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Best club for first time?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What club would you say is the best for a first club experiance?

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By *awty_twosomeCouple
over a year ago

Kent

A place called ‘our bedroom’ x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

purple mamba in Nottingham, quite small and intimate, beautifully decorated with lovely hosts

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A place called ‘our bedroom’ x"
aha! Brilliant reply!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"purple mamba in Nottingham, quite small and intimate, beautifully decorated with lovely hosts"
purple mamba is a bit close to home, would like to be a bit further out untill we've found our feet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attic in Derby? it's huge, very friendly people, no membership needed. take your own alcohol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Attic in Derby? it's huge, very friendly people, no membership needed. take your own alcohol"
we looked at going there before tbh and we just wimped out

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Club Sx in Blackpool, make a weekend of it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Club Sx in Blackpool, make a weekend of it "
Thanks. We're looking to have a fun filled weekend in august.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

To be honest any of the mainstream "known" ones would work OP - most have a fairly good policy in place to welcome newbies and make them feel at ease, including giving a tour, explaining etiquette etc and even introducing you to other couples.

Best bet would be take a look through the Club Reviews section on here and the Clubs websites themselves to get an idea of what they offer and how that might fit with what you are looking for.

Personally I'd recommend The Vanilla Alternative not far from Bedford on the A1 - it's clean, it's classy, is very welcoming, doesn't require membership fees to be paid, has a massive hot tub and other great facilities - it has the added bonus of having a number of hotel rooms upstairs you can stay in (for a similar price to Travelodge/Premier Inn) and can use for play during club hours if you want a little more privacy.

Liberty Elite is very similar in set up but believe you have to pay a membership fee up front there, although they do have some nights where this doesn't apply.

It all depends what you think you might be looking for ultimately.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you! Will have a look at the vanilla alternative. We looked at liberty's before. Tbh don't mind paying for a membership

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Checkout the reviews on here for AtlantisEvolution in Stoke-on-Trent.

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By *ohanLailaCouple
over a year ago

London

We second Le Boudoir in London. You could also try Ourplace4fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all. Will speak to A when he gets in

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe decide first what you want to do in the club before choosing one. For example do you want a hot tub, to dance, to dress down immediately or stay clothed etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We'd like to start of clothed and be able to drink and socialise/ dance first. I like the idea of a hot tub too! We were thinking about xtasia, but we're not sure if it will be too much for the first time

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Interesting you are thinking of Xstasia when no one on this thread has suggested it !

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

Most good clubs will be great for your first time to be honest.

I always recommend that you do some research in the club reviews section, but many reviews for clubs are from avid supporters, so take them lightly. However, it's a good start as the bad clubs are reflected in the wording of some reviews....a bit of Miss Marple is needed lol

Then go to the website. A good website will jump out at you straight away and it will be obvious if the club is genuinely welcoming to newbies and forward thinking or just wants your money!

Lastly and importantly, give the club a ring and get a feel for the owners. Most good owners will be really open and accommodating and will be able to put your mind at ease.

People will always flag up their fave club when people ask such questions as has been asked in this thread, but sometimes, they haven't been elsewhere to compare and opinions are subjective. I know one club that gets good reviews on here and I swear they must be talking about a different venue as I thought it was awful! But that is my opinion...and that's my point.

So do your homework and form your own opinion, then go for it!!

Good luck guys but I must warn you, once you go to a club, it can be a little addictive!!!! haha

Vic xxx

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By *otwife and the HubbyCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

Lachambre I would say, pick a Saturday night that is couples & fems only and its a really chilled out atmosphere, its just like going to a pub that has lots of fun attached to it if wanted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Interesting you are thinking of Xstasia when no one on this thread has suggested it !"
We have looked at reviews, and had a couole suggest a meet there?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And thanks all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

SX Blackpool

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By *awty_twosomeCouple
over a year ago

Kent

On a serious note, if you want a club not too far but not too close, we’d recommend xtasia in West Brom x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For people in the South..the best club for first timers is Pleasures. Great place and great staff

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By *ummygirlWoman
over a year ago

currently my bed

Nearby there's the Attic, Club 29 and Purple Mamba (I wouldn't be bothered about how close somewhere is, it makes no difference) theyre all very different clubs and Mamba is great for newbies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club kudos in dundee. Swingers night every Saturday 9pm till 3 am

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for your advice. We've got a few we like the sound of so we're going to look at the websites and see which one has an event to suit when we can get a sitter x

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By *eachy123Woman
over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me


"Thank you all for your advice. We've got a few we like the sound of so we're going to look at the websites and see which one has an event to suit when we can get a sitter x"

I'd say that was your best bet as there's lots of clubs in the Manchester area cupids is well known lots os newbies attending x

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