FabSwingers.com forum: Clubs for a newbie

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all. I'm currently seeing someone on a casual basis and we have spoken about the club scene and she has let slip she would love to try a gangbang out.

She has a few body confidence issues and is expecting to have to be naked as soon as she walks in the club. I've tried to tell her that that isn't the case based on my experiences at clubs. Also, she doesn't want to stay local so that rules out somewhere like teh attic, purple mamba and to a degree Libs.

I've suggested heading to Sheffield, Leeds, Manchester etc so if anyone has any recommendations on a theme nights she can dress up for or a club where naked isn't the dress code that'd be great. Thanks

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Why don't you and your lady want to visit a local club? Is it because you are worried about seeing someone you know?

Only once in three and a half years have I bumped into someone I know locally. I have bumped into a couple of family members at clubs who have travelled over an hour to get there.

It's no big deal seeing someone you know at a club. Everyone would prefer to be discreet as they don't want all their friends and family knowing what they do. If they were to out you for being at a club they would be outing themselves too.

When I've bumped into family at a club we just respect each other's privacy and chose to only play in private, lockable rooms rather than in open areas as it avoids any embarrassment for us all.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Dress down will be the code in play areas pretty much everywhere I think.

Partners in Manchester have an area you can stay dressed. As far as Manchester clubs go, though, I'd recommend Cupids. It is dress down from the word go, but the culture is excellent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go the Atlantis in Stoke on Trent on a Friday or Saturday if you are a couple it’s a very friendly club and you will be made very welcome by the staff and all the other couples and singles, just have a look on there club site on fab and read the write ups they also have a newbie night on a Friday too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone know of a really relaxed and great swingers club in the Yorkshire area to go too! As a first time...?

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Dress down doesn't have to mean naked. You can dress way down but still have enough on to feel comfortable. Even if it leaves nothing to the imagination. Fully naked feels a lot more exposing, with nothing to hide behind. You don't have to do that, even for play. Even in the hot tub, there are a few people who will keep something on. No one has a problem with it.

ClubF has a Curvy Girls night once a month (next one is this week) that was set up to help women with body confidence issues. Most clubs have similar nights, and I imagine for similar reasons. It's a good environment to give your confidence a boost. If you're tempted at all, I say give it a go.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes, dress down can mean skimpy. I usually wear lingerie, but a babydoll or equivalent in a dress works for the clubs I've been to.

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