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By *rsTrellis OP   Woman
over a year ago

Cambridge

Hi

I'm a bit of a seasoned club goer now, but I remember vividly the first time I went to a club.

I went alone and the word "terrified" doesn't even begin to cover it.

I heard a rumour that a few women were trying to build up the courage to try Jaydees so I thought I'd see if I could start a conversation with you all.

Happy to answer questions about being a lone woman in a club.

Mrs T x

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven


"Hi

I'm a bit of a seasoned club goer now, but I remember vividly the first time I went to a club.

I went alone and the word "terrified" doesn't even begin to cover it.

I heard a rumour that a few women were trying to build up the courage to try Jaydees so I thought I'd see if I could start a conversation with you all.

Happy to answer questions about being a lone woman in a club.

Mrs T x"

So there you go ladies if you would like to go to a club and know you will have a seasoned buddy to show you the ropes and take the pressure off Mrs T is you lady.

Thank you Mrs T for this lets hope they take you up on your kind offer xx

S

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By *nsatiable_nymphWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere down south

I think with any new club you always get that unknowing feeling, will you like it etc...

Jaydees is one I have yet to try

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By *rsTrellis OP   Woman
over a year ago

Cambridge


"I think with any new club you always get that unknowing feeling, will you like it etc...

Jaydees is one I have yet to try "

I'll have to think of how to tempt you! Would a trail of Malteasers help?

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By *nsatiable_nymphWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere down south


"I think with any new club you always get that unknowing feeling, will you like it etc...

Jaydees is one I have yet to try

I'll have to think of how to tempt you! Would a trail of Malteasers help?"

God you know me so well!

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By *rsTrellis OP   Woman
over a year ago

Cambridge


"I think with any new club you always get that unknowing feeling, will you like it etc...

Jaydees is one I have yet to try

I'll have to think of how to tempt you! Would a trail of Malteasers help?

God you know me so well! "

One in each cheek while drinking a cup of tea? Or is that just me?

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By *nsatiable_nymphWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere down south


"I think with any new club you always get that unknowing feeling, will you like it etc...

Jaydees is one I have yet to try

I'll have to think of how to tempt you! Would a trail of Malteasers help?

God you know me so well!

One in each cheek while drinking a cup of tea? Or is that just me?"

Just you

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Can I have Haribo please?

Not been to Jaydees yet but its on my list x

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By *nsatiable_nymphWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere down south


"Can I have Haribo please?

Not been to Jaydees yet but its on my list x"

What else is on your to do list?

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By *rsTrellis OP   Woman
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Can I have Haribo please?

Not been to Jaydees yet but its on my list x"

You so can have Haribo! If I can have one of the ones with the white bit.

Nice to say hello to you - I've seen you around the place!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Can I have Haribo please?

Not been to Jaydees yet but its on my list x

What else is on your to do list? "

We still need to sip gin & talk stockings!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Can I have Haribo please?

Not been to Jaydees yet but its on my list x

You so can have Haribo! If I can have one of the ones with the white bit.

Nice to say hello to you - I've seen you around the place!

"

Aw thank you x I will get there soon x

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven


"Can I have Haribo please?

Not been to Jaydees yet but its on my list x

You so can have Haribo! If I can have one of the ones with the white bit.

Nice to say hello to you - I've seen you around the place!

Aw thank you x I will get there soon x"

Hey lovely do try and come over we are such a lovely fun sexy crowd, where everyone is welcome... xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male bravado aside , men get the nerves too

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Male bravado aside , men get the nerves too "

Very true! Having been part of a couple that was so much easier, but currently planning on getting to a few as a single male. Kind of worry about the quandary of 'getting it right' - striking the balance between taking the trouble to speak to people in a genuine and friendly way and trying to avoid coming across as a sleaze if they're not open to chatting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To sleaze or not to sleaze.

We have to deal with the venue manager first and come across as well behaved and non-creepy as possible. One wrong misfired joke and he/she has got your back marked with a Red Cross.

