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"Hi all, I am going to angels on Saturday to loose my club virginity and to be honest I am bricking it!! I don’t know what to expect really and I’m not 100% on what to wear any help much appreciated!?" We regularly go to Angels and it's a very friendly club, you will be fine but can appreciate the nerves it's a big step. Dress code is very relaxed, a tidy pair of jeans and a clean shirt or t shirt will be fine. You will get a tour after you have signed in, don't forget ID, and make sure that you ring up and book in, you won't be allowed in otherwise. | |||
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"Hi Yeah I’m all booked in lol look like I need to go shopping then oh trust me I will give everybody space I will just sit at the bar all night and talk to the bar staff I am very shy around new people And thank you ! " You will need to mix but don't just follow couples/fems around, say hello, if you just prop up the bar then no one will know that you are interested. | |||
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"Hi Yeah I’m all booked in lol look like I need to go shopping then oh trust me I will give everybody space I will just sit at the bar all night and talk to the bar staff I am very shy around new people And thank you ! You will need to mix but don't just follow couples/fems around, say hello, if you just prop up the bar then no one will know that you are interested. " This is the main thing in a club a single guy needs to get his head around; for as much as everyone 'selling' the club scene will tell you that everyone is so friendly and welcoming, it's rare anyone will approach a guy by himself to open a conversation. Be prepared to make the first move on couples and single females, and also chat with other single guys if only to stop yourself looking like 'Billy no mates'. You are likely to be politely declined, you may also be snubbed, but there will be people willing to get to know you as well. Good luck | |||
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"Hi Yeah I’m all booked in lol look like I need to go shopping then oh trust me I will give everybody space I will just sit at the bar all night and talk to the bar staff I am very shy around new people And thank you ! You will need to mix but don't just follow couples/fems around, say hello, if you just prop up the bar then no one will know that you are interested. This is the main thing in a club a single guy needs to get his head around; for as much as everyone 'selling' the club scene will tell you that everyone is so friendly and welcoming, it's rare anyone will approach a guy by himself to open a conversation. Be prepared to make the first move on couples and single females, and also chat with other single guys if only to stop yourself looking like 'Billy no mates'. You are likely to be politely declined, you may also be snubbed, but there will be people willing to get to know you as well. Good luck " Good advice, we are always happy to chat to single guys who make the effort to chat instead of just sitting there staring at you..... | |||
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"Hi Yeah I’m all booked in lol look like I need to go shopping then oh trust me I will give everybody space I will just sit at the bar all night and talk to the bar staff I am very shy around new people And thank you ! You will need to mix but don't just follow couples/fems around, say hello, if you just prop up the bar then no one will know that you are interested. This is the main thing in a club a single guy needs to get his head around; for as much as everyone 'selling' the club scene will tell you that everyone is so friendly and welcoming, it's rare anyone will approach a guy by himself to open a conversation. Be prepared to make the first move on couples and single females, and also chat with other single guys if only to stop yourself looking like 'Billy no mates'. You are likely to be politely declined, you may also be snubbed, but there will be people willing to get to know you as well. Good luck Good advice, we are always happy to chat to single guys who make the effort to chat instead of just sitting there staring at you..... " My point proven lol! Single guys have to make the first move | |||
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"Thanks guys and gals for all the advice it’s much appreciated " Looking forward to meeting you on Saturday. | |||
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"Hi Yeah I’m all booked in lol look like I need to go shopping then oh trust me I will give everybody space I will just sit at the bar all night and talk to the bar staff I am very shy around new people And thank you ! You will need to mix but don't just follow couples/fems around, say hello, if you just prop up the bar then no one will know that you are interested. This is the main thing in a club a single guy needs to get his head around; for as much as everyone 'selling' the club scene will tell you that everyone is so friendly and welcoming, it's rare anyone will approach a guy by himself to open a conversation. Be prepared to make the first move on couples and single females, and also chat with other single guys if only to stop yourself looking like 'Billy no mates'. You are likely to be politely declined, you may also be snubbed, but there will be people willing to get to know you as well. Good luck Good advice, we are always happy to chat to single guys who make the effort to chat instead of just sitting there staring at you..... My point proven lol! Single guys have to make the first move " I frequently approach men I like and chat to them! Or in fact men who are standing alone looking a bit lost. But equally it's fair that they can't expect to not make any effort themselves. | |||
