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Vanilla Alternative Saturday 16th Feb

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By *hisky and Wine OP   Couple
over a year ago

the vicinity of Betelgeuse

Can’t wait to return to VA for some naughty fun! We were a bit shy to approach anyone last time so would love to chat with anyone else who may be going that night ahead of time.

New Years resolution to be more assertive and proactive in this swinging game! Any tips on how to approach or encourage others to make the first move?!

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering

It will be our Valentine Party on the 16th so expect a busy night.

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London


"Can’t wait to return to VA for some naughty fun! We were a bit shy to approach anyone last time so would love to chat with anyone else who may be going that night ahead of time.

New Years resolution to be more assertive and proactive in this swinging game! Any tips on how to approach or encourage others to make the first move?!"

Just talk to people you like the look of. Everyone is there for exactly the same reason as you. Not every chat will result in play but it’s one step closer to people you might like to spend intimate time with.

Best of all, relax. Don’t go overboard on the alcohol and remember your limits. No fun trying to bend them. Have a secret word you can both say if the person your chatting to isn’t doing it for either of you. Just suck it up and move on.

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By *hisky and Wine OP   Couple
over a year ago

the vicinity of Betelgeuse


"It will be our Valentine Party on the 16th so expect a busy night."

We’re hoping so! We’ve booked a room and we loved VA last time so very much looking forward to it!

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By *hisky and Wine OP   Couple
over a year ago

the vicinity of Betelgeuse


"Can’t wait to return to VA for some naughty fun! We were a bit shy to approach anyone last time so would love to chat with anyone else who may be going that night ahead of time.

New Years resolution to be more assertive and proactive in this swinging game! Any tips on how to approach or encourage others to make the first move?!

Just talk to people you like the look of. Everyone is there for exactly the same reason as you. Not every chat will result in play but it’s one step closer to people you might like to spend intimate time with.

Best of all, relax. Don’t go overboard on the alcohol and remember your limits. No fun trying to bend them. Have a secret word you can both say if the person your chatting to isn’t doing it for either of you. Just suck it up and move on.

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Spot on there!

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering

The theme this year for our Valentine Party is famous couples, so if you fancy yourselves as Fred and Ginger, Posh and Becks or Romeo and Juliette, give it a go. Following the theme is not compulsory so no worries if you don't want to take part.

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By *uriouscouple1983Couple
over a year ago

Herts-London border

We’ve booked in to go with some friends too, celebrating Mr’s bday!! Xx

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By *hisky and Wine OP   Couple
over a year ago

the vicinity of Betelgeuse


"We’ve booked in to go with some friends too, celebrating Mr’s bday!! Xx"

We’ll surely be looking out for you guys! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always wondered why clubs don't open on the said day

ie 14th Feb

Can you imagine restraunts not being open on the 14th...

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering


"I've always wondered why clubs don't open on the said day

ie 14th Feb

Can you imagine restraunts not being open on the 14th..."

At The Vanilla Alternative we would just not generate enough custom on Thursday, Friday and Saturday nights.

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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago

Loughborough


"I've always wondered why clubs don't open on the said day

ie 14th Feb

Can you imagine restraunts not being open on the 14th..."

Because most of us have the work the next day?

No point in getting all dolled up to go out, only to leave at 9:30pm because you're up at 6 or 7am the next day.

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By *n Search Of SunsetCouple
over a year ago

Search Of Sunset

We are intending to attend on the 16th.

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By *illow-TalkMan
over a year ago

Shipston-on-Stour


"I've always wondered why clubs don't open on the said day

ie 14th Feb

Can you imagine restraunts not being open on the 14th...

Because most of us have the work the next day?

No point in getting all dolled up to go out, only to leave at 9:30pm because you're up at 6 or 7am the next day."

I’ve seen people out enjoying themselves on school nights

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By *hisky and Wine OP   Couple
over a year ago

the vicinity of Betelgeuse


"We are intending to attend on the 16th. "

We’ll be looking out for you!

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By *oolandsexyCouple
over a year ago

kings lynn


"We are intending to attend on the 16th.

We’ll be looking out for you! "

And so are we ! Lol in fact it should be a very busy night!

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By *hisky and Wine OP   Couple
over a year ago

the vicinity of Betelgeuse


"We are intending to attend on the 16th.

We’ll be looking out for you!

And so are we ! Lol in fact it should be a very busy night! "

Hey! Hope you guys are well. See you there!

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By *oolandsexyCouple
over a year ago

kings lynn


"We are intending to attend on the 16th.

We’ll be looking out for you!

And so are we ! Lol in fact it should be a very busy night!

Hey! Hope you guys are well. See you there!"

We’re really doing well! Hope you are well and enjoying it all! ??

Be good to catch up.......

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By *uriouscouple1983Couple
over a year ago

Herts-London border

Not long to go! Who else is going for some sexy valentines fun?! X

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By *hisky and Wine OP   Couple
over a year ago

the vicinity of Betelgeuse


"Not long to go! Who else is going for some sexy valentines fun?! X"
counting down the days!

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By *aughtycouple4549Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *aughtycouple4549Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

This is our favourite club. Can't wait to go back as booked both the friday and Saturday....double the fun

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By *hisky and Wine OP   Couple
over a year ago

the vicinity of Betelgeuse


"This is our favourite club. Can't wait to go back as booked both the friday and Saturday....double the fun "

Eek excited!

Anyone else coming along?

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By *uriouscouple1983Couple
over a year ago

Herts-London border

At least the hot tub won’t be too crowded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've always wondered why clubs don't open on the said day

ie 14th Feb

Can you imagine restraunts not being open on the 14th...

Because most of us have the work the next day?

No point in getting all dolled up to go out, only to leave at 9:30pm because you're up at 6 or 7am the next day.

I’ve seen people out enjoying themselves on school nights "

Getting dolled up is only showering and dressing etc ...

A late night dosent hurt . Just set the alarm ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can guys attend this party.

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By *teed99Man
over a year ago

Kettering


"Can guys attend this party. "

Unfortunately not on their own on Saturday nights.

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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago

Loughborough


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Getting dolled up is only showering and dressing etc ...

"

Really? tell that to my missus

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