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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent

First thread about Abfabs reached the 175 message limit, so starting a new one for ant going, or has been, or is interested in the new Abfabs x

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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent

So to get this started, whose going to Abfabs next sat aug 3 or kestrels on the Sunday x

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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Went today for the first time, great club and will be going again but not sure about that Sunday yet.

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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent

Well it was lovely to meet you this afternoon x

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Well it was lovely to meet you this afternoon x"

You’ll have to remind me who you are, but I think we chatted at the bar and then again as you were getting dressed?

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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent

Spot on topsy x

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

Is there good or bad times to visit either abfabs or kestrels?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Is there good or bad times to visit either abfabs or kestrels?"

All visits to all clubs simply can’t be predicted. My motto is always use them or lose them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So to get this started, whose going to Abfabs next sat aug 3 or kestrels on the Sunday x "

Going Monday night

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By *ightowl99Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

I joined Kestrel last time I went during the daytime. Does anyone know if I have to complete a separate membership form in order to attend Abfabs?

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By *andy cane321Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"I joined Kestrel last time I went during the daytime. Does anyone know if I have to complete a separate membership form in order to attend Abfabs?"

Yes you need the Abfabs membership to go to Abfabs

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By *ROJAN555Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

A bit of a question; Am in transit on Sunday, morning..wondering if there could be a provision for safekeeping of my hand luggage while I swing at absfab on Saturday night?Will very much appreciate any suggestion from this house..cheers

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

Lockers are large, am sure that they can assist you in some way. Get in touch with them via their website

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By *ingsXGuyMan
over a year ago

London

Any thoughts on Heathrow express & pod parking to Thistle to get there from central London. Is there a better public transport option?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I joined Kestrel last time I went during the daytime. Does anyone know if I have to complete a separate membership form in order to attend Abfabs?"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will be going there on Friday 2nd August

Looking for great chats and maybe some great fun in the cinema room (or anywhere else)

Drop me a message if your going too

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By *ightDiversionMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks


"Any thoughts on Heathrow express & pod parking to Thistle to get there from central London. Is there a better public transport option?"

There are a few local buses which run from T5 to the thistle - not sure how late they go but they work for kestrels times.

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By *ightowl99Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

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By *ightowl99Man
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Any thoughts on Heathrow express & pod parking to Thistle to get there from central London. Is there a better public transport option?"

Pretty sure you can only use the pod to the Thistle if you are staying there.

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By *he RingmasterMan
over a year ago

Canford Cliffs


"Any thoughts on Heathrow express & pod parking to Thistle to get there from central London. Is there a better public transport option?"

Take the Heathrow Express if you have money to burn - mile for mile it's the most expensive train in the world. Take the tube to Heathrow Central and one of the perimeter buses from there.

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By *wosmilersCouple
over a year ago

Heathrowish


"Any thoughts on Heathrow express & pod parking to Thistle to get there from central London. Is there a better public transport option?

Take the Heathrow Express if you have money to burn - mile for mile it's the most expensive train in the world. Take the tube to Heathrow Central and one of the perimeter buses from there."

Or take an Uber from the station....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taking an Uber from West Drayton is the cheapest and quickest

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By *inky PinguWoman
over a year ago

My Igloo!

Already counting down the days till Mon when I get to come back to chill in the pool and cause mischief in the cinema with my partner

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By *iving it upCouple
over a year ago

Henley on Thames

Hi all

I was pretty regular visitor to Abs/Kestrels. Firstly well done to the owners and staff for getting another venue for a great club. Can anyone tell me if there is a sauna? Also are hot tubs running yet. We have to plan in advance to visit and want to come when the facilities are up and running.

X

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By *pal RoseCouple
over a year ago

Essex

How many approximately attend on a Saturday night? And is it couples only?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saturdays is couples and single girls only

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Hi all

I was pretty regular visitor to Abs/Kestrels. Firstly well done to the owners and staff for getting another venue for a great club. Can anyone tell me if there is a sauna? Also are hot tubs running yet. We have to plan in advance to visit and want to come when the facilities are up and running.

X"

The hot tubs have been delivered, three in all. The floor has to be painted and the tubs plumbed in yet but they are on it,

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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent


"How many approximately attend on a Saturday night? And is it couples only?"

Saturday nights are getting quite busy now, and yes, couples mainly, no single gents on a Saturday. We are going this next Saturday again, we can’t keep away now lol x

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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent

Anyone attending this weekend and staying at The Thistle Hotel opposite?

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By *unnymooncoupleCouple
over a year ago

Camberwell


"How many approximately attend on a Saturday night? And is it couples only?"

Last Saturday we were around 20 couples

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By *iving it upCouple
over a year ago

Henley on Thames

thank you for your answer.

Is there a sauna or steam room at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am very interested in going to this social

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Am very interested in going to this social "

What social? It’s a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am very interested in going to this social

What social? It’s a club."

just saying if it was

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Am very interested in going to this social

What social? It’s a club. just saying if it was "

Someone may organise a social there one day if the club hosts socials but it’s a club.

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By *aughtius MaximiusMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"thank you for your answer.

Is there a sauna or steam room at all?"

