FabSwingers.com forum: Could a man go to a club on his own?

By *onjules OP Man
over a year ago

Llandovery

Could a man go to a club on his own or is that a bit creepy?

I've read a thread on here just now for women meeting other women to go with so thought I'd start a thread for us guys who'd like to find a lady to take to the club.

What are your thoughts peeps?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Men can and do go to clubs on their own. It's only creepy if they're creepy.

Finding a woman to go with I suspect rarely works well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nah you will be fine. Just remember to check with the club as each have different rules regarding single men :D

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

To be fair there is quite a few single guy creeps who go to clubs. Some have creeped me out just chatting or looking at them.

1 of my proudest Veris says how I'm not creepy like some single males.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll be fine as long as you don't follow them or stare.

Have a chat with people, get to know them and go with no expectations

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

All of the above. Guys who come across as creepy in a club will come across as creepy in a library too!!

If you can behave like a decent human being, you’ll be fine!

Single guys are the mainstay of most clubs. I know swinging is very much a female led community, but no single guys & you’d soon start losing your female clubbers too!!

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

Just go along and don't be a dick. All the same social etiquette and norms for going to a normal club apply. Think that you may be surprised how easy it is to talk to people.

I can suffer from social anxiety but can honestly say that almost all clubs I have visited have proven so relaxed that it hasn't been an issue.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Could a man go to a club on his own or is that a bit creepy?

I've read a thread on here just now for women meeting other women to go with so thought I'd start a thread for us guys who'd like to find a lady to take to the club.

What are your thoughts peeps?"

The issue you'll have is finding a woman who won't think you're just using her to get into clubs at a reduced cost, plus, some men are just complete douche canoes and make us look bad as it reflects on us if we bring in idiots.

Having said that, I'd love to see more single guys in clubs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Course you can op

Nothing to be frightened off pal

Just go and enjoy yourself,have a bit of banter and chat with your fellow club goers and take in the atmosphere

Honestly it's just an amazing experience and hopefully you'll go back and start getting to know a few

*don't be one of the wanking dead is my tip of the day, not a good look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP why not pal up with another single guy who wants a friend to go to a club with? The single ladies thread is about girls wanting a friend to go to a club with, not a potential fuck/date. I don't see why you would need a female to go to a club with you unless you are expecting something to happen, and that's the reason most women won't take guy they don't know to a club. If you feel you need a friend to walk in with, buddy up with another guy rather than expecting a woman who doesn't know you to babysit you for the evening.

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South

"Could a man go to a club on his own or is that a bit creepy?

I've read a thread on here just now for women meeting other women to go with so thought I'd start a thread for us guys who'd like to find a lady to take to the club.

What are your thoughts peeps?"

I think everyone else has nailed this, creepy men are creepy everywhere.

Yes, single men can go to a club, many clubs welcome them.

Find a club you like the look of, read the reviews and if it looks like your kind of club get in touch.

Ask all of your questions and when you're comfortable, rock up.

They'll probably give you a tour and tell you the rules and probably introduce you to a few people.

Do be smart and polite.

Dont be a dick or expect to have fun on your first visit, don't be in a rush to get your old boy wet.

It might take you a few visits to be recognised and trusted.

Go, have a blast!!!!!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

In our experience OP, apart from couples only evenings, men always outnumber women in clubs so it's quite normal to go on your own....enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been to a couple of club nights on my own - can be fun !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve been to a couple of club nights on my own - can be fun !"

And I bet once you arrived you didn't feel scared or out of place in the slightest pal

Everyone's on the same boat

No one's better than you

No one's worse than you

Level playing field is the saying I'd choose

If your apprehensive op you'll take that apprehension with you

Leave it behind with your inhibitions too

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

The answer is yes OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could a man go to a club on his own or is that a bit creepy?

I've read a thread on here just now for women meeting other women to go with so thought I'd start a thread for us guys who'd like to find a lady to take to the club.

What are your thoughts peeps?"

If you socialise you won't be creepy!

Enjoy!

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By *andyladMan
over a year ago

Hereorthere

Yeah I go every now and then solo, don't follow around be polite and don't just whip you're cock out and wank at the merest sight of something going on.

And unless you're shy like me try and chat

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I went to Jaydees for my first time last month and went alone. No problem at all although I had messaged one of the hosts in advance for any rules etc.

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By *obandsue 69Couple
over a year ago

north Cornwall

If honest we go for the single guy fun

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By *esires of HertsCouple
over a year ago

Herts and London Borders

Wear smart clothes, be doubly clean and smelling fresh....those are the min requirements

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I go to OP4F on my own I am fairly comfortable with this as at the end of the day if you are well mannered and try to socialise you will fit in anywhere I go with the attitude to chat and have a good night and anything more is a bonus.When I chat to couples I always chat to both the male and female as I believe it shows respect.

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

If I doubted that would have yet to visit one of course he can, just respect those who you meet there

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

A man can do what ever he wants..

Go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could a man go to a club on his own or is that a bit creepy?

I've read a thread on here just now for women meeting other women to go with so thought I'd start a thread for us guys who'd like to find a lady to take to the club.

What are your thoughts peeps?"
get self down there try out the glory holes ive heard there good

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By *ewBurtonMan
over a year ago

Derby

I usually go on my own. But would love a friend xx

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