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"Depends on what you are after from a club and personal preference really. We have been to both. Chams is dress down straight away, when you arrive you have to walk through the club in your normal clothes and go straight to the locker rooms to get changed. The dress code for men is boxers or a towel and women is sexy underwear. Xtasia has more of a nightclub feel, where all the playrooms are off the main dance floor, usually about 11pm the daddy’s dress down from their sexy dresses to something a little less comfortable but if you want to walk through the club naked you can. The also have events on a Saturday that offers a buffet. Personally we prefer Xtasia as we like the social element and to choose if & when we strip. It really depends on what night you are going and what you are looking for from the experience? xx" Took me a min to work out the auto spell....think it was meant to be "ladies" | |||
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"Depends on what you are after from a club and personal preference really. We have been to both. Chams is dress down straight away, when you arrive you have to walk through the club in your normal clothes and go straight to the locker rooms to get changed. The dress code for men is boxers or a towel and women is sexy underwear. Xtasia has more of a nightclub feel, where all the playrooms are off the main dance floor, usually about 11pm the daddy’s dress down from their sexy dresses to something a little less comfortable but if you want to walk through the club naked you can. The also have events on a Saturday that offers a buffet. Personally we prefer Xtasia as we like the social element and to choose if & when we strip. It really depends on what night you are going and what you are looking for from the experience? xx Took me a min to work out the auto spell....think it was meant to be "ladies" " oh my gosh yes it was ladies! This is why I should never be allowed to reply on a phone! My predictive text does not know me at all! ha ha xx | |||
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"Oh and Chams has food as well. Food and sex. " We also think food and sex is a great combo. We like to go for the whole day so its important to keep fuelled. Having a good menu is a big plus. The Lamb Shank is very tasty. | |||
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"Oh and Chams has food as well. Food and sex. We also think food and sex is a great combo. We like to go for the whole day so its important to keep fuelled. Having a good menu is a big plus. The Lamb Shank is very tasty." They also do a nice Coq au vin And Meatballs. And some custard creams on the bar | |||
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"Oh and Chams has food as well. Food and sex. We also think food and sex is a great combo. We like to go for the whole day so its important to keep fuelled. Having a good menu is a big plus. The Lamb Shank is very tasty. They also do a nice Coq au vin And Meatballs. And some custard creams on the bar" Yes have had the bar buffet experience | |||
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"We much prefer chams. Always lots of fun and the Jacuzzi's are always fab although can be a bit much for the eyes with the chlorine. We have only been once to _tasia and we didn't enjoy as much as chams but seemed like a fun place. Xx" Chams has recently had some additional ventilation put in at least one of the jaccuzzis which should improve things. Problems really start if people don`t shower before using them and the chlorine will give off that eye stinging smell because it`s doing it`s job. Some perfumes or deodorants can have the same effect too apparently. | |||
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"Oh and Chams has food as well. Food and sex. " That settles it then ?? | |||
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"Oh and Chams has food as well. Food and sex. That settles it then ??" Join the queue for the buffet at 10.30pm | |||
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"Can I be added to guestlist please x" Which guest list?? | |||
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"Chams." yes chams darlston from west bromich premier inn | |||
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"We're thinking of coming up to Birmingham to try one of these clubs in the middle weekend of March. What would you say are the main differences between them, and which do you prefer? Thanks in advance! " Chams every time you've got Jacuzzis,sauna, steam room and a dungeon and plenty of rooms to play if you want. | |||
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"They are both fantastic clubs, depending on what you are after though depends which you want to go to. There is a lot more sex at chams than _tasia but is a dress down club so that is to be expected. Xtasia is great for the nightclub feel Chams is great for a chilled sex fueled night." Whilst yes we love Chams, live there if we could, we like to add Xtasia to the mix. They have some great events coming up, Foam Party, Red Carpet etc which add another dynamic. Both totally different and its nice to glam up sometimes | |||
