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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As I never been to club like that and I'm kind of new in all of this. Just wondering if a single guy like me walks in there on my own. Will it be weird or something. Just asking because I'm not realy confident in myself at new places. Just if someone who remembers going first time could say how it was. Asking because thinking of going tomorrow/today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Attic is a great club. The staff and regulars are all lovely. If you let the staff know it's your first time you'll be shown round.

Saturday's are a busier night but single guys are welcome on Fridays and Saturdays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go, chat to people and go from there. Its a club with lots of public/play rooms, cinema, Jacuzzi, sauna, dungeons and a dance floor. You won't be the only single guy there so nothing to worry about x

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By *om cat 215Man
over a year ago

Derby

I have been to the daytime cinema a few times as above staff are great, mostly single men but you do get some couples and single females who love to play hope you enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were is the attic I am interested in attending a club or a event I am new to this scene wanting to explore new things I work nights during the week and after a long boring relationship that has ended recently I want to have fun and try new things on the weekends any suggestions or recommendations would be appreciated thanks

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By *om cat 215Man
over a year ago

Derby

In Derby worth a visit open day and night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for your help someone else has just recomenede the same place what is the dress code what will they require from me and what time do they stopetting single males in at I will be travelling from Birmingham and would not like to be rejected due to lake of information thanks again for your help I think I will just go and watch see what it's like and maybe have a chat with some people I have been told there is no pressure and you don't have to take part in anything unless asked and you agree thanks again for all your help and all your direct messages and information about this scene I have chosen to get involved in you've all been very helpful still learning the rules and regulations tho sorry if I offended anyone by putting up a internet picture it has been deleted and removed I am more then willing to send genuine photos to anyone who is genuine and interested in chatting and getting to know me a bit more sorry for the essay ??

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By *reelanderMan
over a year ago

rotherham

Attics brill for single men I go on Saturdays,its that big no one judges or stares at u.I sometimes take different girls too but the fun is same single or paired,jump in mate u will luv it and be addicted from day one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for your help someone else has just recomenede the same place what is the dress code what will they require from me and what time do they stopetting single males in at I will be travelling from Birmingham and would not like to be rejected due to lake of information thanks again for your help I think I will just go and watch see what it's like and maybe have a chat with some people I have been told there is no pressure and you don't have to take part in anything unless asked and you agree thanks again for all your help and all your direct messages and information about this scene I have chosen to get involved in you've all been very helpful still learning the rules and regulations tho sorry if I offended anyone by putting up a internet picture it has been deleted and removed I am more then willing to send genuine photos to anyone who is genuine and interested in chatting and getting to know me a bit more sorry for the essay ??"

Dress as you would if you're going a normal club. Strictly no trainers though. You're vest popping on the website and giving them a ring hun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you guys for your experiences. Had few bad messages saying that there is no point going on your own. And as I am a really shy person in the start I would probably just stand in the corner and just stare. Yes I am that shy at first haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Save ur monet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Save ur money

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Thank you guys for your experiences. Had few bad messages saying that there is no point going on your own. And as I am a really shy person in the start I would probably just stand in the corner and just stare. Yes I am that shy at first haha"

I'm on the reserved side of the spectrum too. But I go there on my own all the time, I dont find it an issue. If you want to stand in a corner you can do its entirely upto you. Tonight might be quite given that last Saturday was the Hidden Desires party and next Saturday's the xmas party. But a quiet night might suite you for your first visit to the club.

Its a lot more terrifying in your head than it actually is once you've stepped through the doors.

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford


"Just go, chat to people and go from there. Its a club with lots of public/play rooms, cinema, Jacuzzi, sauna, dungeons and a dance floor. You won't be the only single guy there so nothing to worry about x"

Been a couple of times on my own and was a hoot. As with any club your experience will vary as it depends on the night who turns up. Personally I loved the maze but no one else was making use of it so on my next visit that might change

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Still can't decide to go or not. As I'm nervous about just thinkig of it

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By *errysMan
over a year ago

milton keynes and kent

If you dont go you wont know what you are scared of.

If you go you can leave.

No one will attack you, infact as a single guy at a club most will ignore you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's a fair point.

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By *oseyoudownMan
over a year ago

Trouble! AGAIN! x

I was just like you! I luckily managed to persuade a lady from here to take me and show me the ropes! It was my first ever expirience in a swing club and it was EPIC! I have since been to xtasia and chams, but prefer the attic, By far!

If you pluck up the courage or manage to hook-up a partner to go with! DO IT! Recommended

Ben x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah that is the hole point would love to go with someone on the first time

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By *errysMan
over a year ago

milton keynes and kent


"Yeah that is the hole point would love to go with someone on the first time"

Just go man!!!

On your own you are flexible to explore or sit at the bar area or top of stairs or dance floor etc...

What you got to lose?

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By *ikeitCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

Give it a try everyone gets nerves but once ur in u will wounder why u had nerves all the staff are friendly and will talk to u if ur nervous and the customers are friendly. What u got to lose give it ago xx

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Its a great club. Single guys couples and TV's all seem to have a great night. Go with no expectations. Best advise we can give is try and interact with people, not just a nod or a quick hi. Try to introduce yourself to people they don't bite. We go to Attic often and far to many single men just walk up and down looking in the play rooms and never speak, we find that strange. Surely if a single guy goes to a club for a night out the minimum to do is network for future visits we'd think. Never know if you speak a couple just might invite you to play. Just remember OP nothing ventured nothing gained but be friendly.

Hopefully you get courageous soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be there on Saturday hun so I'll say hi if I spot you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get your self down there sat its a good place and once u get chatting to people u will be fine we have all been there with the nerves but trust me well worth it I'm a member to 3 other clubs as well very good atmosphere in all I'm pretty sure most in here will say the same I'm meeting a friend I met there again this weekend

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