FabSwingers.com forum: Club virgin

By *ungle_king OP Man
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Hi all,

After been tempted for many years I am thinking of going to a club in a few weeks? Any suggestions and anybody wanting a +1 as quite shy but I really want to experience a club environment.

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By *he RingmasterMan
over a year ago

Canford Cliffs

"Hi all,

After been tempted for many years I am thinking of going to a club in a few weeks? Any suggestions and anybody wanting a +1 as quite shy but I really want to experience a club environment."

Happy to be your +1 and show you the ropes. Let me know where works for you - it'll have to be somewhere that allows single guys

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

"Hi all,

After been tempted for many years I am thinking of going to a club in a few weeks? Any suggestions and anybody wanting a +1 as quite shy but I really want to experience a club environment."

I’m afraid that the chances of finding someone to be a +1 for a club are minuscule. Imagine the chances of finding tartan paint in your local hardware store and then divide it by a million, that may come close

The standard response seems to be “man up, grow a pair, you only want cheaper entry, etc” or any combination of similar phrases.

We’re very lucky living in this area, we have some great clubs all within less than an hour drive. Chams Darlaston, Attic Derby, Libs just down the A5, Club 29 Leicester and Purple mamba Nottingham.

All are very different and have lots to offer. Take a look at the reviews section and their websites, see which appeals to you. Then phone them and ask about single male membership as sometimes they have a waiting list.

Once there, think of it as just like going to a pub, except that people may be wearing less clothes and some people will probably be having sex in the building. Socialise, be friendly and expect nothing more. Whatever you do, don’t be a wanking zombie following people around with your hand shuffling furiously under a towel, it’s not going to endear you to anyone there.

Go for it, you may find you have an amazing night.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Why not take the lady that appears in most of your photos with you. Then you will have someone to talk to and won't be going in alone .

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Why not take the lady that appears in most of your photos with you. Then you will have someone to talk to and won't be going in alone . "

This is great advice!

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By *.S.XWoman
over a year ago

Dreamland

"Hi all,

After been tempted for many years I am thinking of going to a club in a few weeks? Any suggestions and anybody wanting a +1 as quite shy but I really want to experience a club environment."

atlantisEVOLUTION in Burslem Stoke on Trent, couples, single guys and single females on Friday nights and Greedy girl events, Saturday is currently Couples and single female only.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

In theory I wouldn't mind taking someone as a +1, but in practice I need to make sure that I trust the person I'm going with. Which means not with a stranger.

Clubs aren't actually that scary. It's normal people in less/no clothes. In the bar area, smile, open body language, talk to people (both halves of a couple if applicable, make them comfortable don't just jump to sex talk). Outside the bar area, as long as you're not creepy (be friendly, don't follow people around leering or wanking, give people playing space and pay attention to whether they want you there or not) you should be fine.

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