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VA visit 13th July

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi everyone,

We're going to the VA for the first time next Saturday, anyone else planning on going that night? Any advice for us as newbies?

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By *asmartsCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

Were doing the same but on the 9th August! Be good to here some feedback from you

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By *ctr24Couple
over a year ago

Ipswich

We will be there on the 13th! Only going to be our second time but the first time was amazing, everyone so welcoming and friendly. Happy to explain our experience

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We will be there on the 13th! Only going to be our second time but the first time was amazing, everyone so welcoming and friendly. Happy to explain our experience "

Thanks, that would be great x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Were doing the same but on the 9th August! Be good to here some feedback from you"

Yeah will do, hopefully we'll have some good things to tell you x

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By *ctr24Couple
over a year ago

Ipswich

So we attended on the 15th June, first ever visit to a club and we also booked into their hotel.

We went downstairs to join the club at around 20.30. We had a few drinks and then began to speak to a few couples outside, this quickly turned into everyone swapping experiences and having a real good laugh with one another, at this point everyone was fully clothed

As the evening progressed people starting to loose clothing down to their underwear, checking each other out and the friendly conversations flowed on before late evening when everyone started playing with those who they had been luck enough to hit it off with.

We didn’t play that night however we did get naked and slip into the hot tub with some others there was also several people there who were just there to socialise and enjoy a drink.

Overall I would say don’t worry about it at all, the more your willing to be friendly and chat with others the same you receive it from them. No one forced themselves on you or expects you to do what your not comfortable with. I’m sure you will have a great time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So we attended on the 15th June, first ever visit to a club and we also booked into their hotel.

We went downstairs to join the club at around 20.30. We had a few drinks and then began to speak to a few couples outside, this quickly turned into everyone swapping experiences and having a real good laugh with one another, at this point everyone was fully clothed

As the evening progressed people starting to loose clothing down to their underwear, checking each other out and the friendly conversations flowed on before late evening when everyone started playing with those who they had been luck enough to hit it off with.

We didn’t play that night however we did get naked and slip into the hot tub with some others there was also several people there who were just there to socialise and enjoy a drink.

Overall I would say don’t worry about it at all, the more your willing to be friendly and chat with others the same you receive it from them. No one forced themselves on you or expects you to do what your not comfortable with. I’m sure you will have a great time "

Thanks, that's really helpful to know. We're not sure whether we are gonna play at all but we're looking forward to it. It's good to know that there is a high social aspect to the club as we like to chat to other couples about our experiences x

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By *ctr24Couple
over a year ago

Ipswich

Oh yes you will be fine, there was load of new couples there when we attended. It was not overall busy compared to normal however I believe if it was busier then wouldn’t be even more socialising to be honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I'm sure it'll be great. Hopefully we'll get a chance to say hello to you guys next week.

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By *ctr24Couple
over a year ago

Ipswich

I’m sure you will spot us haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m sure you will spot us haha"

Hi guys, did you have a good night? I'm sure we probably bumped into you last night but didn't get a chance to say hello.

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By *ctr24Couple
over a year ago

Ipswich

Hey guys, we had a brilliant time Thankyou how about yourselves did you enjoy your first time?

We saw so many faces I’m sure we did see one another we were proping up the bar most of the night haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah it was really good thanks. We had a great time and everyone was very friendly and it helped us to relax.

We kept looking around to see if we could work out which couple you might have been but there were quite a lot there lol

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By *ctr24Couple
over a year ago

Ipswich

Glad to hear you had a great time did you find anyone to play with?

Ahh ok haha, I was in blue shirt and grey trousers at the begging and the mrs was in black skirt and lace top which followed on to me in grey boxers and the mrs in a Lacey body suit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah we found a couple to play with.

I think I remember seeing you guys, I was in a white t-shirt, dark blue trousers to start and Mrs was in a flowery bodysuit and black skirt.

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By *ctr24Couple
over a year ago

Ipswich

How did that go?

Ahh ok then, we spoke to so many people I can’t remember everyone we saw haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a great night when I went. Super friendly

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

Ive been here many times either on my own or with a girl friend or two haha , a great place. Friendly staff and clientele , hosts are fab and bar staff great , music can be good to ,always have a great time at v a x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How did that go?

Ahh ok then, we spoke to so many people I can’t remember everyone we saw haha x"

Yeah it went well, we're definitely going to go back soon. Thinking of maybe trying a Friday next time too.

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By *ctr24Couple
over a year ago

Ipswich

So glad to hear that, ahaha we were saying we think we should try a Friday too x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We've pencilled in to go on the 16th August if that's the Friday! Will definitely go again on a Saturday too

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