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By *utie91 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin

Single ladies who want to go to clubs but don’t want to go alone, please use this thread to find new friends to go with.

I was lucky enough to make several girl friends at my now regular club, and there is a group of us that all go together when we can.

We would like more single ladies to come and join us for the fun, and we are more than happy to introduce you to other people and give you a warm welcome.

But I want to also extend this out to ladies in other areas... so shout up if you want a friend and which club you want to try and hopefully we can find some matches and make a buddy system.

For anybody wanting to join myself and friends, our regular club is Jaydees and I post on my meets when I’m going. I also go to VA (with my partner)

But Jaydees I go alone and meet friends there.

Occasionally you will find me venturing out to other clubs, eurekas in the summer.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

Xtasia

Chams

Atlantis

The Attic are my regulars if anyone wants to join me sometime.

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By *oldenskyWoman
over a year ago

london

Only been to Sutton but would like to try others in london or Kent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can hear Beyoncé all the single ladies in head!! But I’d be happy to make friends for clubs x

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

Would be nice to find someone. However as I'm looking for women only, it puts most off. My local is angels in melksham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another one for chams! all my single ladies went off into the vanilla sunset always open to making new friends though

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By *utie91 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin


"Would be nice to find someone. However as I'm looking for women only, it puts most off. My local is angels in melksham"

Depends on the club.... a lot of the women that go to the clubs I go to are bi.

And I think at one of the clubs in Birmingham?? They have an all ladies event. I know it’s abit far for you..... maybe a special trip one day?

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By *utie91 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin


"Another one for chams! all my single ladies went off into the vanilla sunset always open to making new friends though "

One day I will make it to chams, really want to go.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Good idea OP. I'm not far from Libs

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By *utie91 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin


"Good idea OP. I'm not far from Libs "

Libs is on my list too lol

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I'm another one for Chams, I'm there most Friday's.

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By *rent Bridge SwingersCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Sometimes single ladies prefer to call us at Purple Mamba in advance so that a staff member can wait outside (so they don't have to walk in alone) x

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Anywhere in London and near London. Ladies nearer my own age and with similar preferences preferred.

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By *asmine73Woman
over a year ago

Brisbane

I'd like to find some girlfriends to go to clubs with. East Midlands area xx

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By *heHotWifeClubWoman
over a year ago

leicester


"Good idea OP. I'm not far from Libs "

I have lots of single ladies attend my event and set a Kik group up 2 weeks before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often accompany single ladies to clubs . It's nice that they have a wing man to watch out for them during group play . I have eyes in the back of my head . LOL

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By *utie91 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin

Glad people are getting behind this.

Love getting more single ladies into clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single ladies who want to go to clubs but don’t want to go alone, please use this thread to find new friends to go with.

I was lucky enough to make several girl friends at my now regular club, and there is a group of us that all go together when we can.

We would like more single ladies to come and join us for the fun, and we are more than happy to introduce you to other people and give you a warm welcome.

But I want to also extend this out to ladies in other areas... so shout up if you want a friend and which club you want to try and hopefully we can find some matches and make a buddy system.

For anybody wanting to join myself and friends, our regular club is Jaydees and I post on my meets when I’m going. I also go to VA (with my partner)

But Jaydees I go alone and meet friends there.

Occasionally you will find me venturing out to other clubs, eurekas in the summer. "

What a great idea wtg ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fantastic idea OP. I’m up for this in the North West.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a group of couples and single females that tend to go to the attic in derby and a couple of other clubs

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Good idea OP. I'm not far from Libs

I have lots of single ladies attend my event and set a Kik group up 2 weeks before "

I have been invited to go before but unfortunately wasn't available. One day....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love a female club buddy, I'm a member of Chameleons but up for trying new clubs too.

Unfortunately I can't drive so would ideally like to find someone local to me in Cheltenham.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Xtasia

Chams

Atlantis

The Attic are my regulars if anyone wants to join me sometime. "

Don't listen to this one, she's trouble

I'm teasing, she's positively a bloody gem and that's not a negative.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Xtasia

Chams

Atlantis

The Attic are my regulars if anyone wants to join me sometime. "
you should extend it to all over , Am From Ireland and would love to go to clubs this year but also don't want to head in on my own , would love to get to know girls and buy them drinks and just go as friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anywhere in London and near London. Ladies nearer my own age and with similar preferences preferred. "

I'd be up for Eureka's... Maybe chat to you at the STP in London if you're still going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes single ladies prefer to call us at Purple Mamba in advance so that a staff member can wait outside (so they don't have to walk in alone) x"

That’s a lovely idea once in u seem to mingle, it is actually the going in that can be daunting c

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By *utie91 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin


"Anywhere in London and near London. Ladies nearer my own age and with similar preferences preferred.

I'd be up for Eureka's... Maybe chat to you at the STP in London if you're still going "

Eurekas is lovely in the summer.... can’t beat their sunbathing lawns and heated outdoor pool.

Would be happy to go with you one day

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"Xtasia

Chams

Atlantis

The Attic are my regulars if anyone wants to join me sometime.

Don't listen to this one, she's trouble

I'm teasing, she's positively a bloody gem and that's not a negative.

P"

I was like who the fuck is this lol but you are so right i am a gem lol xx

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"Xtasia

Chams

Atlantis

The Attic are my regulars if anyone wants to join me sometime. you should extend it to all over , Am From Ireland and would love to go to clubs this year but also don't want to head in on my own , would love to get to know girls and buy them drinks and just go as friends "

That i can do at xtasia as they have a separate small bar at the front but sorry im only willing to meet at clubs.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Xtasia

Chams

Atlantis

The Attic are my regulars if anyone wants to join me sometime.

Don't listen to this one, she's trouble

I'm teasing, she's positively a bloody gem and that's not a negative.

P

I was like who the fuck is this lol but you are so right i am a gem lol xx"

She's damn good grading closed doors

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By *atEvolutionCouple
over a year ago

atlantisEVOLUTION. Stoke.


