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"Well it was lovely to meet you this afternoon x" You’ll have to remind me who you are, but I think we chatted at the bar and then again as you were getting dressed? | |||
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"Is there good or bad times to visit either abfabs or kestrels?" All visits to all clubs simply can’t be predicted. My motto is always use them or lose them. | |||
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"So to get this started, whose going to Abfabs next sat aug 3 or kestrels on the Sunday x " Going Monday night | |||
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"I joined Kestrel last time I went during the daytime. Does anyone know if I have to complete a separate membership form in order to attend Abfabs?" Yes you need the Abfabs membership to go to Abfabs | |||
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"Any thoughts on Heathrow express & pod parking to Thistle to get there from central London. Is there a better public transport option?" There are a few local buses which run from T5 to the thistle - not sure how late they go but they work for kestrels times. | |||
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"Any thoughts on Heathrow express & pod parking to Thistle to get there from central London. Is there a better public transport option?" Pretty sure you can only use the pod to the Thistle if you are staying there. | |||
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"Any thoughts on Heathrow express & pod parking to Thistle to get there from central London. Is there a better public transport option?" Take the Heathrow Express if you have money to burn - mile for mile it's the most expensive train in the world. Take the tube to Heathrow Central and one of the perimeter buses from there. | |||
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"Any thoughts on Heathrow express & pod parking to Thistle to get there from central London. Is there a better public transport option? Take the Heathrow Express if you have money to burn - mile for mile it's the most expensive train in the world. Take the tube to Heathrow Central and one of the perimeter buses from there." Or take an Uber from the station.... | |||
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"Hi all I was pretty regular visitor to Abs/Kestrels. Firstly well done to the owners and staff for getting another venue for a great club. Can anyone tell me if there is a sauna? Also are hot tubs running yet. We have to plan in advance to visit and want to come when the facilities are up and running. X" The hot tubs have been delivered, three in all. The floor has to be painted and the tubs plumbed in yet but they are on it, | |||
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"How many approximately attend on a Saturday night? And is it couples only?" Saturday nights are getting quite busy now, and yes, couples mainly, no single gents on a Saturday. We are going this next Saturday again, we can’t keep away now lol x | |||
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"How many approximately attend on a Saturday night? And is it couples only?" Last Saturday we were around 20 couples | |||
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"Am very interested in going to this social " What social? It’s a club. | |||
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"Am very interested in going to this social What social? It’s a club." just saying if it was | |||
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"Am very interested in going to this social What social? It’s a club. just saying if it was " Someone may organise a social there one day if the club hosts socials but it’s a club. | |||
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"thank you for your answer. Is there a sauna or steam room at all?" There is a sauna and steam room but not working at the moment. It’s on the to do list. The jacuzzi room should be open in about 3-4 weeks hopefully. | |||
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"Am very interested in going to this social What social? It’s a club. just saying if it was Someone may organise a social there one day if the club hosts socials but it’s a club. " would you go then? | |||
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"Sometimes less busy leads to more fun.... in our experience at least x " I’d agree with your observation, I’ve been to many new events over the years that as they got popular were just too busy. Playrooms full, too hot, no room in wet areas, too noisy. | |||
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"Can u get membership on arrival if u don't have a membership card " They ask you to fill out an online form with attachments of ID - details on the website -you could drop them an email if it’s not possible to do online or you don’t want to do google forms | |||
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"Me and my wife are hoping to attend tonight but i need to know what i need to bring for our first time and also what time they shut the doors for newbies as its a long drive from bedfordshire " See info above .... you need to complete online application | |||
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"Yes " A couple of weeks ago, there were 9 couples clearly enjoying the pool with us on Saturday night | |||
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"Yes " So you are allowed to fuck in the pool? | |||
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"Yes So you are allowed to fuck in the pool?" I did | |||
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"Yes So you are allowed to fuck in the pool? I did " Okay, that's cool then. It was banned but they must have relaxed the rules | |||
