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By *aughty sex50 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Berks

We r looking to go to a club to meet people to get into scene etc

Not looking for a fetish night to start just a first time meet

But keen to watch and be watched to start

Easy for lady to wear sexy clothes but what would guy wear

I don’t wanna turn up and look the odd one out

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By *eeandsexymCouple
over a year ago

Between selby/york

A towel or some shorts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the club. If its a dress down club like say Chameleons or Cupids then its a towel or boxers/briefs from the outset. Most club websites offer their own guidance. Its always more awkward for the guy at dressed clubs getting the balance right. Or do it german style. Leather or black string vest and g string briefs

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

If it isn't a dress down club, I would go for smart casual for a guy.

Women nearly always make an effort, men often don't bother... I am far more likely to be attracted to a man who has made an effort.

Wear good quality boxers or towel to dress down.

Nita

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

If it's a dress up club, can't go wrong with a shirt and either trousers or smart jeans and shoes. Check if it's an event night as I've been to some that are themed and ask for full on smart dress up for that night.

If it's dress down, I've seen guys in shorts/boxers and towels - whatever you feel most confident wearing.

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By *aly82Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"If it's a dress up club, can't go wrong with a shirt and either trousers or smart jeans and shoes. Check if it's an event night as I've been to some that are themed and ask for full on smart dress up for that night.

If it's dress down, I've seen guys in shorts/boxers and towels - whatever you feel most confident wearing. "

All noted...... ??

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"If it's a dress up club, can't go wrong with a shirt and either trousers or smart jeans and shoes. Check if it's an event night as I've been to some that are themed and ask for full on smart dress up for that night.

If it's dress down, I've seen guys in shorts/boxers and towels - whatever you feel most confident wearing.

All noted...... ??"

Where are you planning to head to?

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By *aughty sex50 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Berks

We r new in Berks

Want to go to a club to break the ice

So suggestions would be great

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By *aly82Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"If it's a dress up club, can't go wrong with a shirt and either trousers or smart jeans and shoes. Check if it's an event night as I've been to some that are themed and ask for full on smart dress up for that night.

If it's dress down, I've seen guys in shorts/boxers and towels - whatever you feel most confident wearing.

All noted...... ??

Where are you planning to head to?"

Suggestions have been Convent or Jaydees so far. Anywhere else you think?

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By *aughty sex50 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Berks

Where r they

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"If it's a dress up club, can't go wrong with a shirt and either trousers or smart jeans and shoes. Check if it's an event night as I've been to some that are themed and ask for full on smart dress up for that night.

If it's dress down, I've seen guys in shorts/boxers and towels - whatever you feel most confident wearing.

All noted...... ??

Where are you planning to head to?

Suggestions have been Convent or Jaydees so far. Anywhere else you think?"

I don't know Convent at all and Jaydees I've not been to. VA isn't far from Jaydees and that I can vouch for, it's great.

Likewise OP, depending where you are it's a nice one to try.

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By *aly82Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"If it's a dress up club, can't go wrong with a shirt and either trousers or smart jeans and shoes. Check if it's an event night as I've been to some that are themed and ask for full on smart dress up for that night.

If it's dress down, I've seen guys in shorts/boxers and towels - whatever you feel most confident wearing.

All noted...... ??

Where are you planning to head to?

Suggestions have been Convent or Jaydees so far. Anywhere else you think?

I don't know Convent at all and Jaydees I've not been to. VA isn't far from Jaydees and that I can vouch for, it's great.

Likewise OP, depending where you are it's a nice one to try. "

Actually I have heard good things about VA. Where is OP?

Would be a newbie so thinking a rookie night maybe a good idea?

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By *aughty sex50 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Berks

Berkshire

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By *aly82Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Berkshire "

What is the club called?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Berkshire "

I lived in Reading for years, never had a local club so far as I know - plenty of swingers though lol. I'm now not far VA, Jaydees, both just off the A1, near Bedford. Kestrels new place should be open soon, ideal from Reading!

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbitMan
over a year ago

Halifax


"If it's a dress up club, can't go wrong with a shirt and either trousers or smart jeans and shoes. Check if it's an event night as I've been to some that are themed and ask for full on smart dress up for that night.

If it's dress down, I've seen guys in shorts/boxers and towels - whatever you feel most confident wearing.

All noted...... ??

Where are you planning to head to?

Suggestions have been Convent or Jaydees so far. Anywhere else you think?

I don't know Convent at all and Jaydees I've not been to. VA isn't far from Jaydees and that I can vouch for, it's great.

Likewise OP, depending where you are it's a nice one to try.

Actually I have heard good things about VA. Where is OP?

Would be a newbie so thinking a rookie night maybe a good idea?"

OP isnt a club. It means Original Poster, to show they were replying to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We r new in Berks

Want to go to a club to break the ice

So suggestions would be great "

We're in Berkshire too. We're going to playgrounds on the 20th. It's in Dunstable. It's a great club and I'd definitely recommend for your first time x

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