Then it’s women you make an approach with and has to be best approach it suits her, or you will see her palm in your face. Some women like ultra forward and some like the passive puppy. Sometimes just a simple confident guy approach doesn’t work. Ends up in a long conversation fruiting to nothing but friend zone.

I am not even gonna go through mind games of couples.

On the opposite end men go through same issues with pushy women. In my first swinging encounter at kestrel , a lady feels free to sit beside me in the small porn room and at her will asks no permission to help herself to putting her hands in my towel, just cause I was aroused. It was my first time , so I played along, although I wasn’t attracted to her. Same happened with a another male feeling free to touch me without asking.

Men have to face rejection and challenges on many levels, regardless of how good looking or confident we may be. Both men and women need the same thing and have their bag of nerves for reasons. Just consider us men in your prayers too

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By *rsTrellis OP   Woman
over a year ago

Cambridge

They’re great points chaps and you’re right, men get nervous too.

But I started this thread to chat to women who were thinking of trying Jaydees. And perhaps encouraging nervous newbies to take the plunge.

Maybe start a thread about club nerves generally or appropriate behaviour in clubs and I’ll gladly join the discussion.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

I haven't been to jaydees for a couple of years, so a return trip is well overdue x

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By *rsTrellis OP   Woman
over a year ago

Cambridge


"I haven't been to jaydees for a couple of years, so a return trip is well overdue x"

Have you been since the new hot tub?

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

Jaydees is on my list of places to go.

I will get there one day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a total newbie.

Went a couple times a few years back.

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven

If any ladies are stuck for transport, sometimes we can organise a lift with a fellow fem, or collect you from the train station....

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong


"I haven't been to jaydees for a couple of years, so a return trip is well overdue x

Have you been since the new hot tub? "

Sadly no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

I'm a bit of a seasoned club goer now, but I remember vividly the first time I went to a club.

I went alone and the word "terrified" doesn't even begin to cover it.

I heard a rumour that a few women were trying to build up the courage to try Jaydees so I thought I'd see if I could start a conversation with you all.

Happy to answer questions about being a lone woman in a club.

Mrs T x"

“A bit of a seasoned club goer” seems like a bit of an understatement....

Good work though. Listen to Mrs Trellis ladies, she’s lovely and will make you feel very comfortable. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wondering is the club open every Sunday xx

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I was planning on visiting Jaydees later in the year. I hear they have a campsite, so will be visiting in my Motorhome and staying over.

Are there any events in November ?

Would love to make contact with some single ladies to go in with. Just to help with the initial nerves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was planning on visiting Jaydees later in the year. I hear they have a campsite, so will be visiting in my Motorhome and staying over.

Are there any events in November ?

Would love to make contact with some single ladies to go in with. Just to help with the initial nerves. "

There is a very friendly all lady group that Mrs Trellis is part of. If you message her directly I’m sure she would be more than happy to help

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven


"I was planning on visiting Jaydees later in the year. I hear they have a campsite, so will be visiting in my Motorhome and staying over.

Are there any events in November ?

Would love to make contact with some single ladies to go in with. Just to help with the initial nerves. "

If you come down on the 1st or 3rd Friday and leave on the Sunday pm you will have 3days of fun and frolics

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By *rsTrellis OP   Woman
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Jaydees is on my list of places to go.

I will get there one day "

I’ll lure with with sweets. Percy Pigs?

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By *rsTrellis OP   Woman
over a year ago

Cambridge


"I was planning on visiting Jaydees later in the year. I hear they have a campsite, so will be visiting in my Motorhome and staying over.

Are there any events in November ?

Would love to make contact with some single ladies to go in with. Just to help with the initial nerves. "

I could always meet you for a coffee in the nearby Tesco beforehand if you like. Then we could walk in together.

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven


"Jaydees is on my list of places to go.

I will get there one day

I’ll lure with with sweets. Percy Pigs? "

Love Percy pigs.... I have Haribos, cake and Prosecco for Friday....

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"Jaydees is on my list of places to go.

