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"I've never been to a swinging club yet and I'm ready for fun but I'm shy of me getting their and with a hard on .who would like to take me" I’m out  | |||
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"I've never been to a swinging club yet and I'm ready for fun but I'm shy of me getting their and with a hard on .who would like to take me" Why don't you get your big boy pants on and take yourself?  | |||
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"I've never been to a swinging club yet and I'm ready for fun but I'm shy of me getting their and with a hard on .who would like to take me Why don't you get your big boy pants on and take yourself? "this | |||
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"What club do you think that I would like guy's I'm up for a lot of fun." We don't know you so we couldn't possibly tell you which one you'd like. You need to put some effort in and do some research. | |||
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"What club do you think that I would like guy's I'm up for a lot of fun. We don't know you so we couldn't possibly tell you which one you'd like. You need to put some effort in and do some research. " This  | |||
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"What clubs in essex do you think then " Ermm....did you just miss the bit where it was suggested that you put the effort in and do some research. At this rate you will want someone to come along to chat the women up for you as well. When are you going to take over and start doing the job for yourself....when it gets to the shagging I suppose. | |||
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"I've never been to a swinging club yet and I'm ready for fun but I'm shy of me getting their and with a hard on .who would like to take me" I'm out ha | |||
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"What clubs in essex do you think then Just joined eukeras" These posts say all you need to know. Eureka is in Kent... | |||
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"What clubs in essex do you think then Ermm....did you just miss the bit where it was suggested that you put the effort in and do some research. At this rate you will want someone to come along to chat the women up for you as well. When are you going to take over and start doing the job for yourself....when it gets to the shagging I suppose. "Haha!! Brilliant  | |||
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"What clubs in essex do you think then Ermm....did you just miss the bit where it was suggested that you put the effort in and do some research. At this rate you will want someone to come along to chat the women up for you as well. When are you going to take over and start doing the job for yourself....when it gets to the shagging I suppose.
Haha!! Brilliant "He will be happy to stick his cock in but he will want someone to move him backwards and forwards Either that or wait for an earthquake. | |||
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"I've never been to a swinging club yet and I'm ready for fun but I'm shy of me getting their and with a hard on .who would like to take me" Clubs are for grownups, what are you expecting? Its not a mass orgy as you walk in, bar is normally where you start social journey! | |||
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"Yeah I know that .where is one in essex " if you look through FAB pages you will find reviews for virtually all uk clubs as suggested do your research | |||
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"Yeah I know that .where is one in essex " . Mingles in Colchester and Membersclub in Clacton go to club reviews see the reviews and decide if it is for you. | |||
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"I've never been to a swinging club yet and I'm ready for fun but I'm shy of me getting their and with a hard on .who would like to take me" Shy? The last thing you’ll probably get is a stiffy then. Do you get one in a bar on a night out? Do you chat to people who you’ve never met before? You may be up for loads of fun but the chances of getting it is down to being friendly, socialising and actually talking to people. | |||
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"We’ve all seen a hard on ... chances are you won’t be the only one there who has one either! If you need someone to hold your hand to go to a club then maybe they aren’t for you! Clubs are a great way of meeting like minded people, and yes I can imagine it may be pretty daunting, but people go to have fun ... not to babysit! As said above ... let the hosts know it’s your first time and .... as the saying goes .... suck it and see !! " anything in life is about personality I've been to clubs on my own many times and never found it at all daunting, I'm comfortable naked and even with a hard on and people watching, it's all about the person and also a little about the people around you you can be visually put off, I just got in jacuzzi and started chatting, sauna and steam rooms are good to for a chat ha | |||
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"If you think getting a hard-on in a club is embarrassing you may not be ready for the club scene. Last club we attended there where women getting fisted at the bar, a line of blokes getting sucked off in turn, whips, crops and ropes all in use and that was before we ventured into the play area!" Omg, what club was that? | |||
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"If you think getting a hard-on in a club is embarrassing you may not be ready for the club scene. Last club we attended there where women getting fisted at the bar, a line of blokes getting sucked off in turn, whips, crops and ropes all in use and that was before we ventured into the play area! Omg, what club was that? " London palladium | |||
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"If you think getting a hard-on in a club is embarrassing you may not be ready for the club scene. Last club we attended there where women getting fisted at the bar, a line of blokes getting sucked off in turn, whips, crops and ropes all in use and that was before we ventured into the play area! Omg, what club was that? " Not telling but it was a part night and fairly close to you (Not townhouse) | |||
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"If you think getting a hard-on in a club is embarrassing you may not be ready for the club scene. Last club we attended there where women getting fisted at the bar, a line of blokes getting sucked off in turn, whips, crops and ropes all in use and that was before we ventured into the play area! Omg, what club was that? Not telling but it was a part night and fairly close to you (Not townhouse) " Could be one of a few, good job we favour Sat couples nights | |||
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"Wow check you all out, here's a single guy clearly nervous about finally going to a club and you're bashing him with the humiliation stick. If it was a single girl you know you'd all be volunteering to take her and being ever so nice, with the vain hope you might all be snare yourself the elusive single bi girl you all dream about ... Don't worry OP clubs are fairly relaxed, crossing the threshold is the hardest thing. Once you're inside you'll smile at yourself for worrying. They are like goods pubs or hotel bars everyone is there for a good time and all there for the same thing. Go, chat, expect nothing, and maybe, just maybe, and it is a maybe you might find yourself having some fun. It's unlikely to be the fun you planned, it's most likely to be unexpected, random and a new experience. " I doubt it's just nerves with him, he wanted someone to take him, then tell him which clubs he'd like, then asked for someone to find clubs near him. He doesn't want to put any effort in and expects everyone to do everything for him, that's the issue, not him being nervous. | |||