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"Having attended Xtasia instead of Chams last month we can only say what a massive mistake. They are as different as chalk and cheese. Xtasia was all about waiting around and people dressed to impress whereas Chams is all about having filthy fun with like minded people who just don't judge or pigeon hole people. Not everyone is the same but massive thumbs up for Chams! We felt we had wasted a night at Xstasia " I agree | |||
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"We're thinking of coming up to Birmingham to try one of these clubs in the middle weekend of March. What would you say are the main differences between them, and which do you prefer? Thanks in advance! " We live hours away, so we do both. | |||
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"We're thinking of coming up to Birmingham to try one of these clubs in the middle weekend of March. What would you say are the main differences between them, and which do you prefer? Thanks in advance! We live hours away, so we do both. " thats what we do as well and make a weekend of it | |||
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"We're thinking of coming up to Birmingham to try one of these clubs in the middle weekend of March. What would you say are the main differences between them, and which do you prefer? Thanks in advance! " Hate these threads, lol. So, both clubs are totally different, and we try to be, so that's all good. Just to highlight to some of the above, we now do heavy play nights, shagging from the start if that's what you like, and you probably won't find a more "adventurous" night in the Midlands than the BMFC evening, so don't just discount us as a nightclub! Loads of great events going on here now, but as people have pointed out, if its sex you want in bucket loads any evening, head for Chams. Having a dress down policy from the start obviously removes a lot of barriers, and large Jacuzzi's makes it easy to start the fun off. We lived there for years, and appreciate the way it works. Here, its a little more subtle and teasing, more of a build up through the evenings, so its down to you to try and find what works for you. Lovers and Haters, and those who chill and do both. Enjoy whatever you decide to do. | |||
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"We're thinking of coming up to Birmingham to try one of these clubs in the middle weekend of March. What would you say are the main differences between them, and which do you prefer? Thanks in advance! Hate these threads, lol. So, both clubs are totally different, and we try to be, so that's all good. Just to highlight to some of the above, we now do heavy play nights, shagging from the start if that's what you like, and you probably won't find a more "adventurous" night in the Midlands than the BMFC evening, so don't just discount us as a nightclub! Loads of great events going on here now, but as people have pointed out, if its sex you want in bucket loads any evening, head for Chams. Having a dress down policy from the start obviously removes a lot of barriers, and large Jacuzzi's makes it easy to start the fun off. We lived there for years, and appreciate the way it works. Here, its a little more subtle and teasing, more of a build up through the evenings, so its down to you to try and find what works for you. Lovers and Haters, and those who chill and do both. Enjoy whatever you decide to do. " The massive dance floor and nightclub vibe swings it for us...oh and the Sexy barmaid twisting across the dance floor! So it's a drink and a dance, some sexy fun, another drink and a dance, more sexy fun then finish the night with...a drink and a dance. Xtasia for us | |||
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"We're thinking of coming up to Birmingham to try one of these clubs in the middle weekend of March. What would you say are the main differences between them, and which do you prefer? Thanks in advance! Hate these threads, lol. So, both clubs are totally different, and we try to be, so that's all good. Just to highlight to some of the above, we now do heavy play nights, shagging from the start if that's what you like, and you probably won't find a more "adventurous" night in the Midlands than the BMFC evening, so don't just discount us as a nightclub! Loads of great events going on here now, but as people have pointed out, if its sex you want in bucket loads any evening, head for Chams. Having a dress down policy from the start obviously removes a lot of barriers, and large Jacuzzi's makes it easy to start the fun off. We lived there for years, and appreciate the way it works. Here, its a little more subtle and teasing, more of a build up through the evenings, so its down to you to try and find what works for you. Lovers and Haters, and those who chill and do both. Enjoy whatever you decide to do. " Great response! All the clubs are very different and to be honest the best way to find out if they are for you is to try them. The thing is, what works for one, may not always work for another, so always best to experience it and decide for yourself. xx | |||