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"Hi Yeah I’m all booked in lol look like I need to go shopping then oh trust me I will give everybody space I will just sit at the bar all night and talk to the bar staff I am very shy around new people And thank you ! You will need to mix but don't just follow couples/fems around, say hello, if you just prop up the bar then no one will know that you are interested. This is the main thing in a club a single guy needs to get his head around; for as much as everyone 'selling' the club scene will tell you that everyone is so friendly and welcoming, it's rare anyone will approach a guy by himself to open a conversation. Be prepared to make the first move on couples and single females, and also chat with other single guys if only to stop yourself looking like 'Billy no mates'. You are likely to be politely declined, you may also be snubbed, but there will be people willing to get to know you as well. Good luck Good advice, we are always happy to chat to single guys who make the effort to chat instead of just sitting there staring at you..... My point proven lol! Single guys have to make the first move I frequently approach men I like and chat to them! Or in fact men who are standing alone looking a bit lost. But equally it's fair that they can't expect to not make any effort themselves. " Let's hope you bump into the OP on his first club visit then | |||
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"Hi Yeah I’m all booked in lol look like I need to go shopping then oh trust me I will give everybody space I will just sit at the bar all night and talk to the bar staff I am very shy around new people And thank you ! You will need to mix but don't just follow couples/fems around, say hello, if you just prop up the bar then no one will know that you are interested. This is the main thing in a club a single guy needs to get his head around; for as much as everyone 'selling' the club scene will tell you that everyone is so friendly and welcoming, it's rare anyone will approach a guy by himself to open a conversation. Be prepared to make the first move on couples and single females, and also chat with other single guys if only to stop yourself looking like 'Billy no mates'. You are likely to be politely declined, you may also be snubbed, but there will be people willing to get to know you as well. Good luck Good advice, we are always happy to chat to single guys who make the effort to chat instead of just sitting there staring at you..... My point proven lol! Single guys have to make the first move I frequently approach men I like and chat to them! Or in fact men who are standing alone looking a bit lost. But equally it's fair that they can't expect to not make any effort themselves. Let's hope you bump into the OP on his first club visit then " Or someone with a similar outlook | |||
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"Hi Yeah I’m all booked in lol look like I need to go shopping then oh trust me I will give everybody space I will just sit at the bar all night and talk to the bar staff I am very shy around new people And thank you ! You will need to mix but don't just follow couples/fems around, say hello, if you just prop up the bar then no one will know that you are interested. This is the main thing in a club a single guy needs to get his head around; for as much as everyone 'selling' the club scene will tell you that everyone is so friendly and welcoming, it's rare anyone will approach a guy by himself to open a conversation. Be prepared to make the first move on couples and single females, and also chat with other single guys if only to stop yourself looking like 'Billy no mates'. You are likely to be politely declined, you may also be snubbed, but there will be people willing to get to know you as well. Good luck Good advice, we are always happy to chat to single guys who make the effort to chat instead of just sitting there staring at you..... My point proven lol! Single guys have to make the first move " That is a bit of a leap, everyone who wants to meet people have to make the effort. I was not saying that as a couple we expect to be treated any differently, am happy to chat and will make the effort but those single guys who sit near you waiting for you to do something is a turn off. If you go to a club embrace it as a social and anything else is a bonus... | |||
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"Hi Yeah I’m all booked in lol look like I need to go shopping then oh trust me I will give everybody space I will just sit at the bar all night and talk to the bar staff I am very shy around new people And thank you ! " Tbf this isn't a bad idea, especially for a newbie. The bar is a place almost everyone visits from time to time and is generally a friendly place if it's busy enough as there's less pressure here. Don't limit yourself, have a nosey about the place without coming across as a worker or the wanking dead obviously, but the bar is a good place to base yourself. Also you will doubtless have many questions about the scene in general, which the staff should be pretty decent at answering. Have fun! B | |||
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"Hi yes I get on better then I would of ever thought of It was an amazing night at the beginning I was very nervous and shy but there was so many friendly people met some great people who was talking to me and made me feel so welcome I honestly could not of asked for a better night Will define going can there " Nice one mate, glad to hear you enjoyed your first club visit! And a big thumbs-up to Angels for making a single guy feel so welcome | |||
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