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"Wow check you all out, here's a single guy clearly nervous about finally going to a club and you're bashing him with the humiliation stick. If it was a single girl you know you'd all be volunteering to take her and being ever so nice, with the vain hope you might all be snare yourself the elusive single bi girl you all dream about ... Don't worry OP clubs are fairly relaxed, crossing the threshold is the hardest thing. Once you're inside you'll smile at yourself for worrying. They are like goods pubs or hotel bars everyone is there for a good time and all there for the same thing. Go, chat, expect nothing, and maybe, just maybe, and it is a maybe you might find yourself having some fun. It's unlikely to be the fun you planned, it's most likely to be unexpected, random and a new experience. I doubt it's just nerves with him, he wanted someone to take him, then tell him which clubs he'd like, then asked for someone to find clubs near him. He doesn't want to put any effort in and expects everyone to do everything for him, that's the issue, not him being nervous." You said "big boy pants" so you win the internet for being the most funny anyway | |||
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"Wow check you all out, here's a single guy clearly nervous about finally going to a club and you're bashing him with the humiliation stick. If it was a single girl you know you'd all be volunteering to take her and being ever so nice, with the vain hope you might all be snare yourself the elusive single bi girl you all dream about ... Don't worry OP clubs are fairly relaxed, crossing the threshold is the hardest thing. Once you're inside you'll smile at yourself for worrying. They are like goods pubs or hotel bars everyone is there for a good time and all there for the same thing. Go, chat, expect nothing, and maybe, just maybe, and it is a maybe you might find yourself having some fun. It's unlikely to be the fun you planned, it's most likely to be unexpected, random and a new experience. I doubt it's just nerves with him, he wanted someone to take him, then tell him which clubs he'd like, then asked for someone to find clubs near him. He doesn't want to put any effort in and expects everyone to do everything for him, that's the issue, not him being nervous. You said "big boy pants" so you win the internet for being the most funny anyway " Everyone needs a pair of big boy pants, even women! | |||
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"OP while you will no doubt find people who are happy to chat prior to a night they're also going on, no guarantees of anything else, it's highly unlikely you're going to find someone who wants to 'take' you. The scene and clubs in particular are all about putting in some effort. No one wants to feel they have to spoon feed a meet and your lack of any work so far suggests that's what would happen. A better post would be I've looked at X club, thinking of going, can anyone give me any tips and maybe would like to chat prior to me attending on X date. Certainly as a single woman who regularly goes to clubs, one of my pet hates is the subtle hints from guys who'd love to go to a club someday...what's it like etc. It makes me feel like all you're interested in is the cheaper entry - any female will do. If you genuinely don't feel happy going alone, your best bet is making it clear on your profile that you're interested in attending, chatting without having that as an agenda (we can totally, 100% tell when you think we're your golden ticket in) and then once you're comfortable with someone, suggest going along together - whether they're a seasoned clubber or a fellow newbie. " | |||
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"I've never been to a swinging club yet and I'm ready for fun but I'm shy of me getting their and with a hard on .who would like to take me Why don't you get your big boy pants on and take yourself? this "I second this | |||
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"I don't mean it like I've said.I mean when I first get in to the club get naked to the bar (hard)that is what I mean guy's " Nope Still haven't a clue what you're talking about | |||
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"We think there are hidden reasons for this Post. Call us Cynical but we recon it’s just a case of “Take me to a Club then I will be guaranteed a Fuck” We are maybe wrong but it seems a bit Wishy Washy " His car’s broken down  Can someone give this guy a lift to a club please. | |||
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"We think there are hidden reasons for this Post. Call us Cynical but we recon it’s just a case of “Take me to a Club then I will be guaranteed a Fuck” We are maybe wrong but it seems a bit Wishy Washy His car’s broken down Can someone give this guy a lift to a club please."And buy him a Big Mac Meal on the way to the Club. And yes! He wants to go Large  | |||
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"I've never been to a swinging club yet and I'm ready for fun but I'm shy of me getting their and with a hard on .who would like to take me" If I'd wanted to be a Nanny I would have done a course at the Norland  | |||
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"What club do you think that I would like guy's I'm up for a lot of fun." Remember you are not guaranteed 'alot of fun' | |||
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"Yeah I know that .where is one in essex " Theres a great search tool, well there's several, I prefer Google, try it. | |||
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"I don't mean it like I've said.I mean when I first get in to the club get naked to the bar (hard)that is what I mean guy's " You seem to think that you have to take your clothes off as soon as you walk through the door OP. This is not the case in most clubs. In some you can remain fully clothed unless you are playing. Some have dress down after a certain time or in play areas. Others are towel or underwear. This is where your research comes in. I would suggest the first type for your first club visit. It's like going to a night club but more fun. Go with no expectations. Walking through the door is the hardest part but also the first step. | |||
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"I've never been to a swinging club yet and I'm ready for fun but I'm shy of me getting their and with a hard on .who would like to take me" I'll take you but I'm not holding your hand or anything, you pay ok? | |||
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"OP; having been a single guy in a club on numerous occasions (unlike most who have offered you 'advice' above), I would recommend you arrange to meet someone you have previously met, or have built a rapport with in here, in a club for your first time. Either that, or look for one of the 'newbie' events run by forward-thinking clubs. Forgive me, but you don't sound like the confident type, so rocking up by yourself one night may put you off completely. All the best "exactly and you have to be confident to chat naked with a hardon about the weather in a sex club sorry swingers club | |||
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