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What to wear as a man to swingers party

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi All,

So heading to a event tomorrow, and would like some points of view on what, for us guys, comes across as sexy or to desperate?

Thoughts on underwear, outfits or just things that should be avoided.

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By *igJandTheBlondeCouple
over a year ago

Kings Hill

a pair of nice boxers is fine. A lot of guys just wrap the towel around them but I’m not keen on that.

Have fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go smart casual mate and make sure you wear clean underwear lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cool.

“Clean” boxers? People don’t?

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By *ildfirealchemist zfgMan
over a year ago

coliseum

Smart shirt, trousers, shoes, fresh haircut, trunks, aftershave, breath mints I would suggest.

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By *eatherstclareTV/TS
over a year ago

Frome

My personal choice would be my poshest frock, but that's just me!

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By *MCFUN5Couple
over a year ago

GLASGOW

I treat it as if it was a first date. Polished, good aftershave, trousers and shirt. Best underwear though as we were at a party last week and as things started one of the girls said “Right boys, show us your Primark pants”. I always have good underwear and socks. The girls notice.

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire


"I treat it as if it was a first date. Polished, good aftershave, trousers and shirt. Best underwear though as we were at a party last week and as things started one of the girls said “Right boys, show us your Primark pants”. I always have good underwear and socks. The girls notice. "

Absolutely!

We often see men wearing jeans, t shirt & trainers, or worse - joggers - and always say, "no effort = no reward"

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

New Years Eve, whilst at the bar I noticed the guys wearing a casual jacket, shirt, trousers and nice shoes were certainly getting the girls attention. Admittedly some were very handsome so I’m sure that helps

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Nice pants (I don't care about brand, as long as they don't look tatty), clean (isn't universal I'm afraid), a bit of perfume/ aftershave if that's your thing. Towel around waist for dressing down is fine too, decide if you're comfortable barefoot or not.

Clothes: smart casual or a bit above, preferably a bit above.

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By *obandlollyCouple
over a year ago

Long Eaton

I am known for my certain item of attire.. .a black kilt! Worn with lace up boots and a smart black or striped t shirt. Always an ice-breaker and you do get noticed more

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Ah yes, you can't go wrong with a black kilt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wear a suit or form fitting (not skinny) blue jeans and a white short sleeved form fitting t-shirt but with boots, not trainers. if you can pull it off. You can't be overdressed but you can be under. Just forget about that thought. Go with the suit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Condom

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Don’t overdo the smellies either, so often people put too much on and I end up smelling of strong aftershave instead of Chanel No.5

I would say that for the vast majority of women, a man looking like he has put thought and care into his appearance and knows how to smile and socialise, will be popular and someone we are drawn to. Jeans and a shirt can look both awful and attractive, it’s how you wear them

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I am known for my certain item of attire.. .a black kilt! Worn with lace up boots and a smart black or striped t shirt. Always an ice-breaker and you do get noticed more"

Yes, quirky in a good way can help if you can pull it off! I once got chatting to a guy at a club wearing a quite unusual brand of boxers I know and like. I know another who wears superhero themed stuff (not for everyone but it's his character and he pulls it off).

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Don’t overdo the smellies either, so often people put too much on and I end up smelling of strong aftershave instead of Chanel No.5

I would say that for the vast majority of women, a man looking like he has put thought and care into his appearance and knows how to smile and socialise, will be popular and someone we are drawn to. Jeans and a shirt can look both awful and attractive, it’s how you wear them "

Oh god, yes. I don't want to eat, drink and breathe your aftershave. Less is more. (ditto perfume)

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