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"Surely you are only likely to get mixed reviews which kind of defeats the object !!! Btw its a good club in my experience as a single or a couple." Not really defeating the object if the negatives in the mixed reviews are things that would be deal breakers for clubs for myself. | |||
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"Every club has a clique on a normal night, it’s a fact, it’s just like the local pub, it has its regulars and they tend to stay together and chat, those that claim there isn’t a clique at a club are generally part of it without realising!!! How or if you want to ingratiate yourself with the clique comes down to making a effort and approaching people to chat, some nights the hosts will introduce you to other people and this helps it really depends what night you go. As for VA, again it will depend on what night you attend." This is so true. There are bound to be small groups of people that know each other. It goes with swinging territory. If you don’t make an effort to mix you will feel isolated. I’ve seen it with my own eyes many times. As for VA. It’s the best club I’ve ever visited and I’ve been to a lot lol. | |||
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"Every club has a clique on a normal night, it’s a fact, it’s just like the local pub, it has its regulars and they tend to stay together and chat, those that claim there isn’t a clique at a club are generally part of it without realising!!! How or if you want to ingratiate yourself with the clique comes down to making a effort and approaching people to chat, some nights the hosts will introduce you to other people and this helps it really depends what night you go. As for VA, again it will depend on what night you attend." This. All clubs have cliques and VA is no better or worse than any other club that I habe visited in that respect. But no club is one massive clique and like any other club people tend to reciprocate friendliness with friendliness | |||
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"Thank you everyone for your input. I'm aware how the club scene works and niether of us are wallflowers lol. For every positive response this thread has given I've received two negative private messages about it. I'm sure it's a great club for allot as different strokes for different folkes and all that. If we're in the area then perhaps it's a club we can look into but I don't think it's one we're going to go out of our way for with a half day of driving each way. Again thank you everyone and no offense meant x " Perhaps you don’t have the right mind set for clubs! Every one should judge their own opinions! | |||
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"Thank you everyone for your input. I'm aware how the club scene works and niether of us are wallflowers lol. For every positive response this thread has given I've received two negative private messages about it. I'm sure it's a great club for allot as different strokes for different folkes and all that. If we're in the area then perhaps it's a club we can look into but I don't think it's one we're going to go out of our way for with a half day of driving each way. Again thank you everyone and no offense meant x Perhaps you don’t have the right mind set for clubs! Every one should judge their own opinions! " Well that felt a little shouty and rude. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion on anything they want and if they feel that something isn't for them. Say a club for example. Then it isn't a case of having the right mindset it's a case of knowing what you like. I was not looking to tarnish a club based on my own likes or dislikes so I sourced information around what I had heard about certain aspects and came to my own decision after what I had heard from others. | |||
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"Thank you everyone for your input. I'm aware how the club scene works and niether of us are wallflowers lol. For every positive response this thread has given I've received two negative private messages about it. I'm sure it's a great club for allot as different strokes for different folkes and all that. If we're in the area then perhaps it's a club we can look into but I don't think it's one we're going to go out of our way for with a half day of driving each way. Again thank you everyone and no offense meant x Perhaps you don’t have the right mind set for clubs! Every one should judge their own opinions! Well that felt a little shouty and rude. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion on anything they want and if they feel that something isn't for them. Say a club for example. Then it isn't a case of having the right mindset it's a case of knowing what you like. I was not looking to tarnish a club based on my own likes or dislikes so I sourced information around what I had heard about certain aspects and came to my own decision after what I had heard from others. " We are frequent visitors to VA, and it ticks lots of our boxes and yes fairly close to us. Each club is designed and run by their owners in their image of what a swinging club is, luckily we swingers appreciate the variety of life so that’s a good thing! Lol we have noticed that at the clubs we visit, including the VA, people are often arranging to meet several couples there to improve the success rate of playmates matching their choices! Lol This can seem like cliques but it’s just human nature due to all th3 associated costs of time travel and entry fees etc etc ! A small hint we would share is ask the hosts of all clubs to introduce you to some regulars, at the VA the staff often ask regulars to show new visitors around, a great way to break the ice! They may not be to your choice but they know ppl who know ppl lol All in all have fun where ever you journey......if you do pop in ask for us we will chat to anyone as a stranger is only a friend you haven’t met yet | |||
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