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Xtasia or Chameleons??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We would like to attend one of the above clubs on the weekend of 29th/30th March 2019.

We would like other people's honest opinions as we are in our fourties and wish to socialise and possibly play with other couples/single ladies who are our own age range. That said we would not object to younger people at all but feel younger people wouldn't be attracted to us?

Abby is also a larger lady who is conscious of her plus size but damn sexy at the same time.

Therefore can anyone tell us if these two clubs only attract young fit slim people as we would very much like to attend and have a great night but would also like to fit in and not feel too intimidated!

We're sure both clubs are great places but wanted to get some advice from people who have any experience.

Many thanks for any info.

Busty and Bags!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Both clubs attract a wide audience of genders, body shapes, single and couples etc. I highly doubt you'd feel out of place in either, I'd suggest trying both if you can make a weekend of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks very much for your quick response and advice. We may very well visit both clubs and make the most of our weekend. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to both

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks, we might very well do that!!

Love your profile too xx

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

In format, they are completely different types of club. If your scene is to dress sexy, listen to some music, have a dance and socialise without having to dress down then Xtasia is the one to go to. If you don`t mind dressing down straight away, like a session in a jacuzzi/steam room/sauna or are looking for a more direct approach to fun then Chameleons is the one to choose. Chameleons does have a dance/music room but the DJ isn`t there every night I understand. Chams is also the place to go if you want regular bi action/nude nights.

Both are very good clubs.

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By *iddytoxcplCouple
over a year ago

Stoke/Uttoxeter

Both clubs as mentioned are very different. So if you can do both its the way to go. We prefer Chameleons, but that is us. Our best advice is speak to both clubs on the phone and ask them questions. We know Chams staff will give you a tour on arrival or sometimes (if very busy) ask trusted members to do this. We know "dress down" clubs can seem more intimidating but it's a great leveller in our opinion. So do some research via the club reviews section, speak to the clubs and whether you do 1 or both go with the flow on the night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what you are after.

Xtasia is great as an adult night club and there are areas you can play but we wouldn't necessarily say it is that comfortable or private to play.

Chameleons is fantastic, a very friendly swinging club with fabulous facilities.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your reply, really helpful xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your reply, very helpful xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great, thanks so much xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Brilliant, many thanks xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We agree with what's been said...chameleons also has ensuite rooms on the premises you can rent for the night xtasia there's a hotel a few doors down...both good fun friendly clubs..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both clubs as mentioned are very different. So if you can do both its the way to go. We prefer Chameleons, but that is us. Our best advice is speak to both clubs on the phone and ask them questions. We know Chams staff will give you a tour on arrival or sometimes (if very busy) ask trusted members to do this. We know "dress down" clubs can seem more intimidating but it's a great leveller in our opinion. So do some research via the club reviews section, speak to the clubs and whether you do 1 or both go with the flow on the night. "

At Chams you wear what you want..guys a towel but ladies sexy gear or a towel no one judges you..its very relaxed and super friendly.Having been to both we prefer Chams.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Excellent, that's good to know. I want to dress sexy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s very helpful indeed as have booked 29/30th to attend with a very naughty lady and was certainly wondering about other local clubs to Chameleons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if it was me and I was away for the weekend I would do one on

your first day night and the day and the other the next

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Although it's not one of the clubs you mentioned, if you're on the larger side you may appreciate "dangerous curves" parties at liberty elite. Very good nights in a lovely club.

Have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks, yes we may well do that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks, I've just taken a look at their website and I'm impressed xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great advice, many thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would like to attend one of the above clubs on the weekend of 29th/30th March 2019.

We would like other people's honest opinions as we are in our fourties and wish to socialise and possibly play with other couples/single ladies who are our own age range. That said we would not object to younger people at all but feel younger people wouldn't be attracted to us?

Abby is also a larger lady who is conscious of her plus size but damn sexy at the same time.

Therefore can anyone tell us if these two clubs only attract young fit slim people as we would very much like to attend and have a great night but would also like to fit in and not feel too intimidated!

We're sure both clubs are great places but wanted to get some advice from people who have any experience.

Many thanks for any info.

Busty and Bags!

"

Sorry to put a spanner in the works but we’ve just been to a Dangerous Curves party at Liberty Elites - if Mrs is conscious of her curves then this would be ideal!

Lots and lots of curvaceous beautiful ladies there x

The club is also amazing

Sara

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Although it's not one of the clubs you mentioned, if you're on the larger side you may appreciate "dangerous curves" parties at liberty elite. Very good nights in a lovely club.

Have fun "

Great minds!! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Many thanks Sara, we hope to visit there in the future for sure. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We agree with what's been said...chameleons also has ensuite rooms on the premises you can rent for the night xtasia there's a hotel a few doors down...both good fun friendly clubs.."

Xtasia also has rooms now above Flirts, the bar/pub at the front of the complex.

As has already been said 2 completely different clubs and both are great in their own way!

The weekend of 29/30th @ Xtasia is the FFFF weekend so free entry if you're on the guest list. Friday night is couples, single males and single females. Saturday night is couples and single females. Both nights are normaly very busy nights

HTH,

Lee

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Lee, we're very much looking forward to our weekend xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks Lee, we're very much looking forward to our weekend xx"

I hope you have a great weekend whatever you decide on xx

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