I will get there one day

I’ll lure with with sweets. Percy Pigs? "

Or Colin the Caterpillar? I'm easy for either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hhhhhmmmmm ok maybe not

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"Hhhhhmmmmm ok maybe not "

I've looked at the website and can only see "events" the first and third Sunday every month.

I'd assume that they are only open these days, unless they can confirm here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hhhhhmmmmm ok maybe not

I've looked at the website and can only see "events" the first and third Sunday every month.

I'd assume that they are only open these days, unless they can confirm here?"

Ah ok well thanks for replying x

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven


"Hhhhhmmmmm ok maybe not

I've looked at the website and can only see "events" the first and third Sunday every month.

I'd assume that they are only open these days, unless they can confirm here?"

You need to click on the day tabs

One is for Saturday' events the other is for Friday and Sunday events. once you have done that you click on the month. Hope that helps xx

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven


"Just wondering is the club open every Sunday xx"

Apologies missed this one!

At the moment we open 1st and 3rd Sunday of the month, if these get well supported we will look to open every Sunday...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering is the club open every Sunday xx

Apologies missed this one!

At the moment we open 1st and 3rd Sunday of the month, if these get well supported we will look to open every Sunday..."

Ah ok we will maybe get to the next one have to see if we can find our membership card it's been so long since we visited xx

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven


"Just wondering is the club open every Sunday xx

Apologies missed this one!

At the moment we open 1st and 3rd Sunday of the month, if these get well supported we will look to open every Sunday...

Ah ok we will maybe get to the next one have to see if we can find our membership card it's been so long since we visited xx"

That ok, just drop the office an email and they will look the number up for you....

Hope to see you soon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering is the club open every Sunday xx

Apologies missed this one!

At the moment we open 1st and 3rd Sunday of the month, if these get well supported we will look to open every Sunday...

Ah ok we will maybe get to the next one have to see if we can find our membership card it's been so long since we visited xx

That ok, just drop the office an email and they will look the number up for you....

Hope to see you soon x"

Ah that's great thanks xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Found our card so we might come along in the 21st xx

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I'm looking to go soon!

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven


"Found our card so we might come along in the 21st xx"

Will look forward to seeing you then, all being well xx

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven


"I'm looking to go soon! "

Looking forward to welcoming you too lovely. Dont forget if you are travelling a distance we have rooms you can book for your stay over xx

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Found our card so we might come along in the 21st xx

Will look forward to seeing you then, all being well xx"

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My issue is also transport I've been before but I don't drive so rely on lifts if theres anyone going from mk way ever let me know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My issue is also transport I've been before but I don't drive so rely on lifts if theres anyone going from mk way ever let me know "

Always good to ask on the threads, I know there are some ladies that come across from Aylesbury so MK shouldn’t be too far out the way.

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By *ustylouWoman
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"My issue is also transport I've been before but I don't drive so rely on lifts if theres anyone going from mk way ever let me know "

I'm thinking of coming so might be able to help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will of course pay towards fuel x

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am willing to give lady or maybe 2 ladies a lift from CB24 to jaydees... (only from Fri evenings throu sunday)

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"My issue is also transport I've been before but I don't drive so rely on lifts if theres anyone going from mk way ever let me know "

I'd be travelling from Oxfordshire, so going past MK.

I'd be happy to give you a lift.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many kind people offering I am Sorted for this week but hope to say hello to you all

Does anyone know the dress code for daytimes

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"I was planning on visiting Jaydees later in the year. I hear they have a campsite, so will be visiting in my Motorhome and staying over.

Are there any events in November ?

Would love to make contact with some single ladies to go in with. Just to help with the initial nerves.

If you come down on the 1st or 3rd Friday and leave on the Sunday pm you will have 3days of fun and frolics "

Oooo super. I will make a note of that

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"I was planning on visiting Jaydees later in the year. I hear they have a campsite, so will be visiting in my Motorhome and staying over.

Are there any events in November ?

Would love to make contact with some single ladies to go in with. Just to help with the initial nerves.

