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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi guys/ladies

Looking to visit a club during the week (daytime) possibly night time. It will be my first time an very nervous/intrigued.

Any help would be mostly grateful.

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

Really can't understand why a man has to be nervous of swingers clubs ... treat it just like your going into a pub with the hope of chatting up a nice lady with no expectations xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Valid point thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really can't understand why a man has to be nervous of swingers clubs ... treat it just like your going into a pub with the hope of chatting up a nice lady with no expectations xx"

If only it was that simple

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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Really can't understand why a man has to be nervous of swingers clubs ... treat it just like your going into a pub with the hope of chatting up a nice lady with no expectations xx"

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Really can't understand why a man has to be nervous of swingers clubs ... treat it just like your going into a pub with the hope of chatting up a nice lady with no expectations xx

If only it was that simple "

It really is that simple x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really can't understand why a man has to be nervous of swingers clubs ... treat it just like your going into a pub with the hope of chatting up a nice lady with no expectations xx

If only it was that simple

It really is that simple x "

It really isn’t, it may be for you but not for everyone and obviously not the OP or he wouldn’t be asking for advice ....

In my opinion if there’s no initial nerves then that takes some of the fun out of it.

My advice ... go the bar, get yourself a drink ,try not to worry too much and then take it from there

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Really can't understand why a man has to be nervous of swingers clubs ... treat it just like your going into a pub with the hope of chatting up a nice lady with no expectations xx

If only it was that simple

It really is that simple x

It really isn’t, it may be for you but not for everyone and obviously not the OP or he wouldn’t be asking for advice ....

In my opinion if there’s no initial nerves then that takes some of the fun out of it.

My advice ... go the bar, get yourself a drink ,try not to worry too much and then take it from there "

Have you been to a swingers club ?? Everyone is friendly xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really can't understand why a man has to be nervous of swingers clubs ... treat it just like your going into a pub with the hope of chatting up a nice lady with no expectations xx

If only it was that simple

It really is that simple x

It really isn’t, it may be for you but not for everyone and obviously not the OP or he wouldn’t be asking for advice ....

In my opinion if there’s no initial nerves then that takes some of the fun out of it.

My advice ... go the bar, get yourself a drink ,try not to worry too much and then take it from there

Have you been to a swingers club ?? Everyone is friendly xx"

Yes I have x

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Really can't understand why a man has to be nervous of swingers clubs ... treat it just like your going into a pub with the hope of chatting up a nice lady with no expectations xx

If only it was that simple

It really is that simple x

It really isn’t, it may be for you but not for everyone and obviously not the OP or he wouldn’t be asking for advice ....

In my opinion if there’s no initial nerves then that takes some of the fun out of it.

My advice ... go the bar, get yourself a drink ,try not to worry too much and then take it from there

Have you been to a swingers club ?? Everyone is friendly xx

Yes I have x"

Then you will know we are not big bad ogres and just human like every one else lol just make sure you have had your weetabix

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Really can't understand why a man has to be nervous of swingers clubs ... treat it just like your going into a pub with the hope of chatting up a nice lady with no expectations xx

If only it was that simple

It really is that simple x

It really isn’t, it may be for you but not for everyone and obviously not the OP or he wouldn’t be asking for advice ....

In my opinion if there’s no initial nerves then that takes some of the fun out of it.

My advice ... go the bar, get yourself a drink ,try not to worry too much and then take it from there

Have you been to a swingers club ?? Everyone is friendly xx"

Paraphrasing here; In a swingers club everyone is friendly. But some are more friendly than others

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Really can't understand why a man has to be nervous of swingers clubs ... treat it just like your going into a pub with the hope of chatting up a nice lady with no expectations xx

If only it was that simple

It really is that simple x

It really isn’t, it may be for you but not for everyone and obviously not the OP or he wouldn’t be asking for advice ....

In my opinion if there’s no initial nerves then that takes some of the fun out of it.

My advice ... go the bar, get yourself a drink ,try not to worry too much and then take it from there

Have you been to a swingers club ?? Everyone is friendly xx

Yes I have x

Then you will know we are not big bad ogres and just human like every one else lol just make sure you have had your weetabix "

It’s like anything new though - the unknown is always nerve-wracking until you’ve done it ... and then you wonder what you’re worried about! Especially when you’re doing something on your own for the first time.

I get a lot of newbies at my events. If it’s their first time in a swingers club they invariably tell me it’s nothing like they imagined! I was the same on my first visit & I doubt I’d have done it if I wasn’t in a couple!!

OP, I run Milf Monday @ Townhouse - it’s a daytime event on the 1st Monday each month & you would be more than welcome there! You’ll get a tour of the club & I’ll explain how it all works and introduce you to a couple of people

Next one is 5th August

And the above posts are correct - treat it like you would any bar, pub or club. You’re there to socialise, grab a drink & relax. If anything else happens, it’s a Brucie bonus!!

M xx

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By *inderellaRockerfellazCouple
over a year ago

warrington


"Really can't understand why a man has to be nervous of swingers clubs ... treat it just like your going into a pub with the hope of chatting up a nice lady with no expectations xx

If only it was that simple

It really is that simple x

It really isn’t, it may be for you but not for everyone and obviously not the OP or he wouldn’t be asking for advice ....

In my opinion if there’s no initial nerves then that takes some of the fun out of it.

My advice ... go the bar, get yourself a drink ,try not to worry too much and then take it from there

Have you been to a swingers club ?? Everyone is friendly xx

Yes I have x

Then you will know we are not big bad ogres and just human like every one else lol just make sure you have had your weetabix

It’s like anything new though - the unknown is always nerve-wracking until you’ve done it ... and then you wonder what you’re worried about! Especially when you’re doing something on your own for the first time.

I get a lot of newbies at my events. If it’s their first time in a swingers club they invariably tell me it’s nothing like they imagined! I was the same on my first visit & I doubt I’d have done it if I wasn’t in a couple!!

OP, I run Milf Monday @ Townhouse - it’s a daytime event on the 1st Monday each month & you would be more than welcome there! You’ll get a tour of the club & I’ll explain how it all works and introduce you to a couple of people

Next one is 5th August

And the above posts are correct - treat it like you would any bar, pub or club. You’re there to socialise, grab a drink & relax. If anything else happens, it’s a Brucie bonus!!

M xx"

You can have one !!! X

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