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"Can't believe all this negative stuff about _tasia's !!! We have attended both clubs in question and it's a matter of preference to what you are into... true _tasia's does theme parties which are massively sucessfull and people coming back time and time again for!! And where you can guarantee a great night with friend's and new people alike. Where chams is for the more I just wanta get laid and more in your face which dosn't cater for all ESPECIALLY new couples just wanting to see what clubs are all about. Xtasia's will ALWAYS be our choice. Good friends. Naughty nights. Excellent staff.and makes EVERYONE welcome.. Will NEVER attendchams again its for the geriatric couples " Such a shame we fall into that bracket , whilst not young we are not due for a visit to the nursing home just yet, hence our next visit across will be Chams | |||
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"Can't believe all this negative stuff about _tasia's !!! We have attended both clubs in question and it's a matter of preference to what you are into... true _tasia's does theme parties which are massively sucessfull and people coming back time and time again for!! And where you can guarantee a great night with friend's and new people alike. Where chams is for the more I just wanta get laid and more in your face which dosn't cater for all ESPECIALLY new couples just wanting to see what clubs are all about. Xtasia's will ALWAYS be our choice. Good friends. Naughty nights. Excellent staff.and makes EVERYONE welcome.. Will NEVER attendchams again its for the geriatric couples " That's abit below the belt, people like different things. I'm neither geriatric or part of a couple and I attend chams with several single male and female friends. You're not doing _tasia any favours with these types of comments either. As an aside, I like both clubs but I do prefer the dress down element of chams. Xtasia do some amazing theme nights, my favourite is the foam party, so much filthy, soggy fun to be had. | |||
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"Whilst on this thread, might be worth mentioning another couple of things. When we took over Xtasia, a good few years ago now, Xtasia and Chams would have never been mentioned in the same paragraph, let alone asking for a comparison, so it is appreciated being up there now, close to what most would suggest is the best club in the country. Still more to do, we know it, but any club who rests on their laurels will soon fall be the wayside. The other point to mention is that we all have nights where it doesn't quite work out. We have quiet nights, any new couples attending those may not rate the atmosphere and never attend again, going away with the impression the club is dead and boring. We know the same applies at Chams, and equally visitors on those nights will have the same impressions. Its why we always suggest going a good few times to any venue to get an idea of what its really like over time. We do a months free pass to new members, to encourage them to try other nights, that way they may well find a night that really suites them. Anyone who has visited us once, and had a poor night, just call me and I'll happily suggest an evening for them that will show them the other side of the club! We also fully accept the differences between the two clubs. As someone just pointed out to me, if they were the same then whats the point? We are different, and attract a different core membership. Many of you are members of both, but will still have a preference based on where you feel comfortable. Anyway, time to go and do more decorating, lol....feels like the Forth Bridge at times! PS Foam this Saturday Keeley xx" Totally agree, that's why we are members of both. We joined Chams first but now mix it up with Xtasia as the events are awesome. We love the social aspect of both but Xtasia for being able to glam up for certain events is what we love. See you all in the foam Saturday xx | |||
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"Can't believe all this negative stuff about _tasia's !!! We have attended both clubs in question and it's a matter of preference to what you are into... true _tasia's does theme parties which are massively sucessfull and people coming back time and time again for!! And where you can guarantee a great night with friend's and new people alike. Where chams is for the more I just wanta get laid and more in your face which dosn't cater for all ESPECIALLY new couples just wanting to see what clubs are all about. Xtasia's will ALWAYS be our choice. Good friends. Naughty nights. Excellent staff.and makes EVERYONE welcome.. Will NEVER attendchams again its for the geriatric couples " We get the feeling we wouldn’t be welcomed as we are F late 40’s and Male late 50’s. And although we consider ourselves as attractive we do have lumps and bumps as do most people. We certainly don’t want to be looked down on. We live in an image conscious world and get the vibe Xtasia is where all the “Beautiful” people go? xx | |||