I could always meet you for a coffee in the nearby Tesco beforehand if you like. Then we could walk in together. "

Brill. I will send you a message, so can arrange something. Thankyou x

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By *urvy-liciousWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I used to go to Kestrels/abfabs and I haven’t been anyone else since it’s closure. Sadly for me it’s picking up the courage to go to a new place on my own I have friends who have been to jaydees and they really enjoyed it. and it is one that I will eventually pluck up the courage to go.

I know it sounds backwards as I have been to a club before. But it’s not knowing anyone I suppose. Anyhow. Watch this space hopefully soon.

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"They’re great points chaps and you’re right, men get nervous too.

But I started this thread to chat to women who were thinking of trying Jaydees. And perhaps encouraging nervous newbies to take the plunge.

Maybe start a thread about club nerves generally or appropriate behaviour in clubs and I’ll gladly join the discussion. "

My apologies - wasn't an attempt to hijack you.

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven


"So many kind people offering I am Sorted for this week but hope to say hello to you all

Does anyone know the dress code for daytimes "

Ladies tend to come as they are .....Then change into something skimpy/undies or wear a towel. The choice is yours

xx

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over a year ago


"So many kind people offering I am Sorted for this week but hope to say hello to you all

Does anyone know the dress code for daytimes

Ladies tend to come as they are .....Then change into something skimpy/undies or wear a towel. The choice is yours

xx"

Thank you x

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven


"I used to go to Kestrels/abfabs and I haven’t been anyone else since it’s closure. Sadly for me it’s picking up the courage to go to a new place on my own I have friends who have been to jaydees and they really enjoyed it. and it is one that I will eventually pluck up the courage to go.

I know it sounds backwards as I have been to a club before. But it’s not knowing anyone I suppose. Anyhow. Watch this space hopefully soon. "

Hope you manage to make it soon. We are a lovely fun, friendly crowd and I am sure you will have a lot of fun.

We know lots of ladies would like to visit but taking the plunge for the first time seems like a big hurdle. Mrs T is great and she is happy to chat to any ladies before hand and meet you there

xx

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By *utie91Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin

Jaydees is amazing, I’m a regular there.

Celebrating my Birthday at Jaydees on Saturday, there are 2 other regulars birthdays too.

You should all join us as it’s going to be one big party.

We all look after newbies, everyone is very friendly and we a definitely not scary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jaydees is amazing, I’m a regular there.

Celebrating my Birthday at Jaydees on Saturday, there are 2 other regulars birthdays too.

You should all join us as it’s going to be one big party.

We all look after newbies, everyone is very friendly and we a definitely not scary "

Happy birthday it was mine last week but I couldn't make it

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By *urvy-liciousWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"I used to go to Kestrels/abfabs and I haven’t been anyone else since it’s closure. Sadly for me it’s picking up the courage to go to a new place on my own I have friends who have been to jaydees and they really enjoyed it. and it is one that I will eventually pluck up the courage to go.

I know it sounds backwards as I have been to a club before. But it’s not knowing anyone I suppose. Anyhow. Watch this space hopefully soon.

Hope you manage to make it soon. We are a lovely fun, friendly crowd and I am sure you will have a lot of fun.

We know lots of ladies would like to visit but taking the plunge for the first time seems like a big hurdle. Mrs T is great and she is happy to chat to any ladies before hand and meet you there

xx"

Thank you. I hope to make it soon too xx

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By *utie91Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin


"Jaydees is amazing, I’m a regular there.

Celebrating my Birthday at Jaydees on Saturday, there are 2 other regulars birthdays too.

You should all join us as it’s going to be one big party.

We all look after newbies, everyone is very friendly and we a definitely not scary

Happy birthday it was mine last week but I couldn't make it "

Feel free to come this weekend and add ur name to the birthday list, we can always make it a 4-way lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I'm going Friday

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By *utie91Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin


"Think I'm going Friday "

I was thinking about going both days lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think I'm going Friday

I was thinking about going both days lol "

Cool well we can all celebrate together

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By *rsTrellis OP   Woman
over a year ago

Cambridge

Hi all

There's quite a gang of us planning on going in the coming weeks. Look!

M15TRE55 - hosting!

