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By *errys OP   Man
over a year ago

milton keynes and kent

I have been to a few clubs, but very rarely found any organised games taking place.

Would you join in if games were on.

How about suggestions of games

For instance :- guess your partner (many formats for this).

Gloryhole match the dick/tit.

Also what clubs do regularly have things to do.

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington


"I have been to a few clubs, but very rarely found any organised games taking place.

Would you join in if games were on.

How about suggestions of games

For instance :- guess your partner (many formats for this).

Gloryhole match the dick/tit.

Also what clubs do regularly have things to do.

"

how about table tennis? Or maybe dungeons and dragons with people using twenty sided dice as love balls?

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Naked volleyball on the dance floor?

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By *errys OP   Man
over a year ago

milton keynes and kent

Ah thats the spirit....

Although could be some health issues involved with dice and space on the dance floor

But could be fun at outdoor clubs.

Silverliegh used to have table tennis and it was fun playing it naked in the sun.

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By *rent Bridge SwingersCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Purple Mamba is set up slightly differently, and has regular games nights, including murder mystery nights

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"I have been to a few clubs, but very rarely found any organised games taking place.

Would you join in if games were on.

How about suggestions of games

For instance :- guess your partner (many formats for this).

Gloryhole match the dick/tit.

Also what clubs do regularly have things to do.

"

I think that's a great idea but from previous experience people are a little shy to join in.....(you know what I'm talking about)

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Seeing many profile pics on here, hoopla would be good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3rd edition D&d had an expansion called the book of erotica fantasy.

Mind you, I'm more likely to play monster hearts myself these days

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

We tried games years ago!! People tend to be shy and don't want to be up there in front of people. So we stopped doing them and have other ways to get people chatting instead.

I think most people were of the opinion that we are a classy club and the games were just too cheesy and not needed.

We've done a bit of naked Twister on our all female nights which always works out well and dare Jenga when there are single newbies around the bar when they are like a deer in headlights, but apart from that...it's not a popular fixture for us! lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Games nights? As in card games and board games?

I certainly think card and board game socials could work.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

There was a few of us (4 couples, 2 single guys) up in the lounge of a club I visited with my partner once. The staff seen us all (strangers till that night) chatting and getting on great. So they bought across a card game for us to all play. Unfortunately I didnt get the name of the game. There were two stacks of cards. One stack was cheeky things (a good warm up) one stack a little more hard core. The cards have little tasks/dares on them. You pass them around in turn and you have to do what they say on them. If it involves one or more other people it can't be your partner, you have to chose someone else. It was a lot of fun and definitely turn up the heat between us all. Just wish I'd caught the name of the game.

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By *rent Bridge SwingersCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Purple Mamba is set up slightly differently, and has regular games nights, including murder mystery nights "
apparently I forgot to add the gamer nights too...

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By *werty38Man
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I was once involved in a game of volleyball in chams jacuzzi with a balloon once. We were asked to stop by the staff in the end but it was a great ice breaker .

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"I was once involved in a game of volleyball in chams jacuzzi with a balloon once. We were asked to stop by the staff in the end but it was a great ice breaker ."
lol... where did the balloon come from? Did it have a teat?

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"I was once involved in a game of volleyball in chams jacuzzi with a balloon once. We were asked to stop by the staff in the end but it was a great ice breaker ."

It's amazing, no volleyball in the Jacuzzi please but rampant intense orgies in a packed Jacuzzi are permissible.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I have hosted daytime parties where games worked well as the audience in the club was predominantly singled, but I personally think games at night don't work so well.

The fun flows better when it's organic and just chatting that fires it up

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By *mm and HerCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

We've been at Kestrels when they've done games before. Naked twister with jelly I seem to recall - and drink and cheating - was very funny to watch. Not for us, but top marks for those who did play!

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire

It's not really my thing. I prefer just to socialise and then have sex.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

At Atlantis they used to do the hula hoop challenge ..involves hula hoop crisps and ladies nipples.