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"Went saterday just gone the club is filthy and dingy rundown and a ripoff it was dead and the guys wouldn't take no for an answer the owner left a vulnerable women who clearly had to much to drink alone in the cinema best part was the dance floor which no one was even in all night no dj just a cd playing we went on a non members night and then forced to pay membership on arrival " Clearly a fake review as Saturdays are couples only and they don’t do non members night..... another dreamer lol | |||
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"Went saterday just gone the club is filthy and dingy rundown and a ripoff it was dead and the guys wouldn't take no for an answer the owner left a vulnerable women who clearly had to much to drink alone in the cinema best part was the dance floor which no one was even in all night no dj just a cd playing we went on a non members night and then forced to pay membership on arrival Clearly a fake review as Saturdays are couples only and they don’t do non members night..... another dreamer lol " | |||
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"Went saterday just gone the club is filthy and dingy rundown and a ripoff it was dead and the guys wouldn't take no for an answer the owner left a vulnerable women who clearly had to much to drink alone in the cinema best part was the dance floor which no one was even in all night no dj just a cd playing we went on a non members night and then forced to pay membership on arrival Clearly a fake review as Saturdays are couples only and they don’t do non members night..... another dreamer lol " And someone short of a comma..... | |||
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"Went saterday just gone the club is filthy and dingy rundown and a ripoff it was dead and the guys wouldn't take no for an answer the owner left a vulnerable women who clearly had to much to drink alone in the cinema best part was the dance floor which no one was even in all night no dj just a cd playing we went on a non members night and then forced to pay membership on arrival " I think you have posted this on the WRONG club....or you went with crusty eyes..... | |||
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"Went saterday just gone the club is filthy and dingy rundown and a ripoff it was dead and the guys wouldn't take no for an answer the owner left a vulnerable women who clearly had to much to drink alone in the cinema best part was the dance floor which no one was even in all night no dj just a cd playing we went on a non members night and then forced to pay membership on arrival " You clearly did not go to this club , it is members only and on Saturday nights it's couples and single ladies only!!! | |||
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"Second visit to the club on Friday. First visit was amazing ! Second visit on Friday 2nd August was highly disappointing. Mainly because too many men and hardly any couples and single ladies. Facilities, are still good. Will be even better once the hot tubs are in. Will give them another go though for sure!!" The club is also open on a Monday and Wednesday night (not mentioning daytimes) so you ha e other times you can go. | |||
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"Second visit to the club on Friday. First visit was amazing ! Second visit on Friday 2nd August was highly disappointing. Mainly because too many men and hardly any couples and single ladies. Facilities, are still good. Will be even better once the hot tubs are in. Will give them another go though for sure!!" As long as you remember that it could be jam packed with couples and women, doesn’t mean to say you’ll get to play. | |||
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"I agree! But too many single guys at any clubs is a problem! Some form of controlling the m:f/mf ratio should be in place. There’s no point of trying to maximise income by just allowing tons of single men in....this will result to people not returning " The situation was exactly the same at the previous venue. Money talks and the more money the better. Of course some people love loads of single guys and they will love it but they are the minority. | |||
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" Thinking about going to kestrel on Wednesday afternoon. It will be my first time and my first time in a swingers club. Bit unsure what to expect. Does everyone walk around naked? Abit of advice would be appreciated and is anyone planning on going Wednesday afternoon..,maybe around 2pm." | |||
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"I agree! But too many single guys at any clubs is a problem! Some form of controlling the m:f/mf ratio should be in place. There’s no point of trying to maximise income by just allowing tons of single men in....this will result to people not returning The situation was exactly the same at the previous venue. Money talks and the more money the better. Of course some people love loads of single guys and they will love it but they are the minority. " I thought they did limit single guys on a Friday ? Maybe I am forgetful !! It’s a fine line between the income from guys and the putting off of couples who will then just go on a Saturday if they can - then the guys won’t go on a Friday as ratio even worse - then couples come back as guys are fewer ......., and so it goes on ! A nightmare I assume | |||