There is a sauna and steam room but not working at the moment. It’s on the to do list. The jacuzzi room should be open in about 3-4 weeks hopefully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am very interested in going to this social

What social? It’s a club. just saying if it was

Someone may organise a social there one day if the club hosts socials but it’s a club. "

would you go then?

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By *ardiffCoupleNJCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd/Rhyfelin

We are possibly down that way Friday.

Is it reasonably busy on a friday evening? Many folks planning on going?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friday’s are usually busy

But the vanilla alternative club has a festival of fun event open this weekend

And many couples are going to that, as a result might be less busy this weekend

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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent

Sometimes less busy leads to more fun.... in our experience at least x

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By *aughtius MaximiusMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

The event at VA shouldn’t effect the numbers attending Abfab on Friday or Saturday nights that much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What makes you so sure?

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

At the end of the day it only needs 1 or two to have fun!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Sometimes less busy leads to more fun.... in our experience at least x "

I’d agree with your observation, I’ve been to many new events over the years that as they got popular were just too busy. Playrooms full, too hot, no room in wet areas, too noisy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first Wednesday night at Abfabs tonight!

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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent

Have fun guys.... we can’t get in during week because of work locations but will try and make up for it at the weekend x

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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent

Is it really that quiet this weekend??? We doubt it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We might be going on the 17th, it will be our first visit to anything swinger related.

Any tips?

Do people shag in the pool?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can u get membership on arrival if u don't have a membership card

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By *ightDiversionMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks


"Can u get membership on arrival if u don't have a membership card

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They ask you to fill out an online form with attachments of ID - details on the website -you could drop them an email if it’s not possible to do online or you don’t want to do google forms

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By *parkly wifey 69Couple
over a year ago

luton

Me and my wife are hoping to attend tonight but i need to know what i need to bring for our first time and also what time they shut the doors for newbies as its a long drive from bedfordshire

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By *enithWoman
over a year ago

closer than you think


"Me and my wife are hoping to attend tonight but i need to know what i need to bring for our first time and also what time they shut the doors for newbies as its a long drive from bedfordshire "

See info above .... you need to complete online application

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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent

And the answer to the question about the pool is......

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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent

Yes

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By *wosmilersCouple
over a year ago

Heathrowish


"Yes "

A couple of weeks ago, there were 9 couples clearly enjoying the pool with us on Saturday night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes "

So you are allowed to fuck in the pool?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes

So you are allowed to fuck in the pool?"

I did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes

So you are allowed to fuck in the pool?

I did "

Okay, that's cool then. It was banned but they must have relaxed the rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait... What happens to all the body fluids? :D

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

Would imagine that they would float or sink depending on the mass. Hence the reason for the rules about not fucking in the pool. Health and safety and all that

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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent

Yes, rules are no sex in the pool.... that’s the rule

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By *outhessex14Man
over a year ago

basildon

I haven't been to the new site yet but hope to soon, use to love bi nights on a monday so will have to attend again soon

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By *parkly wifey 69Couple
over a year ago

luton

Went saterday just gone the club is filthy and dingy rundown and a ripoff it was dead and the guys wouldn't take no for an answer the owner left a vulnerable women who clearly had to much to drink alone in the cinema best part was the dance floor which no one was even in all night no dj just a cd playing we went on a non members night and then forced to pay membership on arrival

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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent


"Went saterday just gone the club is filthy and dingy rundown and a ripoff it was dead and the guys wouldn't take no for an answer the owner left a vulnerable women who clearly had to much to drink alone in the cinema best part was the dance floor which no one was even in all night no dj just a cd playing we went on a non members night and then forced to pay membership on arrival "

Clearly a fake review as Saturdays are couples only and they don’t do non members night..... another dreamer lol

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By *inky PinguWoman
over a year ago

My Igloo!

We are Heading there today.. say hi if you see us .. I'm feeling very mischievous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Went saterday just gone the club is filthy and dingy rundown and a ripoff it was dead and the guys wouldn't take no for an answer the owner left a vulnerable women who clearly had to much to drink alone in the cinema best part was the dance floor which no one was even in all night no dj just a cd playing we went on a non members night and then forced to pay membership on arrival

Clearly a fake review as Saturdays are couples only and they don’t do non members night..... another dreamer lol "

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By *wosmilersCouple
over a year ago

Heathrowish


"Went saterday just gone the club is filthy and dingy rundown and a ripoff it was dead and the guys wouldn't take no for an answer the owner left a vulnerable women who clearly had to much to drink alone in the cinema best part was the dance floor which no one was even in all night no dj just a cd playing we went on a non members night and then forced to pay membership on arrival

Clearly a fake review as Saturdays are couples only and they don’t do non members night..... another dreamer lol "

And someone short of a comma.....

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"Went saterday just gone the club is filthy and dingy rundown and a ripoff it was dead and the guys wouldn't take no for an answer the owner left a vulnerable women who clearly had to much to drink alone in the cinema best part was the dance floor which no one was even in all night no dj just a cd playing we went on a non members night and then forced to pay membership on arrival "

I think you have posted this on the WRONG club....or you went with crusty eyes.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Went saterday just gone the club is filthy and dingy rundown and a ripoff it was dead and the guys wouldn't take no for an answer the owner left a vulnerable women who clearly had to much to drink alone in the cinema best part was the dance floor which no one was even in all night no dj just a cd playing we went on a non members night and then forced to pay membership on arrival "

You clearly did not go to this club , it is members only and on Saturday nights it's couples and single ladies only!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Second visit to the club on Friday.