Mrs Time

PhoenixAdAstra

Saucy tigger

Walking Disaster

Furrybox

John and KittyKat

Lizzy.

Little_brat_evie

Lexi_sady

Lustylou

AmazonWoman67

Curvy-licious

Cutie91 (regular)

I'm intending to be there on:

Friday 5th October

Friday 19th October

Friday 2nd November

Friday 16th November

If anyone wants to come along with me, drop me a direct message.

If people are interested I could gather us into a little chat group so we could talk about who fancies going when and what kind of Haribo to bring. Again - drop me a line.

Mrs T x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all

There's quite a gang of us planning on going in the coming weeks. Look!

M15TRE55 - hosting!

Mrs Time

PhoenixAdAstra

Saucy tigger

Walking Disaster

Furrybox

John and KittyKat

Lizzy.

Little_brat_evie

Lexi_sady

Lustylou

AmazonWoman67

Curvy-licious

Cutie91 (regular)

I'm intending to be there on:

Friday 5th October

Friday 19th October

Friday 2nd November

Friday 16th November

If anyone wants to come along with me, drop me a direct message.

If people are interested I could gather us into a little chat group so we could talk about who fancies going when and what kind of Haribo to bring. Again - drop me a line.

Mrs T x

"

I'm. Interested in a group chat I can bring haribo lol

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By *urvy-liciousWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Hi all

There's quite a gang of us planning on going in the coming weeks. Look!

M15TRE55 - hosting!

Mrs Time

PhoenixAdAstra

Saucy tigger

Walking Disaster

Furrybox

John and KittyKat

Lizzy.

Little_brat_evie

Lexi_sady

Lustylou

AmazonWoman67

Curvy-licious

Cutie91 (regular)

I'm intending to be there on:

Friday 5th October

Friday 19th October

Friday 2nd November

Friday 16th November

If anyone wants to come along with me, drop me a direct message.

If people are interested I could gather us into a little chat group so we could talk about who fancies going when and what kind of Haribo to bring. Again - drop me a line.

Mrs T x

"

Def interested in group chat I’ll being tangtastics !!

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By *ucia932Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I'm thinking about coming on Saturday!

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven


"I'm thinking about coming on Saturday! "

Thats great!,Hope you can make ! If you havent been before dont forget your ID and towel for the Jacuzzi x

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By *ucia932Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I'm thinking about coming on Saturday!

Thats great!,Hope you can make ! If you havent been before dont forget your ID and towel for the Jacuzzi x"

Didn't know there was a Jacuzzi! What's the deal? Is it a naturist type place, or people wear bikinis etc??

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven


"I'm thinking about coming on Saturday!

Thats great!,Hope you can make ! If you havent been before dont forget your ID and towel for the Jacuzzi x

Didn't know there was a Jacuzzi! What's the deal? Is it a naturist type place, or people wear bikinis etc??"

It's huge seats around 30 people. Around the hot tub tends to be towel or nude. However, the rest of the venue is more like a night club so on a saturday night ladies wear, club wear or sexy outfits. Later on in the evening they tend to strip down to underwear ...we have no hard and fast rules for ladies so its wear what you feel most sexy and comfortable in x

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By *ucia932Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I'm thinking about coming on Saturday!

Thats great!,Hope you can make ! If you havent been before dont forget your ID and towel for the Jacuzzi x

Didn't know there was a Jacuzzi! What's the deal? Is it a naturist type place, or people wear bikinis etc??

It's huge seats around 30 people. Around the hot tub tends to be towel or nude. However, the rest of the venue is more like a night club so on a saturday night ladies wear, club wear or sexy outfits. Later on in the evening they tend to strip down to underwear ...we have no hard and fast rules for ladies so its wear what you feel most sexy and comfortable in x"

Great, Thank you. Looking forward to it x

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By *ticky_vikkiWoman
over a year ago

Herts

I feel I need to get my name on that list

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven


"I feel I need to get my name on that list "

The more the merrier lovely xx

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By *rsTrellis OP   Woman
over a year ago

Cambridge

Hi all

I’ve messaged most people in this thread but a couple of you have filters up so I can’t send you a message. Drop me a line if you’d like me to be able to contact you privately.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all

There's quite a gang of us planning on going in the coming weeks. Look!