"Xtasia

Chams

Atlantis

The Attic are my regulars if anyone wants to join me sometime. "

Hey Beautiful,

Great idea.

To help you along we will waive the £10 Membership fee.

Just let us know when you arrive that your partner is being 'introduced' by you.

Cat X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Xtasia

Chams

Atlantis

The Attic are my regulars if anyone wants to join me sometime.

Don't listen to this one, she's trouble

I'm teasing, she's positively a bloody gem and that's not a negative.

P

I was like who the fuck is this lol but you are so right i am a gem lol xx"

A midget gem

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"Xtasia

Chams

Atlantis

The Attic are my regulars if anyone wants to join me sometime.

Don't listen to this one, she's trouble

I'm teasing, she's positively a bloody gem and that's not a negative.

P

I was like who the fuck is this lol but you are so right i am a gem lol xx

She's damn good grading closed doors "

That means a lot to me that my hard work was noticed, thank you.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"Xtasia

Chams

Atlantis

The Attic are my regulars if anyone wants to join me sometime.

Hey Beautiful,

Great idea.

To help you along we will waive the £10 Membership fee.

Just let us know when you arrive that your partner is being 'introduced' by you.

Cat X "

Aww thanks guys what a offer x

Whos up for a night at Atlantis then

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"Xtasia

Chams

Atlantis

The Attic are my regulars if anyone wants to join me sometime.

Don't listen to this one, she's trouble

I'm teasing, she's positively a bloody gem and that's not a negative.

P

I was like who the fuck is this lol but you are so right i am a gem lol xx

A midget gem "

And you are a mini midget diamond

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By *nsatiable Needy BratWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

I think this is a great idea. I've taken a couple of vanilla friends to clubs which they have enjoyed. Having a bunch of swinging, naughty female friends like myself sounds awesome though. Especially for when Sir is busy and can't make it. I'd enjoy getting round to different clubs.

I'm in the East Midlands if anybody fancies meeting for a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey!

I’ve still never been to a club, over three years on here and haven’t plucked up the courage just yet!

Would be nice to go with other singles so I don’t feel like a gooseberry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been to a club,could do with something similar for men,just feel uncomfortable walking into a club on my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to Libs regularly, happy to introduce anyone. I know quite a few people there.

I’ve also been to Chams, Purple MBA and The Attic and would like someone to chat to as I’ve not ever gone by myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Xtasia

Chams

Atlantis

The Attic are my regulars if anyone wants to join me sometime.

Don't listen to this one, she's trouble

I'm teasing, she's positively a bloody gem and that's not a negative.

P

I was like who the fuck is this lol but you are so right i am a gem lol xx

A midget gem

And you are a mini midget diamond "

Mwah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be great for someone to show me the ropes and any unspoken etiquette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is something I would potentially be interested in, also on sexual, social meets with ladies - a kind of civilised coffee morning for perverts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*non sexual

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By *heshire CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Chorley

I'm always up for finding females to go to clubs with. I tend to go to cupids as I love the staff and the atmosphere is great x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to Eureka alone or with my friend another single lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi

I’m happy to accompany any ladies to chams, doesn’t mean I expect anything. But I’m aware that sometimes it’s comforting to know someone has your back and with a predetermined look / word I’m happy to move single guys who are being pests on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cupids or Townhouse for me

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Hi

I’m happy to accompany any ladies to chams, doesn’t mean I expect anything. But I’m aware that sometimes it’s comforting to know someone has your back and with a predetermined look / word I’m happy to move single guys who are being pests on.

"

I may have read this wrong but I don't think the ladies are looking to have men accompany them, more like other ladies as a buddy system. 1000's of men will accompany single ladies to clubs.

Happy to buddy up in the North West or further afield.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

I’m happy to accompany any ladies to chams, doesn’t mean I expect anything. But I’m aware that sometimes it’s comforting to know someone has your back and with a predetermined look / word I’m happy to move single guys who are being pests on.

I may have read this wrong but I don't think the ladies are looking to have men accompany them, more like other ladies as a buddy system. 1000's of men will accompany single ladies to clubs.

"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great idea OP, well done. Girl Power!

Must be difficult walking into the lions' den by yourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great idea OP, well done. Girl Power!

Must be difficult walking into the lions' den by yourselves."

Not really depends how big balls you have

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Great idea OP, well done. Girl Power!

Must be difficult walking into the lions' den by yourselves."

It's not a lions den if you know what you want and can look after yourself. Never be afraid to say no in a big voice ladies. I've actually found it's usually men that don't have the bottle to go alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great idea OP, well done. Girl Power!

Must be difficult walking into the lions' den by yourselves.

It's not a lions den if you know what you want and can look after yourself. Never be afraid to say no in a big voice ladies. I've actually found it's usually men that don't have the bottle to go alone.

"

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great idea OP, well done. Girl Power!

Must be difficult walking into the lions' den by yourselves.

It's not a lions den if you know what you want and can look after yourself. Never be afraid to say no in a big voice ladies. I've actually found it's usually men that don't have the bottle to go alone.

"

Whether you are male or female, not everyone is confident and/or self assured in this particular scenario. I know I am not and am happy to admit it. Still a good idea by OP and great community spirit!

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By *haky 80Man
over a year ago

Wellington

Great idea OP think that’s why you done see many women in some clubs and I would be more than happy to escort a lady to a club so they could see what it is like and possibly find fun knowing that some is there looking out for them

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By *utie91 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin


"Great idea OP, well done. Girl Power!

Must be difficult walking into the lions' den by yourselves.

It's not a lions den if you know what you want and can look after yourself. Never be afraid to say no in a big voice ladies. I've actually found it's usually men that don't have the bottle to go alone.

Whether you are male or female, not everyone is confident and/or self assured in this particular scenario. I know I am not and am happy to admit it. Still a good idea by OP and great community spirit!"

This is true.. I’m fairly confident and I’m happy to go to Jaydees on my own, however, the other clubs I go to I wouldn’t go without either my partner or a friend.