First visit was amazing !

Second visit on Friday 2nd August was highly disappointing. Mainly because too many men and hardly any couples and single ladies.

Facilities, are still good. Will be even better once the hot tubs are in.

Will give them another go though for sure!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Second visit to the club on Friday.

First visit was amazing !

Second visit on Friday 2nd August was highly disappointing. Mainly because too many men and hardly any couples and single ladies.

Facilities, are still good. Will be even better once the hot tubs are in.

Will give them another go though for sure!!"

The club is also open on a Monday and Wednesday night (not mentioning daytimes) so you ha e other times you can go.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Second visit to the club on Friday.

First visit was amazing !

Second visit on Friday 2nd August was highly disappointing. Mainly because too many men and hardly any couples and single ladies.

Facilities, are still good. Will be even better once the hot tubs are in.

Will give them another go though for sure!!"

As long as you remember that it could be jam packed with couples and women, doesn’t mean to say you’ll get to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree!

But too many single guys at any clubs is a problem!

Some form of controlling the m:f/mf ratio should be in place.

There’s no point of trying to maximise income by just allowing tons of single men in....this will result to people not returning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree!

But too many single guys at any clubs is a problem!

Some form of controlling the m:f/mf ratio should be in place.

There’s no point of trying to maximise income by just allowing tons of single men in....this will result to people not returning "

The situation was exactly the same at the previous venue. Money talks and the more money the better. Of course some people love loads of single guys and they will love it but they are the minority.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly

My first visit was a good balance of single ladies/ couples to males

Which meant it was very enjoyable

Anyone who attend Friday the 2nd August would agree there was too many single guys there

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By *uzzlightyear1981Man
over a year ago

staines

Thinking about going to kestrel on Wednesday afternoon. It will be my first time and my first time in a swingers club.

Bit unsure what to expect.

Does everyone walk around naked?

Abit of advice would be appreciated and is anyone planning on going Wednesday afternoon..,maybe around 2pm.

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By *horty4Man
over a year ago

london


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Thinking about going to kestrel on Wednesday afternoon. It will be my first time and my first time in a swingers club.

Bit unsure what to expect.

Does everyone walk around naked?

Abit of advice would be appreciated and is anyone planning on going Wednesday afternoon..,maybe around 2pm."

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By *ightDiversionMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks


"I agree!

But too many single guys at any clubs is a problem!

Some form of controlling the m:f/mf ratio should be in place.

There’s no point of trying to maximise income by just allowing tons of single men in....this will result to people not returning

The situation was exactly the same at the previous venue. Money talks and the more money the better. Of course some people love loads of single guys and they will love it but they are the minority. "

I thought they did limit single guys on a Friday ? Maybe I am forgetful !!

It’s a fine line between the income from guys and the putting off of couples who will then just go on a Saturday if they can - then the guys won’t go on a Friday as ratio even worse - then couples come back as guys are fewer ......., and so it goes on ! A nightmare I assume

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By *horty4Man
over a year ago

london


"

Thinking about going to kestrel on Wednesday afternoon. It will be my first time and my first time in a swingers club.

Bit unsure what to expect.

Does everyone walk around naked?

Abit of advice would be appreciated and is anyone planning on going Wednesday afternoon..,maybe around 2pm."

I tried it on a Wednesday evening a couple of weeks ago. Not any people at all, mostly guys. Still, Emerdale Farm was on the big telly which is fine if you like terrible soap operas.

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By *ightDiversionMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

I forgot to ask

I guess the dance floor area is open on a Friday / Saturday night - but is there a couples only area ? We couldn’t find one during the daytime so I wondered if it was an evening thing ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No couples only area on fri

The dance floor is a huge waste of space

No one ever goes there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree!

But too many single guys at any clubs is a problem!

Some form of controlling the m:f/mf ratio should be in place.

There’s no point of trying to maximise income by just allowing tons of single men in....this will result to people not returning

The situation was exactly the same at the previous venue. Money talks and the more money the better. Of course some people love loads of single guys and they will love it but they are the minority.

I thought they did limit single guys on a Friday ? Maybe I am forgetful !!

It’s a fine line between the income from guys and the putting off of couples who will then just go on a Saturday if they can - then the guys won’t go on a Friday as ratio even worse - then couples come back as guys are fewer ......., and so it goes on ! A nightmare I assume "

All clubs face this particular situation. There is a balance to be struck. I would imagine,based on the crowdfunding situation, that the club is somewhat cash strapped and the more single guys means more money. It's a simple decision, accept the situation or if you are going to attend then go on a Saturday when the single gents are not welcome.

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By *ightDiversionMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Shame

Oh well hopefully when it gets back to full speed it will be as good as before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shame

Oh well hopefully when it gets back to full speed it will be as good as before "

As I said before the situation was the same in its previous incarnation.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

...and I only play with single men so couples are no good for me unless it’s to have a natter and a chill with.

