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"Not sure about VA. They're in the neighbouring council area of Central Bedfordshire and they may interpret the regulations differently." They do yes.... Bedfordshire have added a clause regarding 'booths' over the other Councils I have perused... The regs quote items considered entertainment... (poles, lapdancing, topless bars etc)... Bedford added one at the end. | |||
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" bloody councils just don't want people to have fun.....be back to house parties and ads in the local fee ads " Would renting the rooms out in an air B and B style for private meets work as an interim measure. Of course offering the hottub facilities to residents ?? | |||
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"Cornwall council so I've been told won't approve any clubs in Cornwall at all. It's rubbish and means we have no club scene round here. Hopefully your council approve yours" There's loads of councils that won't approve a licence. Our neighbouring council in Liverpool won't approve a club (we've tried), neither will the other surrounding councils. This is why you find a cluster of clubs in certain areas as they have more 'sympathetic' councils. It's ridiculous! Liverpool are fine with money laundering pole dancing and lap dancing bars but not a legit swinging clubs for consenting adults! | |||
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"There's more to it. I'm not prepared to disclose publicly but if clubs want to chat to me directly about it, then I'm happy to do so xx" Just thinking as there are a lot of independent clubs out there perhaps regarding planning licenses etc you should work together? Perhaps set up a joint organisation ....safety in numbers as they say! | |||
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"There's more to it. I'm not prepared to disclose publicly but if clubs want to chat to me directly about it, then I'm happy to do so xx Just thinking as there are a lot of independent clubs out there perhaps regarding planning licenses etc you should work together? Perhaps set up a joint organisation ....safety in numbers as they say! " I am always working with other clubs on all sorts of stuff, so I am happy for clubs to chat to me if and when the licence is enforced in their area xx | |||
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"Cornwall council so I've been told won't approve any clubs in Cornwall at all. It's rubbish and means we have no club scene round here. Hopefully your council approve yours There's loads of councils that won't approve a licence. Our neighbouring council in Liverpool won't approve a club (we've tried), neither will the other surrounding councils. This is why you find a cluster of clubs in certain areas as they have more 'sympathetic' councils. It's ridiculous! Liverpool are fine with money laundering pole dancing and lap dancing bars but not a legit swinging clubs for consenting adults! " It's such a shame because down in Cornwall it's pretty much cut off from everywhere. We have no choice but to travel and stay over night whenever we want to go to a club! | |||
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"We were forced to get this licence and it took us over a year to get it through, eventually getting the seal of approval in October last year. The guidance is quite strict and is more than tv screens and poles!!! ALL clubs will eventually need to get this licence and I did put it out there a while back warning clubs that councils will start rolling this out. At the moment it is a recommendation by government for councils to enforce this licence, but it will become compulsory eventually. It's a pain in the ass but actually it sorts the wheat from the chaff. The clubs who run under the radar and get away with murder will be shut down. So if you can get this through, it will set you aside. For those who are saying fight it though solicitors, you can fight it for now, but you are just delaying your re-opening and delaying the inevitable when it becomes compulsory. I have no problem with clubs being regulated..bring it on! If you want any help, just PM me as it was a MURDEROUS process and I would be happy to help if it makes things easier for you Vicky xxx " Thanks for the cool head Vicky as this is our local club and I can't wait for this to by sorted out asap! We will be up in townhouse this September. | |||
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"Very sorry to hear this, and hope you manage to get it sorted. And kudos to Townhouse for being the first club (as always) to reach out and offer help. Many of us recognise this and we're planning to visit on the basis of your positivity. (Ok, the rumour of a very large gin bar may also have played a part ) " Oh it's not a rumour!! Haha 56 guns, all tested for quality by myself before making it to our bar! Lol You are very welcome to visit anytime but hopefully your local club won't be closed for long!!!! X | |||
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"I would suggest that all commercial clubs will be facing the requirement of a sex entertainment license. " So if a swingers club doesn’t have a pole or video screens, what technically makes it a swingers club rather than a nightclub? (Yes some nightclubs have poles). Beds? Nightclubs can have chill out couches for example. Philosophical question really | |||