I do think men can be worse sometimes too.... I try to convince men to take the plunge all the time.... but I can’t agree to go with a random man because I find that (sad as it is) they expect more and I wish it wasn’t like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anywhere in London and near London. Ladies nearer my own age and with similar preferences preferred.

I'd be up for Eureka's... Maybe chat to you at the STP in London if you're still going

Eurekas is lovely in the summer.... can’t beat their sunbathing lawns and heated outdoor pool.

Would be happy to go with you one day "

Yes it's my favourite club. We'll have to arrange a girl's outing when the weather improves

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By *utie91 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin


"Anywhere in London and near London. Ladies nearer my own age and with similar preferences preferred.

I'd be up for Eureka's... Maybe chat to you at the STP in London if you're still going

Eurekas is lovely in the summer.... can’t beat their sunbathing lawns and heated outdoor pool.

Would be happy to go with you one day

Yes it's my favourite club. We'll have to arrange a girl's outing when the weather improves "

Yes defo need good weather, if I lived closer I would be there most days in the summer lol.

It’s too far for me to bother in the winter

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By *oley999Woman
over a year ago

Land of Rainbows and Happiness

Any Scotland ladies fancy a trip?

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By *i winkersCouple
over a year ago

manchester

This year i want to try a club or two on my own and report back my activities would love some wingwomen support xx

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By *ottie 13Woman
over a year ago

Happy go lucky

This is such a fantastic idea I have been to clubs on my own but there are quite a few ideas like to try and it's definitely more fun when you have some company

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

Nice thread x

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By *parkle7Woman
over a year ago

....

Love this thread......it’s great to go parties and clubs with a few girls, pre-party drinks and a giggle!!

Also love to go with a hottie or two too but then I can be greedy!!

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway


"This year i want to try a club or two on my own and report back my activities would love some wingwomen support xx"

Count me in

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By *handraWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

I'm very interested xx

My local clubs would be Eureka and pleasures

Got a few girl friends I'm looking forward to meeting when weather gets better at eureka, never driven there on my own before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm very interested xx

My local clubs would be Eureka and pleasures

Got a few girl friends I'm looking forward to meeting when weather gets better at eureka, never driven there on my own before "

Spent most of the late spring and summer at Eureka. Fantastic. Let me know when you are fancy going and if I'm off im always up for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attic is my regular club but i go to chams and xtasia too.

I want to try purple mamba, but always happy to meet other girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my mates are always at EUREKA or DV8 both in Kent and friendly girls x

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By *urvy-liciousWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I would love to find a pal to go to some more

Clubs with. I go to Sutton at the moment.

But would love to try more but really do not wish to go on my own.

I have been to A few clubs down south but that was couple years ago when I was in a relationship.

So would love to try more

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By *utie91 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin


"I would love to find a pal to go to some more

Clubs with. I go to Sutton at the moment.

But would love to try more but really do not wish to go on my own.

I have been to A few clubs down south but that was couple years ago when I was in a relationship.

So would love to try more "

You can always join me if you fancy... don’t know if it’s a bit too far for you though?

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I am a regular at Atlantis in Stoke. Happy to go along with any other ladies who want to try experience this lovely club. As the owner Cat has stated, she will wave the £10 membership fee for single ladies, so it's free entry and take your own alcohol.

You can even stay overnight for free when it's a party night. Message me or the club for more info.

I would love to try Purple Mamba, Xstasia, Cupids if any lady would go along with me sometime.

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By *utie91 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin


"I am a regular at Atlantis in Stoke. Happy to go along with any other ladies who want to try experience this lovely club. As the owner Cat has stated, she will wave the £10 membership fee for single ladies, so it's free entry and take your own alcohol.

You can even stay overnight for free when it's a party night. Message me or the club for more info.

One day I will make it to Atlantis...

I stay with my family in Stoke a lot.... it’s just finding the right excuse to sneak out for a night lol

I would love to try Purple Mamba, Xstasia, Cupids if any lady would go along with me sometime. "

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I am always happy to go with people to clubs if they fancy trying places or just coming along with me.

I'm based near junction 28 of the m1 so quite well placed for going to numerous clubs.

Any ladies fancy it then let me know x

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By *i winkersCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"I am a regular at Atlantis in Stoke. Happy to go along with any other ladies who want to try experience this lovely club. As the owner Cat has stated, she will wave the £10 membership fee for single ladies, so it's free entry and take your own alcohol.

You can even stay overnight for free when it's a party night. Message me or the club for more info.

I would love to try Purple Mamba, Xstasia, Cupids if any lady would go along with me sometime. "
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Cupids I can help with I live a two minute drive away - club sx is a nice one too and I don't mind driving. Always looking for more partners in crime

Also if any of you girls see us about happy to chat and give advice if you need it. I used to do clubs and parties alot on my own and had to help friends make excuses to get away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Secrets, swingers quay and Decs I can help with and chams.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

I go to some events at Eureka. Happy to join forces and chip in for petrol or share an Uber if convenient, or just travel on the train together.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"I am a regular at Atlantis in Stoke. Happy to go along with any other ladies who want to try experience this lovely club. As the owner Cat has stated, she will wave the £10 membership fee for single ladies, so it's free entry and take your own alcohol.

You can even stay overnight for free when it's a party night. Message me or the club for more info.

I would love to try Purple Mamba, Xstasia, Cupids if any lady would go along with me sometime. .

Cupids I can help with I live a two minute drive away - club sx is a nice one too and I don't mind driving. Always looking for more partners in crime

Also if any of you girls see us about happy to chat and give advice if you need it. I used to do clubs and parties alot on my own and had to help friends make excuses to get away. "

Thanks for that. I have had someone message me privately about accompanying me to Xstasia too.

Awesome thread !

