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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We are heading to club f for the first time this Friday 16th, it's actually our first club experience. Our minds are racing, so many questions. What should we wear? How do we get talking to people? How to gently get rid of unwanted attention?

Any experts want to weigh in?

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

Hi club f is a very relaxed and friendly place ,the staff will show you around when you get there,and let you know the rules . There is a bar to meet and chat to people (you need to take any alcohol you want to drink) theres no dress code as such but most take something sexy to dess down into hope this helps

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"We are heading to club f for the first time this Friday 16th, it's actually our first club experience. Our minds are racing, so many questions. What should we wear? How do we get talking to people? How to gently get rid of unwanted attention?

Any experts want to weigh in?"

firstly... welcome to the madhouse.... i am sure you'll have a blast

answering your questions.....

what should you wear.... anything you feel comfortable in! its not a fashion show

how do we get talking to people? just take a deep breath and open your mouths... all good conversations and bad ones, they all start with "hello", we were all new once so know how it feels

the one thing i would also say is this.. I know the temptation is going to be to find a corner and sit in it! don't! more people you say hello to... more people you get a chance to connect with.... a hello is just a hello

how do you get rid of unwanted attention? the worst thing anyone should really hear is "no thank you"... if they are offended by a no thank you then they are in the wrong place! as for anything else, people should always ask before anything happens... if not have a word with the staff, they are lovely and they will sort out everything....

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

It's a great club, and I think a good one for your first club experience. I've found everyone there very friendly, and it's not difficult to get talking. Just go up to them and say hello! "We're new" is always a good opening line.

Most people spend the start of the night in the bar or smoking room, so there's plenty of opportunity to socialise.

Wear what you'd normally wear for a night out. There's usually a fairly wide range of outfits, from very casual to flashy. It would be hard to be out of place. You'll also need something to dress down. For men it's easy - towel or robe or occasionally boxers. For women, sexy lingerie.

Dressing down is optional if you stay on the ground floor (where the bar is), and in those areas you can't go completely naked. Upstairs you must dress down after 10:30.

If you want to go in the hot tub or sauna, most people will be naked, but if you're not comfortable doing that, you can bring a swimsuit.

Unwanted attention is dealt with by telling them that you're not interested. "Sorry, not for us". If they persist (I don't think that happens often, but I don't see the club from the perspective of a woman), the threat of fetching staff to deal with them should do it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys can I ask where is club f

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

In Stanley

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

once inside will wonder why you never went before,freindly club and imo have picked the best night , just like going on holiday ,turning out and same thing speaking to people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any experts want to weigh in?

firstly... welcome to the madhouse.... i am sure you'll have a blast

answering your questions.....

what should you wear.... anything you feel comfortable in! its not a fashion show

how do we get talking to people? just take a deep breath and open your mouths... all good conversations and bad ones, they all start with "hello", we were all new once so know how it feels

What he said! ^^^^^^^^

Seriously though, dress up, dress down. Wear whatever you feel comfortable in.

The club is such a social place and everyone is lovely; you'll have no problem chatting to people.

Our members are respectful and know the rules of the club. Any unwanted attention should be responded to, with a polite no thank you. You don't have to repeat yourself should someone persist and ignore your no thank you. There are plenty of lovely staff (including me) who have no qualms about having a quiet word with someone who doesn't understand the word no.

Any questions, feel free to drop me a message

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We had a fantastic time. So much fun, the dungeon is gorgeous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We had a fantastic time. So much fun, the dungeon is gorgeous. "

Guys, I remember you well! So glad you enjoyed yourselves. Hoping to see you back with us soon

xxx

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By *ewzoe61Woman
over a year ago

bishop Auckland

I attended last night with a friend for first time and although very nervous the staff were so lovely and welcoming will be back thanks I don’t remember the girls name that showed us round but she was a star xx

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"I don’t remember the girls name that showed us round but she was a star xx"

They're all stars, to be honest

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