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Expectations to participate......

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By *orderboyblue OP   Man
over a year ago

Scottish Borders

Just wondering if you feel more obligated to get involved at a club or a private party.

Why??

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

No, the attitude at clubs and parties is always that I go with no expectations beyond chatting with nice people. Play is a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all..none that Iv been to anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, the attitude at clubs and parties is always that I go with no expectations beyond chatting with nice people. Play is a bonus. "

This is how we see it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel more obliged to participate at a private party. As it is normally held in a private house, with limited number of guests, just by coming to a party you kind of agree to play. Even if you don't know other guests. That's why for me, clubs are better as there is zero expectations for me to play.

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By *orderboyblue OP   Man
over a year ago

Scottish Borders

I can understand that ladies would see things that way.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Nobody should feel any obligation to play at any club or private party.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

I do not feel obliged to have sex anywhere. It is my body and my mind, and I need to like someone to let them that close.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly if you go to a club there are loads not playing, or playing on there own with no obligation to play this is the same with a large 10 plus people party.

However at small gatherings most are there to play and whilst there is no obligation to play others expect you to, sometimes at small parties people will show up and leave fairly quickly if it’s not doing it for them or they feel out of there depth x

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

we don't feel pressued if at a club but if we go to a private party and no one floats our boat we would leave

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