I am happy going to my local club on my own. But it's much easier going to a different club with company.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


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I do think men can be worse sometimes too.... I try to convince men to take the plunge all the time.... but I can’t agree to go with a random man because I find that (sad as it is) they expect more and I wish it wasn’t like that. "

I imagine the financial battering single guys receive, along with the restricted times we're 'allowed' in, is more off-putting than a simple case of nerves. My case in point; Friday night, I was staying in Birmingham, and considered visiting Xtasia for the first time. £40 annual membership + £30 entry + £50 taxis (to and from hotel) + whatever drinks from the bar. I went down Broad St instead

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By *weeetOneWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'd like to try this but not many women my age are into it so haven't been yet

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"Good idea OP. I'm not far from Libs

Libs is on my list too lol "

And mine. I’m not especially bisexual these days (I go through phases) but I’d love a group of women friends to meet up with. I do go clubbing on my own but it’s sooooo much more fun when you have friends to meet.

X

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By *utie91 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin


"

I do think men can be worse sometimes too.... I try to convince men to take the plunge all the time.... but I can’t agree to go with a random man because I find that (sad as it is) they expect more and I wish it wasn’t like that.

I imagine the financial battering single guys receive, along with the restricted times we're 'allowed' in, is more off-putting than a simple case of nerves. My case in point; Friday night, I was staying in Birmingham, and considered visiting Xtasia for the first time. £40 annual membership + £30 entry + £50 taxis (to and from hotel) + whatever drinks from the bar. I went down Broad St instead "

That depends on the club you go to though.

Jaydees is £10 lifetime membership, £25/£35 per night for single males depending on the event, they can go every night, just numbers are limited. And it’s byob. Rooms at £20 if you stay at the club. So it does depend on the club.

And you don’t speak to other men like I do.... I get multiple messages which result in, they will go to the club if I go cuz they are only interested in me (which I call bs)

The reason why I only do club meets is because I don’t know if I will want to play with someone until I meet them, and I’m very fussy. Hence why I like having friends and a social as well

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"

I do think men can be worse sometimes too.... I try to convince men to take the plunge all the time.... but I can’t agree to go with a random man because I find that (sad as it is) they expect more and I wish it wasn’t like that.

I imagine the financial battering single guys receive, along with the restricted times we're 'allowed' in, is more off-putting than a simple case of nerves. My case in point; Friday night, I was staying in Birmingham, and considered visiting Xtasia for the first time. £40 annual membership + £30 entry + £50 taxis (to and from hotel) + whatever drinks from the bar. I went down Broad St instead

That depends on the club you go to though.

Jaydees is £10 lifetime membership, £25/£35 per night for single males depending on the event, they can go every night, just numbers are limited. And it’s byob. Rooms at £20 if you stay at the club. So it does depend on the club.

And you don’t speak to other men like I do.... I get multiple messages which result in, they will go to the club if I go cuz they are only interested in me (which I call bs)

The reason why I only do club meets is because I don’t know if I will want to play with someone until I meet them, and I’m very fussy. Hence why I like having friends and a social as well"

That's a fair comment about the difference in club pricing structures

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By *utie91 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin


"

I do think men can be worse sometimes too.... I try to convince men to take the plunge all the time.... but I can’t agree to go with a random man because I find that (sad as it is) they expect more and I wish it wasn’t like that.

I imagine the financial battering single guys receive, along with the restricted times we're 'allowed' in, is more off-putting than a simple case of nerves. My case in point; Friday night, I was staying in Birmingham, and considered visiting Xtasia for the first time. £40 annual membership + £30 entry + £50 taxis (to and from hotel) + whatever drinks from the bar. I went down Broad St instead

That depends on the club you go to though.

Jaydees is £10 lifetime membership, £25/£35 per night for single males depending on the event, they can go every night, just numbers are limited. And it’s byob. Rooms at £20 if you stay at the club. So it does depend on the club.

And you don’t speak to other men like I do.... I get multiple messages which result in, they will go to the club if I go cuz they are only interested in me (which I call bs)

The reason why I only do club meets is because I don’t know if I will want to play with someone until I meet them, and I’m very fussy. Hence why I like having friends and a social as well

That's a fair comment about the difference in club pricing structures "

Yes and London are more expensive

Anyway... the pricing structure is a topic for another thread lol.

Right girls.

I’m next at Jaydees on 8th feb for their 21-40 night

And hopefully VA on 27th feb for milf club (I’ll be there with my partner, and he’ll happily look after us all lol) so if anybody wants to join me drop me a message.

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By *ippylouWoman
over a year ago

northwest

Fab idea

Would love to try townhouse and some daytime events in Manchester.

Just that initially getting there going in alone is a daunting prospect for a newcomer.

I remember by first visit to Cupid’s I nearly had a nervous breakdown in the car, took me 30-40 mins to build up the courage to go in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to get to know some of the jaydees girls - it's one of my favourite clubs but a bastard drive from where I am on the south coast and sometimes hard to find a friend who is up for a roadtrip (my club girlfriends mainly go to eureka and DV8)! I have no problem walking into a club on my own (and have done before when I travel for work) but would be nice to have someone to have a drink and giggle with inside

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By *utie91 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin


"I'd love to get to know some of the jaydees girls - it's one of my favourite clubs but a bastard drive from where I am on the south coast and sometimes hard to find a friend who is up for a roadtrip (my club girlfriends mainly go to eureka and DV8)! I have no problem walking into a club on my own (and have done before when I travel for work) but would be nice to have someone to have a drink and giggle with inside

"

Come up on 8th feb... there are rooms to say over we will look after you

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Great idea OP, well done. Girl Power!

Must be difficult walking into the lions' den by yourselves.

It's not a lions den if you know what you want and can look after yourself. Never be afraid to say no in a big voice ladies. I've actually found it's usually men that don't have the bottle to go alone.

"

this lol ..

And I love clubs also drive so willing to try others I have been to Pandoras and quest also clubsx infusion la chambre hu9 always wanted to try attic and townhouse xx

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By *at1451Woman
over a year ago

london

I still haven't built up the courage to go to one alone so I'd be interested in any London clubs! x

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By *utie91 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin


"I still haven't built up the courage to go to one alone so I'd be interested in any London clubs! x"

You are more than welcome to join us on 8th at Jaydees. The hot tub is lush, everybody is very friendly and we will make sure ur looked after xx

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By *handraWoman
over a year ago

Hastings


"I'm very interested xx

My local clubs would be Eureka and pleasures

Got a few girl friends I'm looking forward to meeting when weather gets better at eureka, never driven there on my own before

Spent most of the late spring and summer at Eureka. Fantastic. Let me know when you are fancy going and if I'm off im always up for it. "

Fantastic. Will do xx

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By *utie91 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin

Anybody else fancy joining me and some friends at Jaydees on 8th feb?