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"I would suggest that all commercial clubs will be facing the requirement of a sex entertainment license. So if a swingers club doesn’t have a pole or video screens, what technically makes it a swingers club rather than a nightclub? (Yes some nightclubs have poles). Beds? Nightclubs can have chill out couches for example. Philosophical question really " Like I've said above, there's actually a lot more to the licence than screens and poles. Unfortunately, if the council decide that they want to enforce the licence on swingers clubs, they can and will. What they will do though is tailor the licence to be more applicable to our needs rather than those of a lap dancing club which is completely different xxx | |||
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"What we can’t work out is why they had to close us down. Didn’t give us a lot of time to cancel everyone. We will also have to send people their money back for cottage rooms etc. Thank you for all your concerns Townhouse and everyone else. We have gone away for a couple of days to get over the shock so we will speak to everyone soon x. We have also had other clubs messaging too with help, we really appreciate it and it’s nice to know that everyone cares " Councils are a strange brew at the best of times. We have never been to your club but have heard good things about it. We hope you find a way through this situation. Remember though that the council tends to get what the council wants and upsetting them is never a good idea! All the best x | |||
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"I thought it was a necessity to have a sexual entertainments license it was the first thing I was told I would need to get if I wanted to try opening any swingers/adult venue and that was 5 years ago. It doesnt matter about the poles or video screenings, theres a whole lot more than goes into than that. " If you look at the above you can see the licence is geared towards places like lapdancing venues etc... although there is a general "get out" clause. . The blindingly obvious thing to do is to ask why an entertainment licence is needed and which things (if any) tip the ballance. Then review. Why pay for a licence you may not actually need?. However, this equates to about £80 per week so may be worth just taking the hit. Hope it gets sorted soon because its a great club | |||
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"We were forced to get this licence and it took us over a year to get it through, eventually getting the seal of approval in October last year. The guidance is quite strict and is more than tv screens and poles!!! Great to see people standing together ALL clubs will eventually need to get this licence and I did put it out there a while back warning clubs that councils will start rolling this out. At the moment it is a recommendation by government for councils to enforce this licence, but it will become compulsory eventually. It's a pain in the ass but actually it sorts the wheat from the chaff. The clubs who run under the radar and get away with murder will be shut down. So if you can get this through, it will set you aside. For those who are saying fight it though solicitors, you can fight it for now, but you are just delaying your re-opening and delaying the inevitable when it becomes compulsory. I have no problem with clubs being regulated..bring it on! If you want any help, just PM me as it was a MURDEROUS process and I would be happy to help if it makes things easier for you Vicky xxx " | |||
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"A very sad day for the club .... the Bedfordshire Council have decided that we need a Sexual Entertainment Licence, and have stopped us operating until such time that we have the appropriate licence If we continue operating we would be faced with fines of up to £20,000 and the chance of never ever getting a license We have decided to take the step to close the club until we are in possession of such license We have been operating for 15 years and want to stay within the law Please watch this space, we are sorry for any inconvenience caused " Just another bump to let those know who may not have seen yet | |||
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"A very sad day for the club .... the Bedfordshire Council have decided that we need a Sexual Entertainment Licence, and have stopped us operating until such time that we have the appropriate licence If we continue operating we would be faced with fines of up to £20,000 and the chance of never ever getting a license We have decided to take the step to close the club until we are in possession of such license We have been operating for 15 years and want to stay within the law Please watch this space, we are sorry for any inconvenience caused Just another bump to let those know who may not have seen yet " Isn't a sev a club that you have to pay for sev e.g. a lap dancing club. Swingers clubs are normally private members clubs and if you're not there for sexual entertainment as such as it's private members doing what they want | |||
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"A very sad day for the club .... the Bedfordshire Council have decided that we need a Sexual Entertainment Licence, and have stopped us operating until such time that we have the appropriate licence If we continue operating we would be faced with fines of up to £20,000 and the chance of never ever getting a license We have decided to take the step to close the club until we are in possession of such license We have been operating for 15 years and want to stay within the law Please watch this space, we are sorry for any inconvenience caused " Eureka in Kent, had to get rid of the pole and videos. It’s ridiculous, | |||