M15TRE55 - hosting!

Mrs Time

PhoenixAdAstra

Saucy tigger

Walking Disaster

Furrybox

John and KittyKat

Lizzy.

Little_brat_evie

Lexi_sady

Lustylou

AmazonWoman67 (regular)

Curvy-licious

Cutie91 (regular)

I'm intending to be there on:

Friday 5th October

Friday 19th October

Friday 2nd November

Friday 16th November

If anyone wants to come along with me, drop me a direct message.

If people are interested I could gather us into a little chat group so we could talk about who fancies going when and what kind of Haribo to bring. Again - drop me a line.

Mrs T x

"

I will try to attend on 2nd nov for my birthday with my wing woman

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven


"Hi all

There's quite a gang of us planning on going in the coming weeks. Look!

M15TRE55 - hosting!

Mrs Time

PhoenixAdAstra

Saucy tigger

Walking Disaster

Furrybox

John and KittyKat

Lizzy.

Little_brat_evie

Lexi_sady

Lustylou

AmazonWoman67 (regular)

Curvy-licious

Cutie91 (regular)

I'm intending to be there on:

Friday 5th October

Friday 19th October

Friday 2nd November

Friday 16th November

If anyone wants to come along with me, drop me a direct message.

If people are interested I could gather us into a little chat group so we could talk about who fancies going when and what kind of Haribo to bring. Again - drop me a line.

Mrs T x

I will try to attend on 2nd nov for my birthday with my wing woman "

Hope you make it . Will look forward to seeing you both xx

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Jaydees was my first ever club visit...it was a social and I was so nervous I got hammered Looking forward to going back sometime with friends

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven


"Jaydees was my first ever club visit...it was a social and I was so nervous I got hammered Looking forward to going back sometime with friends "

Looking forward to seeing you some time....Its changed a lot from.the old days xx

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"Jaydees was my first ever club visit...it was a social and I was so nervous I got hammered Looking forward to going back sometime with friends

Looking forward to seeing you some time....Its changed a lot from.the old days xx"

It was 3.5 years ago I went... I've heard it has changed but I have vague memories due to booze fog lol

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven


"Jaydees was my first ever club visit...it was a social and I was so nervous I got hammered Looking forward to going back sometime with friends

Looking forward to seeing you some time....Its changed a lot from.the old days xx

It was 3.5 years ago I went... I've heard it has changed but I have vague memories due to booze fog lol"

Haha well you should come along again and tsee it for yourself xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jaydees is so relaxed new ladies going!! The club is clean and run correctly no pushy males tbh every time we’ve been there! And the set out is fantastic we’re going jaydees tomorrow xx

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven


"Jaydees is so relaxed new ladies going!! The club is clean and run correctly no pushy males tbh every time we’ve been there! And the set out is fantastic we’re going jaydees tomorrow xx"

Thank you for posting lovely, we do try to do our best and make it as welcoming as possible for everyone in general xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jaydees is so relaxed new ladies going!! The club is clean and run correctly no pushy males tbh every time we’ve been there! And the set out is fantastic we’re going jaydees tomorrow xx

Thank you for posting lovely, we do try to do our best and make it as welcoming as possible for everyone in general xx"

Last night showed how a bunch of newbies can have such a lovely time with each other

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven


"Jaydees is so relaxed new ladies going!! The club is clean and run correctly no pushy males tbh every time we’ve been there! And the set out is fantastic we’re going jaydees tomorrow xx

Thank you for posting lovely, we do try to do our best and make it as welcoming as possible for everyone in general xx

Last night showed how a bunch of newbies can have such a lovely time with each other"

Its no nice when everyone leaves with big beaming smiles x

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By *aydeesclubCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven


" "

I have a lovely lady who is looking for a lift this Friday if anyone is coming that way...please DM me x