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool


"Fab idea

Would love to try townhouse and some daytime events in Manchester.

Just that initially getting there going in alone is a daunting prospect for a newcomer.

I remember by first visit to Cupid’s I nearly had a nervous breakdown in the car, took me 30-40 mins to build up the courage to go in "

I can put you in touch with some female Townhouse regulars if you want and you could maybe arrange a drink beforehand and all come in together one night? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven’t got the courage to go alone so this is great if anyone’s interested in the northwest get in touch x

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton


"I haven’t got the courage to go alone so this is great if anyone’s interested in the northwest get in touch x"

Pity I am out with your age specification....!!!!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I haven’t got the courage to go alone so this is great if anyone’s interested in the northwest get in touch x

Pity I am out with your age specification....!!!!"

It’s for ladies to accompany ladies is this thread!

Pandora’s for me, I’ve never been.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"I haven’t got the courage to go alone so this is great if anyone’s interested in the northwest get in touch x"

I tried to message you, but I am outside of your age range. If you want to come to Stoke, I am happy to buddy up with you , until you find your feet and feel comfortable. I am straight and in my 50s, but enjoy showing people how lovely and friendly my local club Atlantis is.

It's an hour's drive from you, but if it's a party night, you can stay overnight for free, so get in touch if you want to give it a whirl.

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool


"I haven’t got the courage to go alone so this is great if anyone’s interested in the northwest get in touch x"

Maybe chat to Melsmanyx who has commented further up the thread as she wants to attend Townhouse in the NW and she is also nervous about going alone xxx

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Any ladies go to Pandora’s in Leeds?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab idea..

I've only been to Quest and La Chambre but any ladies from Sheffield or nearby who want to buddy up and try new places please contact me.

I do drive so it would be great if I could find someone to keep me company/ share fuel costs so we can venture further out and try new clubs.

I am fully verified and whilst I'm bi I wouldn't expect to play with anyone I was buddying with.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Fab idea..

I've only been to Quest and La Chambre but any ladies from Sheffield or nearby who want to buddy up and try new places please contact me.

I do drive so it would be great if I could find someone to keep me company/ share fuel costs so we can venture further out and try new clubs.

I am fully verified and whilst I'm bi I wouldn't expect to play with anyone I was buddying with. "

Great idea

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Girl Power!

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By *utie91 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin

So happy this seems to be taking off. If any ladies have a success story please update us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to Buxom babes in the Townhouse Birkenhead and would happily buddy a lady who's nervous, I'm still a relative noob but got a few people I can introduce to.

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By *zamiWoman
over a year ago

LONDON

I'd like a mate to go to Le Boudior xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a great post ! I’ve been to clubs before but always in a couple , and don’t have the courage to go on my own.

Sheffield , Leeds , Blackpool and Manchester are all within distance for me. Please get in touch xx

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By *llons-yWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Fab idea! I've only been to Townhouse so far but if there's a ladies only night somewhere I'm open to trying new places in the NW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great idea! When I'm back to full health and not on crutches any more, I'd be interested in finding a female club buddy for either Jaydees or Chameleons in Darlaston. The problem with me is, it would have to be someone who drives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any Ladies near Leeds...Inbox me

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By *utie91 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin


"Great idea! When I'm back to full health and not on crutches any more, I'd be interested in finding a female club buddy for either Jaydees or Chameleons in Darlaston. The problem with me is, it would have to be someone who drives. "

Hey hun.

I drive.. could collect you if ur not far from the A421. As I drive past on the way to the club.

Alternatively, you can catch a train to st Neots and either mysef or one of the other Jaydees girls can pick you up from the station.

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By *irty filthy milfWoman
over a year ago

somewhere only i know!


"This year i want to try a club or two on my own and report back my activities would love some wingwomen support xx"

I’ll be your wing anytime sext lady xx

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By *nsatiable_nymphWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere down south

Great thread OP

I used to attend clubs with someone, but flying solo now and the thought of entering a club by myself scares the crap out of me TBH

So definately interested in finding some club buddies

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By *utie91 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin


"Great thread OP

I used to attend clubs with someone, but flying solo now and the thought of entering a club by myself scares the crap out of me TBH

So definately interested in finding some club buddies "

Ur not that far from me hun, so you are welcome to join me and my friends @ Jaydees if you fancy it xxxx

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I'm going to Townhouse for the first time on 8th - is anyone else going?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should set ones up for different areas xx

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool


"I'm going to Townhouse for the first time on 8th - is anyone else going? "

There's quite a few ladies on here who are nervous and looking for buddies in our area, so maybe have a look up..and down the thread and see if they want to join you? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to jd's some times,

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By *ormladMan
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"I'm going to Townhouse for the first time on 8th - is anyone else going?

There's quite a few ladies on here who are nervous and looking for buddies in our area, so maybe have a look up..and down the thread and see if they want to join you? X"

Definitely not nervous but if anyone else is going always nice to say hi. And if someone is going on that night who’s a bit apprehensive I don’t mind looking out for them.

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By *rustratedmissWoman
over a year ago

York

Love this thread. I've been to Quest and Pandora but always with a male. The problem is then you feel like you have to stay with them rather than chatting/playing with someone you like the look of.

Would love to find some female club buddies to go with.

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By *utie91 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin


"Love this thread. I've been to Quest and Pandora but always with a male. The problem is then you feel like you have to stay with them rather than chatting/playing with someone you like the look of.