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" Thinking about going to kestrel on Wednesday afternoon. It will be my first time and my first time in a swingers club. Bit unsure what to expect. Does everyone walk around naked? Abit of advice would be appreciated and is anyone planning on going Wednesday afternoon..,maybe around 2pm." I tried it on a Wednesday evening a couple of weeks ago. Not any people at all, mostly guys. Still, Emerdale Farm was on the big telly which is fine if you like terrible soap operas. | |||
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"I agree! But too many single guys at any clubs is a problem! Some form of controlling the m:f/mf ratio should be in place. There’s no point of trying to maximise income by just allowing tons of single men in....this will result to people not returning The situation was exactly the same at the previous venue. Money talks and the more money the better. Of course some people love loads of single guys and they will love it but they are the minority. I thought they did limit single guys on a Friday ? Maybe I am forgetful !! It’s a fine line between the income from guys and the putting off of couples who will then just go on a Saturday if they can - then the guys won’t go on a Friday as ratio even worse - then couples come back as guys are fewer ......., and so it goes on ! A nightmare I assume " All clubs face this particular situation. There is a balance to be struck. I would imagine,based on the crowdfunding situation, that the club is somewhat cash strapped and the more single guys means more money. It's a simple decision, accept the situation or if you are going to attend then go on a Saturday when the single gents are not welcome. | |||
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"Shame Oh well hopefully when it gets back to full speed it will be as good as before " As I said before the situation was the same in its previous incarnation. | |||
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"If couples only nights stopped then you would find a better mix throughout the week rather than couples waiting for a specific night. Natural selection would cause the dodgy men to stop attending. The single guy price puts off many decent single guys also a lower entry fee would get a turnover during the night (20 quid...nothing going on go pub 50 quid nothing going on...stay, might get monies worth later). Obviously its up to the owners perhaps they make most profit on a couples nights. " Stopping couples only nights would simply stop those couples who don't want single guys from attending. They'd simple go elsewhere. | |||
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"If couples only nights stopped then you would find a better mix throughout the week rather than couples waiting for a specific night. Natural selection would cause the dodgy men to stop attending. The single guy price puts off many decent single guys also a lower entry fee would get a turnover during the night (20 quid...nothing going on go pub 50 quid nothing going on...stay, might get monies worth later). Obviously its up to the owners perhaps they make most profit on a couples nights. " I know not to bother going on couples only events and couples who don’t want to be bothered by single men are able to go without being bothered. It’s no good pretending that all single men understand the etiquette of attending clubs. I can barely walk past reception of any club without my space being invaded and men jostling to prove to me that they are decent people worth fucking. Constantly. | |||
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"If couples only nights stopped then you would find a better mix throughout the week rather than couples waiting for a specific night. Natural selection would cause the dodgy men to stop attending. The single guy price puts off many decent single guys also a lower entry fee would get a turnover during the night (20 quid...nothing going on go pub 50 quid nothing going on...stay, might get monies worth later). Obviously its up to the owners perhaps they make most profit on a couples nights. I know not to bother going on couples only events and couples who don’t want to be bothered by single men are able to go without being bothered. It’s no good pretending that all single men understand the etiquette of attending clubs. I can barely walk past reception of any club without my space being invaded and men jostling to prove to me that they are decent people worth fucking. Constantly." That's clubs for you. Most of them are the same. | |||
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"If couples only nights stopped then you would find a better mix throughout the week rather than couples waiting for a specific night. Natural selection would cause the dodgy men to stop attending. The single guy price puts off many decent single guys also a lower entry fee would get a turnover during the night (20 quid...nothing going on go pub 50 quid nothing going on...stay, might get monies worth later). Obviously its up to the owners perhaps they make most profit on a couples nights. I know not to bother going on couples only events and couples who don’t want to be bothered by single men are able to go without being bothered. It’s no good pretending that all single men understand the etiquette of attending clubs. I can barely walk past reception of any club without my space being invaded and men jostling to prove to me that they are decent people worth fucking. Constantly. That's clubs for you. Most of them are the same." So true! | |||
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"Personally i prefer going as a couple and rarely go on my own now because of attitudes towards single men and my friend prefers singles nights due to not being bi. funnily enough inappropriate touching is usually from the male half of couples due to us not expecting it. (Happened in a pool recently). " Yeh and he didn't ask!!! His wife reminded him!!!!! Lol | |||
