FabSwingers.com forum: Couples at clubs

By *itsAndTaff OP Couple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

My husband and I have been here for a while had several meets joint and solo in clubs abc outside of clubs

But when we’ve attended a club it’s always been on a quiet night often I’ve been the only woman or there was occasionally another woman but her husband never played

We are looking to attend clubs more and maybe on couples nights so there’s more chance of my husband being able to play as well but I’ve never really been into the idea of couples swap, as say one partner doesn’t find the other attractive, do partners separate in clubs or is that frowned upon

It’s also the reason we’ve never had a couples meet

Any advice appreciated, thx in advance

By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"My husband and I have been here for a while had several meets joint and solo in clubs abc outside of clubs

But when we’ve attended a club it’s always been on a quiet night often I’ve been the only woman or there was occasionally another woman but her husband never played

It’s also the reason we’ve never had a couples meet

Any advice appreciated, thx in advance "

Couples all have their own dynamics, so nothing is frowned on. If you want him to play while you watch, or if you want a threesome with another single guy / girl, or if you want to play separately from each other, it’s all fine! Even if you just play together - you might find you enjoy doing that in an open playroom where you are being watched! Clubs are about trying things & finding what you like, socialising with other people with a similar lifestyle and having fun!

Look at club websites and find events that sound like they will suit you. And try a few different ones - what suits one person will be someone else’s idea of hell!!

If you’re ever on your travels, pop into Townhouse - we’d be happy to look after you!

Good luck with it!!

M xx