Would love to find some female club buddies to go with. "

Yes, this will hopefully give more ladies freedom and confidence to chat to multiple people and have much more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a jaydees member

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I'm a jaydees member "

You're also male, this is a thread for ladies to find other ladies to attend clubs with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If this is open to couples too, we go wherever the fun is

So if any of you ladies want to be our plus 1

Clubs visited...

VA

Mingles (now closed )

Playgrounds

Abb fabs (now closed)

Private parties

Fete Morgana (Amsterdam)

To name a few

We have a big list of clubs to try too

Libs

Attic

Chams

Greenhouse

Maybe a few spa's

So plus 1s are welcome

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

If any ladies would like to attend chameleons, darlaston on the 8th February I'll be there!

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"If any ladies would like to attend chameleons, darlaston on the 8th February I'll be there! "

Think me and flossy are going.

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south


"Great idea OP, well done. Girl Power!

Must be difficult walking into the lions' den by yourselves.

It's not a lions den if you know what you want and can look after yourself. Never be afraid to say no in a big voice ladies. I've actually found it's usually men that don't have the bottle to go alone.

Whether you are male or female, not everyone is confident and/or self assured in this particular scenario. I know I am not and am happy to admit it. Still a good idea by OP and great community spirit!

This is true.. I’m fairly confident and I’m happy to go to Jaydees on my own, however, the other clubs I go to I wouldn’t go without either my partner or a friend.

I do think men can be worse sometimes too.... I try to convince men to take the plunge all the time.... but I can’t agree to go with a random man because I find that (sad as it is) they expect more and I wish it wasn’t like that. "
I wouldn't expect anything if I paired up with a lady and it's not that am frightened, it's been in a club on your own then and standing out like a sore thumb, lol cheers

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

Ladies, what is everyone doing tonight in or near London?

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By *utie91 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin


"Ladies, what is everyone doing tonight in or near London?"

I’m staying in tonight... had root canal yesterday, so just trying to recover in preparation for next weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would be nice to find someone. However as I'm looking for women only, it puts most off. My local is angels in melksham

Depends on the club.... a lot of the women that go to the clubs I go to are bi.

And I think at one of the clubs in Birmingham?? They have an all ladies event. I know it’s abit far for you..... maybe a special trip one day? "

Xstasia have one March 1st

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single ladies who want to go to clubs but don’t want to go alone, please use this thread to find new friends to go with.

I was lucky enough to make several girl friends at my now regular club, and there is a group of us that all go together when we can.

We would like more single ladies to come and join us for the fun, and we are more than happy to introduce you to other people and give you a warm welcome.

But I want to also extend this out to ladies in other areas... so shout up if you want a friend and which club you want to try and hopefully we can find some matches and make a buddy system.

For anybody wanting to join myself and friends, our regular club is Jaydees and I post on my meets when I’m going. I also go to VA (with my partner)

But Jaydees I go alone and meet friends there.

Occasionally you will find me venturing out to other clubs, eurekas in the summer. "

I go to xstasia alone but much prefer a wing woman as already stated stand out like injured prey sometimes when alone

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By *rent Bridge SwingersCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Purple Mamba has workshops for newbies - the next one for single ladies is in March - registration is on the website xxx

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"If any ladies would like to attend chameleons, darlaston on the 8th February I'll be there!

Think me and flossy are going. "

Oooo yay, the single lady posse!

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By *ral ExtraordinaireMan
over a year ago

Kent

Any ladies want escorting to Pleasures in Kent oneday xx

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"Single ladies who want to go to clubs but don’t want to go alone, please use this thread to find new friends to go with.

I was lucky enough to make several girl friends at my now regular club, and there is a group of us that all go together when we can.

We would like more single ladies to come and join us for the fun, and we are more than happy to introduce you to other people and give you a warm welcome.

But I want to also extend this out to ladies in other areas... so shout up if you want a friend and which club you want to try and hopefully we can find some matches and make a buddy system.

For anybody wanting to join myself and friends, our regular club is Jaydees and I post on my meets when I’m going. I also go to VA (with my partner)

But Jaydees I go alone and meet friends there.

Occasionally you will find me venturing out to other clubs, eurekas in the summer. "
. Well done Cutie91 on starting such a fabulous thread with nothing put good and positives coming out of it and friendships and networking been made.If any ladies are interested in going to OP4F or dare I say it Rios spa I would be happy to accompany them.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Single ladies who want to go to clubs but don’t want to go alone, please use this thread to find new friends to go with.

I was lucky enough to make several girl friends at my now regular club, and there is a group of us that all go together when we can.

We would like more single ladies to come and join us for the fun, and we are more than happy to introduce you to other people and give you a warm welcome.

But I want to also extend this out to ladies in other areas... so shout up if you want a friend and which club you want to try and hopefully we can find some matches and make a buddy system.

For anybody wanting to join myself and friends, our regular club is Jaydees and I post on my meets when I’m going. I also go to VA (with my partner)

But Jaydees I go alone and meet friends there.

Occasionally you will find me venturing out to other clubs, eurekas in the summer. . Well done Cutie91 on starting such a fabulous thread with nothing put good and positives coming out of it and friendships and networking been made.If any ladies are interested in going to OP4F or dare I say it Rios spa I would be happy to accompany them."

Why don't the men who want to accompany ladies start their own thread?

This thread is about ladies helping each supporting each other.

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By *utie91 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin


"Single ladies who want to go to clubs but don’t want to go alone, please use this thread to find new friends to go with.

I was lucky enough to make several girl friends at my now regular club, and there is a group of us that all go together when we can.

We would like more single ladies to come and join us for the fun, and we are more than happy to introduce you to other people and give you a warm welcome.

But I want to also extend this out to ladies in other areas... so shout up if you want a friend and which club you want to try and hopefully we can find some matches and make a buddy system.

For anybody wanting to join myself and friends, our regular club is Jaydees and I post on my meets when I’m going. I also go to VA (with my partner)

But Jaydees I go alone and meet friends there.

Occasionally you will find me venturing out to other clubs, eurekas in the summer. . Well done Cutie91 on starting such a fabulous thread with nothing put good and positives coming out of it and friendships and networking been made.If any ladies are interested in going to OP4F or dare I say it Rios spa I would be happy to accompany them.