At parties they occasionally have a naughty pass the parcel. From memory they had newcomers and regulars happy to join in.

But games are not a regular feature.

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley


"We've been at Kestrels when they've done games before. Naked twister with jelly I seem to recall - and drink and cheating - was very funny to watch. Not for us, but top marks for those who did play!"

Yeah, I remember getting evolved in something like that the last summer bank holiday they were open.

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge


"It's not really my thing. I prefer just to socialise and then have sex."

Happy to skips the socialising too

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge


"We've been at Kestrels when they've done games before. Naked twister with jelly I seem to recall - and drink and cheating - was very funny to watch. Not for us, but top marks for those who did play!"

Done the naked twister, fun to play but not much of a spectator sport when I'm doing it. I suspect there are angles I really shouldn't be seen from

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By *errys OP   Man
over a year ago

milton keynes and kent

Well it sounds like a trip to purple mamba is ahead for me.

Town house stopping doing it is a shame...perhaps the game ideas were the problem, games have no need to be cheesy or sexual but sexy is good.

The card game mentioned sounds very interesting.

Also i suppose simple (vanilla) board games could be fun for some social events.

cougars and cubs at do fun stuff sometimes i know.

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By *errys OP   Man
over a year ago

milton keynes and kent

Oh yes the best thing i saw at a club (abfabs) was a magician.

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By *ecretpassion100Couple
over a year ago

Walsall

We did Jacuzzi twister at chams

Left hand right breast etc

Such a laugh and very interactive xx lol

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge


"We did Jacuzzi twister at chams

Left hand right breast etc

Such a laugh and very interactive xx lol"

I’d bend over backwards for that ??

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By *esires of HertsCouple
over a year ago

Herts and London Borders

problem with some of these games is that they can go on a little tooooo long...

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By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

I used to host "Who's cock is it anyway" in the dungeon at Kestrels.

Took place in the cage room. A blindfolded lady used to enter the cage and guys would stick their cocks through the bars. The lady would get a good feel of them and select one. All the men would then shuffle around and the woman would have to find the cock she selected.

Then there was always "Hot Tub Bullshit" which was basically daft topics being discussed in the hot tub.

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"I used to host "Who's cock is it anyway" in the dungeon at Kestrels.

Took place in the cage room. A blindfolded lady used to enter the cage and guys would stick their cocks through the bars. The lady would get a good feel of them and select one. All the men would then shuffle around and the woman would have to find the cock she selected.

Then there was always "Hot Tub Bullshit" which was basically daft topics being discussed in the hot tub."

Yeh I remember the hot tub bullshit lol

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By *portyndNaughtyMan
over a year ago

Nearby Hinckley

Few weeks ago at Purple Mamba a game of Truth and Dare was a hit.

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By *he RingmasterMan
over a year ago

Canford Cliffs


"Few weeks ago at Purple Mamba a game of Truth and Dare was a hit. "

Is that different to "Truth or Dare"?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

No I'd avoid it like the plague. I don't want to be jollied along to have fun - it reminds me of Monica from Friends - Rules help control the fun.

If it was advertised, I'd actively avoid that club night if it was going to be a big thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd avoid clubs that had games to play !

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

Why are us English so boring ??? It's beyond me why you just can't have some FUN!

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By *portyndNaughtyMan
over a year ago

Nearby Hinckley


"Why are us English so boring ??? It's beyond me why you just can't have some FUN!"

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By *errys OP   Man
over a year ago

milton keynes and kent

Obviously games/entertainment are not to everyones taste but it's usually optional, and half an hour early in a night can totally transform the atmosphere.

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By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

None of if was pre planned- they just happened. It got people talking and got people involved and that's a good thing.

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By *errys OP   Man
over a year ago

milton keynes and kent


"None of if was pre planned- they just happened. It got people talking and got people involved and that's a good thing."