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"Sometimes less busy leads to more fun.... in our experience at least x " That's often been my experience too | |||
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"First visit to the new Abfabs on Friday. We like well behaved single guys. See you there. " Very well behaved guy here (I’m not one of those wanking zombies lol) look forward to hopefully seeing you at abfabs tonight ! | |||
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"Go and find out then....." Ha, now that’s an intentionally mysteriously cryptic and vague reply | |||
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"Go and find out then..... Ha, now that’s an intentionally mysteriously cryptic and vague reply " How about typing ‘what is a swingers club’ or ‘what happens in swingers clubs’ in google? | |||
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"Go and find out then..... Ha, now that’s an intentionally mysteriously cryptic and vague reply How about typing ‘what is a swingers club’ or ‘what happens in swingers clubs’ in google?" Have looked on the website, didn’t help much. It was just a question, I was just curious. I don’t think I’ll ask next time I need advice haha, jeez | |||
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"Go and find out then..... Ha, now that’s an intentionally mysteriously cryptic and vague reply How about typing ‘what is a swingers club’ or ‘what happens in swingers clubs’ in google?" Agreed. I think the school holidays are on at the moment...so these sort of posts will be a regularly occurrence | |||
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"Go and find out then..... Ha, now that’s an intentionally mysteriously cryptic and vague reply How about typing ‘what is a swingers club’ or ‘what happens in swingers clubs’ in google? Have looked on the website, didn’t help much. It was just a question, I was just curious. I don’t think I’ll ask next time I need advice haha, jeez " What website did you look at? I’ve just did what I suggested and the first three articles that came up were really rather good? | |||
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"Go and find out then..... Ha, now that’s an intentionally mysteriously cryptic and vague reply How about typing ‘what is a swingers club’ or ‘what happens in swingers clubs’ in google? Have looked on the website, didn’t help much. It was just a question, I was just curious. I don’t think I’ll ask next time I need advice haha, jeez What website did you look at? I’ve just did what I suggested and the first three articles that came up were really rather good?" The abfabs website. I could obviously google swingers club and get my answers, just saw this thread and thought I’d ask. Really didn’t think it was a big deal | |||
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"Go and find out then..... Ha, now that’s an intentionally mysteriously cryptic and vague reply How about typing ‘what is a swingers club’ or ‘what happens in swingers clubs’ in google? Have looked on the website, didn’t help much. It was just a question, I was just curious. I don’t think I’ll ask next time I need advice haha, jeez What website did you look at? I’ve just did what I suggested and the first three articles that came up were really rather good? The abfabs website. I could obviously google swingers club and get my answers, just saw this thread and thought I’d ask. Really didn’t think it was a big deal" You asked what goes on there, it’s a swingers club so you could read about what goes on in swingers clubs. The buildings may be different but they are all the same. | |||
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"Go and find out then..... Ha, now that’s an intentionally mysteriously cryptic and vague reply How about typing ‘what is a swingers club’ or ‘what happens in swingers clubs’ in google? Have looked on the website, didn’t help much. It was just a question, I was just curious. I don’t think I’ll ask next time I need advice haha, jeez What website did you look at? I’ve just did what I suggested and the first three articles that came up were really rather good? The abfabs website. I could obviously google swingers club and get my answers, just saw this thread and thought I’d ask. Really didn’t think it was a big deal You asked what goes on there, it’s a swingers club so you could read about what goes on in swingers clubs. The buildings may be different but they are all the same. " I did ask, people on a swinging site who go to that specific club. Seemed like quite a logical thing to do to me. Felt like I asked quite politely too, so not really sure why you’re being unnecessarily hostile (sure feels like you are anyway). Anyway don’t worry about it. Thanks for all the help | |||
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"Go and find out then..... Ha, now that’s an intentionally mysteriously cryptic and vague reply How about typing ‘what is a swingers club’ or ‘what happens in swingers clubs’ in google? Have looked on the website, didn’t help much. It was just a question, I was just curious. I don’t think I’ll ask next time I need advice haha, jeez What website did you look at? I’ve just did what I suggested and the first three articles that came up were really rather good? The abfabs website. I could obviously google swingers club and get my answers, just saw this thread and thought I’d ask. Really didn’t think it was a big deal You asked what goes on there, it’s a swingers club so you could read about what goes on in swingers clubs. The buildings may be different but they are all the same. I did ask, people on a swinging site who go to that specific club. Seemed like quite a logical thing to do to me. Felt like I asked quite politely too, so not really sure why you’re being unnecessarily hostile (sure feels like you are anyway). Anyway don’t worry about it. Thanks for all the help " Anything you can imagine, and plenty that you'd never imagined, can, possibly, happen; but there could be times when absolutely nothing happens - no 2 nights are ever the same, which is part of the fun never knowing what the night ahead holds in store! But one thing if you do go, go with no expectation of having any sex/play, be sociable, don't be one of the wanking zombies who aimlessly follow couples around with their cocks in their hands; respect peoples personal space, talk to people if you catch their eye and you'll find your chances of being invited to play increase. | |||