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"I imagine place like BGHS or Silverlea don’t require this sex club licence? Because it’s a spa? Couldn’t Jaydees be a Spa? " . Sounds like a good idea. | |||
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"A very sad day for the club .... the Bedfordshire Council have decided that we need a Sexual Entertainment Licence, and have stopped us operating until such time that we have the appropriate licence If we continue operating we would be faced with fines of up to £20,000 and the chance of never ever getting a license We have decided to take the step to close the club until we are in possession of such license We have been operating for 15 years and want to stay within the law Please watch this space, we are sorry for any inconvenience caused Just another bump to let those know who may not have seen yet Isn't a sev a club that you have to pay for sev e.g. a lap dancing club. Swingers clubs are normally private members clubs and if you're not there for sexual entertainment as such as it's private members doing what they want" no there's much more to it than that xx | |||
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"Let’s hope that common sense prevails and the licence is applied for, accepted,, fee paid (through gritted teeth) and JDs doors are once again open. And then I woke up out of fantasy land before I came crashing to the ground. I do like the idea of a dogging car park festival, maybe a drive in cinema experience playing porn on a 50’ screen. Apparently Bedford have a great riverside car park ????. " Bedford Borough Council has a lovely big car park right outside there offices lol | |||
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"Can someone explain how an Sev licence works for a club of this kind. Looking at the conditions holding this licence in any of the listed categories would prohibit sexual acts between customers and require recorded cctv of every area including private rooms. The Sev licence is very geared towards clubs where people pay to see people who are being paid to provide adult entertainment. " I believe that the conditions can be interpreted to include any venue that offers sexual services which does and would include any club that allows sex or portrays sex via video screens in there venue. The punishment for breaking the rules are quite severe. Of course not all councils are implementing the sev requirement but it appears more and more are. The nasty bit is the upfront cost with no guarantee of a successful application. Things have changed a lot over the past 20 years and clubs have become more popular and the number of them has increased which brings them in to view of the local council's and in turn the tax they can generate from them. The obvious conclusion is the smaller venues will fall by the way side. The upside is the strong possibility that there will be a upturn in house parties which is where the clubs scene was born from in the first place. | |||
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"Can someone explain how an Sev licence works for a club of this kind. Looking at the conditions holding this licence in any of the listed categories would prohibit sexual acts between customers and require recorded cctv of every area including private rooms. The Sev licence is very geared towards clubs where people pay to see people who are being paid to provide adult entertainment. I believe that the conditions can be interpreted to include any venue that offers sexual services which does and would include any club that allows sex or portrays sex via video screens in there venue. The punishment for breaking the rules are quite severe. Of course not all councils are implementing the sev requirement but it appears more and more are. The nasty bit is the upfront cost with no guarantee of a successful application. Things have changed a lot over the past 20 years and clubs have become more popular and the number of them has increased which brings them in to view of the local council's and in turn the tax they can generate from them. The obvious conclusion is the smaller venues will fall by the way side. The upside is the strong possibility that there will be a upturn in house parties which is where the clubs scene was born from in the first place. " I really hope it doesn’t go to house parties. We tried it and really didn’t like them. It’s so much safer and less pressure at a club. | |||
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"Can someone explain how an Sev licence works for a club of this kind. Looking at the conditions holding this licence in any of the listed categories would prohibit sexual acts between customers and require recorded cctv of every area including private rooms. The Sev licence is very geared towards clubs where people pay to see people who are being paid to provide adult entertainment. I believe that the conditions can be interpreted to include any venue that offers sexual services which does and would include any club that allows sex or portrays sex via video screens in there venue. The punishment for breaking the rules are quite severe. Of course not all councils are implementing the sev requirement but it appears more and more are. The nasty bit is the upfront cost with no guarantee of a successful application. Things