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By *errysMan
over a year ago

milton keynes and kent

If couples only nights stopped then you would find a better mix throughout the week rather than couples waiting for a specific night.

Natural selection would cause the dodgy men to stop attending.

The single guy price puts off many decent single guys also a lower entry fee would get a turnover during the night (20 quid...nothing going on go pub 50 quid nothing going on...stay, might get monies worth later).

Obviously its up to the owners perhaps they make most profit on a couples nights.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If couples only nights stopped then you would find a better mix throughout the week rather than couples waiting for a specific night.

Natural selection would cause the dodgy men to stop attending.

The single guy price puts off many decent single guys also a lower entry fee would get a turnover during the night (20 quid...nothing going on go pub 50 quid nothing going on...stay, might get monies worth later).

Obviously its up to the owners perhaps they make most profit on a couples nights.

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Stopping couples only nights would simply stop those couples who don't want single guys from attending. They'd simple go elsewhere.

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By *errysMan
over a year ago

milton keynes and kent

Exactly

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"If couples only nights stopped then you would find a better mix throughout the week rather than couples waiting for a specific night.

Natural selection would cause the dodgy men to stop attending.

The single guy price puts off many decent single guys also a lower entry fee would get a turnover during the night (20 quid...nothing going on go pub 50 quid nothing going on...stay, might get monies worth later).

Obviously its up to the owners perhaps they make most profit on a couples nights.

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I know not to bother going on couples only events and couples who don’t want to be bothered by single men are able to go without being bothered.

It’s no good pretending that all single men understand the etiquette of attending clubs.

I can barely walk past reception of any club without my space being invaded and men jostling to prove to me that they are decent people worth fucking. Constantly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If couples only nights stopped then you would find a better mix throughout the week rather than couples waiting for a specific night.

Natural selection would cause the dodgy men to stop attending.

The single guy price puts off many decent single guys also a lower entry fee would get a turnover during the night (20 quid...nothing going on go pub 50 quid nothing going on...stay, might get monies worth later).

Obviously its up to the owners perhaps they make most profit on a couples nights.

I know not to bother going on couples only events and couples who don’t want to be bothered by single men are able to go without being bothered.

It’s no good pretending that all single men understand the etiquette of attending clubs.

I can barely walk past reception of any club without my space being invaded and men jostling to prove to me that they are decent people worth fucking. Constantly."

That's clubs for you. Most of them are the same.

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over a year ago

Finally off to abfabs this Wednesday the 7th and can't wait to see the new venue. Have been reading the reviews and can't wait to chill out in the pool x

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"If couples only nights stopped then you would find a better mix throughout the week rather than couples waiting for a specific night.

Natural selection would cause the dodgy men to stop attending.

The single guy price puts off many decent single guys also a lower entry fee would get a turnover during the night (20 quid...nothing going on go pub 50 quid nothing going on...stay, might get monies worth later).

Obviously its up to the owners perhaps they make most profit on a couples nights.

I know not to bother going on couples only events and couples who don’t want to be bothered by single men are able to go without being bothered.

It’s no good pretending that all single men understand the etiquette of attending clubs.

I can barely walk past reception of any club without my space being invaded and men jostling to prove to me that they are decent people worth fucking. Constantly.

That's clubs for you. Most of them are the same."

So true!

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By *errysMan
over a year ago

milton keynes and kent

Personally i prefer going as a couple and rarely go on my own now because of attitudes towards single men and my friend prefers singles nights due to not being bi. funnily enough inappropriate touching is usually from the male half of couples due to us not expecting it. (Happened in a pool recently).

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"Personally i prefer going as a couple and rarely go on my own now because of attitudes towards single men and my friend prefers singles nights due to not being bi. funnily enough inappropriate touching is usually from the male half of couples due to us not expecting it. (Happened in a pool recently). "

Yeh and he didn't ask!!! His wife reminded him!!!!! Lol

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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago

West Kent (near Tonbridge)


"Sometimes less busy leads to more fun.... in our experience at least x "

That's often been my experience too

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By *Jcouple321Couple
over a year ago

south Bucks

First visit to the new Abfabs on Friday. We like well behaved single guys. See you there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First visit to the new Abfabs on Friday. We like well behaved single guys. See you there. "

Very well behaved guy here (I’m not one of those wanking zombies lol) look forward to hopefully seeing you at abfabs tonight !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apologies for being so naive about this. But live very close to the Heathrow abfabs, want to go, but I genuinely have no idea what happens there. Could somebody fill me in? Or is it a something I have to find out by going type thing?

Ta!

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

Go and find out then.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go and find out then....."

Ha, now that’s an intentionally mysteriously cryptic and vague reply

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Go and find out then.....

Ha, now that’s an intentionally mysteriously cryptic and vague reply "

How about typing ‘what is a swingers club’ or ‘what happens in swingers clubs’ in google?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go and find out then.....

Ha, now that’s an intentionally mysteriously cryptic and vague reply

How about typing ‘what is a swingers club’ or ‘what happens in swingers clubs’ in google?"