Why don't the men who want to accompany ladies start their own thread?

This thread is about ladies helping each supporting each other. "

Yes, as discussed above, this is for ladies who want to make a lady friend or 2 for support, friendships and confidence boosting. Also provides some security, and the freedom to socialise with multiple men/women without upsetting/offending any guy they may have accompanied.

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By *ola1976Woman
over a year ago

mablethorpe

hi would love a buddy to come to clubs with me but very hard finding day time clubs if any fems out there simlar get in touch worksop but dont mind driving xxx

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"hi would love a buddy to come to clubs with me but very hard finding day time clubs if any fems out there simlar get in touch worksop but dont mind driving xxx"

Only daytime club i know is Chams.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"If any ladies would like to attend chameleons, darlaston on the 8th February I'll be there!

Think me and flossy are going.

Oooo yay, the single lady posse!"

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By *utie91 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin


"hi would love a buddy to come to clubs with me but very hard finding day time clubs if any fems out there simlar get in touch worksop but dont mind driving xxx

Only daytime club i know is Chams."

Yeah it’s probably chams that would be the most suitable from Doncaster.

Other daytime clubs are eurekas (Kent)

Jaydees (Bedfordshire) do a daytime event one 1st and 3rd Friday on the month

VA (tempsford) do a Wednesday day on 2nd and 4th Wednesday of the month.

I don’t know much about the northern ones xx

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By *utie91 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin


"hi would love a buddy to come to clubs with me but very hard finding day time clubs if any fems out there simlar get in touch worksop but dont mind driving xxx

Only daytime club i know is Chams.

Yeah it’s probably chams that would be the most suitable from Doncaster.

Other daytime clubs are eurekas (Kent)

Jaydees (Bedfordshire) do a daytime event one 1st and 3rd Friday on the month

VA (tempsford) do a Wednesday day on 2nd and 4th Wednesday of the month.

I don’t know much about the northern ones xx"

Oh there’s club29 in Leicester too... I’ve never been, doesn’t have a fab page, but does have a website.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m looking for an Angels friend to go with x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going on the 16th to jd's.

Know a few people but it's nice to get to know a few more single females

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chams on 17th for the BBW party.

There is a small group of us going, room for one or two more though.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"Chams on 17th for the BBW party.

There is a small group of us going, room for one or two more though."

Never been but heard good things. Are you going from London? Staying there or driving back afterwards?

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'm going on the 16th to jd's.

Know a few people but it's nice to get to know a few more single females"

Also potentially interested in joining forces. Happy to chip in for petrol and/or share hotel costs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chams on 17th for the BBW party.

There is a small group of us going, room for one or two more though.

Never been but heard good things. Are you going from London? Staying there or driving back afterwards?"

Coming from Liverpoolish and staying over in the Travelodge at West Bromwich.

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By *utie91 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin


"I'm going on the 16th to jd's.

Know a few people but it's nice to get to know a few more single females

Also potentially interested in joining forces. Happy to chip in for petrol and/or share hotel costs."

Not sure if I’ll be there on 16th... got a few things going on...

But Jaydees have rooms at the club which you can pre-book to stay in so you don’t have to get a taxi,

They are £20 per night and take ur own bedding. I just take my double sleeping bag and pillows... nice and easy.

They have also opened up a b&b new to the club, the rooms there are £60/70 per night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to have more friends to go to clubs with ... Im mainly interested in the attic and la chambre as they are local ish to me xx

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'm going on the 16th to jd's.

Know a few people but it's nice to get to know a few more single females

Also potentially interested in joining forces. Happy to chip in for petrol and/or share hotel costs.

Not sure if I’ll be there on 16th... got a few things going on...

But Jaydees have rooms at the club which you can pre-book to stay in so you don’t have to get a taxi,

They are £20 per night and take ur own bedding. I just take my double sleeping bag and pillows... nice and easy.

They have also opened up a b&b new to the club, the rooms there are £60/70 per night.

"

To be honest, I have given up going on my own.

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By *utie91 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin


"I'm going on the 16th to jd's.

Know a few people but it's nice to get to know a few more single females

Also potentially interested in joining forces. Happy to chip in for petrol and/or share hotel costs.

Not sure if I’ll be there on 16th... got a few things going on...

But Jaydees have rooms at the club which you can pre-book to stay in so you don’t have to get a taxi,

They are £20 per night and take ur own bedding. I just take my double sleeping bag and pillows... nice and easy.

They have also opened up a b&b new to the club, the rooms there are £60/70 per night.

To be honest, I have given up going on my own."

You don’t have to go alone though. That’s the whole point of this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Southampton Shirley

Hey there I’m just got feeling it is a good place to come;)xx

Open minded and happy to explore;) all ladies very welcome ...never enough;)

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"I'd love to have more friends to go to clubs with ... Im mainly interested in the attic and la chambre as they are local ish to me xx

"

Me and "flossy rides again" are going to Attic on the 16th Feb if you or anyone else would like to join, she's from your area too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going on the 16th to jd's.

Know a few people but it's nice to get to know a few more single females

Also potentially interested in joining forces. Happy to chip in for petrol and/or share hotel costs."

I'm coming for Oxfordshire and usually stay in a hotel.

On this occasion a male friend is also going. He's picking me up and dropping me back at the hotel, he isn't staying with me.

I'm quite happy to meet you at jds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone is Newcastle I believe I'd like to try one of the club's? With like minded females

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Cringe at guys posting on here looking for club "friends"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cringe at guys posting on here looking for club "friends" "

I stupidly agreed to a club social with a guy once he claimed due to the £30 entry fee he is owed a fuck !!! Hadn’t even realised I’d changed profession !! Never again !!

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"Cringe at guys posting on here looking for club "friends"

I stupidly agreed to a club social with a guy once he claimed due to the £30 entry fee he is owed a fuck !!! Hadn’t even realised I’d changed profession !! Never again !! "

That usually comes out sooner rather than later. They can't really hide their true colours, can they?

