 3:1 of female/couples: men

Let me know if your interested

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m setting up a kik group, for those people that visit ABFABS regularly and those that do not but are thinking about it.

Purpose:

1)arrange a social meet at abfabs. This won’t be for long. Maybe 1hr to let people get to know each other. I understand everyone would want to play have fun at some point in the night

2) get to know people going to the club beforehand. Sometimes it’s nice to have someone you’ve been getting to know beforehand, and then to finally meet at the club. Can be daunting for some people to begin conversations out of the blue at the club.

3) share club experiences, and give each other advice about visiting clubs etc.

4) just a place for like minded people to chat and socialise.

5) I think it will be a great way to make friends in the scene!

Only going to have a selected few single males that go to abfabs. The rest of the kik group members will be couples and ladies that visit

If interested drop me a message !!!

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By *otwife and LawyerCouple
over a year ago

Heathrow/Windsor

What is there to discuss about this venue!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is there to discuss about this venue!"

I think we all get that you have an issue with this venue. Why not just ignore the threads about it and let people make up their own minds?

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"What is there to discuss about this venue!"

Did you get turned down or something when you attended to make it this personal that you just keep on with your negativity in thread after thread after thread? We heard you the first time. And second. And third...and....

Yes it’s not perfect but they’ve put a huge amount of work in to get to this point - and that was after the huge amount of work to try to keep the old place open.

If you’re so unhappy with this club offering why don’t you buy a suitable venue (do you seriously have any idea of the cost of a place like this?!) and do it up to a standard you’re happy with. In the meantime why don’t you do something else more constructive because you come across incredibly petty and spiteful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is there to discuss about this venue!

Yes it’s not perfect but they’ve put a huge amount of work in to get to this point - and that was after the huge amount of work to try to keep the old place open.

And breathe.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"What is there to discuss about this venue!

Yes it’s not perfect but they’ve put a huge amount of work in to get to this point - and that was after the huge amount of work to try to keep the old place open.

And breathe. "

I’m breathing fine just bored shitless of seeing the same comments over and over. I doubt I’m the only one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We thought it was good, a little more work on the cosmetic side and it will be fantastic..

Certainly worth a visit..

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

"What is there to discuss about this venue!

I think we all get that you have an issue with this venue. Why not just ignore the threads about it and let people make up their own minds? "

Exactly....I won't comment anymore as I'm not allowed to

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By *errysMan
over a year ago

milton keynes and kent

Does anybody remember the couple who got turned away from the old abfabs for being dressed inappropriately (fetish gear i seem to remember). And how incensed they were about it and all the threads they posted bad reviews on and how they vowed to do the same if a new venue opened..... i wonder what happened to them? Hmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been twice, loved it both times, going again soon, ignore the haters.

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

"Been twice, loved it both times, going again soon, ignore the haters."

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By *ark.aitkenMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Been twice, loved it both times, going again soon, ignore the haters.

I am going next Monday. First time at the new club. So hope to see all you sexy fabbers there.

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By *arc and KamaCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

I’m setting up a kik group, for those people that visit ABFABS regularly and those that do not but are thinking about it.

I just want to give my feedback after few days in that “almost dead” group as not many messages were exchanged there and most between an admin of this group and maybe two people. Messages totally not related to the club discussion.

When we asked for some details about the club, like facilities etc, we were kicked out immediately with no answer...

So not sure what was a real purpose of this group. Maybe the author wanted to build a list of profiles. Not sure. But looks like it is not worth to join.

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over a year ago

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

Had a great day there bank holiday Monday. The pool's lovely, new tubs look good, staff are really working hard to get it going. Please give it a chance folks.

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By *eliciousPleasureCouple
over a year ago

Croxley Green (Near Watford)

These people are obviously working or loyal to another club, they have never been there and all the other clubs in London have taken a hit with Abfabs reopening! They constantly put down Abfabs in every thread and their negativity shows. Our principle has been always to make your own minds up about a club instead of listening to the politics of inter clubs. The facilities offered by Abfabs is far superior than ANY club in London. They have a reputation of constant improvement and reinvesting in the club (which can be seen in the few months it’s been open). We personally are looking forward to the brand new triple jacuzzi area opening as well as the new adjacent play rooms to complement the existing setup of the club. We visit many clubs which can be seen from our validations and every club has its pros and cons.. and Abfabs certainly has a lot of Advantages.!! Ask yourself why would people constantly be negative about a club they have never been to themselves. Sad really, move on and find a club you like and go give them reviews.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"These people are obviously working or loyal to another club, they have never been there and all the other clubs in London have taken a hit with Abfabs reopening! They constantly put down Abfabs in every thread and their negativity shows. Our principle has been always to make your own minds up about a club instead of listening to the politics of inter clubs. The facilities offered by Abfabs is far superior than ANY club in London. They have a reputation of constant improvement and reinvesting in the club (which can be seen in the few months it’s been open). We personally are looking forward to the brand new triple jacuzzi area opening as well as the new adjacent play rooms to complement the existing setup of the club. We visit many clubs which can be seen from our validations and every club has its pros and cons.. and Abfabs certainly has a lot of Advantages.!! Ask yourself why would people constantly be negative about a club they have never been to themselves. Sad really, move on and find a club you like and go give them reviews. "

Couldn't have said it any better!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are the hot tubs operational yet does anyone know? Thanks

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

"Are the hot tubs operational yet does anyone know? Thanks"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are the hot tubs operational yet does anyone know? Thanks

No"

Thanks. Any time scale for these to be up and runnning does anyone know? I rang them 2 weeks ago and was told around a week which was obviously last week, if that makes sense????! haha