Have looked on the website, didn’t help much. It was just a question, I was just curious. I don’t think I’ll ask next time I need advice haha, jeez

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go and find out then.....

Ha, now that’s an intentionally mysteriously cryptic and vague reply

How about typing ‘what is a swingers club’ or ‘what happens in swingers clubs’ in google?"

Agreed. I think the school holidays are on at the moment...so these sort of posts will be a regularly occurrence

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Go and find out then.....

Ha, now that’s an intentionally mysteriously cryptic and vague reply

How about typing ‘what is a swingers club’ or ‘what happens in swingers clubs’ in google?

Have looked on the website, didn’t help much. It was just a question, I was just curious. I don’t think I’ll ask next time I need advice haha, jeez "

What website did you look at? I’ve just did what I suggested and the first three articles that came up were really rather good?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go and find out then.....

Ha, now that’s an intentionally mysteriously cryptic and vague reply

How about typing ‘what is a swingers club’ or ‘what happens in swingers clubs’ in google?

Have looked on the website, didn’t help much. It was just a question, I was just curious. I don’t think I’ll ask next time I need advice haha, jeez

What website did you look at? I’ve just did what I suggested and the first three articles that came up were really rather good?"

The abfabs website. I could obviously google swingers club and get my answers, just saw this thread and thought I’d ask. Really didn’t think it was a big deal

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Go and find out then.....

Ha, now that’s an intentionally mysteriously cryptic and vague reply

How about typing ‘what is a swingers club’ or ‘what happens in swingers clubs’ in google?

Have looked on the website, didn’t help much. It was just a question, I was just curious. I don’t think I’ll ask next time I need advice haha, jeez

What website did you look at? I’ve just did what I suggested and the first three articles that came up were really rather good?

The abfabs website. I could obviously google swingers club and get my answers, just saw this thread and thought I’d ask. Really didn’t think it was a big deal"

You asked what goes on there, it’s a swingers club so you could read about what goes on in swingers clubs. The buildings may be different but they are all the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go and find out then.....

Ha, now that’s an intentionally mysteriously cryptic and vague reply

How about typing ‘what is a swingers club’ or ‘what happens in swingers clubs’ in google?

Have looked on the website, didn’t help much. It was just a question, I was just curious. I don’t think I’ll ask next time I need advice haha, jeez

What website did you look at? I’ve just did what I suggested and the first three articles that came up were really rather good?

The abfabs website. I could obviously google swingers club and get my answers, just saw this thread and thought I’d ask. Really didn’t think it was a big deal

You asked what goes on there, it’s a swingers club so you could read about what goes on in swingers clubs. The buildings may be different but they are all the same. "

I did ask, people on a swinging site who go to that specific club. Seemed like quite a logical thing to do to me. Felt like I asked quite politely too, so not really sure why you’re being unnecessarily hostile (sure feels like you are anyway). Anyway don’t worry about it. Thanks for all the help

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey


"Go and find out then.....

Ha, now that’s an intentionally mysteriously cryptic and vague reply

How about typing ‘what is a swingers club’ or ‘what happens in swingers clubs’ in google?

Have looked on the website, didn’t help much. It was just a question, I was just curious. I don’t think I’ll ask next time I need advice haha, jeez

What website did you look at? I’ve just did what I suggested and the first three articles that came up were really rather good?

The abfabs website. I could obviously google swingers club and get my answers, just saw this thread and thought I’d ask. Really didn’t think it was a big deal

You asked what goes on there, it’s a swingers club so you could read about what goes on in swingers clubs. The buildings may be different but they are all the same.

I did ask, people on a swinging site who go to that specific club. Seemed like quite a logical thing to do to me. Felt like I asked quite politely too, so not really sure why you’re being unnecessarily hostile (sure feels like you are anyway). Anyway don’t worry about it. Thanks for all the help "

Anything you can imagine, and plenty that you'd never imagined, can, possibly, happen; but there could be times when absolutely nothing happens - no 2 nights are ever the same, which is part of the fun never knowing what the night ahead holds in store!

But one thing if you do go, go with no expectation of having any sex/play, be sociable, don't be one of the wanking zombies who aimlessly follow couples around with their cocks in their hands; respect peoples personal space, talk to people if you catch their eye and you'll find your chances of being invited to play increase.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go and find out then.....

Ha, now that’s an intentionally mysteriously cryptic and vague reply

How about typing ‘what is a swingers club’ or ‘what happens in swingers clubs’ in google?

Have looked on the website, didn’t help much. It was just a question, I was just curious. I don’t think I’ll ask next time I need advice haha, jeez

What website did you look at? I’ve just did what I suggested and the first three articles that came up were really rather good?

The abfabs website. I could obviously google swingers club and get my answers, just saw this thread and thought I’d ask. Really didn’t think it was a big deal

You asked what goes on there, it’s a swingers club so you could read about what goes on in swingers clubs. The buildings may be different but they are all the same.

I did ask, people on a swinging site who go to that specific club. Seemed like quite a logical thing to do to me. Felt like I asked quite politely too, so not really sure why you’re being unnecessarily hostile (sure feels like you are anyway). Anyway don’t worry about it. Thanks for all the help

Anything you can imagine, and plenty that you'd never imagined, can, possibly, happen; but there could be times when absolutely nothing happens - no 2 nights are ever the same, which is part of the fun never knowing what the night ahead holds in store!