Yes the hot tub thing caught on a bit, i remember it leading to a group of eight of us in a room once.

So yes customer organised games are great.

Last week my lady friend and a couple of others went in the glory holes with ice cubes.

(The mens side filled very fast).

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"Why are us English so boring ??? It's beyond me why you just can't have some FUN!"

I don’t know why people need games to have fun?

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By *ixieandfairyCouple
over a year ago

St Helier


"There was a few of us (4 couples, 2 single guys) up in the lounge of a club I visited with my partner once. The staff seen us all (strangers till that night) chatting and getting on great. So they bought across a card game for us to all play. Unfortunately I didnt get the name of the game. There were two stacks of cards. One stack was cheeky things (a good warm up) one stack a little more hard core. The cards have little tasks/dares on them. You pass them around in turn and you have to do what they say on them. If it involves one or more other people it can't be your partner, you have to chose someone else. It was a lot of fun and definitely turn up the heat between us all. Just wish I'd caught the name of the game."

I really like the sound of this! I’d definitely take part in this sort of icebreaker!

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"Why are us English so boring ??? It's beyond me why you just can't have some FUN!

I don’t know why people need games to have fun?"

Because that's how the shy ones can get involved and stop feeling left out especially the single men the hot tub chat game was good and if I remember there were a few new single men who didn't feel left out it's called making people welcome!!!

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge


"Why are us English so boring ??? It's beyond me why you just can't have some FUN!

I don’t know why people need games to have fun?

Because that's how the shy ones can get involved and stop feeling left out especially the single men the hot tub chat game was good and if I remember there were a few new single men who didn't feel left out it's called making people welcome!!!"

Exactly that

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"Why are us English so boring ??? It's beyond me why you just can't have some FUN!

I don’t know why people need games to have fun?

Because that's how the shy ones can get involved and stop feeling left out especially the single men the hot tub chat game was good and if I remember there were a few new single men who didn't feel left out it's called making people welcome!!!"

I think you must be boring if you think you need to play parlour games to have fun.

I didn't say games were bad. I was responding only to your point that people who don't enjoy parlour games are boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like anything else, games will work for some to break the ice, I’ve seen them work well at parties years ago. Wouldn’t be for me, and at clubs, I just prefer chatting as it’s more natural. Occasional random fun is welcome but I wouldn’t use it as a way to connect with others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some games, maybe

Any that may end up with me, naked in front of people.?

Unless I'm in a voyeurs room or totally in the moment in a dungeon.

Nope, no way, no how.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Silly, fun games where people taking part enjoy it and others can choose to watch or go to another part of the club work well. But only now and then.....would get dull if it happened regularly.

But always optional of course !

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"

Gloryhole match the dick/tit.

"

What does this involve ?

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"Why are us English so boring ??? It's beyond me why you just can't have some FUN!

I don’t know why people need games to have fun?

Because that's how the shy ones can get involved and stop feeling left out especially the single men the hot tub chat game was good and if I remember there were a few new single men who didn't feel left out it's called making people welcome!!!

I think you must be boring if you think you need to play parlour games to have fun.

I didn't say games were bad. I was responding only to your point that people who don't enjoy parlour games are boring."

I'm NOT boring to be honest and blocking me shows your mentality!!!

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By *ucy LewdWoman
over a year ago

North Oxfordshire


"Why are us English so boring ??? It's beyond me why you just can't have some FUN!

I don’t know why people need games to have fun?

Because that's how the shy ones can get involved and stop feeling left out especially the single men the hot tub chat game was good and if I remember there were a few new single men who didn't feel left out it's called making people welcome!!!

I think you must be boring if you think you need to play parlour games to have fun.

I didn't say games were bad. I was responding only to your point that people who don't enjoy parlour games are boring.

I'm NOT boring to be honest and blocking me shows your mentality!!!"

FWIW, I checked and I didn't block you. You either blocked me, or possibly admin blocked us from seeing each others profiles.

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