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven

If any ladies would like to come this Friday and are in need of a buddy, please drop me a DM x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really wanna go but not sure if anyone would want to play with us/me xx

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven


"I really wanna go but not sure if anyone would want to play with us/me xx"

Come with no expectations, and treat it as a social and a spa day. Lots of people play...I am sure you will be fine....I always have haribos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really wanna go but not sure if anyone would want to play with us/me xx

Come with no expectations, and treat it as a social and a spa day. Lots of people play...I am sure you will be fine....I always have haribos "

As you can see I like haribos and yes tbh that's what we usually do when we go to other clubs as we really enjoy the social aspect xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really wanna go but not sure if anyone would want to play with us/me xx

Come with no expectations, and treat it as a social and a spa day. Lots of people play...I am sure you will be fine....I always have haribos

As you can see I like haribos and yes tbh that's what we usually do when we go to other clubs as we really enjoy the social aspect xx"

You won't regret going if you do decide its a lovely place x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really wanna go but not sure if anyone would want to play with us/me xx

Come with no expectations, and treat it as a social and a spa day. Lots of people play...I am sure you will be fine....I always have haribos

As you can see I like haribos and yes tbh that's what we usually do when we go to other clubs as we really enjoy the social aspect xx

You won't regret going if you do decide its a lovely place x"

It's a long time since we were there xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really wanna go but not sure if anyone would want to play with us/me xx

Come with no expectations, and treat it as a social and a spa day. Lots of people play...I am sure you will be fine....I always have haribos

As you can see I like haribos and yes tbh that's what we usually do when we go to other clubs as we really enjoy the social aspect xx

You won't regret going if you do decide its a lovely place x

It's a long time since we were there xx"

I say do it hun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really wanna go but not sure if anyone would want to play with us/me xx

Come with no expectations, and treat it as a social and a spa day. Lots of people play...I am sure you will be fine....I always have haribos

As you can see I like haribos and yes tbh that's what we usually do when we go to other clubs as we really enjoy the social aspect xx

You won't regret going if you do decide its a lovely place x

It's a long time since we were there xx

I say do it hun x "

x

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By *rsTrellis OP   Woman
over a year ago

Cambridge


"I really wanna go but not sure if anyone would want to play with us/me xx"

Come alone! It’s social and fun, sometimes more. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really wanna go but not sure if anyone would want to play with us/me xx

Come alone! It’s social and fun, sometimes more. X"

No we don't do alone stuff xx

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven


"I really wanna go but not sure if anyone would want to play with us/me xx

Come alone! It’s social and fun, sometimes more. X

No we don't do alone stuff xx"

Thats fine, we can understand that...If you do decide I am sure you will have a nice time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really wanna go but not sure if anyone would want to play with us/me xx

Come alone! It’s social and fun, sometimes more. X

No we don't do alone stuff xx

Thats fine, we can understand that...If you do decide I am sure you will have a nice time x"

Thanks xx

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven


"I really wanna go but not sure if anyone would want to play with us/me xx

Come alone! It’s social and fun, sometimes more. X

No we don't do alone stuff xx

Thats fine, we can understand that...If you do decide I am sure you will have a nice time x

Thanks xx"

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I no this is for lady’s but just to let you all no I have a wingman and we would love to be there on this night to try and put a smile on you lady’s faces first time make it memorable look forward to seeing yous there x

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven


"I no this is for lady’s but just to let you all no I have a wingman and we would love to be there on this night to try and put a smile on you lady’s faces first time make it memorable look forward to seeing yous there x"

Have you emailed the club to get both of you on the list ?

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By *rsTrellis OP   Woman
over a year ago

Cambridge


"I no this is for lady’s but just to let you all no I have a wingman and we would love to be there on this night to try and put a smile on you lady’s faces first time make it memorable look forward to seeing yous there x"

This is a thread for everyone coming tomorrow...

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/clubs/811620

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

I live a little too far to make it down to Jaydees any time soon (though I want to, it sounds amazing!), but just wanted to say how lovely this thread is - thank you Mrs T!