But one thing if you do go, go with no expectation of having any sex/play, be sociable, don't be one of the wanking zombies who aimlessly follow couples around with their cocks in their hands; respect peoples personal space, talk to people if you catch their eye and you'll find your chances of being invited to play increase."

Ah okay thanks! That’s sounds bloody fun, will be giving it a try soon. Much appreciated!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go and find out then.....

Ha, now that’s an intentionally mysteriously cryptic and vague reply

How about typing ‘what is a swingers club’ or ‘what happens in swingers clubs’ in google?

Have looked on the website, didn’t help much. It was just a question, I was just curious. I don’t think I’ll ask next time I need advice haha, jeez

What website did you look at? I’ve just did what I suggested and the first three articles that came up were really rather good?

The abfabs website. I could obviously google swingers club and get my answers, just saw this thread and thought I’d ask. Really didn’t think it was a big deal

You asked what goes on there, it’s a swingers club so you could read about what goes on in swingers clubs. The buildings may be different but they are all the same. "

You are actually very wrong, they are far from being all the same.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Go and find out then.....

Ha, now that’s an intentionally mysteriously cryptic and vague reply

How about typing ‘what is a swingers club’ or ‘what happens in swingers clubs’ in google?

Have looked on the website, didn’t help much. It was just a question, I was just curious. I don’t think I’ll ask next time I need advice haha, jeez

What website did you look at? I’ve just did what I suggested and the first three articles that came up were really rather good?

The abfabs website. I could obviously google swingers club and get my answers, just saw this thread and thought I’d ask. Really didn’t think it was a big deal

You asked what goes on there, it’s a swingers club so you could read about what goes on in swingers clubs. The buildings may be different but they are all the same.

You are actually very wrong, they are far from being all the same. "

Well, I’m my ten years of swinging and attending around 15 clubs, my opinion based on those continuing experiences isn’t wrong.

What goes on in clubs is the same.

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By *inkyandsweetCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Are the hot tubs in and running yet??

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"Go and find out then.....

Ha, now that’s an intentionally mysteriously cryptic and vague reply

How about typing ‘what is a swingers club’ or ‘what happens in swingers clubs’ in google?

Have looked on the website, didn’t help much. It was just a question, I was just curious. I don’t think I’ll ask next time I need advice haha, jeez

."

There is nothing wrong with asking for advice of what happens at a swinging club on a swinging site.If you have never been you won't know.

Being told to go google is not helpful or friendly....I see someone else did answer with a helpful reply so hopefully more helpful answers will come your way.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Go and find out then.....

Ha, now that’s an intentionally mysteriously cryptic and vague reply

How about typing ‘what is a swingers club’ or ‘what happens in swingers clubs’ in google?

Have looked on the website, didn’t help much. It was just a question, I was just curious. I don’t think I’ll ask next time I need advice haha, jeez

.

There is nothing wrong with asking for advice of what happens at a swinging club on a swinging site.If you have never been you won't know.

Being told to go google is not helpful or friendly....I see someone else did answer with a helpful reply so hopefully more helpful answers will come your way.

"

I think it’s incredibly helpful actually, I did what I advised and got some links to some excellent advice.

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By *arc and KamaCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

is there a dungeon?

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By *ogNMuseCouple
over a year ago

Surrey


"is there a dungeon?"

Theres some dungeon equipment in the large mirrored room

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By *oreFunForAllCouple
over a year ago

Dumstable

We will be there tonight x

Looking for group fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can u get membership on arrival if u don't have a membership card

They ask you to fill out an online form with attachments of ID - details on the website -you could drop them an email if it’s not possible to do online or you don’t want to do google forms "

Thanks my dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can u get membership on arrival if u don't have a membership card

They ask you to fill out an online form with attachments of ID - details on the website -you could drop them an email if it’s not possible to do online or you don’t want to do google forms

Thanks my dear "

You can actually fill out the form on arrival if you have all the necessary ID with you, but check the website!

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By *horty4Man
over a year ago

london


"Go and find out then.....

Ha, now that’s an intentionally mysteriously cryptic and vague reply

How about typing ‘what is a swingers club’ or ‘what happens in swingers clubs’ in google?

Have looked on the website, didn’t help much. It was just a question, I was just curious. I don’t think I’ll ask next time I need advice haha, jeez

What website did you look at? I’ve just did what I suggested and the first three articles that came up were really rather good?

The abfabs website. I could obviously google swingers club and get my answers, just saw this thread and thought I’d ask. Really didn’t think it was a big deal

You asked what goes on there, it’s a swingers club so you could read about what goes on in swingers clubs. The buildings may be different but they are all the same.

You are actually very wrong, they are far from being all the same.

Well, I’m my ten years of swinging and attending around 15 clubs, my opinion based on those continuing experiences isn’t wrong.

What goes on in clubs is the same. "

Well yes, in the same way that all restaurants are the same in that you pay and you get served food. McDs is a quiet different experience to good restaurant though or am I mad?

