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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What’s the general consensus about people in clubs that don’t want to have sex with others? Is it generally excepted or is there a resentment that they shouldn’t be there if they just want to watch and be watched? What’s your personal opinion?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think each to their own kink. There are areas in clubs designed for those that wish to be observed, and I have to say, myself and my ex partner particularly liked putting on a show and so were thankful for the voyeurs amongst us. But if others only want to interact with people who have come to join in, then there’s plenty of spaces to also do that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you know any clubs in the northwest that have good areas for this please? Xx

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By *VK_RugbyCouple
over a year ago

Rugby

Clubs are there for all sorts of people not just what are considered hardened swingers, we have been in the scene for 13 years and have been regulars at Liberty Elite in all that time, however over the last few years we haven’t fully swapped much at all we tend to go for an alternative social night out in a sexy environment. We also know many other couples that have a very similar outlook to ours.

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

If it wasn`t for being able to watch there`d be no point whatsoever in me even looking at this place! I `ve had heath issues which have destroyed any ability I had to have prolonged sex with anyone so am reduced to watching.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"What’s the general consensus about people in clubs that don’t want to have sex with others? Is it generally excepted or is there a resentment that they shouldn’t be there if they just want to watch and be watched? What’s your personal opinion?"
I've spent the last 6 month's just watching... No one minded

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’d like to go and chat with people too but worried they’d consider me a time waster if they wanted it to progress. Wish there was some noticeable sign like a coloured band or something lol xx

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

Some people only come to clubs to watch or be watched and never play with others! That's their kink and that is more than Ok.

We have several voyeur areas at Townhouse xx

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

It makes no difference to me....I like watching and being watched.

Most clubs have rooms with doors for those who don't want to be watched.....

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Cock teases

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We enjoy being watched .. especially in a dungeon environment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We often play on the couples bed at Cupids and crossover is actually quite rare and tends to be saved for the private rooms. As you have the dark room you are always being watched which is great fun. We highly recommend it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s the general consensus about people in clubs that don’t want to have sex with others? Is it generally excepted or is there a resentment that they shouldn’t be there if they just want to watch and be watched? What’s your personal opinion?"

Great question and post. We just like socialising, being watched and watching...then see what happens. From our experiences in clubs, everyone is happy to accept that, but some of the messages we’ve had from a few people on here have been scathing when we’ve pointed out what’s on our profile, which they should have read anyway. Comments along the lines of, this is a swingers website, so therefore everyone swaps!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What’s the general consensus about people in clubs that don’t want to have sex with others? Is it generally excepted or is there a resentment that they shouldn’t be there if they just want to watch and be watched? What’s your personal opinion?

Great question and post. We just like socialising, being watched and watching...then see what happens. From our experiences in clubs, everyone is happy to accept that, but some of the messages we’ve had from a few people on here have been scathing when we’ve pointed out what’s on our profile, which they should have read anyway. Comments along the lines of, this is a swingers website, so therefore everyone swaps!"

So annoying when people don’t accept what other people’s preferences are xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s the general consensus about people in clubs that don’t want to have sex with others? Is it generally excepted or is there a resentment that they shouldn’t be there if they just want to watch and be watched? What’s your personal opinion?"

We generally just play alone as we are quite shy when trying to engage with others unless another girl / couple gets talking to us first and we click.

But we do like the voyeurism and have never felt reaented because we enjoy playing publicly, in fact it’s quite the opposite and we find more couples will actually join in and play together besides us which just adds to an already amazing atmosphere haha x

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington


"What’s the general consensus about people in clubs that don’t want to have sex with others? Is it generally excepted or is there a resentment that they shouldn’t be there if they just want to watch and be watched? What’s your personal opinion?"
I can't actually say I've given it much thought. Sometimes we play to, and with,the crowd and sometimes we don't.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We just go with the flow at the club and never have any pre conceived ideas as to how the day will pan out. Watching and being watched is all part of the fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to watch a couple anyone near me would like me to watch

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I switch between exhibitionist and voyeur!!!!

For me I often give a show with a friend be it innthe dungeon of on an orgy bed!!!!

But I more than happy to watch and wank other people have fun also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d happily talk to females in clubs, who don’t want to do anything. Just because your there doesn’t mean your looking to hook up. You may actually not be attracted to anyone or even the other way. Doesn’t stop you talking.

personally I see many variety’s of people at the club, some have made it clear from the outset with “just chatting to a guy who asked if we wanted to play? Told him we don’t play” straight to the point didn’t offend, and I still chat to them when I see them. Lovely couple.