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"Can't believe all this negative stuff about _tasia's !!! We have attended both clubs in question and it's a matter of preference to what you are into... true _tasia's does theme parties which are massively sucessfull and people coming back time and time again for!! And where you can guarantee a great night with friend's and new people alike. Where chams is for the more I just wanta get laid and more in your face which dosn't cater for all ESPECIALLY new couples just wanting to see what clubs are all about. Xtasia's will ALWAYS be our choice. Good friends. Naughty nights. Excellent staff.and makes EVERYONE welcome.. Will NEVER attendchams again its for the geriatric couples We get the feeling we wouldn’t be welcomed as we are F late 40’s and Male late 50’s. And although we consider ourselves as attractive we do have lumps and bumps as do most people. We certainly don’t want to be looked down on. We live in an image conscious world and get the vibe Xtasia is where all the “Beautiful” people go? xx" Absolutely sure you'd be welcome at both. | |||
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"Can't believe all this negative stuff about _tasia's !!! We have attended both clubs in question and it's a matter of preference to what you are into... true _tasia's does theme parties which are massively sucessfull and people coming back time and time again for!! And where you can guarantee a great night with friend's and new people alike. Where chams is for the more I just wanta get laid and more in your face which dosn't cater for all ESPECIALLY new couples just wanting to see what clubs are all about. Xtasia's will ALWAYS be our choice. Good friends. Naughty nights. Excellent staff.and makes EVERYONE welcome.. Will NEVER attendchams again its for the geriatric couples We get the feeling we wouldn’t be welcomed as we are F late 40’s and Male late 50’s. And although we consider ourselves as attractive we do have lumps and bumps as do most people. We certainly don’t want to be looked down on. We live in an image conscious world and get the vibe Xtasia is where all the “Beautiful” people go? xx" I've been to _tasia plenty of times and I don't class myself as one of the 'beautiful' people and I've never felt as if I'm looked down on. | |||
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"Can't believe all this negative stuff about _tasia's !!! We have attended both clubs in question and it's a matter of preference to what you are into... true _tasia's does theme parties which are massively sucessfull and people coming back time and time again for!! And where you can guarantee a great night with friend's and new people alike. Where chams is for the more I just wanta get laid and more in your face which dosn't cater for all ESPECIALLY new couples just wanting to see what clubs are all about. Xtasia's will ALWAYS be our choice. Good friends. Naughty nights. Excellent staff.and makes EVERYONE welcome.. Will NEVER attendchams again its for the geriatric couples We get the feeling we wouldn’t be welcomed as we are F late 40’s and Male late 50’s. And although we consider ourselves as attractive we do have lumps and bumps as do most people. We certainly don’t want to be looked down on. We live in an image conscious world and get the vibe Xtasia is where all the “Beautiful” people go? xx" We've attended both clubs and never got looked down on we are regulars at _tasias as we do prefer there . We have lumps and bumps and Late 40s and we always have people come up to us chatting to us . Just looked at your profile and we think you would be a very popular couple at _tasias , people think it's clicky but every one is friendly . Come try it think you both may be surprised xx | |||
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"Keep an eye on the invites lists for the different night's or events and you will get an idea of the busy night's... and also the mix of attendees.." lol, I'd be careful about that, the long lists tend to run for months and have lots of no shows, the short lists often are for popular events where folks know they don't need to be on the lists. Lock and Key last weekend had 5 on guest list and over 60 couples turned up. Expecting similar for Foam, and if everyone shows for FFFF weekender at the end of March, I'll be gobsmacked. But yes, they can be a guide. | |||
