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What footwear to wear in a club?

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By *icplshrops OP   Couple
over a year ago

Rock

Hi there. We’re planning on going to Cupids in Manchester this Wednesday, and I’m wondering what to wear on my feet (female) after dressing down. I’m planning on wearing a matching bra and thong under a black see through lace dress, and possibly with black or nude holdups, or just bare legs. I was thinking of heels, but would bare feet be acceptable? Also, do we need to inform the club we’re coming, even though it’s not an event? Thanks

J

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

As someone and one of many who go bare foot at dress down clubs, please don`t wear stiletto heels as an accidental toe trodden on is bloody painful!

They don`t do the surfaces of the play areas much good either!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, you will be fine either way at Cupid’s. I prefer footwear for hygiene but I guess there are worse things you could pick up in a club lol! You will also be fine just turning up on a non-event night. Enjoy, it’s a lovely club.

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

A nice pair of flats I usually wear in dress down. Easy to manage between hot tubs, showers n play areas

At my local club quest. Is either barefoot or flop.flops

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Cupids have steep stairs. Heels you can walk fairly comfortably in, or nice flats (barefoot is possible to but I wouldn't).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chams heels or flipflops

Xtasisa heels

Fetclubs heels or trainers (but will get my Ass kicked for it lol)

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I have a couple of pairs of fancy feathery furry slider things

I'm not quite sure how else to describe them

If the club has hot tub/wet area they excellent for slipping back on damp feet easily

Easy to take off in a hurry too

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

MrsD usually wears heels to clubs but bare feet would be fine too. Whatever makes you comfortable. You shouldn’t need to tell the club you’re coming. Enjoy your first visit

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By *ingle Dad SeekingMan
over a year ago

Northern England


"Hi there. We’re planning on going to Cupids in Manchester this Wednesday, and I’m wondering what to wear on my feet (female) after dressing down. I’m planning on wearing a matching bra and thong under a black see through lace dress, and possibly with black or nude holdups, or just bare legs. I was thinking of heels, but would bare feet be acceptable? Also, do we need to inform the club we’re coming, even though it’s not an event? Thanks

J"

Crocs - and leave your dignity behind.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

Lots of steps at Cupid’s, barefoot is fine but flats would be better.

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By *ikerswingCouple
over a year ago

mcr

my ither half always wears heels in cupids .only one set of stairs and there not to bad compared to other clubs.beenn going on and off for 6 years and never a trodden toe or missed step.you will be fine as long as your comfortable walking in them.i mr wear sliders more for hygene as the floors can get wet and sticky.see you there wed we are going too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may be going to a club at the end of this month and plan on wearing my 4 inch heels.

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By *icplshrops OP   Couple
over a year ago

Rock

Thanks for all your replies. They’ve been most helpful and reassuring, us being newbies with clubs.

I have brought some heels with me, but I do prefer flats for comfort and probably will wear them on the night, rather than go barefooted!

J

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By *icplshrops OP   Couple
over a year ago

Rock


"Hi there. We’re planning on going to Cupids in Manchester this Wednesday, and I’m wondering what to wear on my feet (female) after dressing down. I’m planning on wearing a matching bra and thong under a black see through lace dress, and possibly with black or nude holdups, or just bare legs. I was thinking of heels, but would bare feet be acceptable? Also, do we need to inform the club we’re coming, even though it’s not an event? Thanks

J

Crocs - and leave your dignity behind. "

I never succumbed to such a fashion item!

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By *icplshrops OP   Couple
over a year ago

Rock


"my ither half always wears heels in cupids .only one set of stairs and there not to bad compared to other clubs.beenn going on and off for 6 years and never a trodden toe or missed step.you will be fine as long as your comfortable walking in them.i mr wear sliders more for hygene as the floors can get wet and sticky.see you there wed we are going too "

Thanks. It’s our first time at Cupids and both looking forward to going. We may see you there.

J

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By *over me with CumCouple
over a year ago

Near Spalding.


"Hi there. We’re planning on going to Cupids in Manchester this Wednesday, and I’m wondering what to wear on my feet (female) after dressing down. I’m planning on wearing a matching bra and thong under a black see through lace dress, and possibly with black or nude holdups, or just bare legs. I was thinking of heels, but would bare feet be acceptable? Also, do we need to inform the club we’re coming, even though it’s not an event? Thanks

J"

Wellies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wear My sliders in swinging clubs because they are very comfortable and very easy to put on and off.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

I wear heels not too high as only size 3, either mid (not kitten) or wedges Hubby wears Toms

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By *icplshrops OP   Couple
over a year ago

Rock


"Hi there. We’re planning on going to Cupids in Manchester this Wednesday, and I’m wondering what to wear on my feet (female) after dressing down. I’m planning on wearing a matching bra and thong under a black see through lace dress, and possibly with black or nude holdups, or just bare legs. I was thinking of heels, but would bare feet be acceptable? Also, do we need to inform the club we’re coming, even though it’s not an event? Thanks

J

Wellies?"

Considering I’m a squirter, that may be a good idea!

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By *uzybabesWoman
over a year ago

manchester


"As someone and one of many who go bare foot at dress down clubs, please don`t wear stiletto heels as an accidental toe trodden on is bloody painful!

They don`t do the surfaces of the play areas much good either!"

Some on us love stilettos shoes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wear flat shoes when at clubs

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Speaking as someone who prefers to be barefoot in a club, I hate seeing people in stilettos. I’ve had a couple of pretty nasty injuries & my partner has a fractured metatarsal from being stood on by a carelessly placed heel

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By *nasuitMan
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Hi there. We’re planning on going to Cupids in Manchester this Wednesday, and I’m wondering what to wear on my feet (female) after dressing down. I’m planning on wearing a matching bra and thong under a black see through lace dress, and possibly with black or nude holdups, or just bare legs. I was thinking of heels, but would bare feet be acceptable? Also, do we need to inform the club we’re coming, even though it’s not an event? Thanks

J

Crocs - and leave your dignity behind. "

Saw somebody in a club once on the bed playing in their Crocs, need more therapy just thinking about it now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple of others have said, I wouldn't try heels at Cupids again because of the steps.

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

My first time at VA on Friday, and will most definately be in heels ... 4” heels .... note to avoid those in bare feet xx

Rachel xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t think of anything so un erotic than slip on shoes or bare feet in a club.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

My friend wears heels at Cupid’s. I’ve always admired her bravery lol.

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