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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, I’m thinking about going to a club for the first time but going alone, is that the right thing to do for my first time or should I be going with someone with experience? I’m a little nervous so company could help I guess but who is my question? Would anybody like to come and show me the ropes or should I just go alone and embrace it? Thanks in advance

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Clubs are used to helping newbies relax and settle in.

Better to put on your big boy trousers on and go along on your own

;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clubs are used to helping newbies relax and settle in.

Better to put on your big boy trousers on and go along on your own

;-)"

This

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Just go ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Clubs are used to helping newbies relax and settle in.

Better to put on your big boy trousers on and go along on your own

;-)"

Yeh I just thought going with someone could take the nerves away, litterly no idea never done anything like this before

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just go .."

Just don’t no what to expect lol

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By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds

Don't expect anything. Go for a look around. Chat to staff. People will realise you are new and may chat. Least of all don't going expecting sex.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Club sx is a well run club nothing you do not want to happen will. You could just stay at the bar if you wish ..

Bet you go for a look wants you there ..

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By *uckfunCouple
over a year ago

North Coast


"Just go ..

Just don’t no what to expect lol"

Depends on where you go, we had a most unpleasant experience at a club in London, was supposed to be couples and select singles.

We were the only couple and there were 45 single men. Bloke at reception said he didn’t like to turn people away, at £20 per single man they made a killing.

Every time we stood up, to go to the bar, the toilet or a walk round, every one of them also stood up and followed us, we stayed for an hour drinking and chatting to a couple of blokes then left. (2 other couples came in, saw the number of single men and left).

So if you’re unlucky you may end up in what looks like a gay swingers club.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Club sx is a well run club nothing you do not want to happen will. You could just stay at the bar if you wish ..

Bet you go for a look wants you there .. "

Haha yes bet I will, I’ll just sit in the bar until I get a little d*unk and less nervous and then I’ll hopefully be more brave and have a walk around lol,,, it would just be nice to maybe meet someone or a couple and have a few drinks with them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just go ..

Just don’t no what to expect lol

Depends on where you go, we had a most unpleasant experience at a club in London, was supposed to be couples and select singles.

We were the only couple and there were 45 single men. Bloke at reception said he didn’t like to turn people away, at £20 per single man they made a killing.

Every time we stood up, to go to the bar, the toilet or a walk round, every one of them also stood up and followed us, we stayed for an hour drinking and chatting to a couple of blokes then left. (2 other couples came in, saw the number of single men and left).

So if you’re unlucky you may end up in what looks like a gay swingers club.

Good luck."

This is not what I want and would certainly put me off, I understand there is a lot of guys who are going for certain things and not social but that would seriously creep me out I bet you was a little aswell, I just want to make friends and have a laugh see the club side of things

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By *he RingmasterMan
over a year ago

Canford Cliffs


"Clubs are used to helping newbies relax and settle in.

Better to put on your big boy trousers on and go along on your own

;-)

Yeh I just thought going with someone could take the nerves away, litterly no idea never done anything like this before"

I might be there and so you can tag along with me

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By *nvisible_manMan
over a year ago

TWICKENHAM


"Just go ..

Just don’t no what to expect lol

Depends on where you go, we had a most unpleasant experience at a club in London, was supposed to be couples and select singles.

We were the only couple and there were 45 single men. Bloke at reception said he didn’t like to turn people away, at £20 per single man they made a killing.

Every time we stood up, to go to the bar, the toilet or a walk round, every one of them also stood up and followed us, we stayed for an hour drinking and chatting to a couple of blokes then left. (2 other couples came in, saw the number of single men and left).

So if you’re unlucky you may end up in what looks like a gay swingers club.

Good luck.

This is not what I want and would certainly put me off, I understand there is a lot of guys who are going for certain things and not social but that would seriously creep me out I bet you was a little aswell, I just want to make friends and have a laugh see the club side of things "

And obviously have sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best get there early about 8.00pm to have a tour of the place and will be able to tell you all the rules, etiquette etc and we can have a chat to get to know you. Plus I can introduce you to some guests and the staff. Hope to see you at the club.

Lou xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was rhe same mate I went to the club sx first time ever never visited a club before the staff were very friendly had a guide tour of the place also found all the people there very friendly I was very nervous and was made very relaxed and welcoming by the staff and member's at the club. Its a great place to go for a newbie .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Best get there early about 8.00pm to have a tour of the place and will be able to tell you all the rules, etiquette etc and we can have a chat to get to know you. Plus I can introduce you to some guests and the staff. Hope to see you at the club.

Lou xx"

Thank you

If not this week I will definitely be visiting very soon xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for advise mate, hopefully be there soon enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just email when you would like to come and will pop you down on the guest list

See you soon xx

Lou xx

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By *77999Man
over a year ago

london

Hey I was just wondering if any one was travelling from London for the event Friday and could jump in for petrol money worth an ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, I’m thinking about going to a club for the first time but going alone, is that the right thing to do for my first time or should I be going with someone with experience? I’m a little nervous so company could help I guess but who is my question? Would anybody like to come and show me the ropes or should I just go alone and embrace it? Thanks in advance "

Go alone. If i was in a club id say hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will be visiting in May , heard great reviews, looking forward to meeting and making lots of new friends

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