have changed a lot over the past 20 years and clubs have become more popular and the number of them has increased which brings them in to view of the local council's and in turn the tax they can generate from them. The obvious conclusion is the smaller venues will fall by the way side. The upside is the strong possibility that there will be a upturn in house parties which is where the clubs scene was born from in the first place. I really hope it doesn’t go to house parties. We tried it and really didn’t like them. It’s so much safer and less pressure at a club. " House parties are no different to clubs in as much as No means No in both environments. We have been to lots of clubs and house parties and have never felt any pressure to do anything and I've only ever felt unsafe once and that was a case of to many candles and to much nylon! Don't get me wrong I feel that the powers that be sticking there noses in is a terrible thing and I wish they would sod off and mind there own but that isn't likely to happen. I can think of at 4 club venues within an hour of us that currently operate under the radar and are prime for council intervention. Money talks and that's just the way it is. | |||
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" I really hope it doesn’t go to house parties. We tried it and really didn’t like them. It’s so much safer and less pressure at a club. " I know what you mean. At house parties it's always so much more pressure to play | |||
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"Clubs employ professional staff which helps with safety. They also tend to have more equipment available such as hot tubs, saunas, and kink play areas with expensive play equipment. Jaydees has a hot tub so large you can swim in it. No house party could hope to match an excellent club for facilities or atmosphere. " | |||
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"Clubs employ professional staff which helps with safety. They also tend to have more equipment available such as hot tubs, saunas, and kink play areas with expensive play equipment. Jaydees has a hot tub so large you can swim in it. No house party could hope to match an excellent club for facilities or atmosphere. " The point I was trying to make was this. The more councils get involved the less clubs there will be and the result of such intervention will be an increase in house parties, life finds a way! And not all clubs employ professional staff and not all clubs have the best equipment or atmosphere. This wasn't a comparison between the two forms it's a simple statement of fact as to what happens when the authorities get involved. | |||
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" The point I was trying to make was this. The more councils get involved the less clubs there will be and the result of such intervention will be an increase in house parties, life finds a way! And not all clubs employ professional staff and not all clubs have the best equipment or atmosphere. This wasn't a comparison between the two forms it's a simple statement of fact as to what happens when the authorities get involved. " I agree that could well be the result of councils poking their noses into clubs.... However after the post stating this, there were a few posters saying that this would be a good thing as they prefer house parties. I've done plenty of both, house parties and clubs...and I'd hate to lose clubs for the reasons I outlined. Both type of event have their place, and it looks like councils are not just looking at unprofessionally run clubs as Jaydees is probably as well run as you'll find anywhere...and one of the best equipped. | |||
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" The point I was trying to make was this. The more councils get involved the less clubs there will be and the result of such intervention will be an increase in house parties, life finds a way! And not all clubs employ professional staff and not all clubs have the best equipment or atmosphere. This wasn't a comparison between the two forms it's a simple statement of fact as to what happens when the authorities get involved. I agree that could well be the result of councils poking their noses into clubs.... However after the post stating this, there were a few posters saying that this would be a good thing as they prefer house parties. I've done plenty of both, house parties and clubs...and I'd hate to lose clubs for the reasons I outlined. Both type of event have their place, and it looks like councils are not just looking at unprofessionally run clubs as Jaydees is probably as well run as you'll find anywhere...and one of the best equipped. " | |||
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"Is there any news on Jaydees at all?? Heard really good things about it. " JayDees is still temporarily closed but keep an eye on the events forums for news of when this very popular and well attended club will be opening again | |||
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"Very sad day indeed. We are very fond of the club and hope you do reopen soon. Maybe we should all send letters of support to the council. Please advise." ..think you are out the loop a bit | |||
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"Is Jaydees opening Friday for the daytime events they used to host please?" Contact Jaydees profile page to check. They reopening full time this Saturday its been announced. Congratulations JD. | |||
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