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"Go and find out then..... Ha, now that’s an intentionally mysteriously cryptic and vague reply How about typing ‘what is a swingers club’ or ‘what happens in swingers clubs’ in google? Have looked on the website, didn’t help much. It was just a question, I was just curious. I don’t think I’ll ask next time I need advice haha, jeez What website did you look at? I’ve just did what I suggested and the first three articles that came up were really rather good? The abfabs website. I could obviously google swingers club and get my answers, just saw this thread and thought I’d ask. Really didn’t think it was a big deal You asked what goes on there, it’s a swingers club so you could read about what goes on in swingers clubs. The buildings may be different but they are all the same. I did ask, people on a swinging site who go to that specific club. Seemed like quite a logical thing to do to me. Felt like I asked quite politely too, so not really sure why you’re being unnecessarily hostile (sure feels like you are anyway). Anyway don’t worry about it. Thanks for all the help Anything you can imagine, and plenty that you'd never imagined, can, possibly, happen; but there could be times when absolutely nothing happens - no 2 nights are ever the same, which is part of the fun never knowing what the night ahead holds in store! But one thing if you do go, go with no expectation of having any sex/play, be sociable, don't be one of the wanking zombies who aimlessly follow couples around with their cocks in their hands; respect peoples personal space, talk to people if you catch their eye and you'll find your chances of being invited to play increase." Ah okay thanks! That’s sounds bloody fun, will be giving it a try soon. Much appreciated! | |||
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"Go and find out then..... Ha, now that’s an intentionally mysteriously cryptic and vague reply How about typing ‘what is a swingers club’ or ‘what happens in swingers clubs’ in google? Have looked on the website, didn’t help much. It was just a question, I was just curious. I don’t think I’ll ask next time I need advice haha, jeez What website did you look at? I’ve just did what I suggested and the first three articles that came up were really rather good? The abfabs website. I could obviously google swingers club and get my answers, just saw this thread and thought I’d ask. Really didn’t think it was a big deal You asked what goes on there, it’s a swingers club so you could read about what goes on in swingers clubs. The buildings may be different but they are all the same. " You are actually very wrong, they are far from being all the same. | |||
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"Go and find out then..... Ha, now that’s an intentionally mysteriously cryptic and vague reply How about typing ‘what is a swingers club’ or ‘what happens in swingers clubs’ in google? Have looked on the website, didn’t help much. It was just a question, I was just curious. I don’t think I’ll ask next time I need advice haha, jeez What website did you look at? I’ve just did what I suggested and the first three articles that came up were really rather good? The abfabs website. I could obviously google swingers club and get my answers, just saw this thread and thought I’d ask. Really didn’t think it was a big deal You asked what goes on there, it’s a swingers club so you could read about what goes on in swingers clubs. The buildings may be different but they are all the same. You are actually very wrong, they are far from being all the same. " Well, I’m my ten years of swinging and attending around 15 clubs, my opinion based on those continuing experiences isn’t wrong. What goes on in clubs is the same. | |||
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"Go and find out then..... Ha, now that’s an intentionally mysteriously cryptic and vague reply How about typing ‘what is a swingers club’ or ‘what happens in swingers clubs’ in google? Have looked on the website, didn’t help much. It was just a question, I was just curious. I don’t think I’ll ask next time I need advice haha, jeez ." There is nothing wrong with asking for advice of what happens at a swinging club on a swinging site.If you have never been you won't know. Being told to go google is not helpful or friendly....I see someone else did answer with a helpful reply so hopefully more helpful answers will come your way. | |||
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"Go and find out then..... Ha, now that’s an intentionally mysteriously cryptic and vague reply How about typing ‘what is a swingers club’ or ‘what happens in swingers clubs’ in google? Have looked on the website, didn’t help much. It was just a question, I was just curious. I don’t think I’ll ask next time I need advice haha, jeez . There is nothing wrong with asking for advice of what happens at a swinging club on a swinging site.If you have never been you won't know. Being told to go google is not helpful or friendly....I see someone else did answer with a helpful reply so hopefully more helpful answers will come your way. " I think it’s incredibly helpful actually, I did what I advised and got some links to some excellent advice. | |||