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By *aughtius MaximiusMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Are the hot tubs in and running yet??"

Not yet. Hot tubs and new play rooms will be open in about 3-4 weeks.

I’ll be there tonight. Say hello if you see me.

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By *attyBWoman
over a year ago

Dunstable/Luton


"Second visit to the club on Friday.

First visit was amazing !

Second visit on Friday 2nd August was highly disappointing. Mainly because too many men and hardly any couples and single ladies.

Facilities, are still good. Will be even better once the hot tubs are in.

Will give them another go though for sure!!"

Should have gone to VA FoF like you said you were going to!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Second visit to the club on Friday.

First visit was amazing !

Second visit on Friday 2nd August was highly disappointing. Mainly because too many men and hardly any couples and single ladies.

Facilities, are still good. Will be even better once the hot tubs are in.

Will give them another go though for sure!!

Should have gone to VA FoF like you said you were going to!! "

Stuff came up, so had to go for plan b

Did you miss me ?

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

Hope to be there tonight

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By *attyBWoman
over a year ago

Dunstable/Luton


"Second visit to the club on Friday.

First visit was amazing !

Second visit on Friday 2nd August was highly disappointing. Mainly because too many men and hardly any couples and single ladies.

Facilities, are still good. Will be even better once the hot tubs are in.

Will give them another go though for sure!!

Should have gone to VA FoF like you said you were going to!!

Stuff came up, so had to go for plan b

Did you miss me ?"

Of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Second visit to the club on Friday.

First visit was amazing !

Second visit on Friday 2nd August was highly disappointing. Mainly because too many men and hardly any couples and single ladies.

Facilities, are still good. Will be even better once the hot tubs are in.

Will give them another go though for sure!!

Should have gone to VA FoF like you said you were going to!!

Stuff came up, so had to go for plan b

Did you miss me ?

Of course "

Haha I’m sure you had plenty of fun at fof

Did the guys have you drained of energy ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hope to be there tonight "

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By *ightDiversionMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks


"Are the hot tubs in and running yet??

Not yet. Hot tubs and new play rooms will be open in about 3-4 weeks.

I’ll be there tonight. Say hello if you see me. "

New play rooms ?? Oh do tell I missed that - it would’ve lovely to have a large couples room - the rooms they have are quite a squeeze for 4 so I guess for 6 it will be high athletics required. Still Thursday was still fun with 4 but a little small

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ill be at abfabs tonight

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I really do need to do an abfabs visit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really do need to do an abfabs visit "

I’m sure your beautiful self will fit in well at abfabs

I can show you around and keep you company too

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By *attyBWoman
over a year ago

Dunstable/Luton


"Second visit to the club on Friday.

First visit was amazing !

Second visit on Friday 2nd August was highly disappointing. Mainly because too many men and hardly any couples and single ladies.

Facilities, are still good. Will be even better once the hot tubs are in.

Will give them another go though for sure!!

Should have gone to VA FoF like you said you were going to!!

Stuff came up, so had to go for plan b

Did you miss me ?

Of course

Haha I’m sure you had plenty of fun at fof

Did the guys have you drained of energy ?"

I wish....ended up with a migraine on Saturday so went to bed early

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By *atrionaSavageWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I'll be attending again once everything is fully open as love the hot tubs.

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By *layPrincessDaddyBearCouple
over a year ago

Bracknell

Anyone going tonight xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Went last night and was a lot of fun - would love some more lockable playrooms

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By *lice1010Couple
over a year ago

CROYDON


"...and I only play with single men so couples are no good for me unless it’s to have a natter and a chill with."

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish


"Go and find out then.....

Ha, now that’s an intentionally mysteriously cryptic and vague reply

How about typing ‘what is a swingers club’ or ‘what happens in swingers clubs’ in google?

Have looked on the website, didn’t help much. It was just a question, I was just curious. I don’t think I’ll ask next time I need advice haha, jeez

.

There is nothing wrong with asking for advice of what happens at a swinging club on a swinging site.If you have never been you won't know.

Being told to go google is not helpful or friendly....I see someone else did answer with a helpful reply so hopefully more helpful answers will come your way.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go and find out then.....

Ha, now that’s an intentionally mysteriously cryptic and vague reply

How about typing ‘what is a swingers club’ or ‘what happens in swingers clubs’ in google?

Have looked on the website, didn’t help much. It was just a question, I was just curious. I don’t think I’ll ask next time I need advice haha, jeez

.

There is nothing wrong with asking for advice of what happens at a swinging club on a swinging site.If you have never been you won't know.

Being told to go google is not helpful or friendly....I see someone else did answer with a helpful reply so hopefully more helpful answers will come your way.

"

Sorry just coming back to this thread, but just want to say thanks! I thought it was logical thing to do? Her replies were quite hostile I thought, made me think why would I go to these place if that’s what people are like. So thanks for making me change my mind and letting me know people are nice

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I need to get my memberships sorted and start to get back into the swing. Is there a swing? I miss the swing.

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By *ightDiversionMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks


"I need to get my memberships sorted and start to get back into the swing. Is there a swing? I miss the swing.

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There is a swing (two actually) and fun they are too !