Hope to bump into you a few of you there sometime in the near future

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By *rsTrellis OP   Woman
over a year ago

Cambridge


"I live a little too far to make it down to Jaydees any time soon (though I want to, it sounds amazing!), but just wanted to say how lovely this thread is - thank you Mrs T!

Hope to bump into you a few of you there sometime in the near future "

That’d be lovely!

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven


"I live a little too far to make it down to Jaydees any time soon (though I want to, it sounds amazing!), but just wanted to say how lovely this thread is - thank you Mrs T!

Hope to bump into you a few of you there sometime in the near future "

We have rooms so you can stay over....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs T is very lovely and a good organiser.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't been to jaydees for a couple of years, so a return trip is well overdue x"

Ditto, and never solo.

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By *he-ProfessorMan
over a year ago

cheltenham

Jaydee's is one of the friendliest clubs and the staff don't allow any kind of nonsense at all.

I'd say that it is one of the best clubs for a first time or first time solo visit for any lady.

Hope to be back at Jaydee's very soon

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven


"I haven't been to jaydees for a couple of years, so a return trip is well overdue x

Ditto, and never solo. "

Thats why Mrs T set up a kik group so the ladies can chat and know who else will be there beforehand. You wont be on your own....we are a lovely friendly club and there is no pressure what so ever. If you come treat it as a spa day...anything else is a bonus x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jaydees is a favourite of mine, sadly not been for ages as it’s a trek for me but the hot tub is great...clean and roomy...the best of any of the clubs Iv ever been to in 10 years of swinging...

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By *rsTrellis OP   Woman
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Mrs T is very lovely and a good organiser.

"

That’s code for bossy isn’t it?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mrs T is very lovely and a good organiser.

That’s code for bossy isn’t it?!?

"

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By *aydeesclubCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven

Any ladies wanting to visit Jaydees this weekend drop us a message we have lots of lovely ladies to buddy with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where is it? I have wanted to go to a club for a while but don't have anyone to go with and when it comes to organising transport or somewhere to stay I wouldn't even know where to begin!

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven


"Where is it? I have wanted to go to a club for a while but don't have anyone to go with and when it comes to organising transport or somewhere to stay I wouldn't even know where to begin! "

We are Bedfordshire/Cambs borders. You can camp onsite FOC or we have onsite accommodation that you can book. Depending on which train station you came from we are a taxi ride away. Or just off the A1 or M1.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where is it? I have wanted to go to a club for a while but don't have anyone to go with and when it comes to organising transport or somewhere to stay I wouldn't even know where to begin!

We are Bedfordshire/Cambs borders. You can camp onsite FOC or we have onsite accommodation that you can book. Depending on which train station you came from we are a taxi ride away. Or just off the A1 or M1."

ah a bit too far for me, sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been to Jaydees with a few female friends it’s always good fun.

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven


"Where is it? I have wanted to go to a club for a while but don't have anyone to go with and when it comes to organising transport or somewhere to stay I wouldn't even know where to begin!

We are Bedfordshire/Cambs borders. You can camp onsite FOC or we have onsite accommodation that you can book. Depending on which train station you came from we are a taxi ride away. Or just off the A1 or M1.

ah a bit too far for me, sorry. "

That's a shame x

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven


"I’ve been to Jaydees with a few female friends it’s always good fun. "

Thank you. Glad you had a good time. Hope to see you again soon x

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By *aydeesclubCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

We are open today from 11am to 2am so come along and check out what all the hypes about xxx

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire

Thank you for looking after me during my first visit here.

I will return!

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By *iscompany3isfunCouple
over a year ago

Maidenhead

We are going Sunday for first time. Any of you girls coming?

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven


"We are going Sunday for first time. Any of you girls coming? "

I believe a few are trying to come tomorrow. Will look forward to seeing you tomorrow.

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven


"Thank you for looking after me during my first visit here.

I will return!"

You are more than welcome...it was lovely to meet you. Hope to see you again soon x

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By *15TRE55Woman
over a year ago

Edge of Heaven

Any ladies looking for club buddies drop us a message and say hi...

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