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"is there a dungeon?" Theres some dungeon equipment in the large mirrored room | |||
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"Can u get membership on arrival if u don't have a membership card They ask you to fill out an online form with attachments of ID - details on the website -you could drop them an email if it’s not possible to do online or you don’t want to do google forms " Thanks my dear | |||
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"Can u get membership on arrival if u don't have a membership card They ask you to fill out an online form with attachments of ID - details on the website -you could drop them an email if it’s not possible to do online or you don’t want to do google forms Thanks my dear " You can actually fill out the form on arrival if you have all the necessary ID with you, but check the website! | |||
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"Go and find out then..... Ha, now that’s an intentionally mysteriously cryptic and vague reply How about typing ‘what is a swingers club’ or ‘what happens in swingers clubs’ in google? Have looked on the website, didn’t help much. It was just a question, I was just curious. I don’t think I’ll ask next time I need advice haha, jeez What website did you look at? I’ve just did what I suggested and the first three articles that came up were really rather good? The abfabs website. I could obviously google swingers club and get my answers, just saw this thread and thought I’d ask. Really didn’t think it was a big deal You asked what goes on there, it’s a swingers club so you could read about what goes on in swingers clubs. The buildings may be different but they are all the same. You are actually very wrong, they are far from being all the same. Well, I’m my ten years of swinging and attending around 15 clubs, my opinion based on those continuing experiences isn’t wrong. What goes on in clubs is the same. " Well yes, in the same way that all restaurants are the same in that you pay and you get served food. McDs is a quiet different experience to good restaurant though or am I mad? | |||
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"Are the hot tubs in and running yet??" Not yet. Hot tubs and new play rooms will be open in about 3-4 weeks. I’ll be there tonight. Say hello if you see me. | |||
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"Second visit to the club on Friday. First visit was amazing ! Second visit on Friday 2nd August was highly disappointing. Mainly because too many men and hardly any couples and single ladies. Facilities, are still good. Will be even better once the hot tubs are in. Will give them another go though for sure!!" Should have gone to VA FoF like you said you were going to!! | |||
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"Second visit to the club on Friday. First visit was amazing ! Second visit on Friday 2nd August was highly disappointing. Mainly because too many men and hardly any couples and single ladies. Facilities, are still good. Will be even better once the hot tubs are in. Will give them another go though for sure!! Should have gone to VA FoF like you said you were going to!! " Stuff came up, so had to go for plan b Did you miss me ? | |||
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"Second visit to the club on Friday. First visit was amazing ! Second visit on Friday 2nd August was highly disappointing. Mainly because too many men and hardly any couples and single ladies. Facilities, are still good. Will be even better once the hot tubs are in. Will give them another go though for sure!! Should have gone to VA FoF like you said you were going to!! Stuff came up, so had to go for plan b Did you miss me ?" Of course | |||
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"Second visit to the club on Friday. First visit was amazing ! Second visit on Friday 2nd August was highly disappointing. Mainly because too many men and hardly any couples and single ladies. Facilities, are still good. Will be even better once the hot tubs are in. Will give them another go though for sure!! Should have gone to VA FoF like you said you were going to!! Stuff came up, so had to go for plan b Did you miss me ? Of course " Haha I’m sure you had plenty of fun at fof Did the guys have you drained of energy ? | |||
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"Are the hot tubs in and running yet?? Not yet. Hot tubs and new play rooms will be open in about 3-4 weeks. I’ll be there tonight. Say hello if you see me. " New play rooms ?? Oh do tell I missed that - it would’ve lovely to have a large couples room - the rooms they have are quite a squeeze for 4 so I guess for 6 it will be high athletics required. Still Thursday was still fun with 4 but a little small | |||
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"I really do need to do an abfabs visit " I’m sure your beautiful self will fit in well at abfabs I can show you around and keep you company too | |||
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"Second visit to the club on Friday. First visit was amazing ! Second visit on Friday 2nd August was highly disappointing. Mainly because too many men and hardly any couples and single ladies. Facilities, are still good. Will be even better once the hot tubs are in. Will give them another go though for sure!! Should have gone to VA FoF like you said you were going to!! Stuff came up, so had to go for plan b Did you miss me ? Of course Haha I’m sure you had plenty of fun at fof Did the guys have you drained of energy ?" I wish....ended up with a migraine on Saturday so went to bed early | |||