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By *rivate roomMan
over a year ago

Bracknell

Any open play rooms at Kestrels

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I need to get my memberships sorted and start to get back into the swing. Is there a swing? I miss the swing.

There is a swing (two actually) and fun they are too ! "

Thanks for letting me know. Shorter queues for the swings. I hope there's still a box to help get me up there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are coming on the 17th for our first ever visit to a club and interaction on the swingers scene so come say hello if you see us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any guys going on the sat 24th- Bank Holiday weekend? X

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By *iscompany3isfunCouple
over a year ago

Maidenhead

Are the hot tubs in yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are the hot tubs in yet? "

Not yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any guys going on the sat 24th- Bank Holiday weekend? X"

Thinking of coming down for the Sunday

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We are thinking of going tonight to check the club out, anyone else going!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are thinking of going tonight to check the club out, anyone else going!? "

We are going this evening

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Promising already!

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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent


"Promising already! "

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m hoping to go to the spa next Friday. If the hot tubs and steam room are still not working can anyone tell me what facilities are working?

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By *oreFunForAllCouple
over a year ago

Dumstable

We are at AbFabs.

Looking for lots of group fun.

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By *ayden69Man
over a year ago

London

Abfabs this Friday 16th? Any gorgeous couples or single ladies going? x

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By *esires of HertsCouple
over a year ago

Herts and London Borders

We are looking to go saturday night..anyone else attending?

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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago

Kingston upon Thames


"Sometimes less busy leads to more fun.... in our experience at least x

That's often been my experience too "

we can agree on this - the less hectic at any club the more nuanced and erotic the energy ...

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By *iscompany3isfunCouple
over a year ago

Maidenhead

Who were the lovely couples we played with tonight

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By *tormyFruitCouple
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

We are thinking of attending for the 1st time in September. I know we both need to do seperate membership forms and are going to book into the Premier Inn next door as Stormy flies in to Heathrow early in the morning. Anything I need to know before. I saw it was a no play in the pool and the costs.

Looking forward to it. Fruit x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will be going on Sunday after Arousals on Saturday with my boyfriend. First time at the new place. Can't wait!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"We are thinking of attending for the 1st time in September. I know we both need to do seperate membership forms and are going to book into the Premier Inn next door as Stormy flies in to Heathrow early in the morning. Anything I need to know before. I saw it was a no play in the pool and the costs.

Looking forward to it. Fruit x"

Let me know when you're going. It would be lovely to see you both again. If I can be there I will get my act together and join.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are looking to go saturday night..anyone else attending? "

We are its our first time doing anything like this so come say hello.

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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent

Wow, might need to start Abfabs thread three soon lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the tubs are in n open then I will go again

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By *ayden69Man
over a year ago

London

Does anyone else find that the cinema rooms air conditioning is on full blast? Rather chilly in there maybe needs to be turned down a notch or two?

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By *wosmilersCouple
over a year ago

Heathrowish


"Does anyone else find that the cinema rooms air conditioning is on full blast? Rather chilly in there maybe needs to be turned down a notch or two?"

Definitely too cold....

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By *oreFunForAllCouple
over a year ago

Dumstable

We think it’s better being on than off. Had 3 session cut short as it’s too hot with it off.

The number one issue is consistent temperature.

On Monday the AC was perfect everywhere till 6pm.

Sadly empty cinema most of the daytime and AC on.

Really busy cinema in the evening sweating bodies melting and AC off. Zero logic.

We’ve avoided the club on the really hot days and gone elsewhere as I can’t be done with it being too hot, it prevents long or group sessions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Went last night and was a lot of fun - would love some more lockable playrooms"

We thought the same, and maybe a few more downstairs that were private. One room with no windows. Me and hubby had to balance a towel over one of the doors downstairs so we had some private time without everyone looking in and the only room that's private was in use

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By *irmHand69Man
over a year ago

Bracknell


"Hi all

I was pretty regular visitor to Abs/Kestrels. Firstly well done to the owners and staff for getting another venue for a great club. Can anyone tell me if there is a sauna? Also are hot tubs running yet. We have to plan in advance to visit and want to come when the facilities are up and running.

X"

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By *ayden69Man
over a year ago

London

I agree with what your saying. However I was in there with a gorgeous lady about to play and she had goosebumps all over her skin due to it being so cold.. we had to take things to the play room as the temperature was was far too cold. It would be good if they kept it at neutral temperature instead of it being chilly x

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By *ayden69Man
over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it worth going Wednesday, I am thinking about taking my lady friend from my profile picture. We are interested in single guys and are the hot tubs open as there is conflicting messages?

Thank you for any advice in advance

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London


"Went last night and was a lot of fun - would love some more lockable playrooms

We thought the same, and maybe a few more downstairs that were private. One room with no windows. Me and hubby had to balance a towel over one of the doors downstairs so we had some private time without everyone looking in and the only room that's private was in use "

We did the towel thing as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hot tubs still not in ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More _rivate rooms required for sure.

That dance area upstairs seems like a waste of space, hardly anyone uses it.

Might as well turn it into a large orgy room, with multiple large beds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow, might need to start Abfabs thread three soon lol x"

Already done it for you

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