Did he at least take you home afterwards?

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'm going on the 16th to jd's.

Know a few people but it's nice to get to know a few more single females

Also potentially interested in joining forces. Happy to chip in for petrol and/or share hotel costs.

Not sure if I’ll be there on 16th... got a few things going on...

But Jaydees have rooms at the club which you can pre-book to stay in so you don’t have to get a taxi,

They are £20 per night and take ur own bedding. I just take my double sleeping bag and pillows... nice and easy.

They have also opened up a b&b new to the club, the rooms there are £60/70 per night.

To be honest, I have given up going on my own.

You don’t have to go alone though. That’s the whole point of this thread. "

Indeed.

I generally stick to London and the immediate vicinity, so happy to go with other ladies to have some laughs together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cringe at guys posting on here looking for club "friends"

I stupidly agreed to a club social with a guy once he claimed due to the £30 entry fee he is owed a fuck !!! Hadn’t even realised I’d changed profession !! Never again !!

That usually comes out sooner rather than later. They can't really hide their true colours, can they?

Did he at least take you home afterwards?"

When he didn’t get what he was expecting he left me at the club !! Not as bad as it sounds as used to going alone and met some cool folks that night x

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By *ueenofheartsWoman
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"Single ladies who want to go to clubs but don’t want to go alone, please use this thread to find new friends to go with.

I was lucky enough to make several girl friends at my now regular club, and there is a group of us that all go together when we can.

We would like more single ladies to come and join us for the fun, and we are more than happy to introduce you to other people and give you a warm welcome.

But I want to also extend this out to ladies in other areas... so shout up if you want a friend and which club you want to try and hopefully we can find some matches and make a buddy system.

For anybody wanting to join myself and friends, our regular club is Jaydees and I post on my meets when I’m going. I also go to VA (with my partner)

But Jaydees I go alone and meet friends there.

Occasionally you will find me venturing out to other clubs, eurekas in the summer. . Well done Cutie91 on starting such a fabulous thread with nothing put good and positives coming out of it and friendships and networking been made.If any ladies are interested in going to OP4F or dare I say it Rios spa I would be happy to accompany them.

Why don't the men who want to accompany ladies start their own thread?

This thread is about ladies helping each supporting each other.

Yes, as discussed above, this is for ladies who want to make a lady friend or 2 for support, friendships and confidence boosting. Also provides some security, and the freedom to socialise with multiple men/women without upsetting/offending any guy they may have accompanied."

Great post! I’d love some female friends for going to clubs/events

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"Cringe at guys posting on here looking for club "friends"

I stupidly agreed to a club social with a guy once he claimed due to the £30 entry fee he is owed a fuck !!! Hadn’t even realised I’d changed profession !! Never again !!

That usually comes out sooner rather than later. They can't really hide their true colours, can they?

Did he at least take you home afterwards?

When he didn’t get what he was expecting he left me at the club !! Not as bad as it sounds as used to going alone and met some cool folks that night x"

Hope you reported him to Admin.

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By *ranberriesWoman
over a year ago

London

Count me in, would like a female friend to travel to Eurekas when warm weather comes around.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Cringe at guys posting on here looking for club "friends"

I stupidly agreed to a club social with a guy once he claimed due to the £30 entry fee he is owed a fuck !!! Hadn’t even realised I’d changed profession !! Never again !! "

And there we have one of the reasons women don't want to go with single men as club buddies. Entitlement and expectation.

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By *armoCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Redcar

Hi ,

We are a couple , looking for a single female who has banter to join us on a club visit x

Would meet before hand to break the ice and make sure we are comfortable x

Say hi if you interested x

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By *inkyKittyWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

Heading to Dec’s next Saturday (the 9th). Any ladies want to meet down there? Xx

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Hi ,

We are a couple , looking for a single female who has banter to join us on a club visit x

Would meet before hand to break the ice and make sure we are comfortable x

Say hi if you interested x "

The ladies posting on this thread are only looking for other ladies.

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By *utie91 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin


"Count me in, would like a female friend to travel to Eurekas when warm weather comes around."

Defo yo for meeting you down there... got another couple of girl friends I go there with, you are more than welcome to join us.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Hi ,

We are a couple , looking for a single female who has banter to join us on a club visit x

Would meet before hand to break the ice and make sure we are comfortable x

Say hi if you interested x

The ladies posting on this thread are only looking for other ladies. "

I'm sure people are having issues understanding this.

THIS THREAD IS FOR LADIES WHO WANT TO MEET OTHER LADIES TO ATTEND CLUBS WITH!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey OP I tried to private message you but I'm too old

I'd love to try my first club with a few women I've made friends with.

X

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Hi ,

We are a couple , looking for a single female who has banter to join us on a club visit x

Would meet before hand to break the ice and make sure we are comfortable x

Say hi if you interested x

The ladies posting on this thread are only looking for other ladies.

I'm sure people are having issues understanding this.

THIS THREAD IS FOR LADIES WHO WANT TO MEET OTHER LADIES TO ATTEND CLUBS WITH!"

Just goes to show the inability to read is not gender specific really.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Any ladies in the Leeds/Wakey area around my age fancy going to Pandora’s inbox me please....

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Hi ,

We are a couple , looking for a single female who has banter to join us on a club visit x

Would meet before hand to break the ice and make sure we are comfortable x

Say hi if you interested x "

Best to start your own thread rather than hijacking one that is for ladies looking for ladies. Same advice was given to the single men who are struggling to understand.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Hi ,

We are a couple , looking for a single female who has banter to join us on a club visit x

Would meet before hand to break the ice and make sure we are comfortable x

Say hi if you interested x

Best to start your own thread rather than hijacking one that is for ladies looking for ladies. Same advice was given to the single men who are struggling to understand."

Love this response

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By *utie91 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin


"Hey OP I tried to private message you but I'm too old

I'd love to try my first club with a few women I've made friends with.

X"

I’ve PM’d you hun xx

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By *utie91 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin

Right.... time for thread pt 2 I think

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