FabSwingers.com forum: Club noobie

By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

"Hi I've never been to a club and was wounding what goes on I'm looking for a new experience and just need information "

Look at the club review section. There are several clubs near you...Attic ( derby). Purple Mamba ( Notts). Atlantis ( Stoke) that I can think of off the top of my head.

Read the reviews, see if they have any events or music evenings that interest you.

Check which nights single guys can go and how you become a member. The Attic I believe you just turn up and no ID is needed, the others you need to join. I know at Atlantis you join on the night but must take ID. So check that out.

Dress like a smart evening out, try to relax and chat to people. Be friendly and polite.

Clubs usually have a sexy relaxed social feel and then the evening gets more naughty as the night goes on.

You can talk to people and hope you meet someone you connect with. Walk about and watch people and maybe get invited to join a couple. Do not follow people about or be a nuisance

Best advise is to hover by the bar, smile and see how swingers club's work .

Most club's give you a tour and explain things when you arrive.

Hope that helps.