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By *ightowl99Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Are the hot tubs operational yet does anyone know? Thanks

Thanks. Any time scale for these to be up and runnning does anyone know? I rang them 2 weeks ago and was told around a week which was obviously last week, if that makes sense????! haha"

Haha, I went there about 2 months ago and they told me 1-2 weeks then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been here before, what is it like for single

Men .. would it be weird if I bought another single guy with me? We both looking for swinging fun and he is my best mate

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

"Never been here before, what is it like for single

Men .. would it be weird if I bought another single guy with me? We both looking for swinging fun and he is my best mate "

No that's not weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are the hot tubs operational yet does anyone know? Thanks

Thanks. Any time scale for these to be up and runnning does anyone know? I rang them 2 weeks ago and was told around a week which was obviously last week, if that makes sense????! haha

Haha, I went there about 2 months ago and they told me 1-2 weeks then!"

Was there today and they are all ready to go. Just waiting for licence which they are chasing.

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By *oveoldercouples99Man
over a year ago

Merton

"Are the hot tubs operational yet does anyone know? Thanks

Thanks. Any time scale for these to be up and runnning does anyone know? I rang them 2 weeks ago and was told around a week which was obviously last week, if that makes sense????! haha

Haha, I went there about 2 months ago and they told me 1-2 weeks then!

Was there today and they are all ready to go. Just waiting for licence which they are chasing. "

How was Kestrels today?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are the hot tubs operational yet does anyone know? Thanks

Thanks. Any time scale for these to be up and runnning does anyone know? I rang them 2 weeks ago and was told around a week which was obviously last week, if that makes sense????! haha

Haha, I went there about 2 months ago and they told me 1-2 weeks then!

Was there today and they are all ready to go. Just waiting for licence which they are chasing.

How was Kestrels today? "

Bloody lovely

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By *rsSweetMrSourCouple
over a year ago

Reading

We arrived there tonight and what was our surprise when we realize that the only one who entering that club were guys and two quite big ladies. The lady at the reception asked us about our names and membership. We didn't even want to talk to them. She ask us about our surnames when other are around. £ 50 for a night in a club full of men?

No offense.

There are other clubs around that do not look like the warehouse in the Prohibition time, and have a specific climate. The only climate we felt in AbFab is the climate of the swimming pool or a french gay club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are the hot tubs operational yet does anyone know? Thanks

Thanks. Any time scale for these to be up and runnning does anyone know? I rang them 2 weeks ago and was told around a week which was obviously last week, if that makes sense????! haha

Haha, I went there about 2 months ago and they told me 1-2 weeks then!

Was there today and they are all ready to go. Just waiting for licence which they are chasing. "

Thank you

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By *arc and KamaCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"We arrived there tonight and what was our surprise when we realize that the only one who entering that club were guys and two quite big ladies.."

You should tell us you are going... would be one more couple...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We will be there tonight with our naughty extra lady to cause mischief

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By *ark.aitkenMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"We will be there tonight with our naughty extra lady to cause mischief

Well I shall be trying the new place for the first time on Monday so I'll be able to comment then. Thanks for the couple of PMs I've had from here....

Anyone else planning a trip on Monday evening?

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By *ouble CCouple
over a year ago

Gran Canaria

We are going tonight! Our meet has cancelled so venturing out to AbFabs! Very excited! Miss C Xx

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By *y93Man
over a year ago

London

"Are the hot tubs operational yet does anyone know? Thanks"

I was there monday 26th Aug. it wasnt working, the guy said in about 4 weeks.

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By *requent_FerryersCouple
over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth (by river)

We enjoyed our few visits to the old Abfabs and were sad to see it closed down. So you can imagine how pleased we and our friends who we always attend with were when we heard the new club was opening.

We immediately contact the club through their website, photo-copied our membership cards and asked for new memberships...

Then nothing!

Should we send our request for membership in again?

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By *ouble CCouple
over a year ago

Gran Canaria

"We enjoyed our few visits to the old Abfabs and were sad to see it closed down. So you can imagine how pleased we and our friends who we always attend with were when we heard the new club was opening.

We immediately contact the club through their website, photo-copied our membership cards and asked for new memberships...

Then nothing!

Should we send our request for membership in again?

We had this and when we went for our 1st Kestrels visit we had to use the laptops in Reception to fill it all in again, which wasn't a pain but I imagine if its busy it can be.

I've just filled new forms in and will take our OLD AbFab couple card and IDs tonight and hopefully it will be OK. I think if you fill in the forms online it goes into a folder and when you physically go to the club they can pull it up. Maybe fill it in again online. When we did it, it was so soon after it opened and the website was active so it may have got lost in the traffic...as it were. Miss C Xx

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By *rsSweetMrSourCouple
over a year ago

Reading

Mea culpa x

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By *ouble CCouple
over a year ago

Gran Canaria

"What is there to discuss about this venue!

Yes it’s not perfect but they’ve put a huge amount of work in to get to this point - and that was after the huge amount of work to try to keep the old place open.

There's our girl!

Was wondering when you would pop up. Miss your face

Miss C Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are the hot tubs operational yet does anyone know? Thanks

I was there monday 26th Aug. it wasnt working, the guy said in about 4 weeks."

Thanks bud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We immediately contact the club through their website, photo-copied our membership cards and asked for new memberships...

Then nothing!

Should we send our request for membership in again?

There is an online google form to fill out on the website, or you can do that in the new reception on arrival at the club using one of their PCs.

I believe if you bring your old membership card along (as well as the usual ID etc) they waive the first year membership

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