Go and have fun. Safe fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You go into a club for your enjoyment, if you want to play great, if you want to watch great, if you just want to use the facilities then great.

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By *andyman111Man
over a year ago

St Helens

I feel the same I am new and would like to find somewhere I can go and just watch till I feel confident

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple
over a year ago

nr chester


"What’s the general consensus about people in clubs that don’t want to have sex with others? Is it generally excepted or is there a resentment that they shouldn’t be there if they just want to watch and be watched? What’s your personal opinion?"
. We spent the first year of our swinging journey just watching and being watched at our favourite club( Townhouse) we in that time always made new friends and had lots of close friends and not once were ever made to feel anything but welcome and comfortable, now we tend to play sometimes and sometimes not but we’re always in the playrooms love watching still and love playing to be watched( actually this is my kink) no one ever questions how we play, it’s such a laid back and inclusive community and the club will always make you feel welcome and wanted we know lots of single ladies that come along and socialise and dance the night away, dress down and have a nosey upstairs but don’t play there’s no rule that says ‘take your clothes off and you have to join in’ good luck with it, if you decide to go Mrs blue eyes

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

Cupids is a great club for just watching.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s the general consensus about people in clubs that don’t want to have sex with others? Is it generally excepted or is there a resentment that they shouldn’t be there if they just want to watch and be watched? What’s your personal opinion?"

Ok with us, clubs are there for everyone.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales


"Some people only come to clubs to watch or be watched and never play with others! That's their kink and that is more than Ok.

We have several voyeur areas at Townhouse xx"

This is us for most of our Townhouse visits We sometimes involve others for some very soft play but most of the time, we go to play with each other, socialise and watch. We've arranged to meet others in the club, essentially for a voyeurism social. They've always been fun nights.

Townhouse is a fantastic club for this as there's always something going on in the great variety of rooms there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have discovered that we enjoy putting on a show at clubs. We don't want to interact with everyone, but we don't mind doing our bit to help others enjoy their time there, if that's what they want to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love to watch and be watched, in the clubs we go to a lot leave the door open to be watched and they have viewing rooms with two way mirrors. Group play in the open room often gets a crowd, some ask to join others happy to stand and view x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had no problem being watched.... I just feel uncomfortable if the people watching me are not nude....

Call me crazy but if the people that are watching are dressed... I feel like a preforming seal...

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"I had no problem being watched.... I just feel uncomfortable if the people watching me are not nude....

Call me crazy but if the people that are watching are dressed... I feel like a preforming seal... "
Don't be getting stage fright now big boy.

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By *irty filthy milfWoman
over a year ago

somewhere only i know!


"I’d like to go and chat with people too but worried they’d consider me a time waster if they wanted it to progress. Wish there was some noticeable sign like a coloured band or something lol xx"

I’ve had many a club night out where I’ve just chatted and don’t see why people would get upset by it, after all we all have our own kinks and lets face it if no one catches your eye why would you go and play anyway just for the sake of it?

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By *dtittyCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"I’d like to go and chat with people too but worried they’d consider me a time waster if they wanted it to progress. Wish there was some noticeable sign like a coloured band or something lol xx"

This was always me and my oh, loved spying on people, I get a real kick out of it but we found them when you's chat and have a drink with other couples they'd try and touch or loss us. We were always very upfront that we came as a couple and played as a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s the general consensus about people in clubs that don’t want to have sex with others? Is it generally excepted or is there a resentment that they shouldn’t be there if they just want to watch and be watched? What’s your personal opinion?

Great question and post. We just like socialising, being watched and watching...then see what happens. From our experiences in clubs, everyone is happy to accept that, but some of the messages we’ve had from a few people on here have been scathing when we’ve pointed out what’s on our profile, which they should have read anyway. Comments along the lines of, this is a swingers website, so therefore everyone swaps!

So annoying when people don’t accept what other people’s preferences are xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s the general consensus about people in clubs that don’t want to have sex with others? Is it generally excepted or is there a resentment that they shouldn’t be there if they just want to watch and be watched? What’s your personal opinion?"

I think most people in clubs are very tolerant of others, if you don't want to play that is fine

We love to play in Cupid's couples room, dungeon and other open areas, sometimes we play with others, sometimes we don't....we go with the flow

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By *inups99Couple
over a year ago

manchester


"We have discovered that we enjoy putting on a show at clubs. We don't want to interact with everyone, but we don't mind doing our bit to help others enjoy their time there, if that's what they want to do. "

We very much enjoy doing the same and always view clubs (we attend Cupids) to be places where you are always respectful of people's tastes.

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