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"Can't believe all this negative stuff about _tasia's !!! We have attended both clubs in question and it's a matter of preference to what you are into... true _tasia's does theme parties which are massively sucessfull and people coming back time and time again for!! And where you can guarantee a great night with friend's and new people alike. Where chams is for the more I just wanta get laid and more in your face which dosn't cater for all ESPECIALLY new couples just wanting to see what clubs are all about. Xtasia's will ALWAYS be our choice. Good friends. Naughty nights. Excellent staff.and makes EVERYONE welcome.. Will NEVER attendchams again its for the geriatric couples We get the feeling we wouldn’t be welcomed as we are F late 40’s and Male late 50’s. And although we consider ourselves as attractive we do have lumps and bumps as do most people. We certainly don’t want to be looked down on. We live in an image conscious world and get the vibe Xtasia is where all the “Beautiful” people go? xx We've attended both clubs and never got looked down on we are regulars at _tasias as we do prefer there . We have lumps and bumps and Late 40s and we always have people come up to us chatting to us . Just looked at your profile and we think you would be a very popular couple at _tasias , people think it's clicky but every one is friendly . Come try it think you both may be surprised xx" Thank you. We will give it a try. What do we have to lose? Lol. Xxxx | |||
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"Can't believe all this negative stuff about _tasia's !!! We have attended both clubs in question and it's a matter of preference to what you are into... true _tasia's does theme parties which are massively sucessfull and people coming back time and time again for!! And where you can guarantee a great night with friend's and new people alike. Where chams is for the more I just wanta get laid and more in your face which dosn't cater for all ESPECIALLY new couples just wanting to see what clubs are all about. Xtasia's will ALWAYS be our choice. Good friends. Naughty nights. Excellent staff.and makes EVERYONE welcome.. Will NEVER attendchams again its for the geriatric couples We get the feeling we wouldn’t be welcomed as we are F late 40’s and Male late 50’s. And although we consider ourselves as attractive we do have lumps and bumps as do most people. We certainly don’t want to be looked down on. We live in an image conscious world and get the vibe Xtasia is where all the “Beautiful” people go? xx We've attended both clubs and never got looked down on we are regulars at _tasias as we do prefer there . We have lumps and bumps and Late 40s and we always have people come up to us chatting to us . Just looked at your profile and we think you would be a very popular couple at _tasias , people think it's clicky but every one is friendly . Come try it think you both may be surprised xx Thank you. We will give it a try. What do we have to lose? Lol. Xxxx" Your inhibitions & clothes lol xx | |||
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"………... Will NEVER attendchams again its for the geriatric couples " Of my recent visits to Chams, I`ve had exceedingly more difficulty finding couples and ladies of my own age! It seems a more younger group of people are now attending there. But then, it depends on your own interpretation of "geriatric couples" is! | |||
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"Can't believe all this negative stuff about _tasia's !!! We have attended both clubs in question and it's a matter of preference to what you are into... true _tasia's does theme parties which are massively sucessfull and people coming back time and time again for!! And where you can guarantee a great night with friend's and new people alike. Where chams is for the more I just wanta get laid and more in your face which dosn't cater for all ESPECIALLY new couples just wanting to see what clubs are all about. Xtasia's will ALWAYS be our choice. Good friends. Naughty nights. Excellent staff.and makes EVERYONE welcome.. Will NEVER attendchams again its for the geriatric couples We get the feeling we wouldn’t be welcomed as we are F late 40’s and Male late 50’s. And although we consider ourselves as attractive we do have lumps and bumps as do most people. We certainly don’t want to be looked down on. We live in an image conscious world and get the vibe Xtasia is where all the “Beautiful” people go? xx We've attended both clubs and never got looked down on we are regulars at _tasias as we do prefer there . We have lumps and bumps and Late 40s and we always have people come up to us chatting to us . Just looked at your profile and we think you would be a very popular couple at _tasias , people think it's clicky but every one is friendly . Come try it think you both may be surprised xx Thank you. We will give it a try. What do we have to lose? Lol. Xxxx Your inhibitions & clothes lol xx" lol, look forward to showing you both around as and when. | |||
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