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"...and I only play with single men so couples are no good for me unless it’s to have a natter and a chill with." | |||
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"Go and find out then..... Ha, now that’s an intentionally mysteriously cryptic and vague reply How about typing ‘what is a swingers club’ or ‘what happens in swingers clubs’ in google? Have looked on the website, didn’t help much. It was just a question, I was just curious. I don’t think I’ll ask next time I need advice haha, jeez . There is nothing wrong with asking for advice of what happens at a swinging club on a swinging site.If you have never been you won't know. Being told to go google is not helpful or friendly....I see someone else did answer with a helpful reply so hopefully more helpful answers will come your way. " | |||
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"Go and find out then..... Ha, now that’s an intentionally mysteriously cryptic and vague reply How about typing ‘what is a swingers club’ or ‘what happens in swingers clubs’ in google? Have looked on the website, didn’t help much. It was just a question, I was just curious. I don’t think I’ll ask next time I need advice haha, jeez . There is nothing wrong with asking for advice of what happens at a swinging club on a swinging site.If you have never been you won't know. Being told to go google is not helpful or friendly....I see someone else did answer with a helpful reply so hopefully more helpful answers will come your way. " Sorry just coming back to this thread, but just want to say thanks! I thought it was logical thing to do? Her replies were quite hostile I thought, made me think why would I go to these place if that’s what people are like. So thanks for making me change my mind and letting me know people are nice | |||
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"I need to get my memberships sorted and start to get back into the swing. Is there a swing? I miss the swing. " There is a swing (two actually) and fun they are too ! | |||
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"I need to get my memberships sorted and start to get back into the swing. Is there a swing? I miss the swing. There is a swing (two actually) and fun they are too ! " Thanks for letting me know. Shorter queues for the swings. I hope there's still a box to help get me up there. | |||
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"Are the hot tubs in yet? " Not yet | |||
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"Any guys going on the sat 24th- Bank Holiday weekend? X" Thinking of coming down for the Sunday | |||
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"We are thinking of going tonight to check the club out, anyone else going!? " We are going this evening | |||
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"Promising already! " Exactly this | |||
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"Sometimes less busy leads to more fun.... in our experience at least x That's often been my experience too " we can agree on this - the less hectic at any club the more nuanced and erotic the energy ... | |||
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"We are thinking of attending for the 1st time in September. I know we both need to do seperate membership forms and are going to book into the Premier Inn next door as Stormy flies in to Heathrow early in the morning. Anything I need to know before. I saw it was a no play in the pool and the costs. Looking forward to it. Fruit x" Let me know when you're going. It would be lovely to see you both again. If I can be there I will get my act together and join. | |||
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"We are looking to go saturday night..anyone else attending? " We are its our first time doing anything like this so come say hello. | |||
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"Does anyone else find that the cinema rooms air conditioning is on full blast? Rather chilly in there maybe needs to be turned down a notch or two?" Definitely too cold.... | |||
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"Went last night and was a lot of fun - would love some more lockable playrooms" We thought the same, and maybe a few more downstairs that were private. One room with no windows. Me and hubby had to balance a towel over one of the doors downstairs so we had some private time without everyone looking in and the only room that's private was in use | |||
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"Hi all I was pretty regular visitor to Abs/Kestrels. Firstly well done to the owners and staff for getting another venue for a great club. Can anyone tell me if there is a sauna? Also are hot tubs running yet. We have to plan in advance to visit and want to come when the facilities are up and running. X" | |||
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"Went last night and was a lot of fun - would love some more lockable playrooms We thought the same, and maybe a few more downstairs that were private. One room with no windows. Me and hubby had to balance a towel over one of the doors downstairs so we had some private time without everyone looking in and the only room that's private was in use " We did the towel thing as well | |||
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"Wow, might need to start Abfabs thread three soon lol x" Already done it for you | |||
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