FabSwingers.com forum: Secrets Devon

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi,

we're thinking of attending our first party at Secrets as it's close by and has good reviews. We're also intrigued and turned on by the thought of watching/partaking in the sexyness.

However, we're both quite shy and may find it quite uncomfortable if people approach us. I think we would like to go to satisfy our curiosity, but I'm not sure we would be ready to engage in activities..

Is anybody able to advise on their first time? Was it pressured to join in? Is there somewhere to escape to if we get there and realise it's not for us? Bearing in mind, we will be consuming alcohol, so somewhere close by as we won't be able to drive.

Tia!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call the owners, they have all the facilities to help with your wishlist.

Probably the most non pressure event you'll ever go to. Think of it as an amazing house party in a country mansion, with all the optional extras you could desire.

Safest place you'll go for your first time experience.

Once you cross the threshold all the nerves will disappear and you'll smile at yourself for worrying in the first place.

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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago

Bristol Area

It's like a big house party, lots of chatting in the kitchen/sitting room, and then places to go off and be naughty too.

They have some on-site accommodation which can be booked in advance if you need to escape to your own space.

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By *rysandMadsCouple
over a year ago

Barnstaple

We're in North Devon so may well head there first. We're likely to be watchers/having sex with only each other our first time. I've heard lots of good things about it.

Sadly due to work and a planned concert in December it's likely to be January before we can go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love Secret's, the host's are amazing people and will certainly look after you...

We drive all the way down from Southport just to attend, around 11hrs round trip on a good run.

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By *rysandMadsCouple
over a year ago

Barnstaple

"We love Secret's, the host's are amazing people and will certainly look after you...

We drive all the way down from Southport just to attend, around 11hrs round trip on a good run. "

Wow that's a long trip! I think it's about 4 hours round for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember being so nervous attending Secrets for the first time, that was a few years ago now and we have just booked our next trip for November.

Like has been said already, it is one of the most non-pressure parties/clubs we've been to. Sometimes we go to play and sometimes we just go for the social aspect as it's a great party whether you want to be naughty or not.

The hosts are fantastic, they will give you a full tour on your first time so you can get your bearings and then take you back to the bar.

I'd personally recommend socialising in the pool area first, the kitchen and lounge are good too but they tend to be quite busy whereas I always head to the pool area to plan my next move!

Have a fantastic time if you do go x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi... we were in exactly the same situation last month. We went and it was lovely; nothing to worry about at all. No pressure, and friendly people. Couldn’t have asked for a better first swinging experience.

May go back at the weekend!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anybody thinking of going should read this thread from the other day for reference.

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/clubs/813358

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anybody thinking of going should read this thread from the other day for reference.

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/clubs/813358

or read the advice in this thread from people that have actually been! Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anybody thinking of going should read this thread from the other day for reference.

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/clubs/813358

or read the advice in this thread from people that have actually been! Mrs x"

Needless to say, all information is good!

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